Rho Bashe, Jaime Maussan & More | 75th Episode Milestone, ADHD Challenges, Sibling Podcast Fun!

00:02.28
Bruce Anthony
On today's episode we're doing a little bit of delli daling like we always do then we're going to be talking about a woman that got hit in the face with a brick and aliens in Mexico but first things first.

00:19.20
Bruce Anthony
What I obsess I can't call it I can't call it. You know what today is do right? What? yes the Thursday but everybody is listening to this on Friday or after this is the seventy fifth episode

00:20.20
J. Aundrea
What up bretta.

00:26.70
J. Aundrea
Um, no Thursday friday. Yeah yeah.

00:37.84
J. Aundrea
Is it that is news to me that so the hundredth actually will come up sooner than we thought maybe.

00:39.80
Bruce Anthony
Yes, it's the seven fifth it's the seventy fifth episode now. It's gonna come up exactly when I thought the end of November beginning the December yeah cause you gotta think if it's 25 episodes and it's likes 2 episodes a week so that's twelve weeks yep 75 episodes of unsolicit perspective.

00:50.31
J. Aundrea
Okay, okay, yeah, you did that's crazy 75 episodes that's crazy. Yeah, yeah.

01:05.35
Bruce Anthony
Countless number of episodes of after hours uncensored and talk a straight- i. Ah once again, you can catch that on our Patreon page at patreon.comback/unsolicit perspectives and yes we were gone. We were on a little bit of a hiatus. We took a little bit of vacation. But we back at it I don't and.

01:08.19
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

01:20.22
J. Aundrea
Um, we deserve a break. Can we live.

01:23.18
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, we deserve a break every now then and and you know what we know you know what we don't want to talk about everything sometimesage Y't want us to talk about everything y'all be sitting suggestions talk about this I was like okay I guess we could talk about this on the daily daling part but this ain't a whole segment.

01:30.52
J. Aundrea
Right? um.

01:36.13
J. Aundrea
Right.

01:39.28
Bruce Anthony
How the hell we're gonna talk about this 15 minutes we can we have hit ad HD are

01:42.76
J. Aundrea
We can because we have a d d so we can fill the time like that's possible. We can go with eighty H D well see I don't have the h that's the so ah, it's all of the. It's all of the I can't get nothing done I can't focus or or I'm hyper focusedcus but never on the right thing plus I'm sleepy as hell all the time. So I don't have the hyperactivity I wish I did I wish I had I wish I was hyperactive now.

02:13.81
Bruce Anthony
I Don't think I have any of that. How yeah I mean I'm I'm tired.

02:17.46
J. Aundrea
Oh no I got my diagnosis is he came back pretty quick facet on the cover test. Yeah, it came back quick.

02:29.18
Bruce Anthony
I I knew it now I'm tired today but I'm only tired because I was up late during the interview and what interview was I doing.

02:32.90
J. Aundrea
A girlfriend you got a D D I said I know it I know it.

02:46.46
J. Aundrea
You got you got the interview. Finally, the reason for this entire show ladies. Yeah ah 75 episodes later when does now when does that drop.

02:47.86
Bruce Anthony
I Got the interview this this is it.

03:02.35
Bruce Anthony
It'll drop woes 2 parts because we spoke for an hour and a half so I'm ah breaking down into 2 episodes. So the first one will drop Tuesday what's that date september oh know and September what September Nineteenth it ah it ah, the first part of drop september.

03:08.53
J. Aundrea
Um.

03:10.76
J. Aundrea
Who knows I don't know what today's date is yeah the nineteenth.

03:18.77
Bruce Anthony
Yeah September Nineteenth and the second part will drop a week later on September Twenty six it's a interview with miss Marily not Monroe. It's the woman that started this whole thing started this whole thing is I'm giving her credit for the fact that I had been talking about this for.

03:29.30
J. Aundrea
No.

03:35.33
J. Aundrea
The idea that you wanted to interview her is what was the catalyst for you actually launching the show that you've been talking about from this decade. Yeah.

03:37.64
Bruce Anthony
Over 10 years her? yes.

03:45.25
Bruce Anthony
Exactly right right? and I got the interview and she was very kind and sweet with her time and very appreciative and I gave her her flowers for put that.

03:55.30
J. Aundrea
When he.

04:00.78
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:04.11
Bruce Anthony
Putting that battery in my back because had she not said yeah I'll do the interview a year ago literally was a year ago ah has she not said that we I probably would not be on the air right now. So for all y'all people out there. We allll catch it.

04:13.66
J. Aundrea
Um.

04:16.56
J. Aundrea
Yeah, and my Thursdays would be free. Yeah I love it I love it I love it.

04:23.16
Bruce Anthony
You know what? your Thursdays your Thursdays would be free if you weren't so damn good at this job if you sucked and you didn't have fans then I wouldn't have you on anymore. But let me.

04:33.35
J. Aundrea
Yeah, that's that really still is like crazy to me that that people actually want to hear what I'm talking about who cares I am so lame but people do like suffers.

04:39.60
Bruce Anthony
Let me taste our.

04:45.95
Bruce Anthony
People do now people do people care. Let me let me let me post the episode on Friday and it not be the similar happy hours see here. We go already now.

04:52.20
J. Aundrea
It I here we go I'm extremely popular and I can't I don't know what to tell you? no, it's It's actually a friend of mine trying to facetime me for some reason. Yeah.

05:03.70
Bruce Anthony
I bet you ain't nobody but mom. Okay, ah yeah, no, let me post a a sibly happy hour. Let me post the episode on Friday and not be a sibly happy hour I did that once I ain't doing that ever again. It was just like.

05:16.70
J. Aundrea
Um, what happened. So.

05:20.44
Bruce Anthony
Is your sister now on a show you more I was like well damn I thought I did a good show play. Okay I make sure she own this and do you want to give a confession about the last sibling Happy hour. Yeah.

05:33.00
J. Aundrea
That I was high I mean I don't think that that's I don't think that that's listen that's not news I think to anyone who listened it. It was probably pretty clear I didn't mean for that to happen. Um.

05:37.58
Bruce Anthony
I. Ladies and gentlemen the last episode of the sibling happy Hour. My sister was hot and she did not tell me this until at the we finished film in the episode and she was like.

05:49.45
J. Aundrea
But it happened and it.

05:55.76
J. Aundrea
No, because truly I didn't realize until after we finished filming that episode and I was just like I wonder if that was okay I feel.

06:03.57
Bruce Anthony
So I No no, there was so many times there was so many times. So for y'all that that listen we do this remotely So there's there's a there's not a synchronization.

06:15.85
J. Aundrea
So yeah.

06:22.60
Bruce Anthony
Ah, in in our dialogue because it's we're looking at each other remotely and if my sister has jacked up internet then she can't even so because she okay if she has jacked up energy and internet.

06:25.28
J. Aundrea
Yes, which I don't which I don't. And um, energy is jacked up. Not just the internet I Aje up energy now that was Areian slip and I feel like there was some truth in what just was said just now I just want everybody to note. But he just said I jacked up energy.

06:52.48
Bruce Anthony
Well, you did the last episode because because there was times I was looking at you was like h you go say some shit. Okay, this's all damn episode. It's like come on up if y'all if you'all watch it on Youtube you could see me look at it be like yo you go say suck it.

07:03.28
J. Aundrea
Like.

07:10.67
J. Aundrea
Um, I truly thought I truly thought you would continue talking and so I didn't know that it was my turn. But again, there's a lag time in my brain when that so you know hey sorry.

07:10.70
Bruce Anthony
And there'll be a pause.

07:21.94
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, like just with a 1 time where you drank was cool and ah well it i.

07:26.93
J. Aundrea
There was a 1 time where I drank in the 1 time where I got hot. No I was a met I was a mess that episode remember when I put a lot of alcohol in a very large drink. Yeah.

07:40.10
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I do remember I thought it was funny though I don't know I haven't listened to it I would have to go back and listen to it. But I think if I went back and listen to it I'd be so agitated about the the sound quality because that's when we experiment with different mics and different softwares and ah.

07:48.24
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, and we were. We were really trying to get this thing going. Yeah, don't don't listen to don't listen to those early episodes even though you know what those early episodes are good. The sort of thought I.

07:58.38
Bruce Anthony
That they good I don't remember what we were talking about. We didn't have a we didn't have.

