The player is loading ...
Sign up to get updates from us
Dive into the extraordinary world of Marilyn Notmonroe in this captivating two-part series on Unsolicited Perspectives with Bruce Anthony. In Part 2, Marilyn shares her remarkable journey beyond the adult entertainment industry, highlighting her deep love for animals, her passion for fitness, and her foray into content creation.
Join us as Marilyn discusses her transition out of the adult industry, finding solace in working with animals and gardening, and her dedication to personal growth through fitness, including her pursuit of a personal training certification. Explore her experiences reentering the sex work industry, particularly in the dominatrix space, all while maintaining a strong emphasis on professionalism.
Marilyn encourages you to follow her on social media, including Twitter, TikTok, and Instagram, where she offers a glimpse into her daily life and vibrant personality. Her journey is a testament to resilience, reinvention, and the pursuit of one's passions. Stay connected with Marilyn and be inspired by her adventures.
Don't miss out on Marilyn Notmonroe's inspiring story and her future endeavors, including her plans to open an animal rescue and continue building her personal brand. Click here to find all the links to Marilyn Notmonroe social media. https://linktr.ee/notmonroe5.0?utm_source=linktree_profile_share<sid=4b88a422-c4ea-4924-888c-3f8cc7892f3e #MarilynNotmonroe #LoveForAnimals #FitnessPassion #ContentCreation #ResilienceAndReinvention
www.unsolictedperspectives.com
Ready to shop better hydration, use my special link https://zen.ai/unsolicitedperspectives2 to save 20% off anything you order.
About The Guest(s):
Marilyn Notmonroe is a former adult film actress and current sex worker. She has a background in culinary arts and is passionate about fitness and gardening. Marilyn has a strong online presence, particularly on Twitter, where she shares links to her various platforms and engages with her followers.
Summary:
Marilyn Notmonroe shares her experiences transitioning out of the porn industry and finding solace in working with animals and gardening. She discusses her passion for fitness and her pursuit of a personal training certification. Marilyn also talks about her journey back into the sex work industry, particularly in the dominatrix space, and the importance of finding what works for oneself. Throughout the interview, she emphasizes the importance of treating sex work as a job and maintaining a professional mindset.
Key Takeaways:
Quotes:
Thank you for tuning in to 'Unsolicited Perspectives.' We hope you enjoyed this episode featuring unique and authentic views on current events, social-political topics, race, class, and gender. Stay engaged with us as we continue to provide insightful commentary and captivating interviews. Join us on this journey of exploration and thought-provoking conversations, and remember, your perspective matters!
00:02.11
Bruce Anthony
Welcome First of all welcome. Thank you for listening and watching unsolicited perspectives I'm your host Bruce Anthony on today's episode it will be part 2 of my interview with miss Marilyn not Monroe. We're going to continue on with her leaving the porn industry. Her living life and then her reentering the sex work industry and everything in between. But first things first.
41:15.52
Bruce Anthony
Okay, so okay so I got it so you love working with animals obviously ah, you wear a cocktail waitress but then you switch jobs once covid hit you got 2 dogs 2 cats.
41:27.54
Marilyn Notmonroe
Anger.
41:31.67
Bruce Anthony
But you also like is it gardening or.
41:35.00
Marilyn Notmonroe
My well so my Grandma's teaching me gardening I I wish I myself could keep a play alive. Um I mean on my own I haven't tried it yet. We're gonna hold no I've tried a few times but we're gonna try it again now I just haven't made it I haven't.
41:40.35
Bruce Anthony
You know.
41:48.61
Bruce Anthony
Okay.
41:53.90
Marilyn Notmonroe
Haven't gotten to that step yet in life. You know I don't know if I'm ready for that commitment just yet my boyfriend got me some practices and I'm doing a decent job at keeping those alive right now.
41:59.83
Bruce Anthony
Because the cactuses I could keep I I kill plants all the time too. But I can keep a cactus alive that's easy. All you gotta do is water it every now and then yeah this is true. This is very very true.
