Mother's Day, Aging Challenges, Politics, and Dating

00:07.14
Bruce Anthony
On today's episode it's the sibling happy hour I'm here with my sister Jay andrere. We're going to be talking about the Trump Rally I mean the that Trump Town Hall George Santos out here acting while again and then my sisters gonna respond to one of my Youtube shorts from my private show. But first things first.

00:32.60
Bruce Anthony
What up says how you feeling.

00:33.18
J. Aundrea
What up brother dumb look at these I got that got the headphones finally well I hear myself which I don't like no.

00:42.56
Bruce Anthony
There's no echo. What you're supposed to turn that the monitoring off so you don't really not that difficult. Okay, well if you're hearing it that means it's gonna be playing back.

00:51.80
J. Aundrea
I Don't like it but I also don't want to turn it off but I don't want to I want to keep it a little bit but.

01:04.57
Bruce Anthony
And the audio version when I do the the post-production. Yeah okay I've only done this now this is what the forty fifth show

01:05.58
J. Aundrea
No, it's not.

01:11.88
J. Aundrea
All right I'll turn it I'll turn it off Jesus is' you're not gonna hear. It's not gonna be like an echo when now I can't hear myself at all and it feels weird.

01:18.73
Bruce Anthony
Okay, the echo is coming through the microphone we had the same microphone so you have to turn the the audio playback off in the microphone same means you gotta log into the settings of your computer and because that's what's happening.

01:29.99
J. Aundrea
You know us.

01:36.60
Bruce Anthony
Right? Because your your microphone has a um has a headphone part to it So that's where the echo is coming from the microphone is feeding back into itself.

01:42.49
J. Aundrea
Yeah, let me plug it into the computer i'mma get this y'all was ridiculous.

01:48.79
Bruce Anthony
Hey hey look this is no rehearsal just jumping straight in you got it together I don't know now now now your internet is kind of iffy. Whatever let's get the show started.

01:56.15
J. Aundrea
I Got I got it together stupid.

02:05.10
J. Aundrea
Just record the show. Keep keep all of it in.

02:08.22
Bruce Anthony
We are recording the show it I'm not editing this out. This is all stay in. But anyway how you doing I'm gonna see you in a couple of days

02:17.14
J. Aundrea
I am feeling I'm ready to be home I miss I miss home homesick I can't remember last time I've been home. Ah, just a cut I'll be there for four or five days

02:21.70
Bruce Anthony
What how long are you staying this time.

02:28.85
Bruce Anthony
Ah, oh so not the whole. So you're actually so you actually won't come up to visit me at all. Okay, well which day were you planning on doing that because you're not work during the week

02:34.75
J. Aundrea
I What I was planning on doing that am I not? Um, yeah, so do I So I don't know I was gonna forget I was playing it all by year I.

02:43.52
Bruce Anthony
Okay, that's that that is great for for you. But for other people that have lives that that need to plan around the fact that you're go cover visit proud to be great. You know what? I'll see you on Saturday we'll hammer it out on saturday.

02:47.54
J. Aundrea
Nothing set in stone except that I've covered up for mother's day.

02:58.85
J. Aundrea
Yeah, I'm just gonna pretty much be like call you Tuesday morning. Be like we doing after work today. Let's go. Let's go go go I mean I can't go get a drink but I can watch you drink I can still participate in the community of.

03:14.68
Bruce Anthony
And that's of of going to get a drink. Yeah, it's gonna be dope. We got to work out the um arrangements for Saturday because you know other people don't know out there but we have a whole.

03:18.90
J. Aundrea
Going to get a drink. Yeah.

03:31.54
Bruce Anthony
Lot of family up in Maryland and they just decided that they were going to plan the mother's day situation and ah, that's that's what we're gonna do. We're gonna do it on Saturday and um, you know, no knock to my goddaughter I love my goddater very very very dearly

03:41.29
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

03:49.92
Bruce Anthony
But I don't understand why we have a 4 30 reservation I don't understand what that is. That's not brunch. That's not lunch. That's not dinner. That's just a 4 30 reservation.

03:55.19
J. Aundrea
That's our brunch. Yeah yeah is early bird special which actually is smart because you know Mom is a senior citizen technically.

04:08.47
Bruce Anthony
I Mean yes, that is smart and it actually works for me because it's gonna be I'm gonna try and time it so that I'm in the area when you touch down so that we can just all meet up then but we'll hammer down the details.

04:20.25
J. Aundrea
Okay.

04:24.97
Bruce Anthony
Everybody in the listening audience. Don't care about our details about weekend together. But yeah and I have not seen my sister in person for year and a half if ah in person.

04:25.83
J. Aundrea
Truly don't but I am coming home. Yes. Yeah, even though we see each other once a week I we have not seen each other person for a very long time quite some time. Yeah.

04:41.83
Bruce Anthony
Ah, for a very long time. Yeah, so this is gonna be co people I told a couple people about that and they're like oh you guys gonna do the show. Ah live no one I don't have the setup for that. That's number 1 number 2 Yeah, no, it was like.

04:47.95
J. Aundrea
No yeah and I'm not packing my gear guys I'm not doing it.

04:57.52
Bruce Anthony
That's that's not gonna work and I don't know how to do the cameras for something like that. You need multiple cameras and you need a huge studio space and we can't do it in my studio. There's not enough space. So no, that's not gonna be happening. It's gonna stay remote. Maybe the the hundredth.

05:07.98
J. Aundrea
But I think we should plan to do a show like that like you know rent to run a space and set it up. Yeah, we'll do a live show live ish will record in the same room.

05:17.15
Bruce Anthony
Hundredth episode. Yeah well and we tried laughs. Yeah lavish. Yeah there we just there you go.

05:27.90
J. Aundrea
Ah, who'll be in person together I think I think the banter will be even better if we're just in the same room eating off each other's energy.

05:32.44
Bruce Anthony
Well yes I think it will be too and we have I think this is the forty four forty fifth show something like that. Yes I think this is a forty fifth show so we have let me do the math on this real fast.

05:41.70
J. Aundrea
M.

05:51.48
Bruce Anthony
54 more times to convince our brother to just do an appearance.

05:51.69
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

05:59.14
J. Aundrea
I'll ask him I mean I don't know we got to steer clear of anything that might jeopardize him running for office the future. Ah or her. Whatever whatever he.

06:08.41
Bruce Anthony
Look that dude ain't go that dude ain't never gonna be able to run for office. Well he got less skeletons in the closet than I do and I want to run for office one day I think I better hurry up at the side is getting old.

06:16.91
J. Aundrea
He has in mind At. You get you get up there? Yeah yeah, well because your skin looks top tear. Yeah.

06:27.65
Bruce Anthony
Kid I'll be forgetting how old I am so what some 1 of my clients of the day was like thank you First of all, thank you Thank you Ah ah, but so 1 of my clients was like you look great for your age and I was like yeah. Yeah, and it dawned on me I don't compare myself to my peers I compare myself to people 10 years younger and it's like when I'm in the gym working out is like I used to be able to do this ten years ago no I can't do and I hurt my back getting out of bed the other day just rolling out of bed.

06:49.87
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

07:00.73
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah mean.