08:07.34
J. Aundrea
So remember 1 1 episode we were talking about Michael Jackson and I was trying to get you to guess my favorite Michael Jackson song it is not smooth criminal. It is not smooth criminal. How did you? Yes, thank you. It was not a damn smooth criminal.

08:10.54
Bruce Anthony
Smooth criminal Yes smooth criminal speed demon and I was talking about I think I think I know I I titled it I titled the episode speed Demy I thought I did smooth criminal but it was speed demi.

08:25.49
J. Aundrea
Yeah, no, yeah, um, but honestly I have a terrible memory ad H D So I don't remember what the early shows were about. Oh yeah, but just you know everybody gets what I'm saying when I say that.

08:30.88
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, there is no H remember there is no h. Maybe some people not on social media like you are you on social media. A lot podcasts aren't podcast podcasts aren't social media. Not all apps are social media.

08:43.14
J. Aundrea
From it but they listen to podcasts that don't make no sense and I also I'm not on social media a lot. It's a app.

08:57.74
Bruce Anthony
No social media is social media. The podcast isn't social all oh here we go. Okay.

09:00.12
J. Aundrea
Ah, as I am.

09:04.84
J. Aundrea
Yeah I would can I say and I'm going on a tangent I'm upset I'm upset because I have waited now officially 9 minutes and 17 seconds

09:15.40
Bruce Anthony
Um, what you upset about.

09:18.81
Bruce Anthony
But I do I would J I don't know that you have new glasses on I know I mean you always wear glasses I don't.

09:20.50
J. Aundrea
And you have not say anything about the fact that I have new glasses on yeah, you didn't notice. You didn't notice and I think this speaks this speaks to a larger problem of you just that paying attention to me enough. I bet that in the first that anybody watching will probably be like oh where her other glasses with the chain on them everything well I lost them I lost them because I have a i.

09:37.91
Bruce Anthony
Bro.

09:45.33
Bruce Anthony
Okay, all right? but that ah art art. Let let's be clear I I'm okay so I'm looking at you and I didn't notice there was in the chain because you have the the court.

09:54.77
J. Aundrea
Yeah, so.

09:59.19
J. Aundrea
Yeah, like I don't have the chain on no like.

10:00.38
Bruce Anthony
Dangling So I'm looking at that and that kind of looks like you still had a chain and and other than that from glasses. It's like there it to me. It doesn't seem like they're a different shape. Ah well.

10:11.99
J. Aundrea
Yep, completely different shape completely different glasses completely. My yeah I said I said this is the Nancy Reagan I said give me give me the dare program give me.

10:15.51
Bruce Anthony
I Knew you had a new hair do I made a comment about that As soon as you got on here I think that.

10:28.90
Bruce Anthony
Ah, give me the dare program give me to just say no.

10:28.36
J. Aundrea
And it was like I got you. Give me the just say no. But yeah I put a chain on my glasses in order to not lose them because I lost them constantly and I lost them So I have neglects I don't know where they are.

10:46.31
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I Hell the hell you? Well I mean you better? Well well you got new glasses where they look good near Well I say I don't think that's fair because I says something about your hair.

10:51.74
J. Aundrea
Yeah, don't know well thank you I mean I was waited damn near 10 minutes and yeah you said some about the the first lady of the church cut I got going on.

11:02.62
Bruce Anthony
All right now. Get you comment about that year you didn't make no you haven't made no comments about the fact that I got new headphones and Ben had new headphones. Yeah I know because we share name.

11:12.87
J. Aundrea
I already knew you had new headphones aren't those the same headphones I have so yeah yeah so I already knew I know all I know 100% of your purchases whether I want to or not.

11:20.35
Bruce Anthony
Ah, similar. Yes, that's only because you because we share an Amazon account and I tell you what they have calmed down because during covid good god.

11:32.80
J. Aundrea
Yeah, no, it picked it picked up this week though you've you've been purchasing some things.

11:37.44
Bruce Anthony
Ah, no no no I only did well I'm going well I needed did I needed laundry stuff I'm not about to walk to Target I don't miss start. Let let me take some target is a trap hundred 25 hours you know what though is it.

11:45.58
J. Aundrea
Um, when I I miss target I miss walking the you spend a minimum hundred $25

11:57.44
Bruce Anthony
What? Ah what I'm about to say is an old person thing but it's real. You know what? you know what? Target also got some fine asked women there that shot there guess.

12:00.16
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, what oh my God Well because it's It's the high end you know, no nobody.

12:12.52
Bruce Anthony
And everybody go to target I go in there sometimes in the middle of a Saturday just just to browse I still and no, that's not true. You still see that but just say we still see that but I'm just saying you know? ah you know you can I 1 time at target.

12:18.11
J. Aundrea
Coming in there in a bonnet. This isn't isn't not Walmart you still see him.

12:31.99
J. Aundrea
Then it was then it definitely was go ahead.

12:32.28
Bruce Anthony
I don't think this is creepy I don't think it's creepy but I can't speak for the woman. There was this woman and I don't know if she was Latino or italian with this ah a really deep tan or mixed I don't know what she was.

12:47.56
J. Aundrea
And.

12:49.58
Bruce Anthony
But she was wearing you know Pink is my favorite color so she was wearing like this hot pink kind of like sundressy thing and her tan her skin tone match with that color like perfectly like perfectly and I went up to her and I said excuse me I'm not hitting on you.

12:59.79
J. Aundrea
Um, it looked top tier. Yeah yeah.

13:06.47
J. Aundrea
I Love the love that you open with that.

13:07.47
Bruce Anthony
I'm not hitting on you I just want to say this one thing I said the outfit the the tan everything slamming you look great today and I walked off.

13:17.70
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

13:20.66
Bruce Anthony
I didn't turn around do no no double take a nothing like that she she said as I was walking off she said Thank you and I kept on walking that's all I did but I had to give her a compliment because I was like yeah well I figured I learned that if I opened up with.

13:26.40
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, that's not no, that's that's perfectly fine.

13:37.16
J. Aundrea
Right? Then you can immediately kind of relax like hey I'm not gonna stab you. Oh ok I can immediately relax.

13:37.34
Bruce Anthony
Hey I'm not hitting on you because I that's something but that's something that somebody who's gonna stab. You would say yeah.

13:51.88
J. Aundrea
It is isn't it So follow that through line but you dare you? why.

13:55.76
Bruce Anthony
It's but I didn't head on and I walked away now did I wish did I wish that she called out and be like wait. What's your name. Let's go have drinks. Yes I played all that in my head I don't know why I'd be playing romantic comedies in my head when I'm a target all the time.

14:09.21
J. Aundrea
Ah, yes, yeah, everybody does everybody does you, you have to see yourself as the main character in your own life though like I will put on music and that will be my soundtrack to wherever I'm walking to.

14:14.82
Bruce Anthony
But specifically a target.

14:26.30
Bruce Anthony
Um, is it that.

14:26.46
J. Aundrea
Like don't don't let don't let me get on like a train or something like I'm on a metro going downtown something death. It's a whole movie and I'm the main character this.

14:38.70
Bruce Anthony
Is is that signs of narcissism I mean because I do the same thing I'm not judging you I Do The same thing is I don't know.

14:44.94
J. Aundrea
No I I think everybody does that don't they I think everybody has like a little secret inner life where they're the main character.

14:52.40
Bruce Anthony
You know what ladies and gentlemen out there send ah send an email to unsolicited perspectives at gmail.com I actually should change that because we actually have a website now. So it could actually be like such as such unsolicited perspectives dot com but I don't feel like doing all that.

15:02.42
J. Aundrea
Yeah, so. Yeah, death. That's that's lazy all right. It's right, You know what it is but that's that's the name. That's that's us baby. That's us will do things most of the way through.

15:10.53
Bruce Anthony
Look y'all y'all get enough with the website I'm tired. Okay, well yeah, you know what? it's a that. That's us is I'm a I'm a one man. Yeah I'm a one man production team.

15:26.72
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, fair fair. Yeah yeah.

15:27.67
Bruce Anthony
And I'm tired you know I'm tired I don't want to do it. You know I did the website I write blogs every now and then and post them on a website. That's what y'all get y'all get the videos audio podcast we do I do the the clips for y'all. And they give y'all blog and it's all on a website I'm not about to change the email address I'm not about to do it unsolicited perspectives at Gmail.com is just fine rolls off your lips.

15:44.30
J. Aundrea
Now. But I I would like to know because then that means we're weird if everybody writes in they're like Nope I Just live normal a normal life and I don't talk to myself not mass' when someone was weird.