42:10.56
Marilyn Notmonroe
I Have cats though. Yeah yeah, yes, cats like to eat plants. Um, but yes I do Garden with my with my grandma.
42:20.20
Bruce Anthony
Okay, what are some other things that you enjoy in life.
42:24.60
Marilyn Notmonroe
Oh the gym. The gym is like everything to me that would light up my alarm. Sorry.
42:32.95
Bruce Anthony
Sorry about that. So the gym is ah so the gym is everything to you? Um, what got you into fitness.
42:41.37
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, well I always wanted to get into fitness but I had a lot of stuff going On. Um and I would like start to and then I would you know like like a lot of people is like you start a hobby for a little bit and then you're like and whatever and you stop. But um. Pretty much like once I found out that if I had Pcs I had to stay fit I had to get under a certain weight to like make my symptoms go away so like my die my exercise all that kind of stuff. So Even though like I wasn't actively always in the gym.
43:01.62
Bruce Anthony
M.
43:11.87
Marilyn Notmonroe
I still like would go at least like you know like stupid little shit if it's Pallati's class yoga. Whatever I would try to at least hit like 2 to 3 things a week just to keep myself physically active like other than working um, but I didn't know anything about it like I mean I would just I'd have to go somewhere and like you know, but I would.
43:20.70
Bruce Anthony
Um, just stay active. Yeah.
43:29.78
Marilyn Notmonroe
Like I did so that was cool because I have like pretty muscular body so it looked like I knew what the hell I was doing.
43:33.52
Bruce Anthony
Hey, look as somebody who was in the fitness industry and it somebody who all the time you know I have people and say push you look great and I'm like no y'all't see me with my shirt off There's some things that I can approve here that like where are harsh harshest critic. The fact that you are. So body positive and that you don't have that dysmorphia where you you're working out and you look great, but you still find these little things like now look that great. The first thing that you will hold on the first thing that the the reason why I said there's the first thing that you said was I look good.
44:10.34
Marilyn Notmonroe
Oh yeah, oh definitely.
44:11.98
Bruce Anthony
That's the first thing that you said most people will will say if somebody says to you hey you look good. You're not going to say well I got this to fix this to fix this a fix. That's what I'm talking about doesn't seem like you had that complex and that's ah, that's a healthy mindate to have it seems like. With all the things you've done in your life getting out of that toxic relationship finding out. What was what was wrong with you physically loving animals because animals give us such joy and working out has really made you like this you the glow up is for rail for real.
44:46.96
Marilyn Notmonroe
And it's a glow up I mean like it took a lot to get here. But it's got its issues but no, it's ah and working out now I know what I'm doing when I work out by the way because.
44:56.82
Bruce Anthony
Yasing your videos for out like okay all right I see I see him she doing all right now you yeah there getting in.
45:00.79
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yeah, no, it's ah you'll see a link on there soon I'm I like signed up to do my personal training certification. So like this is something that like now is it is my hobby like I I enjoy it.
45:10.25
Bruce Anthony
Of of course you did there, you go.
45:13.52
Marilyn Notmonroe
And I want to help other women with Pcls like but I'm still figuring out my damn self. That's a thing like I don't even know what worked for me two years ago it's not really working now. But it's okay so.
45:23.22
Bruce Anthony
What I will say and this is what I tell people all the time that fitness and especially when you become a personal trainer. It's a science but it's not a easy equation where you could just plug and play. It's an ever evolving thing so everybody's body changes and you can write a program but you have to adjust that program and what will work for 1 person won't necessarily work for another person I get agitated I'm not about to get on my soapbox but I have to say this I get agitated when I go on Instagram and I see these. Fitness influences I put that into quotation marks for those in the audio podcast they come up with these workouts right? and they say for everybody and it's like that one. What is the goal of this workout. How does that fit into an overall program does that fit with whatever person that's gonna be using this particular workout.
46:01.26
Marilyn Notmonroe
For everybody.