07:04.68
Bruce Anthony
My bed is up higher now. It used to be a platform bed. It's up higher now because when I had the platform bed which is low to the ground. It was too tough for me to get out of the bed in the morning I had to kind of like rock because my knees are so bad.

07:14.97
J. Aundrea
Yeah, why you think I drive a S U V it. So It's because I could just slide in and slide right out I was tired in my sedan of of pushing up out of the seat like the amount of work. Your knees go through just to get in and out of a stand I was like I'm not doing the same more I got my new car as I'm getting an Uv because I can't deal with it. Yeah, you drove it? Yeah yeah, the slowest one. That's for sure.

07:41.90
Bruce Anthony
Ah, have I written in your new car I shown of dead because we all know that I'm the best driver out the siblings. Yeah to so I was talking to somebody about that. Ah, this week actually and I was like I'm a good driver.

07:56.10
J. Aundrea
Ah.

07:59.38
Bruce Anthony
And and they were talking about their mom and I asked them I was like is because they're going to do a road trip with their mom ah soon. Ah and I asked him is your mom a good driver and they were like yeah slow driver and he was like um my mom didn't use to be like that when I was younger.

08:02.62
J. Aundrea
Oh.

08:09.95
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

08:15.57
J. Aundrea
Oh oh my god I'm sorry Roni just farted and it my eyes are watering death smells like death becomes her all god.

08:18.60
Bruce Anthony
Ah, but I was like I think that has to do something with age because I'm definitely slowing down now what it was was whoo your face.

08:34.50
J. Aundrea
I'm sorry audience who day hope and there's no where I can go I'm filming I have to stay here and she is right? Beside me is in my mouth. It's a part of me now. But I think there's a dip.

08:35.50
Bruce Anthony
This and and you got to keep talking So it's going all like mouth.

08:52.59
J. Aundrea
Jesus god smells like a so ah.

08:54.20
Bruce Anthony
Specific.

08:58.39
J. Aundrea
It so like a sc ah I'm tryinging my thoughts together about driving but I can't concentrate Jesus ah um I think there's a difference.

08:58.51
Bruce Anthony
Oh.

09:05.94
Bruce Anthony
Um.

09:13.29
Bruce Anthony
Ah, it is.

09:16.45
J. Aundrea
Being a good driver be a slow driver Sometimes people mistake that oh I'm a good driver but really you just drive slow that don't mean that doesn't equal good I'm a fast driver but I'm still a good driver.

09:28.35
Bruce Anthony
You are You are a definite fast driver look I love.

09:32.50
J. Aundrea
Is I got led foot but I'm a good driver just because you slow don't mean you don't be hitting curbs and stuff because you but get it.

09:40.27
Bruce Anthony
I don't I don't hit curves. But so I'm slow as in I go max most of time 5 maybe ten miles over the speed limit but that's that's all I'm doing no I don't I write.

09:48.48
J. Aundrea
Yeah, and you're you're like 2 and 10 like you keep you don't you don't ride cool.

09:59.20
Bruce Anthony
It's all types of stuff going on in the background because there's a dog barking out in the hallway and now I hear crypto growling I do hold on for a second ladies and gentlemen. We're gonna pause so I can shut my dog up. Yeah, all right? So that that actually went on.

10:03.72
J. Aundrea
I don't hear either 1 of those things so you're good. Shit my eyes are watering.

10:17.94
Bruce Anthony
That went on live Do your cus word, but both of us is yelling at our dogs.

10:18.33
J. Aundrea
Well well listen because we already established we were allowed one s word per show and I'm taking that I'm I'm making that a part of my life now. So.

10:36.28
Bruce Anthony
Oh my goodness. Okay, let's get to it. Um, did you watch.

10:36.60
J. Aundrea
Let me tell you my eyes are burning woof.

10:44.40
Bruce Anthony
Even just some clips at this town hall from this. Um.

10:45.87
J. Aundrea
Absolutely refuse and that it's because I don't want to give Cnn what they were looking for and that was ratings. So I won't I won't do it but I did read a so caving article about it in the new yorker.

10:53.30
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, you know.

11:01.94
Bruce Anthony
What did the New Yorker have to say.

11:03.92
J. Aundrea
That was just hilarious that new yorker this is ah who who wrote this I don't know who to hell wrote this Susan Glasser it took barely a minute for Donald Trump to say rigged election from there. He rambled he ranted he lied and he lied some more.

11:12.29
Bruce Anthony
Now. Okay.

11:23.88
J. Aundrea
And that was the response to the first question of the evening to the president to the first president in american history to refuse to concede his defeat and accept the peaceful transfer of power. The question was why should americans put you back in the white house.

11:44.88
J. Aundrea
Ah, and I said yeah as to be expected like to to me as to be expected. First of all, it's no, it's no secret what Trump was gonna do if you gave him a.

11:47.59
Bruce Anthony
Ah, yeah.

12:02.19
Bruce Anthony
No because he's been doing all of this stuff on his social media platform true social like if you if you're on Twitter at all a lot of people will like screenshot what he posts on true social and and show you because I'm not on true social and show you what he's been saying so.

12:02.67
J. Aundrea
Any kind of platform.

12:07.70
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

12:14.79
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

12:22.19
Bruce Anthony
I don't understand what Cnn was thinking? Well no yeah, that yeah, that's what they were thinking about.

12:25.21
J. Aundrea
Ratings that was all they were thinking about um and it was honestly I think the consensus is across journalism except for you know fake fake news like Fox and o and is that um.

12:43.15
J. Aundrea
It was just a dereliction of journalistic duty like to to publish or platform what you know is going to be a person who will lie for 75 minutes straight if you allow him to not only that.

12:55.46
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah.

13:00.70
J. Aundrea
He just got civilly convicted for defaming someone sexually assaulting someone and he went on to defame the person E Gene Carroll again

13:04.41
Bruce Anthony
Right. Ah, yeah, yeah.

13:15.55
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, so.

13:17.51
J. Aundrea
So that appeal he was looking to make or that he's up for to make or they I don't know if they've already filed the appeal. Forget it.

13:27.87
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, so with focusing on Cnn Cnn is a subsidiary of ah Warner media. So basically what Warner Brothers used to be but Warner Brothers was bought out by discovery.

13:31.41
J. Aundrea
M.

13:38.27
J. Aundrea
And.

13:44.84
Bruce Anthony
Like if you pay attention at all to what's going on and Warner Brothers with like the movies or like Hbo Max or a discovery you're starting to realize like Hbo Max has things like all those shows on discovery that that I guess people pay attention to what is it like.

13:59.33
J. Aundrea
And.

14:05.11
Bruce Anthony
Locked up or 10 days in or thirty days in stuff like that and love and lost married and I don't know these shows I don't I don't watch them.

14:09.10
J. Aundrea
Ah I don't I don't you made up a whole bunch of names of shows that are not shows but let me tell you some discoveries listman and they may be shows next fall.

14:17.62
Bruce Anthony
Um, not no I said loved and not married then that's it. That's a lot That's a that's a show that's a show. Ah.

14:23.10
J. Aundrea
Love and locked up a love abroad. Yeah, that's a show that's a show that's a show.