15:58.73
Bruce Anthony
Nope I don't I don't believe in the word weird not weird, unique, no unique. What my why my beyonce wait that I don't get that reference.

16:07.76
J. Aundrea
And okay beyonce Listen ah Alien Superstar unique. That's what you are don't act like you don't know. Yes, yeah I'm fine calling myself weird.

16:15.16
Bruce Anthony
Ah I I love that song but I didn't I didn't pick up on that I do love the song I Love that song.

16:26.37
J. Aundrea
I Don't call other people weird but I call out fine call it myself weird and mother.

16:29.27
Bruce Anthony
I Call myself a sentence wait minute that talking to yourself is different than what you're describing. Let let me tell you something I specifically will have headphones on when I when I'm out.

16:38.87
J. Aundrea
Well, both then should.

16:49.16
Bruce Anthony
Walking and there won't be any music plan but I need something so people think I'm on the phone or something like that because I'm really I'm really just talking to myself I'm having full fledged debates and conversations with myself I find that I actually am my greatest debater.

16:50.35
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

16:55.79
J. Aundrea
Yeah, I'm really just talking to myself. Yeah.

17:07.30
J. Aundrea
Yeah, oh nobody can take me against me in a yeah point after point ah counterpoint wait. Got it all like ah don't let.

17:14.50
Bruce Anthony
Ah, right? you.

17:21.47
J. Aundrea
Somebody has said something slick earlier in the day and I didn't have a comeback and I didn't have a comeback ready at the moment like I didn't have like a clap back ready. Nothing was in the chamber.

17:25.42
Bruce Anthony
It's all I hate when I I or or you or you ah where you don't even think about it and it just comes to you later. It's like I should have said this.

17:37.21
J. Aundrea
Yes, our replay that whole argument in my by myself that whole argument and let me tell you my clapbacks op dear.

17:46.60
Bruce Anthony
Look I have a argument every night in the shower before I go to bed I don't know what it is I don't know what it is about my nighttime showers before I go to bed. It's maybe just i' had enough with the day but it's our argument.

17:57.30
J. Aundrea
Ah, what is That's exactly what it is because it does happen at night. It's a nighttime thing was like Nope I still got a bunch of pent up Anger and I need to get it out before so I can have a good night's sleep.

18:05.16
Bruce Anthony
It happens at night.

18:14.88
J. Aundrea
And that means I got to argue and they nobody around.

18:14.90
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, hey nobody look let me tell you some all yall people out there in the world who do dumb stuff around me that agitates me and I don't respond to it. Thank god that I be arguing with myself late at night in the shower and that subsides all my anger.

18:24.27
J. Aundrea
Yeah. Um, yeah.

18:33.61
J. Aundrea
Yeah, this is this is this is for Y'all this is for Y'all like if I said out loud the stuff I say in private.

18:34.21
Bruce Anthony
To the next day because one day I'm a pop because let me say some I have real anger issues. Yes.

18:50.48
Bruce Anthony
Um.

18:51.73
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, you y is yes yeah cause I'm your brother and I know you love me. But you'd be saying some stuff sometimes I would like Jay I don't I don't think that was the right way to say you know who that is though you know who that is though.

18:51.98
J. Aundrea
Ah, and already my mouth is not is not great like it's already. It's already pretty reckless so it gets worse you right? some some Ill food.

19:10.60
Bruce Anthony
Know you get that from day. It.

19:10.79
J. Aundrea
Who who we get it honestly yeah Apple fall up.

19:15.56
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, wait We don't say we I don't I don't have that No I don't I've held it in check for years I haven't had an episode and that's right, it better end.

19:21.57
J. Aundrea
Yes, you do you have a terrible temper. Yeah, and then you and then you let it go in the shower and nothing gets resolved that.

19:34.74
Bruce Anthony
It's better in the shower than beating somebody up on the metro you know so it's is better that that's a thing dad always says at about me. He's like you know you got Temper I was like dad I my boy see that too I was like yall I haven't lost my temper in a really long time.

19:46.40
J. Aundrea
When other when enough people say it? yeah.

19:51.57
Bruce Anthony
Oh back in the day. Absolutely I had a temper but I don't anymore and so but what pisses me off is like no I'm not I don't have a temper anymore I don't really get mad like that Oh look at you you getting mad right now. Well yeah now now that you so you saying something.

20:00.90
J. Aundrea
Yeah, now that all god damn it when people when people do that to me John what's wrong with you nothing why your Facebook like that is my normal face you upset. No I'm not upset. Oh don't talk to her. She mad. Okay now Matt.

20:10.50
Bruce Anthony
Are. Yeah,, don't tell me what I am don't tell me what I am when I'm not because I can turn it that real quick. That's.

20:19.81
J. Aundrea
Um, slowly I'm getting there. Don't don't tell me don't tell me what I am when I'm not you chuck right? I go zero to a hundred at no time flat Don't do it.

20:34.96
Bruce Anthony
Look look. We come by honestly our nickname for our father is 10 seconds to blow up. Yeah you you.

20:38.00
J. Aundrea
Yeah, I'm definitely that I would I would say that I did inherit that I'm definitely that Well well here's the thing I don't have I feel like the older I get the shorter my fuse gets because I used to not have a bad Temper I used to let stuff roll off. But now it's like boy let that cashier be moving just a little too slowly ah or somebody having a whole conversation and you like next in line, you're just like hey you line move it like you know, just let a little so let.

21:08.11
Bruce Anthony
Um. I.

21:15.23
J. Aundrea
Ah, food take a little too long to come out at the rest and there's somebody go on break I'm show hungry up in here like don't don't like.

21:23.00
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah, so so you say well that's typically how that goes the older you get the less patience that you have I am going the other way the older I get the more patience I have because I'm arguing with myself in the shower at night.

21:31.44
J. Aundrea
So yeah, yeah. Yeah.

21:42.84
Bruce Anthony
Ah.

21:52.31
Bruce Anthony
All right says you brought something to my attention and I'd seen it and um I'd seen it then I forgot about it and then you brought it to my attention again.

21:52.70
J. Aundrea
M.

22:01.19
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, so this happened what I don't know when it actually happened. Ah well, that's when she posted the video about it I don't know when it actually happened.

22:06.96
Bruce Anthony
Over the weekend over the weekend I thought I thought the video was that yeah her person in real time. That's okay, let's explain to everybody out there. What's going on.

22:15.93
J. Aundrea
Her posting in real time I don't know may probably well a video. Yeah so a video went viral on social media a woman documenting her experience after she claimed a man hit her in the face with a brick a brick y'all after. She declined to give him her phone number this is coming from newsweek. Ah her name is Roe I want to say last name is bashha. Um, but she goes by row she um is a queer feminist so she is a content creator I believe. Um, a lot of her social media is like shut down right now just because of all the hoopla over this video. But um I do think she is a content creator. But basically she was out on the street somebody asked her for her number. She said no. He grabbed a rock and hit her in the face with it in front of a crowd of men a brick a rock well because the video where she's in the hospital she says this man grabbed a rock and hit me in my face because I wouldn't give him my number.

23:16.65
Bruce Anthony
She said a brick break.

23:26.61
Bruce Anthony
Okay, oh in a real time video. She said a brick.

23:31.74
J. Aundrea
Yeah, she say y'all this man just hit me in the face with a brick and all these black men just watched so you know people of course scoured the internet to find any reason why she deserved to get hit in the face with a brick.

23:47.42
Bruce Anthony
That was that was that was an interesting initial response by some of the people in the public. What did you do.

23:49.13
J. Aundrea
Um, true.

23:52.41
J. Aundrea
Yeah, what did you do I and and the thing of it is. It's not like she was slapped or punched or something like that. This is a very specific kind of Attack. You hit me with a Brick. So or a rock. Oh a hard blunt objects and I don't know that there's really too many. Ah, anybody that could do much to deserve to get hit in the face with a break.

24:12.12
Bruce Anthony
Ah, a brick or a rock but at Heart a heart. Yes.

24:29.20
Bruce Anthony
Um, ah if I see you hurting.

24:31.16
J. Aundrea
Certainly not some skits on ticktok that were clearly consensual skits where she slaps a man in the face and then Tws I mean it was clear. It was a skit that was not ah like.

24:35.18
Bruce Anthony
Ah, no.