46:17.70
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, it may make them tired but that doesn't necessarily mean that that's going to get them results. Um, so that's ah what you when you say that what worked for you two years ago doesn't work for you now that's the constant evolution of the body and you'll figure it out. Um I have to change up my workout every six weeks because my body gets used to it even with progressive overload. My body gets used to it and I've got to change it right now I'm in my bulk phase but I'm about to hit into my cut phase and there are 2 dramatically different things the way I eat the exercises I do completely different so you'll figure it out. But I love the fact that you had this. Thirst for knowledge and that you're like I'm gonna go get my certification I know you're gonna go get it because you already you're already taking care of dogs. You went to culinary school you you Maryland 3 jobs. That's your new nickname. It's not Marilyn not Monroe. It's Marilyn three jobs. So you out there hustling.
47:15.26
Marilyn Notmonroe
I Try I mean yeah I try but the main reason of the personal training certification. Honestly, it's because I started paying a personal training or everything but I then I went to the doctor and they told me that like you know I had early onset Arthritis in my left knee. Um I. May have fallen off a pole at once spun time and I never went to the doctor you know as most young people. Do you hurt yourself, but you don't think about it twice and so it's like yeah I was doing this workouts and everything but it's like I feel like I just had it wasn't it was geared more to like I don't know not towards me.
47:36.41
Bruce Anthony
Okay.
47:48.76
Bruce Anthony
He minutes.
47:50.27
Marilyn Notmonroe
Like I need to take my time for my body because I was just finding issues and I was I was having a lot of health issues this past year and it turned out that it was gut issues but I didn't know and so like I needed to take back and like reassess and like learn things for myself and so I'm like okay I'm like I'm paying someone I'm like or I can just take $1000
47:57.90
Bruce Anthony
A.
48:09.74
Marilyn Notmonroe
And pay and learn it myself for me and figure out what the hell works for me which is like what I'm doing now and then I can use this as a safer work link and use. What's going on in my own life to help other women because like.
48:15.14
Bruce Anthony
In here.
48:27.22
Marilyn Notmonroe
I Know that like I'm not the only person that's having all these issues like there's just no damn like no way and so it's like I can use all of this to help other women. Yeah.
48:28.57
Bruce Anthony
Are right.
48:38.60
Bruce Anthony
I Love it I Love it. This is ah this is a weird transition and there's no easy. There's no easy way for me to transition back to this is it's just no easy way for me to do it So and let's let's get into it so during covid.
48:54.41
Bruce Anthony
Um, when did I so I reached out to you a year ago so that was 2022 I probably found you you probably popped up on my Instagram feed in 20 probably 2022 or 2021 at that time you weren't doing.
48:58.49
Marilyn Notmonroe
Ah, yes.
49:13.54
Bruce Anthony
Any sex work that I know of but you gradually got back into it where you you weren't stripping or anything like that. No because it was covered everything was closed right.
49:14.60
Marilyn Notmonroe
Now.
49:25.85
Marilyn Notmonroe
Now I was bartening. That's when I started bartending at a like ah a pool hall and yeah.
49:29.85
Bruce Anthony
Right? That's what I remember Yes so when did you start to get because you didn't go I don't know for sure or not if you went back to dancing but you did go Back. You did go back into sex work and it started with. Wasn't only fans but it was something similar to social media kind of promotion. Okay, Okay so what made you transition back into that.
49:54.60
Marilyn Notmonroe
He has um like lifetime snaps. Yeah.
50:03.60
Marilyn Notmonroe
Well so I was like running a bar um in bartending and you know I mean again making like good. It was. It was honestly it was crazy. It was crazy time like covid. It was just it was nuts I think that was like my mental breakdown or like my. Midlife crisis right? there or something um because I never wanted to go back into like the nightlife like that like I enjoyed my enjoyed my normal shit like you know like this is dealing with like a whole different caliber of people. Honestly, it was worse than the strip club like ah like Friday and Saturday nights it used to get pretty crazy there. But so I was.
50:18.77
Bruce Anthony
Okay.
50:26.25
Bruce Anthony
Right.