14:31.93
Bruce Anthony
Discovery If ah, it's been said on this podcast and it's going out live tomorrow. Well not live record it tomorrow so they won't know about it until tomorrow. Obviously everybody is going to know that that came up for me and if you still it I'm going to Sue but like they've been screwing up So ah, they discovery.

14:36.88
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah. Yeah, yeah.

14:50.86
Bruce Anthony
Bart Warner brothers and they changed Cnn like they changed the president and you could tell like the content Cnn used to be what I would watch used to be what I watch I can't watch it anymore I can't watch it anymore and so yeah, they need ratings because they're ah it's that.

14:53.45
J. Aundrea
And. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

15:08.40
Bruce Anthony
Let me tell you how screwed up this merger has been. There was a whole movie that they did Warner Brothers called bat girl right? The full movie they decided not to put it out and take the loss because it was gonna be better for them.

15:11.40
J. Aundrea
And.

15:17.27
J. Aundrea
M.

15:27.90
Bruce Anthony
Business wise than to do the movie. So all those people that and it was a finished movie is gonna be a theatrical release. Ah all that no it was gonna be a Hbo Max release but all that money that they put into it. They were just like no, we're gonna scrap it and it was gonna be a ah.

15:35.38
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

15:44.75
Bruce Anthony
Barbara Gordon was a woman of color's gonna be the first woman of color bat girl on live action. Um no, she didn't have no natural. No they to say.

15:49.49
J. Aundrea
Did she have a natural Oh well I would have took it to the next level. But.

16:00.62
Bruce Anthony
This ain't undercover brother sidekick one didn't have a natural but so they've been screwing up so this and that if you take it from that standpoint it makes sense that they would be hunting for ratings and say what you want about Trump he is gonna bring you rating people don't watch it.

16:04.52
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

16:16.54
Bruce Anthony
My thing was this town Hall was nothing but his supporters. So if you watch clips of it or watch the whole thing when he's saying these outlandish things. The crowd is actually cheering him on that's the reason why I said it was a rally not a town hall.

16:26.26
J. Aundrea
Yeah, oh because that's not yeah because it was definitely not a crowd filled with some republicans and some undecided it was or or some republican leaning independents. No. It was a hundred percent a crowd full of Trump supporters. Yeah.

16:46.88
Bruce Anthony
Yes, and they believe what he says and and all you Trump supporters out there to listen to it. You're gonna get pissed off when when I say this and I don't really care like listen don't listen like.

16:58.81
J. Aundrea
Ah, ah because they're listening to us.

17:01.25
Bruce Anthony
Ah, yeah, no, what I'm about to say next listen to us. Don't listen to us. It's unsolicited perspectives with Bruce Anthony so the show is you know my opinions and now I'm gonna say my opinions if you don't like my opinions move to hell on I don't really care. Um, he's the greatest Conor this this country has ever seen.

17:11.80
J. Aundrea
Period.

17:19.46
J. Aundrea
Yeah, that's not a hot tape.

17:20.37
Bruce Anthony
And well but there's a brilliance. So so he's he's laughed after being a buffoon and there is absolutely parts of him that is he's not. He's not a well-spoken man. He's not he doesn't exude any type of intelligence but he does have intelligence.

17:35.66
J. Aundrea
M.

17:39.78
Bruce Anthony
Because he has a pulse on people. He can read people and he can give people what they want and abundance and that's all he does to his supporters. He just keeps fee. He said he was out there talking about rig election. Ah gonna January Six wasn't that bad.

17:41.26
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

17:57.75
Bruce Anthony
He's going to get all those people out for January sixth when he is reelected all the policies that he had in place. He's going to be even more Stern because remember this is a due that won yeah people did down to well one person. What.

18:06.28
J. Aundrea
And let's be clear people died on January Sixth the lady was shot and in the neck I mean this to be clear to say it for him to say it wasn't that bad.

18:16.99
Bruce Anthony
Oh but that's their martyr though.

18:23.67
Bruce Anthony
Um I during and after yes, um, he's gonna give all the oh don't forget that this is the same man that talked about billing the border wall Mexico was gonna pay for it. It never happened. But.

18:25.96
J. Aundrea
Be clear that people died during and after in the aftermath of that. So.

18:42.91
J. Aundrea
He he said they finished it didn't just ah but I.

18:43.33
Bruce Anthony
There have been. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, no didn't even come close. Didn't even come close. This is also the same man. It's been documented. It was talking about when he was building the wall he was like hey can't we put like moats around it with water and alligators and and rattlesnakes.

19:01.32
J. Aundrea
Hell's his King Arthurs court no we can't put a no damp moat around the US yeah

19:03.80
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, this.

19:10.88
Bruce Anthony
It but he wanted alligators and rattlesnakes and all this type of stuff. Ah yes, yes, yes, grants your own question. Yes.

19:12.20
J. Aundrea
Now who is he Dr. evil yes, yeah, italy isn't always a point of finger is a pinky finger I don't know $1000000000000 like he's.

19:25.38
Bruce Anthony
There's a peyphilia. Yes.

19:29.91
J. Aundrea
Sounds like a villain from 1960 s Batman series I want to moat with alligators and sharks in it. First of all, we're talking about our aren't alligators freshwater sharks salt what this it can't work friend.

19:39.28
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah.

19:43.80
Bruce Anthony
I oh I forgot he did want to put sharks in there too. He wanted he wanted like sharks and Bob wire the electric fence and Bob wire and yes, he he wanted something that that the joker. Or the red layer would would put to Trap Batman and Robin in a 1960 s ah show with Adam West and Burt and Burt Ward

20:04.40
J. Aundrea
And this is how ignorant it is because the majority of undocumented people in this country came here by plane So the wall was gonna do nothing your stupid moat from Austin Powers thus the second one maybe.

20:12.80
Bruce Anthony
Um, yes, yes.

20:23.25
J. Aundrea
Not even the first Austin Powers The second one it was a stupid idea the whole thing's a stupid idea.

20:31.60
Bruce Anthony
We's He's a stupid smart man Idiot savant.

20:33.19
J. Aundrea
He is ah and he the new yorker described him is it Trump without the approval of his of the mob his mob would be just another angry old american man now I'm going to correct to this. He'd be just another angry old. American white man an unwilling florida retiree shouting at the television after a round of golf I mean that's essentially who he is except Cnn put him on television even though he spent his whole presidency shouting.

21:01.79
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

21:09.93
J. Aundrea
At the television and then quoting the television. But I think I think what.

21:16.57
Bruce Anthony
I'm a push back on one of your comments. You said you said an old white man. Let's be real. We know some black men who think a lot of what Trump said there's a lot of black people who won't vote for Trump because. They and I believe that he's a racist but that absolutely believe in in the majority of what he says. Yeah.

21:33.52
J. Aundrea
M.

21:41.53
J. Aundrea
That's fair I think I'm talking about white in the in the social context in the political sense that a lot of these grievances that he has are white grievances. Yeah, you're gonna find people who are.

21:49.34
Bruce Anthony
Um, okay.

21:54.90
Bruce Anthony
What? yeah.

21:58.81
J. Aundrea
Who are indoctrinated into white supremacy who also believe I mean you have now this rise of Neo -nazis of his but Tim Scott's a damn joke deal get and there's a meme a 10 scott going for a handshake and getting dised and I will never.