24:48.96
J. Aundrea
Film of the actual incident ah far as I know I don't think she put her hands on this man I think he grabbed that rock or that brick pretty early on um but the the initial reaction was twofold. It was one. You know a cohort of men and their picmies ah looking for reasons or why she deserved this or why she didn't deserve protection from the men who were standing around and then the other reaction was.

25:24.60
J. Aundrea
The men that were standing around that didn't do anything you know, similar men didn't have that same energy for the alabama brawl Alabama broke ball boat brawl that's hard to say yeah, um that they.

25:33.52
Bruce Anthony
Now all the but the Alabama brought for all. That's what I call it.

25:42.77
J. Aundrea
A lot of the response was well what were we supposed to do you know we could have got her. Yeah, so yeah, yeah, like first of all intervention does not necessarily equate to violence a couple people have said this and it's true. A simple a yo bro. Hey my man chill out could have stopped this entire thing is is entirely possible that it could you at side note everybody first looks like you've got to fall asleep.

26:05.82
Bruce Anthony
E.

26:15.75
Bruce Anthony
I'm not about force I'm taking everything. No no, but they come on. We' be a serious right now I'm taking everything in come on. We be able for real I'm trying to have a solemn for real look about my face hold on. No.

26:20.49
J. Aundrea
I Sorry well I can I can't even focus. Yeah so I've been mulling over this for a before the last week of like. What how do I feel about this.. What do I Want to say about this and you know maybe I have a pessimistic view of things. That's that's fair, if you all think I'm disillusioned but ok, um.

26:51.32
Bruce Anthony
Quiet.

26:53.14
J. Aundrea
But I don't think we should be seeking protection from the people who hurt us that's number 1 Um and and I think that men need to start acknowledging their fear of other men.

27:09.70
Bruce Anthony
And.

27:11.51
J. Aundrea
And the violence that other men can wreak upon people like you tell us not to go anywhere. What were you wearing? what were you doing. You shouldn't be here at night. You shouldn't be there who you know and then you got these men that call themselves providers and protectors who are you protecting us from.

27:15.76
Bruce Anthony
Hi.

27:27.22
Bruce Anthony
Here.

27:30.44
J. Aundrea
Who are you saying? Ah why? why? Why can't I walk somewhere alone at night who is who is the danger and so to stand to to think that I would get protection from the danger from the person that is the danger. Because I don't know who's who I don't know who's who it's like that. Ah the rattlesnake analogy Muhammad Ali Met Rattlesnake analogy if you you know I see 10000 rattlesnakes coming from me and I got a door that I could shut. But there's a thousand of those rattlesnakes that are good. They don't want to hurt me.

27:47.52
Bruce Anthony
A.

28:06.90
J. Aundrea
Should I let them in and hope that Thousand gang up on the rest of them and protect me or should I just shut the door because you don't know who's who no I'm not gonna let you don't know where the thread is coming from so I don't I don't think and I think that.

28:15.59
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, you don't know what appri is here.

28:24.98
J. Aundrea
All of the advice that we get from our fathers and our brothers and our uncles and friends and cousins and things like that on how we should keep ourselves safe as women I think we need to just start acknowledging. That there is a real fear of men and it's a valid one and everyone feels it. Not just women, everyone feels it because not a single one of those mens might be half a dozen men stand in there and not a single one of them even wrote down the license plate.

28:47.31
Bruce Anthony
Him.

28:59.93
J. Aundrea
Ah, this man after he hit her got in his car and drove away.

29:04.75
Bruce Anthony
Okay I heard everything that you have to say and I need you to I listen to you and I need you to I need you to to hear me I I.

29:08.29
J. Aundrea
Yeah, Yo Lord Oh lord here we go you guys I Know what this means.

29:23.15
Bruce Anthony
And you don't know what this means I think there are several topics of conversation to have about this incident the conversations of violence against women. We know that's a real thing. We know that's a real thing right? We've seen it repeatedly throughout history.

29:27.39
J. Aundrea
And. Yeah, yeah.

29:41.86
Bruce Anthony
All you got to do is open up a newspaper and look at your local crime reports and there are attacks of women by men. So we know this right? There's also that good Samaritan thing.

29:54.78
J. Aundrea
M.

29:57.37
Bruce Anthony
What is your responsibility as a human being to help out other human beings. There's a valid question there I never thought about the fear of men versus men. Ah I don't I would not have been scared in that situation. But.

30:01.72
J. Aundrea
Thoride.

30:15.70
Bruce Anthony
I have this extreme protector mentality complex. That's ah ah that I have where I would have intervened but you don't also know who this dude was if he's so bold to pick up a rock or brick to throw it at a woman. He might be known and might be that dude in the streets right. Like he could be Nino Brown he could be avon barkstale so you could step to him and really lose your life so there is that type of fear. All those are very credible conversations. Another credible conversation and needs to be had is social media.

30:39.39
J. Aundrea
M.

30:51.31
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

30:52.96
Bruce Anthony
This is what I mean by this I had a friend of mine send me a video and there was this woman talking about being vegan and that she's vegan and that she in that to make sure that when you eat eggs, eat eggs from chickens. That's only been fed organic which is vegan. And that's to make sure that the eggs that you're eating is vegan right? It's going on and on about this nonsense and in that video it's 3 men that are sitting there and like what the hell is she talking about she's dumb as a brick and my friend that sent it to me I was like you know this is satire right? No this is real. She really believes that she's dumb as hell I was like no. I I don't think this is real I believe this is satire so she looked up the person sent me their tiktokck immediately when I click on their Tiktok front and then bold it says satire page and I said to my friend. Yeah, this is what I thought I was it was satire and my friend said probably.

31:31.96
J. Aundrea
Yes, oh.

31:41.44
J. Aundrea
M.

31:49.24
Bruce Anthony
And I was like what you mean probably it says it right there. So many people send me stuff on social media that happened earlier today one. Ah a friend of mine said hey did you hear about that woman in old town alexandria that was snatched and in the alleyway.

31:50.10
J. Aundrea
Is says it? yeah.

32:05.70
Bruce Anthony
She was walking down the street a guy put her in the headlock in the alleyway drove in that alleyway this car happened to be passing by and broke it up I was like no I didn't hear about that and she was like yeah and they haven't even caught the person either. There's been no charges against the person and I was like um. This doesn't make sense I was like where'd you get your information from oh it was on next door I was like nope nope nope. Ah so I did a Google search and I was like I don't see any information about this whatsoever I was like oh there is a murder I saw a murder that happened in old town.

32:26.15
J. Aundrea
Um, now.

32:43.26
J. Aundrea
Um, there was a murder.

32:43.78
Bruce Anthony
But but the murder was not funny cause somebody died but the murder was somebody was getting stuck up. They had minor injuries but they died at the hospital so that person's being charged for murder and I was just like all he was probably trying to do was stick him up with a knife and this man. This old man later on has a heart attack in the hospital and I got a murder charge or me but I was like oh this happened this weekend I see this I'm not seeing any story from from Europe but it was on next door here I'll show you I was like yeah I know I believe that it was on next door I believe that you saw it I I don't believe that it's real so social media.

33:02.43
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

33:13.21
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

33:19.85
Bruce Anthony
I Say all that to say this I and I know that you said this a misinformation out there and I think there's a lot of misinformation about this particular situation I don't know if I necessarily believed video and this is the reason why this is the reason why she's showing the video on real time.

33:32.62
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

33:39.75
Bruce Anthony
And she says brick So let's take brick into consideration when was the last time you were walking down the street on the sidewalk and you fell you wear some shorts or a short sleeveed shirt or anything like that and you fell on the sidewalk. What happens to you scrape your knee.

33:52.33
J. Aundrea
You scrape your knee blood.

33:57.00
Bruce Anthony
Guess what there is blood. This woman had a brick or rock thrown at her. She's got a big. There is no doubt about it that her face has become disfigured from whatever has happened. There is no blood. There's no scarring. There's no scratches.

34:12.50
J. Aundrea
Um. Can it.

34:16.40
Bruce Anthony
There's no nothing now I am not a forensic doctor all I'm saying is something should be there. Also there was really nobody. There was 2 people in the background and supposedly this happened around all these people and there's no police report like. At all and even if she didn't press charges people have reported it to different precincts in Houston and there's no investigation they have to investigate when there is assault whether you want to press charges or not that's a deadly assault they have to.

34:46.88
J. Aundrea
M.