50:34.75
Bruce Anthony
Um.
50:37.69
Marilyn Notmonroe
Working there and I met somebody like ah I became friends with a girl who also did that kind of stuff and she put me onto snapchat and is like just like extra side money but it was hard to stay consistent with it because I was also running a bar and like even your days off like.
50:51.13
Bruce Anthony
Right.
50:55.39
Marilyn Notmonroe
You were there like there was always some kind of issue I mean you're talking about a place where people just do what the hell ever like and you're managing a bunch of girls that are 2021 and it's like me I try to like mother people and be like no what are you doing like you're stupid like no like don't be done and it was just I like.
50:59.76
Bruce Anthony
Room there.
51:08.16
Bruce Anthony
Right.
51:14.70
Marilyn Notmonroe
Pretty much interjected myself so hard for into that bar um to fill whatever really Hell Void was going on in my own life. And yeah so I didn't really do snapchat for too long, but then there was a shooting and I quit the bar. Ah yeah, well yeah, it's just.
51:15.53
Bruce Anthony
E.
51:28.74
Bruce Anthony
That'll do it.
51:32.18
Marilyn Notmonroe
They didn't listen to me and I knew like the crowd was getting rougher and rougher and we didn't have security so it was like for me it was just there's too many different other incidences and like that was the last one like I was like Nope Nope Nope No like I've not died like that's the thing I was like my life is not worth this like to make money for somebody else or to make it.
51:43.15
Bruce Anthony
Um, there.
51:50.43
Marilyn Notmonroe
$400 on a Friday night like cash like fuck that like my life is worth so much more and so I got back into the snapchat thing and then started only fans because I'm like okay I'm like I'm not dumb anymore like I went through that whole young and dumb phase but I've always said like if I knew what I knew.
51:51.78
Bruce Anthony
There.
52:02.61
Bruce Anthony
And.
52:09.41
Marilyn Notmonroe
Know now what I knew then like I could do better and in this time there was no crappy boyfriend or you know like anybody to take advantage of me like everything's on my own damn terms. So I decided to start only fans this time last year into like ah.
52:12.46
Bruce Anthony
Um.
52:25.90
Marilyn Notmonroe
And I also went back to working at the place that I worked originally so like I went back because I had a good rapport with him and ah back to cocktail serving and I was supposed to Barton but I started an only fan so I really just never wore turques like one day a week.
52:28.88
Bruce Anthony
Here.
52:40.70
Bruce Anthony
Right? Um, and we're out of Covid at this point so out of Covid. Yeah yeah.
52:42.40
Marilyn Notmonroe
But still in like that's the thing there's still some places that still have those like limitations so like waitressing is not the same that it used to be or like a lot of restaurants. It's not the same like the bars are but a lot of people order it now like it's just not the same family restaurants are like the cocktail serving like.
52:55.66
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.
53:01.47
Marilyn Notmonroe
It was just it wasn't or maybe it was good I don't know but I think that then I started realizing like the stuff that I was doing I'm like this is not worth the wear and tear my body like no.
53:11.84
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah, late nights hard sleeping. Ah.
53:15.82
Marilyn Notmonroe
And getting talked to like you're not shit like I went back and I remember like my manager and I was no longer the manager myself I was no longer in charge and like my radiator died or something like some shit happened or my all share went out I don't know and like I actually like called instead of calling out I was like hey I'm coming in but I'm coming late. Or whatever I'll be there and I get there and he yell at me for being late and I was like excuse me I'm like I could have called out because anybody in their R I would have called out and he's like well you couldve taken an uber I'm like no that whole life couldn't have I'm like I live like way too like but just what the fuck are you? You're not my dad like and that's what I was like I'm done working for people because and if you look around.
53:39.84
Bruce Anthony
Credit.
53:46.84
Bruce Anthony
Now.
53:54.84
Marilyn Notmonroe
Most people are miserable but I was like they're just all miserable like I don't want to beat you I used to want to do this shit I'm like I don't because I was miserable managing a bar and I'm like and that's all there is in this shit. It's just you're working for other people to make them money. You're putting these horrible hours like in and.