22:03.30
Bruce Anthony
Tim Scott

22:15.90
Bruce Anthony
Ah, yeah.

22:17.70
J. Aundrea
Never not laugh at that. It's the funniest thing i' have ever seen in my life or you gonna shake the way lady head. Okay, that's just funny thing I've ever seen in my life. Um, man you got my the you've made me lose my train of thought oh.

22:23.31
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, it is funny. It is funny Well, that's not really hard to do.

22:33.71
J. Aundrea
You you got the rise of of Neo -nazis of hispanic descent. Well let's not forget just because you hispanic Don me are not white but there is there is always going to be.

22:41.97
Bruce Anthony
That they don't that they think that they're white and in their home countries. They absolutely would be considered white. However, when you come to this country. You ain't white at all.

22:53.59
J. Aundrea
Um, right you not white sorry Ted Cruz

23:02.12
Bruce Anthony
Ah I'd be forgetting. Ted is Hispanic. Well yeah yeah yeah I thought it was cuban.

23:04.59
J. Aundrea
What is he's a white man of Latin Percent I think oh is he canadian.

23:20.53
Bruce Anthony
Oh no, yeah and yeah, don't care.

23:21.26
J. Aundrea
Who knows and also who cares. But yeah, there's always goingnna be people that are um, also bound up in white supremacist ideology and why not why? not? because honestly you you look at white people and they they're wealth. They got the wealth. They got the power. They got the vi of that you like okay that's the things that I want as well. So if this is what they believe why won't I believe that suit so I get it I get it? Um, yeah, if you want to survive.

23:44.50
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, and part of coming to this country is assimilating so exactly. Yeah.

23:55.89
J. Aundrea
That's why black people all black people speak 2 languages who we speak you stop code switching.

24:01.96
Bruce Anthony
Even though I kind of stopped I mean don't get me wrong I guess I still kind of a little bit but it's it is very minimal what what people see with me is what they get 1 because I'm just older and I just kind of really don't care what you think of me.

24:08.64
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

24:14.65
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, that part? Yeah, yeah, yeah, right? Yeah there.

24:20.75
Bruce Anthony
Because I like me I like me and most people like me so I'm gonna go with me and most people if there's a minority of people out there that don't like me they're wrong because everybody else does So so I'm cool with it. So I just say.

24:34.12
J. Aundrea
Right.

24:37.34
Bruce Anthony
What I want to say I may temper it down a little bit based on the situation and who I'm talking to because no matter what I'm still a six foot four £230 black man with a ball ahead and goee and tattoos so that in and of itself without me speaking is scary so I have to make sure that I don't.

24:49.20
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

24:54.79
Bruce Anthony
Come off with too much of a tone because then you call the cops on me and I get shot. But for the most part the context of what I'm saying and the tone of what I'm saying for the most part pretty much stays the same throughout whoever I'm talking to.

24:56.28
J. Aundrea
No.

25:07.82
J. Aundrea
Yeah I don't remember when professionally I stopped code switching. Um, but I did I did and I think it's I think just like you said it's a little bit of just like to change in times. But also I'm just older and I don't want to play that game anymore.

25:21.23
Bruce Anthony
I won't play that game I'm I'm tired of that game.

25:25.32
J. Aundrea
Yeah, do I speak a V I work I mean not really? um so is it but the way I'm talking to you now. This is how I talk you know if I could dip a little further into a V or I could move a little further into.

25:33.68
Bruce Anthony
Here. This is how we talk.

25:44.20
Bruce Anthony
The spectrum has shortened. It's not as vast as you used to be as shortened and I think that comes with age and just being like I don't I'm not I don't feel like doing it anymore.

25:44.65
J. Aundrea
Standard English or whatever you want to call it. Yes, right.

25:56.48
J. Aundrea
Yeah, now to as far as Cnn is concerned. Do you think now with what's happening over at Fox you know they got rid of Tucker. They're really kind of after they paid all out almost ah $800000000 really kind of moving away from this more inflammatory language so they're not they they haven't completely divorced themselves from from trump but they're not giving them as much of a platform as they used to the cnn sees the gap there and says.

26:23.97
Bruce Anthony
In.

26:32.49
J. Aundrea
We can pick that up and and we can get those ratings. Yeah.

26:38.57
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, okay so Fox News to me was always far right. Msnbc was always far left Cnn was like in the middle they can dependent on the show depending on who was hosting the show whether it was Jake Tapper who actually really liked ah Don Leman or anderson cooper it would go either.

26:44.57
J. Aundrea
It depends on the show.

26:55.62
Bruce Anthony
Kind of center right? or center left or kind of stay in the center now it's moving more center right? like more center right? and I think and I think that's for several reasons one like from what I could tell in the ratings and Msnbc is getting there but kicked in the ratings and it's let's be clear.

26:57.34
J. Aundrea
M.

27:15.24
Bruce Anthony
The reason why the Fox was able to employ and pay these people so much money is because conservatives typically have more money than liberals the more money you make generally speaking the more and more conservative you become because you want to protect your.

27:25.73
J. Aundrea
Ah.

27:30.80
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

27:33.98
Bruce Anthony
Position in in this social economic ah class that you've that you've attained um, that's like that old adage of you know when you're young, you're liberal when you get older you become more conservative. Well guess what as you grow older you get more money because so those 2 things go hand in hand.

27:38.64
J. Aundrea
Okay, and.

27:51.70
Bruce Anthony
So yes, Cnn is moving towards the right because there's more money and advertisement viewership and and ratings moving to the right than the left think about it Newsmax and oan are full fedged networks. It just popped up out of the blue.

28:01.46
J. Aundrea
Ah.

28:06.14
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

28:08.44
Bruce Anthony
And are fully funded and operational and all they espouse is extreme right? wing rhetoric and they're doing just fine somehow Mr Pillow is still rich people still buying his pillows why because he's out there.

28:23.57
J. Aundrea
Yeah, because those are America's pillows they're not great. They were never great pillows I'm be honest, they're filled with like um I think they're the little beads.

28:26.92
Bruce Anthony
Whatever, whatever I I don't know if I've ever had a Mr pillow.

28:38.51
J. Aundrea
I Don't know I don't know how much support they really give you I'll stay with my little Temper petic pillow.

28:42.10
Bruce Anthony
I don't know I don't be trusting them these pe yeah, but yes, yeah, Cnn's moving that way and that's the reason why I kind of stopped watching them. You know so ah now what I watch is Abc Cbs

28:49.30
J. Aundrea
Who.

28:59.23
Bruce Anthony
Or Nbc News because they give you the news.

28:59.58
J. Aundrea
Yeah. I don't watch anything I read the paper.

29:10.37
Bruce Anthony
Depending on what paper you write you reading or they writing do writing order reading whatever you know what? I'm trying to say I'm still speaking better than what Trump was doing last night and on that note I Trump like at at a certain point.

29:10.86
J. Aundrea
Yeah, where would they write no to reading or reading or writing it reading this fundamental.

29:27.84
Bruce Anthony
It's funny, but it's not yeah.

29:29.94
J. Aundrea
It's not is incredibly dangerous. He is an incredibly dangerous person. Um, and the fact that there is just really no one opposing him it within his own party.