34:50.77
Bruce Anthony
I'm not saying that I don't completely believe her. But I'm not taking it as this is 100 % actually happened but the bigger conversation is not that if it actually happened or not because things like this does happen. A woman was hit by a brick by a man. In San Diego last year this does happen. That's not the question, the question or the discussion is the initial reaction to 1 ask? What did she do doesn't matter what the hell she did. She didn't deserve that and 2 men.

35:09.23
J. Aundrea
And.

35:23.53
J. Aundrea
Right.

35:28.90
Bruce Anthony
Automatically trying to find an excuse out of the situation by trying to place them not just men women as well. But I'm talking specifically to men right? men trying to find an excuse out of the situation but it's not just we'll see this in every different group.

35:31.00
J. Aundrea
Not just men.

35:46.53
Bruce Anthony
Feels like they're being in attacked given in particular situation instead of looking at it for face value value and saying this is jacked up the situation whether real or not the situation is jacked up a woman should not be hit.

35:47.38
J. Aundrea
M.

35:57.17
J. Aundrea
Right.

36:01.26
Bruce Anthony
By a blunt object unless she trying to kill your mother. She got a weapon she got kids or she Rhonda rosy.

36:05.60
J. Aundrea
Oh there's a debt. There's a there are scenarios where I where even I would pick up a brick and hit somebody directly in the face turning down my advances is not one of those things.

36:12.11
Bruce Anthony
I Just got just get yes, but but not Turn. Ah, if the if shorty and in the target the way they had the pinking dress on out there Ma'am if you listen to the show at all, please. Slide your number in somewhere. Ah, we might not be fine number more because it was a long time ago, but you but you know what I mean anyway anyway. Ah if I had said you know let me get your number or something like that and she was like no I'm not gonna grab the toothpaste cause we in Toothpas out and smack upside the head you know, ah just because I feel rejected. Um.

36:30.65
J. Aundrea
Um.

36:38.10
J. Aundrea
It's despicable right? right? right? right.

36:48.60
Bruce Anthony
So I think those are the biggest Those are the bigger questions for me is the fact that trying to find an excuse out of it and the influence of social media and people not doing their due jeligence to find out if something is true or not I'm not saying that This is not true I'm not saying it is true but there are too many.

36:50.67
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

37:06.81
Bruce Anthony
Instances that people are sending me something and I'm like you know this isn't real right? Yeah, it is and it's a quick Google search and it's like no this is not real stop taking these things for face value cheek could have not been hit by a man with a brick. She could have been hit in a head with a brick.

37:14.40
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

37:25.81
Bruce Anthony
She could have been hit in the head with brick by a woman because she got into an altercation. We don't know the story. We just we just know what she said.

37:29.59
J. Aundrea
We Yeah, we don't know and and right but to your point it's irrelevant because it's a it's irrelevant in in in the context of which.

37:40.41
Bruce Anthony
Um, it's irrelevant. It's irrelevant in the context that she explained it.

37:48.64
J. Aundrea
The and the response the response is what makes this situation relevant and worth talking about because I have my own stories I don't know a woman I don't know a woman who doesn't have their own stories of being accosted or harassed or whatever.

37:50.60
Bruce Anthony
Yes.

37:57.53
Bruce Anthony
Right.

38:08.26
J. Aundrea
I've had my car blocked in by a tractor trailer I've been followed I've been chased like I don't know that anybody has because I've turned down advances from people.

38:08.62
Bruce Anthony
O.

38:17.70
Bruce Anthony
And ladies and gentlemen. Let me tell you that a lot of this is information I'm here for the first time because my sister will not tell me certain situations like this.

38:23.49
J. Aundrea
Because it happens I wouldn't I'm nice. It's not frequent like it's not like every time I leave the house but it's such a. It's such a normal occurrence for women.

38:39.42
Bruce Anthony
Oh.

38:41.58
J. Aundrea
To deal with that kind of harassment that most of the time you just move on about your day. Yeah, you're shook up or you're this or whatever this that and the third but you typically just move on with your day. But now we've got social media and people are talking people are.

38:56.80
Bruce Anthony
And.

38:59.59
J. Aundrea
People are posting videos people are outing these people in real time as it happens so whether or not this actually happened. It's not really relevant what's relevant. Yeah.

39:11.91
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, that's why I saying it wasn't is is is the response to what this person explained what happened to them and that's what that's what bothered me as ah as a did because I you send me information so I did.

39:17.98
J. Aundrea
Um, it's um yeah.

39:25.60
J. Aundrea
M.

39:26.46
Bruce Anthony
No quick little research and I'm looking at why am I seeing more information against what she's saying than what she's saying I was like okay, that's what she's saying let me look at some of what the people are saying against her I was like all this is incredible because this is. This isn't backed up by facts at all. Okay, they're newspaper articles. There are but they're only going off of her video There's no anybody talk to the police alright a few people would talk to the police but there's no current investigation like it took a little bit of work. It took me about a half an hour to do a deep dive but too many people out here. Their initial reaction.

39:53.37
J. Aundrea
N.

40:01.34
Bruce Anthony
Was to immediately discredit her and that's disheartening.

40:01.72
J. Aundrea
Yes, yeah, it's disheartening but I'm telling you I wasn't not surprised I was not I wasn't surprised at all at the response. Oh which what you want us to do is the you.

40:11.50
Bruce Anthony
I wasn't surprised either. Yeah people sometimes can be the worst.

40:21.40
J. Aundrea
Same ones talking about what you bring to the table is that you are 2 things provider and protector. You do neither 1 neither one writ large.

40:31.11
Bruce Anthony
Well not ever miss some some some some people out there are provide right? The some right? Yeah, you got you have to because it's this. Ah, now you do.

40:35.45
J. Aundrea
And again I'm not saying all men. But of course I have to put that caveat in there because people you don't have to. It's the same thing me saying black lives matter as I say I'm not saying other lives. Don't matter. It's the same now because y'all be sounded real.

40:49.70
Bruce Anthony
Now you got to put this. Yeah you do you know? what.

40:54.54
J. Aundrea
Y'all be sounding like y'all be in that white supremacist playbook.

40:56.67
Bruce Anthony
Well, you know what people are dumb. This is is older I've gotten the older I've gotten I'm sorry people y'all are dumb the large portion of y'all out. There are dumb as hell and I don't know if I won't even call it ignorant anymore. It's dumb cause I'm telling you Jay. Like the social media thing really really bugs me There are so many people that will send me something and and maybe I'm not trying to say I'm some brainiac person that could could figure out stuff. Maybe it's the historian in me. Maybe it's the journalist and me.

41:18.95
J. Aundrea
Um.

41:26.17
J. Aundrea
Right.

41:33.42
Bruce Anthony
But is this like I take everything with a grain of Salt I'm like okay where's the proof. Yeah, that's where we go right? right? That's just that's and also.

41:36.63
J. Aundrea
I Mean our our whole collegiate career was as researchers like we're going to research some stuff I'm gonna look it up I'm gonna check the facts I'm gonna verify with receipts. Um.

41:52.28
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

41:52.34
Bruce Anthony
That's our household that we grew up in because because our pairs would be like prove your argument. So so there's that.

41:56.55
J. Aundrea
Right? You you ask you ask God mother. What a word means is it. The response is always look it up. So as you look it up. We like I can't even spell it now I much wasnt up sound it out that.

42:03.58
Bruce Anthony
Look it up like thank you Mom or dad I sounded out that's that's mom and dad.

42:18.66
J. Aundrea
Yeah, are you? yeah.

42:22.40
Bruce Anthony
That's mom and dad. So so yeah, people are just dumb. So yes, you have to give it that caveat of saying I'm not talking about all you have to say that because people are so quick to people are so.

42:27.48
J. Aundrea
Yeah, well let me be clear I'm not talking about men because a man would have said something I'm not talking about men I'm talking about whoever the hell those people were that were there standing around and not doing anything.

42:40.23
Bruce Anthony
Ah, yeah, so.

42:47.50
J. Aundrea
I'm talking to whoever those people are who get on social media and try to discredit this woman whether you believe her story or not if it didn't have if if you don't believe her ok that's a conversation but to say that.

42:50.83
Bruce Anthony
And hope.

43:06.34
J. Aundrea
Writ large black women just don't deserve protection. Oh y'all want to be equal so Bad. Why does why does equality in your mind mean that you can punch me in the face. Why is that equality to you. Why is equity and violence. Even brought up why is violence even part of this conversation. We talking about pay Equity. We're talking about when're not talking About. We want to be out here. Fist fighting people and and yeah, okay, like what are you even talking about.