53:55.22
Bruce Anthony
A.
54:04.49
Bruce Anthony
Um.
54:11.23
Marilyn Notmonroe
For what you're missing holidays. You miss everything with your family. My poor animals I have all these animals at home because I can't be around them I think I know but like know because but I was like I need to get another what I was literally I get a big dog I'm like too and I probably.
54:12.30
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, this is true. Right? They That's the reason why they got all the little friends if they got their own little groups you about to get enough. You were about to get another dog. It was gonna be 3 dogs and 2 cats with which which would have meant that you would have had to get another cat.
54:33.74
Marilyn Notmonroe
I know I know well.
54:37.51
Bruce Anthony
All right? So So you you start with the only fans I've heard different experiences with only fans what has been your experience with only fans and and we don't have to get into raw numbers. You don't have to tell me numbers but just like only fans cut and. How was it for you. Finance was it worth it was it not worth it was it better to to do your own private thing which was snap or was it better to go through a pet a platform. Um.
55:05.55
Marilyn Notmonroe
On Well no I mean honestly snap like that was very short lis and like I don't even like I don't even I'm not even I don't even fuck around with that shit really? Ah so for me, only fans has been amazing. Like I said it really allowed me to become who I am like.
55:12.31
Bruce Anthony
Are.
55:19.54
Bruce Anthony
Okay.
55:21.85
Marilyn Notmonroe
Is no doubt about that like it and people like it's weird because a lot of people that like know that I from like where I live but know what I'm doing now and like you know it's like oh I can't believe she's doing that I'm like dude I'm like I am literally the happiest I've ever fucking been and I mean I have my moments but this last year a lot of shit happened. And if I was working a regular job I I probably would be in like I probably would not be okay, mentally at all because it's like doing this allowed me to figure shit out like um, mentally physically with my body like i.
55:50.00
Bruce Anthony
You.
55:55.28
Marilyn Notmonroe
Like be able to Barton having like knee issues and like just like everything. My body was inflamed like really bad to where like my bones like felt like they were breaking a lot I had a lot of stomach issues like working for other people I wouldn't be able to do that but working for myself but only fans I was able to like figure out what's going on with me and I mean and if you put like.
56:01.19
Bruce Anthony
Oh wow.
56:09.71
Bruce Anthony
Are.
56:13.86
Marilyn Notmonroe
If you put work into it. You're gonna get it out like you can't just assume like hey I'm hot I'm gonna quit my job and I'm gonna sign up for only fans and I'm gonna make money like no, you gotta be on different sites. You gotta figure it out. You gotta promote yourself. You gotta get people interested in you So that's really.
56:25.40
Bruce Anthony
M.
56:29.54
Marilyn Notmonroe
All It's been is just like figuring out what works for me and I mean I've had so many pages cut out like ah where I can't promote myself anymore and I have to start over again. But I'm figuring it out as I go and I'm making like I'm comfortable I'm comfortable enough to not do anything else and to fully focus on this.
56:45.42
Bruce Anthony
So you are 100% only fans right now.
56:51.60
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, yes, only fans in Cammy so I have now figured out like a different avenue that I am just like oh I like this. Why did I not know this existed It's so great. Um, cammy is freaking. Awesome. It's almost like I'm at a bar but I get to be men mean. That mean to men seeing. There's a freshness right there fucking words? Um, yeah i.
57:12.16
Bruce Anthony
It's okay, that's all right I'm not even I'm not even from anywhere but here and I fuck up words all the time we get So that's a that's a dream come true. What's.
57:18.62
Marilyn Notmonroe
But I get to be mean to men online and ah dude, it's amazing and it's like I'm making money like you know like a night shift like I pull this like you know, go to bed at like 2 a m or whatever but it's like the same shit. I'm making the same like same amount sometimes more you never know but like to be mean to men like I didn't know there was an avenue like just like fin dum f du cooking like cuckle like holy shit like it's it's crazy and I love it and I'm like this is where it's at like I'm going into like now I'm really interested in dumbmin.