29:42.10
Bruce Anthony
There are but they just kind of get pushed out of the party. Yeah.

29:45.54
J. Aundrea
Yeah, Dan though you know next thing you know you look up. They're an independent when when did that happen. Well I got excommunicated. Yeah.

29:51.53
Bruce Anthony
You know it's It's safer that way. It's safer that way. But yeah, we're and for another wild ride for this election cycle and we're going to be worse off for it.

30:07.16
J. Aundrea
Yeah, we definitely are.

30:16.32
Bruce Anthony
Our assist. Let's go from 1 liar to the next I boy our boy is back in the news he is back in the news.

30:19.50
J. Aundrea
My Boy listen we have so many shows dedicated to this rad that I literally was like is this the last we're gonna hear of him. No doubts that. My boy your boy to sentence. Ah, you love to hate him twice. Ah.

30:40.13
Bruce Anthony
George George George

30:47.65
Bruce Anthony
For those that don't know he was just indicted like we knew it was coming.

30:49.80
J. Aundrea
Oh Georgie I mean the the lies the lies. Yeah.

31:00.56
Bruce Anthony
We we knew it was coming ah I'll run down the the 3 main things all right? So there's a fraudulent political campaign solution. Ah solution scheme right? Ah I said that word wrong, but y'all know what the hell I'm talking about.

31:10.69
J. Aundrea
Yet.

31:17.28
Bruce Anthony
So basically this game was he told one of his um consultants to lie to donors and say that their donations were gonna be going to his political campaign When in fact, he was using it for personal stuff. Not.

31:25.86
J. Aundrea
Um.

31:36.00
Bruce Anthony
That personal business personal stuff like flights and clothes like he use it as his own petty cash that's number 1 The second one was his unemployment insurance fraud scheme. What is that you ask.

31:38.42
J. Aundrea
Close. Yeah yeah.

31:51.11
Bruce Anthony
My man was collecting one hundred and twenty Thousand dollars a year from a Florida investment firm but yet he filed for unemployment insurance and New York

31:58.55
J. Aundrea
I received more than $24000 in pandemic unemployment benefits.

32:08.79
Bruce Anthony
That's the pandemic money and then the kicker and this is the reason why Kevin Mccarthy didn't kind of put him on any committees because Kevin Mccarthy even though he wasn't shooting them down back in January and all this stuff when George Santos was really popping off December of January. Ah.

32:22.67
J. Aundrea
In.

32:25.94
Bruce Anthony
He didn't put him on any committees Cussin knew he was like oh you're about to get buried like I I know what's coming but you oh he was removed. Ok ah that's because twice.

32:29.41
J. Aundrea
Well, he was removed from all his committees already? Yeah yeah.

32:40.46
Bruce Anthony
He misled the house of representatives about his finances specifically in 2 financial disclosure forms. He followed as a candidate in May Twenty twenty during his first unsuccessful campaign Santels overstated one source of income while failing to disclose his investment firm's salary that that's what the indictment says.

32:57.84
J. Aundrea
Man.

32:59.29
Bruce Anthony
Okay, by the way I'm prefacing all of this but this is what's in the indictment and then we could talk about this press conference afterwards and in September Twenty Twenty two while running again. He allegedly again included falsehoods in his financial disclosure forms.

33:02.69
J. Aundrea
Yes.

33:16.78
Bruce Anthony
Santos is accused of lying and about earning seven hundred and fifty thousand dollars salary and between one and 5000000 in dividends from his company. The devoider organization falsely claimed to have a checking account that held between one hundred and two hundred and fifty thousand dollars and a saving this account with the positive between one and five million I mean he took a page out of Trump's book except Trump actually had some money. Ah so this is all what the indictment says. Oh.

33:45.76
J. Aundrea
Um, not to mention he still faces that criminal case in Brazil for check fraud.

33:51.85
Bruce Anthony
Okay I forgot about that I forgot about that.

33:59.51
J. Aundrea
He is an international player.

34:04.89
Bruce Anthony
Ah, so he gets indicted. He gets arrested. They bail him out. Of course, there's a news conference right outside now some people may not get this reference I Want you before I talk about his press conference to pause this.

34:05.00
J. Aundrea
Yeah, ah, Mark.

34:12.75
J. Aundrea
Ah.

34:21.40
J. Aundrea
Okay.

34:23.86
Bruce Anthony
Go on Youtube and watch Rocky five tommy guns winning um oh what did they call it press conference when he wins the when he wins the belt and his press conference just watch that clip and then come back and watch. And listen and watch this episode now I'm going talk about this press conference because in this press conference it mimic tommy guns press conference after he won a championship because in that clip on rocky five. All the reporters was like you fought a bum and they were laughing at him.

34:44.67
J. Aundrea
Get.

34:56.26
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

34:58.30
Bruce Anthony
This was the same thing that was happening in the George Santos because George Santos came out there where they started asking questions. He's like hold on I got a statement and the first thing he said was this is a witch hunt the first and the reporters started laughing. He started saying this is all lies. This is a witch hunt. They're out to get me.

35:08.61
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

35:18.19
Bruce Anthony
None of this is true and the reporters were literally laughing at him because they knew that he was. He had been indicted and he walked out and and kept lying like he legitimately has a mental illness because but it's it's a ridiculous.

35:31.13
J. Aundrea
Yeah, he's He's a habitual liar.

35:37.67
Bruce Anthony
Like even with Trump Trump lies but even when he lies there's as there's a kernel of some truth and his lie. It's never just like a ball face outright lie. There's there's a.

35:53.44
J. Aundrea
M.

35:56.77
Bruce Anthony
If if you dig deep enough in Trump's lies there's there's a there's a little kernel of truth was it was a election rigged absolutely not were all the votes correct though there were some fraudulent. There were some fraudulent votes but it just so happens that when they did the investigations. The fraudulent votes were most of time.

36:03.47
J. Aundrea
No yes.

36:16.35
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

36:16.51
Bruce Anthony
People that a republican voting twice are voting for dead people. So so there was a ker truth with sano there is no truth. There is no true, any continuous like what? what do you say today now. No on on I didn't hear about this today.

36:21.98
J. Aundrea
No well he finally told the truth today. Oh you didn't hear about this so he signed a deal with brazilian prosecutors today.

36:35.82
Bruce Anthony
How as you back you back on that prosecutor that Brazil case.

36:38.67
J. Aundrea
Because it's a final It's the first time he finally like admitted he confessed to the theft and agreed to pay restitutions and fines if prosecutors agreed to drop the criminal case against him. So so that's it. Finally of he proud told true. Okay, yeah yeah, I was right I was right? bad checks off let me get this off my back because I got some bigger ffrif frack. Yeah because I saw.

37:05.48
Bruce Anthony
Oh no, he's going to jail.

37:16.54
J. Aundrea
The documentation that he submitted of like these are the charges. These are the things I've spent money on during my campaign and the fact that everything was like $199 ninety nine cent so you didn't have to give her I mean has every meal every uber.

37:30.57
Bruce Anthony
Like everything everywhere.

37:35.28
J. Aundrea
Every time you went to staples. Ah every single time one Ninety Nine Ninety nine So that you didn't have to submit a receipt at least make up some other numbers right.