43:31.74
Bruce Anthony
Um, okay so that's a dumb argument. Oh y'all wouldn't be equal come on Knuckle up that's a dumb argument.

43:43.69
J. Aundrea
But it's a argument that is made constantly.

43:49.40
Bruce Anthony
It's a argument that's made constantly but is made too general. It needs to be a little bit more specific What they're talking when men are talking What men should be talking about is equity dating is a prime example and I've talked about this till I'm blue in the face.

44:03.40
J. Aundrea
M.

44:05.37
Bruce Anthony
I'm an old school type of guy and new guys are like what does old school have to do about it old school men paid for things. The majority of the time I'm not that old school I'm gonna pay for things the majority of time first date I'm paying second date I'm probably paying.

44:11.29
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

44:23.39
Bruce Anthony
After that it's who ever invited the other person out and if you invited me out and that bill comes and you not even pump faking you just expected me to pick it up and this is like the third or fourth date I'm probably not gonna continue on to date you because I know that this is something that you expect and I want.

44:24.20
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

44:38.13
J. Aundrea
Because you have a specific set of values. You have a value system and that person doesn't fit in your value system perfectly Fine perfectly. Fine is the people who try to date people that are not do not have the same value system.

44:41.50
Bruce Anthony
Equity right.

44:48.95
Bruce Anthony
Right.

44:56.58
J. Aundrea
And then they're looking for equity but y'all have a completely different idea of what equity Inequality means.

45:00.26
Bruce Anthony
Exactly I mean they just like but they find no fine ain't everything and fine slips away.

45:05.31
J. Aundrea
But it's less about the conversation that men specifically should be having and it's less about equality and whether or not you can just punch a woman in face if she wants to be equal to you or whatever Ill whatever the hell kind of logic y'all are coming up with.

45:22.89
Bruce Anthony
If Amanda Nune is comes after me I'm punching her in the face. Amanda Nune is is like Ufc super champion in every weight class and got hand hands and she come at me I'm punching her in the face if she might could catch me shen better shape than i.

45:24.92
J. Aundrea
That.

45:32.95
J. Aundrea
Your legs don't work.

45:38.94
Bruce Anthony
Um, she's the ufc woman super champion used to that was over twenty years ago my knees um I'm sitting here I'm sitting here walker like Kenny Smith now my knees bumping together I got tendinitti and one knee arthritis and the other knee I can't run nobody mess around and run a block and.

45:39.89
J. Aundrea
You bet you used to play basketball you better Ju can brick them ankles.

45:58.11
J. Aundrea
But the I think the real conversation should be about.

45:58.16
Bruce Anthony
Papa achilles.

46:09.35
J. Aundrea
Violence the male violence and a to violence towards women violence towards each other too because y' allll are scared y'all are scared of each other y'all are scared of you men are afraid of other men because those if if.

46:14.49
Bruce Anthony
Towards now we not new I mean some.

46:29.20
J. Aundrea
If though if that situation truly happened. Ok, but so what does that But what does that mean that you are what be and you are what and you are what afraid of that man just like.

46:30.83
Bruce Anthony
Well, you don't know who he was he could have been Ray Ray it it. means that he will kill you yes because you want to live because you want to live you're afraid of it of his well that man's actions.

46:48.43
J. Aundrea
Her just like her but but not just about violence among men and violence towards women but the harboring of violent men by other men. The protecting.

46:50.12
Bruce Anthony
Yes, yes.

47:06.62
Bruce Anthony
Oh ah.

47:07.50
J. Aundrea
Of those men by other men because some of these dos are your friends somebody and what I'm not me, not you specifically Bruce I know not you but but but there are dos out there that know.

47:11.73
Bruce Anthony
I Don't have no friends like that. Yeah I wouldn't I I own rock with dudes like that.

47:24.25
J. Aundrea
Oh yeah, my homemie he hit his girl dad. You know what I'm saying there are some guys out there and you know your your brother is foul. Your cousin is foul. Your uncle is foul. You know your father is foul. You know your friend That's your homie. That's your man.

47:25.52
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah.

47:42.59
J. Aundrea
Ah, you know he's foul when it comes to women and what do you do nothing that makes you just as bad as him and it you know what it reminds me of it.

47:49.20
Bruce Anthony
No, it does? Yep, it's not. It's not enough for you not to be not violent. You had to be antiviolent. We say it's not enough for you Not to be racist.

47:58.99
J. Aundrea
Yes.

48:04.83
Bruce Anthony
You had you had to be anti-racist. It's not enough for you Not to be homophobic. You need to be Anti-homophobic you you need to be anti these things not not just these things. Um, although otherwise you are upholding what you say that you're not about.

48:06.76
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, yeah, yeah, right.

48:18.60
J. Aundrea
You know what it reminds me of it reminds me of and trigger warning that very terrible scene in players club when the they're at the party in a dancing he knew who his friend was and that all it would take.

48:26.68
Bruce Anthony
Are.

48:33.20
Bruce Anthony
Never.

48:37.54
J. Aundrea
Is for him to say she let you hit That's enough that was enough to know this? Yeah but he knew that man this man that he's at a party with is his party. It was a party for his he was getting married.

48:41.29
Bruce Anthony
Well, he was doing a set up though he was doing a setup though he was doing that on purpose. Yeah yeah. I don't I don't know if that's a set I don't know if that's a good comparison because if he setting her up then that means he's a part of that same thing he's probably not too far away from what his friend is you see what I'm saying.

49:04.55
J. Aundrea
But it just but it's just about knowing that you have people in your life that you could easily trigger to do something like that.

49:15.80
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah, well we have people in but we have people in our life that we know we could push their buttons and get them in the fights out in the street.

49:20.40
J. Aundrea
And that you call this person. My boy.

49:27.98
J. Aundrea
Yeah I mean you could do that to me has I mean that's us not just we know people you're talking about me.

49:33.91
Bruce Anthony
Look I want to clarify I Want to clarify something I naturally always look for art is this true or not I'm not saying that what she's saying is not true. All I'm saying is.

49:46.40
J. Aundrea
M.

49:52.96
Bruce Anthony
I have some questions that need to make a little bit more sense to me. But regardless.

49:55.80
J. Aundrea
Other people have pointed out their blood thing but I'm a be honest with you I've never been hitting a face with a rock or a brick. So I really couldn't tell you how my face would react to being smacked in the face with a brick I don't know.

50:10.22
Bruce Anthony
All I Ah all I can equate it to is if you fall down on the ground even if you just trip a little bit not even slide. There's blood because concrete brought ah Brick is not exactly concrete. But.

50:23.73
J. Aundrea
I mean.

50:24.33
Bruce Anthony
Hard Light concrete and rocks are kind of the same things as jagged edges and stuff. It's not like he hit it with a marble like if you hit it with a marble maybe like it's not doubt about that. Her face was disfigured but I'm tired of these videos.

50:32.33
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yes.

50:41.60
Bruce Anthony
That are showing what that are showing not the actual. They're not showing the full story and and my bigger issue is people taking social media who else somebody else did.

50:50.13
J. Aundrea
You're right.

50:55.88
Bruce Anthony
Okay, here was another argument I this is literally all these arguments I had with people getting this information from the social media was this week. Another person is is. There's a state delegate in Virginia there's this woman running for state delegate in Virginia and if y'all don't know where a delegate is a delegate is like a house of representative for the state. Ah. And and and everybody's state. You have a governor you have a congress that have delegates and senators because you have state senators delegates are like the house of representatives and and federal government. Ah so that's what it is. But anyway so she's running for state delegate.

51:22.15
J. Aundrea
And. M.

51:34.85
Bruce Anthony
And it comes out that this is the way my friend says it she used to do porn I said Hm Okay well I don't really think that's a big deal but just like there's videos all over the internet I was like okay, all right? ah where you getting this information.

51:47.20
J. Aundrea
And people people speaking in hyperbole of course the videos all over the edge everywhere you came it everywhere. Yeah, Okay, okay.

51:53.52
Bruce Anthony
Right? Where there are videos on the internet. So I'm like okay where are you getting this information from that's that's always my first question with somebody system where you getting this information from so he he he sends me story. He shows me a store and he's like here read this. This is a story and I said okay.

52:01.56
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

52:12.51
Bruce Anthony
So I'm reading the story and I'm like okay so what you're saying is kind of true but not true. He's like what do you mean? I was like she does have videos over the internet but what actually happened was that her and her husband was on chatterbright or something like that. It's like a online social video thing. That's.