37:48.98
Bruce Anthony
Um, why couldn't it be 1 23 37 and and one seventy three 29 and

37:54.42
J. Aundrea
The prop is this is the difference between George Santos and Donald Trump George Santos has does not know how to finesse he has no finesse skills was he did which.

38:03.99
Bruce Anthony
Oh no, well he got elected.

38:13.10
J. Aundrea
Without any finess skills I don't I don't really know what say but constituency there I mean y'all he has 0 finess good because the lies are so egregious and so obvious and then that's why you get laughed at.

38:19.40
Bruce Anthony
Um.

38:25.88
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah, they I'm telling you'all go and watch that rocky 5 with Tommy Gunn does a press conference after winning the championship and then go back and watch George Santos

38:30.88
J. Aundrea
When you call it a witch hunt.

38:43.23
Bruce Anthony
The only reason why you can't say it is shot for shot is because we really can't see the reporters. We just hear them that there's no different camera angles where they're showing the reporters asking questions on George Santos Press conferenceers but trust me, you can you can hear it that they are.

38:47.79
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

38:59.83
Bruce Anthony
They are doing the exact same thing from the rocky fro rocky 5 press conference. It's hilarious. It's hilarious. They were literally laughing at him in his face and he was like some of you'all, not going to treat me fairly like bro like you ain't treating yourself fairly. You ain't treat yourself fairly.

39:02.21
J. Aundrea
But.

39:12.00
J. Aundrea
No.

39:17.45
Bruce Anthony
George Santos that's your boy I I really don't yeah, he has no finesse out of him and unfortunately he doesn't come from any type of legacy so he ain't getting out of this.

39:19.84
J. Aundrea
That's that's my boy terrible terrible human being.

39:31.48
J. Aundrea
No, no, there's no, there's no safety net to save him of like some aristocratic family or being a white man or.

39:35.19
Bruce Anthony
Because you.

39:46.88
J. Aundrea
Being actually rich or anything like there's nothing there's nothing there the typical things that get you out of trouble in America there's nothing there for him. No, you're you're going down for this. My friend.

39:55.74
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, because one and a clear example of this is like Matt gates and that scandal with the underage disappeared. Just absolutely.

40:05.60
J. Aundrea
Yeah, what happened to that in.

40:14.46
Bruce Anthony
Disappeared. He's got money. There's a legacy. There's a legacy that he has in Florida because his daddy is a big way in Florida that was going to go away and that was probably the reason why he was causing so much ruckus during ah the the the vote for the.

40:18.56
J. Aundrea
Then yeah.

40:30.77
Bruce Anthony
God I'm losing my train of thought today I sorry Hu yeah, thank you Jesus I don't know what's going on with me to day age I haven't been sleeping there weather the last couple of nights that's probably where there.

40:32.75
J. Aundrea
Um, fun the speak for speaker is the vote for speaker. Yeah, we started. We started this pi 15 years too late. Yeah. And but the news is days are so good. Yeah.

40:55.37
Bruce Anthony
Then a look the news keep content rowing people are like how many how how can you do? four shows a week easy. There's plenty of content. Yeah, that's ah, that's all I type in and I go on msn.com where it gives me all these different.

41:01.87
J. Aundrea
Um, we just opened the paper such a mess.

41:11.40
Bruce Anthony
Ah, Newspaper newspaper organizations give you so many different articles from different things throughout the the nation and the world I Just be like oh this is interesting. Go talk about this. That's that's a religious point and but well.

41:14.36
J. Aundrea
And. Yeah, this stuff you just close your eyes just point and there's the story. The story smack you in the face they are here.

41:30.88
Bruce Anthony
Yes, especially when George Santos is out there in the world that of really smack you in the face because he's clown number 1 Trump is he's surpassed Trump as far as clown is concerned because he's clown number one and I don't know what else to say about that my man.

41:34.91
J. Aundrea
Um, yes.

41:41.35
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

41:50.83
Bruce Anthony
You're going to jail.

41:51.94
J. Aundrea
There's a lovely ah opinion piece in the New York Times it says the scheme of Mr Santos the scheme Mr Santos is charged with is so flagrant so spectacularly dumb in both conception and execution. That the justice department clearly decided. It was a no brainer of a case and that that is George Santos in a nutshell. Ah.

42:14.44
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, it but it I would just leave it at that.

42:29.58
Bruce Anthony
Ah, before we end today's episode my sister had some I don't know I guess response to some videos I posted I posted 2 videos on the Instagram page our Tiktok page as well as our Youtube page they were Youtube shorts once again. Check us out on Youtube youtube.com backsized unsolicited perspectives ah on Tiktok at unsolicited underscore Pod P O D and on our Instagram at unsolicited perspectives. But so there was 2 things and I'm not Goingnna I'm not gonna rehashh where for word.

43:03.71
J. Aundrea
Do I yes.

43:06.30
Bruce Anthony
But the first one was paying on dates and what I basically said was and I and there was a question somebody questioned what does old school have to do with it and I didn't even respond back to it I said I'm an old school cat that I pay on the first date.

43:18.26
J. Aundrea
Yeah I think what you met was. You're a traditionalist. You're youre and what I took from your answer which was first date guy pays. That's traditionalist right.

43:33.83
Bruce Anthony
A.

43:37.35
J. Aundrea
And then subsequent dates whoever whoever asks for the date. That's the person that pays that's that kind of what i'mma call a neo traditionalist right? because ah, a standard like through and through traditionalist is. The man is gonna pay each time and there are people who are traditionalist men and women who are just like the man pays I take care of as I bring home the bacon the ladies are like okay okay, you know. So and then you guys are these neo traditionalists which are like I mean we we're not gonna split the bill. But if you invite me out. You can pay for me if that's what you know that's fine out every once in a while I might not be 100 % comfortable with it. But I'll let you do it. You want to pay for a round of drinks all right I like it. You know the whole point is I I didn't see anything wrong with what you said at all is it's the is the and I say this I've said this before is the fact that people with different value systems keep trying to get together.

44:45.69
Bruce Anthony
That.

44:48.84
J. Aundrea
You got a woman who is a complete traditionalist and a guy who is.

44:56.40
J. Aundrea
I Don't know I almost said cheap. It almost came right on out but but the put the the split the bill type. You know what? I'm saying just.

45:07.36
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, what I means that wouldn't consider that cheap to split the build. Ah cheap is you You got me right.

45:14.65
J. Aundrea
I saw ah Tiktok today and the brother sat there at the table and they looked at they were at some place like Applebee's or something and he was eating a steak right in front of the lady and he invited he to want slid in her Dms he invited her out on a date. She must have said well let's go get something to eat assuming that he was going to pay because he's the one that asked for the date she suggested well let's go get something eat. He's like no you pay for yourself and he literally sat there. Ate a steak right in front of her and he was like you'll handle Biden and cash at you some money.

45:36.73
Bruce Anthony
Ah, right.

45:50.60
J. Aundrea
She was like I thought you were playing but you are really seriously eating your like this that to me that's a mess. Okay.