52:30.90
J. Aundrea
If.

52:30.70
Bruce Anthony
Been out there for at least a decade and it's not specifically for sex work. It's not like only fans or something like that. It's not specifically for sex work. It's just video chat you're right? You're right? You're right I'm a spoke on that but it's like video chatting right? like before it's like people from all over the world like talk.

52:38.30
J. Aundrea
Only fans. It's also not specifically for sex work. But it's yeah yeah, yeah.

52:50.33
Bruce Anthony
They did use to have a separate private page where they would live stream sex acts and get no tokens for it or get you know tips for it or whatever thing. It was a private stream but the application stores these videos in the archives but they're still in archives from a private stream.

52:51.48
J. Aundrea
In in.

53:07.15
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

53:09.76
Bruce Anthony
A Republican operative hat the account and flooded the videos on the internet. That's how they got out there. So his initial thing was they were doing live stuff on an internet which is true but the way he described it as is it was being public.

53:12.74
J. Aundrea
In.

53:19.13
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

53:29.51
Bruce Anthony
And that they were doing it all in public and that they didn't care. No these videos were done a while ago. They were stolen and they were put out an internet I tell them all these things to say you don't have you didn't have all the facts here are all the facts because the way you were presenting it.

53:30.86
J. Aundrea
Now.

53:36.54
J. Aundrea
Right.

53:45.62
Bruce Anthony
Is is that she wanted these videos out here and that's not the case and he was like but they're still out there I was like you you didn't get anything that I just said you didn't get anything what I was trying to teach him was get all of the facts first before you formulate any type of opinion about something and.

53:47.47
J. Aundrea
4 in. Yeah.

54:04.43
J. Aundrea
Um, um, yeah.

54:04.92
Bruce Anthony
And and then I gave them the facts and it still didn't matter and I was like yeah no I don't even know why I had these conversations with people sometimes because because I'm sick. Yeah I don't I don't even know why I do it but it's social media people take things and I think you initially saw it on social media.

54:15.58
J. Aundrea
Um, just gonna frustrate yourself.

54:23.62
Bruce Anthony
You take things and then you run run with it and you're not getting all the facts even when you guys watch our little sixty second reels and clips ah and shorts for these shows. It's only giving you a snippet of what we're saying we are long-winded and we have a lot of points that we are getting to.

54:40.91
J. Aundrea
Yes.

54:43.20
Bruce Anthony
That little sixty second clip is not a true indication of everything that we're saying it's a teaser for you to watch the entire episode to get to what we're saying. Don't take that little clip is that the be all end all everything that we say because you can't fit.

54:50.70
J. Aundrea
Right.

54:55.85
J. Aundrea
Because I guarantee you I guarantee you I was taken out of context because you got to put and the way I say things you got to listen to the whole thing because you can easily take a sound bite from me and I sound terrible.

55:03.20
Bruce Anthony
And.

55:14.81
J. Aundrea
So you yeah you you got to take it in context. It's got to be in context. Ultimately, the reason why I brought up this story was not to validate. Um, whether or not she was telling the truth I Honestly don't care about that I.

55:15.00
Bruce Anthony
But.

55:33.16
J. Aundrea
I Would love for this to not be true that this did not happen to her. Yeah I would rather that this had not happened to her if it um, but obviously my heart goes out to her I hope that you know she's able to recover from this and to heal and to move on from it.

55:34.10
Bruce Anthony
Right? I would rather it be alive than to be true. Yeah.

55:51.40
Bruce Anthony
What she got she got about what it was it $35000 from from the from the ah go fundme page. Yeah 7035000 yeah you know her goal was to raise 10000 she got thirty five thousand I mean you can't hit me in a break for thirty five thousand

55:55.67
J. Aundrea
Oh yeah, I'm sure I'm sure she got medical bills. Yeah yeah I mean and and then the fact that people who again, use that to discredit her excuse.

56:07.86
Bruce Anthony
But you can throw a brick at me for thirty five thousand

56:14.53
J. Aundrea
Me but nobody holds a gun to anybody's head and tells them to donate to a go fund me. This is something people do out of the kindness of their own heart and they take they they take your story. They hear it whether it's true or not they feel like this is something that I that I'm comfortable putting my money towards.

56:19.44
Bruce Anthony
Ah.

56:32.45
J. Aundrea
Period like is it? Okay, so what she got to go for me I wish I had I I wish I had to go fund me I don't I got some bills. Yeah yeah.

56:41.14
Bruce Anthony
I'm about to say we go We. We're about to start to gofund me to get some more equipment. You know what? That's what I'm gonna do I'm gonna start a gofund me for unsolicited perspective. So We can get some more equipment to get some some more mics get some more cameras get some more laptops to help. Produce this content a little bit fast and a little bit better. That's what I'm do I'm starting to go fund me wait a minute. Yeah can I start to go fund me for me or does somebody else have to start a go find me for me all well somebody else started gound me for unsolicited perspectives or or a buy some t-shirts.

56:56.99
J. Aundrea
Yeah, go to go find me out there. No, you can start it for you.

57:13.78
Bruce Anthony
Jay what's your last ah points on this because we got to get to another segment and we already in our end this episode. Well we ain't talk for two weeks well we've talked but we't done an episode for two weeks so they get in money's worth y'all getting you'all money's worth ya. Didn't put no money into this but y'all.

57:19.66
J. Aundrea
Yeah, because this was out his heady topic. Um I guess right? Yeah, but but.

57:32.75
Bruce Anthony
Getting your money's work your time is very valuable and thank you for listening. Thank you for listening and watching.

57:33.55
J. Aundrea
Listen your time is valuable and so you get you get your time worth you getting your time worth. Um, yeah, but like I saying whether or not this is a true story doesn't matter. It is a true story to a lot of women out there myself included. Um.

57:50.17
Bruce Anthony
Ah.

57:51.91
J. Aundrea
So I just think that you know there's it's unfortunate. There's a lot of women out there. Also we like to call them pick mes but really, they're just um, bound up in patriarchy. Um.

58:10.87
J. Aundrea
1 woman made a video and she started getting death threats. Ah where she said when I have sons I'm a teach them. There's a difference between diamonds and dirt and it's just yeah I mean it's just is.

58:20.27
Bruce Anthony
Wow Stockholm Syndrome is a real thing.

58:28.67
J. Aundrea
Com Syndrome is so real. So honestly I'm more disgusted by that response than I am there just were the response from men I'm more disgusted by that response because I don't know that there's a woman alive who has not been harassed.

58:43.32
Bruce Anthony
Now.

58:45.56
J. Aundrea
Regardless of that and this is a woman's like I got to follow him Brothers and they tell me not to go here at night. Got to go here because they're also because they know what men are capable of.

58:52.33
Bruce Anthony
You know they say that men the real reason why men want sons instead of daughters because when men have sons they got 1 penis to worry about when men have daughters they have everybody's penis to worry about.

59:06.47
J. Aundrea
Um, why right? and men know themselves and they know other men and they know that the world is dangerous. So my point is.

59:12.28
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yes, yes, hey.

59:20.46
J. Aundrea
Believe us when we say that this as dangerous as hell out here. Believe us when we say as dangerous as hell out here. We are also scared and so if my response to you coming up to me and target it is to grab the two pace. To protect us. Ah, you can't get you can't then get offended by that and take a brick and hit me in the face.

59:57.81
Bruce Anthony
Ours talking about fear. Let's make this a short segment. Did you hear about them. Aliens of Mexico.

01:00:02.23
J. Aundrea
Yeah, why do they keep trying to make us care about these aliens. Yes I heard about that I heard about the aliens the corpses then brought the corpses out. They look fake as Hail they look paper mache as you know, no this looks like.

01:00:05.52
Bruce Anthony
They brought they brought they brought bodies out there and everything. Well I mean they were mommy. They were mummified. They supposed be 1800 years old and mummy 5 are they did it. They did. That's how they found out it was they did radiocarbon dating and found out that it was eighteen hundred years old it's real

01:00:20.52
J. Aundrea
Ah pay I'm looking at it. No I need somebody to do some carbon dating I'm not just gonna take that.

01:00:39.40
Bruce Anthony
If it's aliens. We don't know.

01:00:41.50
J. Aundrea
No, it could just easily ah been somebody with a a birth defect This could yeah I mean so big does their siblings. We don't know and also.

01:00:45.44
Bruce Anthony
It was 2 of them now.

01:00:53.38
Bruce Anthony
Well, a.

01:00:56.00
J. Aundrea
1800 years can do some thanks to a body I just don't I just. I can't be the only one out here like y'all really trying to pivot and have us focus on these damn aliens where we are living where we are out here living in this capitalist hell scape.

01:01:05.13
Bruce Anthony
I said it in passing there continuing revenue a resolution.

01:01:20.37
J. Aundrea
Hanging on by a thread y'all try to make us care bus tap Alias You can't do it from a sci Fi all that interesting perspective. But I can't get that deeply confessed.

01:01:22.97
Bruce Anthony
Well I care about Aliens I care about aliens. All right guys. Normally we would get I have all types of no so this normally we would go really deep on this but we went really long in the last segment and I don't really feel like going that deep on this anymore. But this is what I will say.

01:01:46.93
J. Aundrea
Um, um.

01:01:49.10
Bruce Anthony
I'm not surprised by this if it's real or not if it's really not and all and as I said in the previous segment I always go with a little skepticism on everything look at question. Everything I be question in the shower when I be fighting myself I'll be questioning myself I question everything. So.

01:01:58.31
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, yes, yeah, yes.

01:02:06.72
Bruce Anthony
Ah, is this true is this not true I don't really think that's matters I Do believe that there are extra terrestrials out there because I do not believe that we're the only I don't believe that we're the only the only thing in the universe that is so conceited.

01:02:08.98
J. Aundrea
In.

01:02:15.40
J. Aundrea
The universe is the big place. The Universe is an incredibly big place. Yeah. Yeah, should to be little specs in an infinite space and think that you're there only spec out there. That's dumb Now. Do I think they will come to Earth. No I feel like it's a waste of time. But.

01:02:25.83
Bruce Anthony
And self centered to think that we are literally the center of the universe.

01:02:38.80
Bruce Anthony
I think that they have I think that they have and they well think about it if they've if they've come I got no argument with somebody about this other day like I swear to God these conversations I have with people.

01:02:42.33
J. Aundrea
And they never came back.

01:02:47.75
J. Aundrea
But.

01:02:54.63
Bruce Anthony
Really need to have a video crew follow me because so y'all could see. It's the reason why I got lines on my forehead because I have that I had the what I had the Wtf look on my face at every day. So the person I was debating with I was like you know this is real cool. You know I'm saying.

01:02:58.36
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

01:03:05.83
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

01:03:12.40
Bruce Anthony
Why would they come here. Well they probably did come here and and if they came here. They're way more advanced than we are that doesn't mean that we couldn't take them out I mean they probably left because they realized just how violent we are and maybe they're a peaceful people. Well if they're peaceful. Then that means we could take them.

01:03:22.19
J. Aundrea
In a.

01:03:28.60
Bruce Anthony
No because their technology is more advanced than ours. But maybe they don't have weapons they would have stuff defenses.

01:03:29.66
J. Aundrea
But but listen but listen, that's the point why is the immediate reaction violence. That's the whole reason why the last aliens here was eighteen hundred years ago because they came here with like.

01:03:41.14
Bruce Anthony
Um.

01:03:45.31
Bruce Anthony
So.

01:03:48.96
J. Aundrea
Oh hell, no these people live for violence we can the hell up out here couple them got stuck I don't know how advanced they are to keep crashing but whatever.

01:03:59.28
Bruce Anthony
Hey look you act like you ain't never raining out of gas before and you act like you. You act like people don't get car accident all the time Sir I'm sure it's a lot of credit I'm sure we don't know that they don't crash other places.

01:04:09.72
J. Aundrea
That's true but I keep happening all art for some reason why you'll keep crashing here. That's true.

01:04:17.45
Bruce Anthony
We we have one Rover or maybe 2 of them on Mars and they haven't even scoped all the Mars yet Mars we still haven't technically we just landed on the other side of the moon india just landed on the other side of the moon. We only had been landing on one point.

01:04:23.67
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

01:04:32.31
J. Aundrea
It Why we keep going to the moon we know Gun Hill Well we look at it every day ain't nothing up there ain' no water on the moon water on the moon climb.

01:04:38.99
Bruce Anthony
Because we because there's water. There's water on the moon now Yes, water on was as it's ice on the moon there where they bla believe it is so they believe it is ah so ah, yeah, yeah, like I think space is cool.

01:04:48.70
J. Aundrea
Just don't and maybe it's just me I Just don't care about space. We're already in it.

01:04:57.20
Bruce Anthony
But more importantly, that reaction that you talk about human beings. You know what it takes me back to on south park remember when Cartman was confronted by the underwear gnomes. Okay, so there was these are.

01:05:05.13
J. Aundrea
No I didn't really watch off park I've seen episodes where I never really watched it.

01:05:12.87
Bruce Anthony
So I watched them all until the pandemic happened and then I kind of fell off and I might get back on I might not but there were some of the early episodes and they were and Cartman was like underwear keeps getting taken by these little people that come at night and still underwear and nobody believed them right? No was somebody one of the other people had.

01:05:27.94
J. Aundrea
And.

01:05:32.45
Bruce Anthony
And then they all spent the night and Cartman was like I don't believe this and then they saw it in the middle of the night. There was these little underwear gnomes that that that were coming out from like different parts of the house that was still an underwear and they had little songs and they were singing and they were happy and they was chilling and cartman with his dumb self.

01:05:37.27
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

01:05:45.10
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

01:05:51.41
Bruce Anthony
Had a stick and ran up and hit one of them with the stick and that was like that was his initial response. They obviously were singing. They were singing right? So they understand language. So why not just stop and talk to him. No his initial action was the hit.

01:05:52.98
J. Aundrea
Yeah, violence. Yeah, you yeah yes.

01:06:06.25
Bruce Anthony
That would be our initial reaction if aliens came here is to attack.

01:06:08.50
J. Aundrea
I Mean you had a whole conversation and every retort was some for. We could take them. Why do we have to take them. What.

01:06:20.35
Bruce Anthony
Um, and that's the stupid and that's also the stupidity of it. They're so far advanced and technology. Even if they're peaceful. They are traveling the universe I'm sure they come across.

01:06:28.23
J. Aundrea
The right.

01:06:31.66
Bruce Anthony
Other beings out there that are not peaceful so they would have at least some defense system.

01:06:33.15
J. Aundrea
You can't even figure out the bus route to work and you talk it about you could take a alien that does interstellar travel. What are you talking about? shut up.

01:06:41.80
Bruce Anthony
You come here, you come to visit Washington d c it can't understand how to metro work. But you gonna take on a extra track.

01:06:49.53
J. Aundrea
it's it's 5 lines they're color coded. It's not that damn off.

01:07:00.76
Bruce Anthony
Ah, this was a good episode da what you want say to people out there.

01:07:02.99
J. Aundrea
Um.

01:07:10.25
J. Aundrea
Oh I god ah what do I want to say to people out there. Go you know the thanks for rock and winners I don't know I will come up a catch Rays Elmo it's been a year. Thanks for rocking withs. It's good.

01:07:17.49
Bruce Anthony
I think I like that thanks for rocking with us. Well, it's almost a year I think the first episodes we did were in november.

01:07:27.42
J. Aundrea
Okay, well before a year is up I would come up with a catch face. No I won't you know what? let me not make that promise. No I won't because now wont yeah.

01:07:35.83
Bruce Anthony
That's a good question was I like I like thanks for rocking with us. Our first episode was November eighth so and so would come on. Yeah yeah.

01:07:43.80
J. Aundrea
Those truly thanks for rockmas, we appreciate? Yeah okay I've got some time I have time. Yeah because of this just both true and also it's true. Thank you? yeah.

01:07:50.72
Bruce Anthony
I like thanks for rocking with us. Well, it's true and true. All right as all ways and I'm gonna say thank you for listening. Thank you for watching. Don't forget to log on to our Webp page at wwww.unsol listed perfect perspective not per perspectives perspectives.

01:08:08.25
J. Aundrea
Person perspiring.

01:08:10.74
Bruce Anthony
Ah, first find, that's I'm doing that because I just stumbed over my words unsolicited perspectives.com where you can get all the audio and video versions of the podcast. You can read some of the blogs that we have and as well the merch store and our Patreon page link. We will build out more so stuff in the merch store right? now is 3 funky, fresh t-shirts. Go ahead and go get those but until next time as always I'll holler.

01:08:32.23
J. Aundrea
Yeah.