46:00.88
Bruce Anthony
Look dating is hard. A friend of mine hit me up earlier today. Don't worry I'm not gonna put your name out there friend of mine hit me up earlier today and it wet my bestie I know that's what people are gonna think he's talking about his bestie. No, it's another friend of mine I have several female that are simply just friends of mine.

46:17.71
J. Aundrea
We got friends. It's not just the 2 of us.

46:20.42
Bruce Anthony
Right? No, but it it I have some people out there I have some people out there that are of my age group who are so toxic masculine that they can't understand.

46:26.79
J. Aundrea
M.

46:36.45
Bruce Anthony
You have females that are just your friends I mean you ain't trying to smash. No, they're just my friends like I genuinely dig them for their person like that's ah that's a thing.

46:40.29
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, because because mostly are and I heard a guy say this and it's so true, mostly all for the first fifteen sixteen years a year life didn't smash nobody you telling me, you can't yeah.

46:56.57
Bruce Anthony
Nope not a 1

46:59.45
J. Aundrea
You can't have a friend for a couples with the whole first part your life just being friends.

47:05.57
Bruce Anthony
Right? Just being friends but maybe but maybe wanting to smash those. So maybe that's where the disconnect counts. Ah I don't know I don't think I had any.

47:10.14
J. Aundrea
When you were you wasn't thinking about that you was just playing tiball.

47:18.88
Bruce Anthony
Did I have any female friends when I was eight I don't know. But anyway so she hits me up and she was like can I ask your advice about something I was like yeah sure, what's up she was like which one are you are you a secure attachment person or anxious attachment person I was like. I Don't know what that is you got to break it down for me.

47:36.90
J. Aundrea
Now I've told you several times what kind of attachment style you have I'm not gonna put you on blasts but don't act like don't act like you got a secure attachments. Yeah.

47:43.60
Bruce Anthony
But I would put myself on glass I'm gonna put myself about yeah so secure attachment is somebody who's secureing himself doesn't really get Jealous doesn't really like. Like stress over the the person that they're with actions or moods or anything like that. They're even killed. They're secure and anxious. Ah anxious attachment is they're always that person is always on edge. They're an overthinker.

47:59.75
J. Aundrea
Right? right? yeah.

48:13.10
Bruce Anthony
Analyze and absolutely everything. They're never comfortable and they're often a people please her I'm absolutely an anxious attachment person and all stems from childhood. It does everything goes, but it ah okay okay I run from them after.

48:21.40
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah I have an avoidant attachment style I run from people like the plague. Yeah yeah.

48:31.81
Bruce Anthony
Things and but then you can't get 1 word from me like okay Bruce can you talk to me? No I'll never talk to you again. 1 of my ex-girlfriends I dated for three years three years we broke up a month or two later we're in the gym working out.

48:35.13
J. Aundrea
Great.

48:42.43
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

48:48.19
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

48:51.39
Bruce Anthony
She had been trying to get together with me be friends I was like that's not gonna be a thing. We're not gonna be friends so we're in the gym I see her out the corner my eye I walk right past her as she later years later. Ah.

48:53.53
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

49:03.50
J. Aundrea
Um.

49:06.36
Bruce Anthony
She was in she was visiting a friend in a building I lived and recognized my car because I had a superman symbol on my car and was like I I thought that was your car that you lived there. How are you doing I was like I'm fine. How are you doing She was like I'm surprised that you responded back because last time I saw you walked right past me in the gym and so I decided to stop bothering you and I was like.

49:10.90
J. Aundrea
And.

49:24.48
J. Aundrea
Do yeah yeah.

49:25.25
Bruce Anthony
You damn right? There was nothing to talk about so that's who I am but anyway so she was telling me about this date that she went on last night and or yesterday and she was like it was really fine. It was really cool. He paid which I thought was really generous because I was like wait a minute this is your first date right? She's like yeah.

49:40.90
J. Aundrea
Amazing.

49:44.19
Bruce Anthony
There's this new generation of people and she's not young young. She's 30 She's about to turn 34 um so she's not young young right she's not a complete genzeer. Um, yeah, that's still millennial. But there's these new cats out here and that's one of my.

49:54.93
J. Aundrea
Now I will say that's still millennial.

50:04.90
Bruce Anthony
That's one of the points I was trying to make in my clip was these young cats out here is really like either split to check on the first date or ah, you pay on the first date. And then in retrospect I got to think about it because the way they're dating is completely different than the way I dated when I was their age There was no such thing as online dating right? So you can have a guy the black awareness rally.

50:22.91
J. Aundrea
Um, right, you met in the library. There's good girls there or or black awareness rather that's where I'm going. There's some good girl. Good clean girl. She.

50:34.52
Bruce Anthony
She it she I so in this new age of online dating one of my old roommates I used to call fifty first dates because he was always going the first date with a girl and I was like this.

50:38.41
J. Aundrea
It. M.

50:47.86
J. Aundrea
And.

50:51.53
Bruce Anthony
Really expensive to always be going on a first date for a guy if you're a traditionalist. Yes, that's really expensive. So if in this new age of dating if you're doing a whole bunch of first dates from a dating app right? and and it can just be like a meta with a drink.

50:55.38
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

51:08.42
Bruce Anthony
With the girl here I had lunch with a girl here I had coffee with a girl here and it was all in one week that adds up so at a certain point you kind of be like no, we're gonna split this cause I don't I don't know what this is yet.

51:09.95
J. Aundrea
All right? yeah. Right? And I think that's fair I Also think that that's fair I Don't think that there's any wrong answer and and that's what I want to get up now that was wrong because he wouldn't take her home.

51:26.42
Bruce Anthony
There's no right or wrong. Well no, what my man did at Applebee is that was wrong. Okay.

51:33.69
J. Aundrea
So she really didn't have no choice but to sit there and watch this man eat in her face which was like we really should she had no money she had no money and she said I told you this and so I was expected.

51:41.66
Bruce Anthony
She had no money though she had no more. A.

51:52.57
J. Aundrea
You're to want to slid in my Dms. But again, that's 2 people with 2 different value systems because the first thing he said well I'm just tired these os always in my pocket. First of all, it's always the brokes people that say that? yeah it you and 20

52:02.76
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, cause they went to Applebee's or or outback steakhouse or you know Hu.

52:09.77
J. Aundrea
They have that there at whatever those little chain restaurants. They got some sort of 2 for 20 You can get an appetizer to entres and a dessert 20 hours get stay? Yeah yeah.

52:13.54
Bruce Anthony
E.

52:19.20
Bruce Anthony
Look I lived I lived on 2 for 20 if ruby Tuesday ruby tuesdays had it a 2 for 20 I lived off of that 2 for 20 apple beees had something like that too. Yeah, that do for 20

52:27.89
J. Aundrea
Yes, you could get like come on now. Yeah you get you to for 20 You can get you to the Jack Daniels rips you get you get you a nice look. You have a nice little evening for $20

52:37.12
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

52:41.53
Bruce Anthony
Nice little evening but yet I saw some ticktok and and this woman broke it down and basically what she was saying is too many people what you're saying too many people with different value systems trying to get together. But I'm go be. We're honest I'm past at the dating.

52:53.30
J. Aundrea
Yes.

52:59.89
Bruce Anthony
Game that these kids are in now because I'm older but I wouldn't even like with my friend I wouldn't even know how to give her advice on you know how do you break down. Ah, how do you ask somebody about what their value system is when you're getting into getting to know them initially.

53:02.25
J. Aundrea
Ah, yeah.

53:16.60
J. Aundrea
But it's It's such an important question to ask.

53:18.70
Bruce Anthony
Because if you get asked to it is but you can ask it in a wrong way that can completely like if somebody asked me hey what type of what type of person and you what type of value system. Do you have and like what are you talking about like like do you do you believe that the man should pay.

53:30.99
J. Aundrea
M.

53:37.62
Bruce Anthony
My initial answer would be like no because when you asked the question that way is like should he pay pay like how all the time like you, you need to be a little bit more specific so like to pay on the first date. Yeah boo I got you on the first date because odds that's not always the case.

53:45.73
J. Aundrea
Yeah, that's the conversation though. It.

53:56.97
Bruce Anthony
Ah, was about to say eyes are I came at them but that has not been the case the last couple of times the last few times not not. You know, not pattting myself on the back but you know sometimes you know sometimes people be interested. But anyway, but.

53:57.89
J. Aundrea
M. Yeah.

54:08.12
J. Aundrea
And and and sometimes I'll I'll pay because I don't like where this date is going and I'll be like okay you know what? I'm just gonna get to check real quick.

54:17.16
Bruce Anthony
Yo yeah to get out of it real fast. Well I have people laugh at me I actually have a lemon rule. The lemon rule is we It's always drinks I don't do dinner dates like we have to be together before I do dinner dates I Just I don't like dinner dates.

54:25.65
J. Aundrea
Was 11 rule. M.

54:37.60
Bruce Anthony
Um, so it's always drinks. Um, and I know within the first five minutes of that first drink whether I want to continue on with this or not if I can carry a conversation if I need to carry the conversation I don't want to carry a conversation. Um.

54:43.88
J. Aundrea
Yeah. Breath.

54:54.78
Bruce Anthony
If there's no sense of humor that it come that's coming out of you. You could be hollyberrry becauseine knows hollyberry is my number one. Well actually even Mendez is my number 1 overall Draft pick now. Ah, but even Mendez or Holly Berry you could be 1 Ah, what's what's wrong with the way I phrased it.

55:07.78
J. Aundrea
Don't like the way you phrase that but go ahead, not your Draft pick that's terrible. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

55:12.26
Bruce Anthony
Like them my number one someone no okay Draft pick I guess that is the my number 1 pick my number 1 pick all right like if that's my dream woman. Um, now you made me lose my training thought.

55:24.55
J. Aundrea
You said you could be hallieberry. But if there's no humor.

55:27.83
Bruce Anthony
Right? If there's no humor then I'm not interested I need to move on if you can make me laugh. You got a shot you got a shot so like I know within the first five minutes of I'm gonna continue on with this so I applore everybody have a lemon rule.

55:36.18
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, it.

55:42.93
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

55:45.59
Bruce Anthony
Not specifically my standards but have your own standards is like okay these are things that I have to have if if anything is going to be anything like these are bare minimum if they don't have this within the first five to 10 minutes that first drink.

55:53.57
J. Aundrea
M.

56:03.19
Bruce Anthony
Time to go ahead Andate maybe we could be friends friendly, but we can't be together.

56:04.67
J. Aundrea
Yeah, my the way I know whether or not I'm gonna continue to pursue something as I show him fear of a black hat and if they do not laugh. At all the parts I laugh at just forget it get out of my house. Honestly, no no that if you don't laugh at all the parts because.

56:28.59
Bruce Anthony
Let's update that movie. You should update it to black dynamite.

56:38.74
J. Aundrea
I Like fear of a black hat because most people haven't seen it a lot of people haven't seen it. It is a very obscure movie.

56:41.33
Bruce Anthony
This true. Well, it's a C. It's either C before copied that or it copied C before but this the same thing. Okay so see before copied that. Yeah, but it's it's a it's a low budget C before watch it. It's hilarious.

56:53.41
J. Aundrea
Fear of a black hat came first? Yes, so yes, yes, it is much funnier than see before if you don't laugh at every part.

57:04.77
Bruce Anthony
It's funnier than see before.

57:10.83
Bruce Anthony
Have.

57:12.31
J. Aundrea
I laugh at we're not going to work out because it's a hundred percent my humor it is the kind of humor that I like gay it if you don't think it's funny. We're not. It's not going to work.

57:26.46
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I read it's not. It's not gonna work. It's not gonna work and who introduced you to fear to black hat. That's right, That's right big bro did that big bro and it don't don't don't don't don't judge it by that.

57:31.50
J. Aundrea
It's not gonna Work. You did yeah and that is the scale by which I judge everyone I did. So yeah, if you know yeah.

57:47.68
Bruce Anthony
And don't judge it by that because let me tell you ah you know in my twenty s oh god yo I I wonder what the 20 year old me would think of of the forty plus year old me.

58:04.81
J. Aundrea
I think ah 20 year old Johnna would think I'm dope as hell she be like wait a minute. We got our own place and a dog and like yeah, that's all we wanted. That was all we want is says we did it.

58:10.18
Bruce Anthony
Um, ah.

58:17.42
Bruce Anthony
Um.

58:21.43
Bruce Anthony
Well over ah are are folks. That's our time for the say ah it was all a dream. Ah, all right? J What do you want? Tell the people out there.

58:21.79
J. Aundrea
Ah, we did it.

58:25.00
J. Aundrea
But I had I had simple dreams. Yeah listen ask. On that as you're getting to know someone ask them what their values are ask them.. It's okay, you don't have to ask it like a dick but you know ask them what their values are say hey you know what kind of person are you are you? ah.

58:46.51
Bruce Anthony
Room there.

59:01.69
J. Aundrea
We split everything or we do everything fifty fifty are you more of a traditionalist like what's your kind of what's your vibe like what's your get and if that doesn't align with your own values. Let that and I'm gonna say it shit go. Because it really was and you know what audience I'm sorry but this was a it was a a hell of a news day. Okay, but let it go it doesn't matter how fine that person is you just go end up aggravating the hell out of each other.

59:21.24
Bruce Anthony
That's like 6 shits during this episode by the way there.

59:28.97
Bruce Anthony
Here I.

59:36.11
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

59:39.57
J. Aundrea
Let it go there's there's no wrong answer. It's fine if you're fifty fifty it's fine if you're one hundred zero it's fine if you're seventy thirty it doesn't matter what it is. It's fine. Find somebody. That's also that thing ask those questions don't be scared to ask those questions because you just go end up wasting your time.

59:50.32
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

59:57.90
J. Aundrea
And then you're gonna try to be working it out with somebody who you're not even supposed to be with and there's a couple of y'all out there. That's not supposed to be with who you with right now break up with them. Yeah, and you know it and you just don't want to go back out there dating again. But there's somebody waiting in the wings that want to get with you.

01:00:03.75
Bruce Anthony
What.

01:00:13.80
Bruce Anthony
No.

01:00:15.30
J. Aundrea
Ah, you blocking your blessing by being with that person that's aggravating the hell out of you every day break up with them.

01:00:18.84
Bruce Anthony
And on that note, our holler.