57:50.26
Bruce Anthony
Um.
57:53.19
Marilyn Notmonroe
Like doming and so I'm slowly like trying to brand myself into that because this last year has been about figuring out who I am in this world because there's a lot of stuff that I didn't know like I lived even though I had a younger life in the adult industry like. I didn't know who I was and I'm learning who I am sexually and what I like and what I enjoy and and the things that I like doing like just because I love having sex like any humid and this is my job. It doesn't mean like you know like what I'm enjoying like I'm really enjoying dominatric stuff like I mean I'm having the time of my life like these men like.
58:11.40
Bruce Anthony
A.
58:25.57
Marilyn Notmonroe
I Say something like yes mistress and I'm like ah this is gold.
58:29.41
Bruce Anthony
Um, so I What is it I I Personally love strong women but don't want to be dominated So I'm trying to obviously I can't relate to it. But what do you think it is. For that man emotionally to want to be dominated.
58:47.28
Marilyn Notmonroe
So I've noticed that like some of these men. They're probably like you know they pull on there. The stronger men in their own lives. So like when they take when they have their time off or whatever they just want to be dominated by a woman I mean different different.
59:03.76
Bruce Anthony
Right.
59:04.12
Marilyn Notmonroe
People different walks of life I just I really enjoy it and I'm I'm becoming good at it like I mean I yeah, it's like 1 of those.
59:11.72
Bruce Anthony
Um, I'm laughing because you're because you're just like I love being mean and bossaming around and I'm getting paid for it.
59:20.51
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yeah I mean I didn't know that there was an avenue for this like are you kidding me? I've been allow like I'm like du I'm like I David like I can what maybe's all the pent up anger I don't know but I mean I'm I'm having fun. Um I'm enjoying it and it's a different avenue but it's like I think that it's cool.
59:28.70
Bruce Anthony
Maybe you're having fun.
59:38.21
Marilyn Notmonroe
And it's like stuff that people don't like or they think is taboo but I mean if at the end of day I'm helping someone release. Whatever they have you know it's like and anything that I do online or whatever like a lot of the people that I that subscribe to me. They're not going to be around for a long time and that's why it's like it's a constant like you have to always be putting yourself out there.
59:45.29
Bruce Anthony
Right.
59:55.99
Bruce Anthony
A.
59:58.10
Marilyn Notmonroe
Because for the most part people get interested. They're going to come. They're going to check it out and then they're gonna go you know like they have lives they have they get in a relationship. Whatever the hell it is but you're there for a moment and sometimes you like you help people like you know I try to be as nice as I can to people for the most part I mean unless they want me to be mean to them and.
01:00:15.20
Bruce Anthony
You paying me to be mean or nice.
01:00:18.48
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yeah, but it's almost like bar tending and that was the part of barting that I liked is like getting a glimpse into people's lives if it's like for the for a short amount of time or a long time and it's like she has some people that you know there they've been around for the long haul like they check in on me, they buy stuff every month and they go about their lives but it's just it's.. It's nice and it's something that people need as fat as sex is it's still great and it's a release and not even that like some people. It's really therapy like I I've talked to people like they just want to talk and I'm like okay and I've gotten paid to talk So great.
01:00:51.84
Bruce Anthony
Hey ain't nothing wrong with that. Um, that's pretty. That's really cool. That's really cool that you you you really love people.
01:01:01.90
Marilyn Notmonroe
I think I like animals more? Um, yeah.
01:01:02.50
Bruce Anthony
I Mean who doesn't love animals more I mean because animals actually are only thing to give us unconditional. Love if it's your pet but but you like when when you're doing these things or your barten and you went to culinary school so you wanted to cook for people you want to help people with the Pc Os like you. In every instance that you're describing to me you like your interactions with people maybe not toxic boyfriends but you know people.
01:01:25.10
Marilyn Notmonroe
I mean I mean I do like my interaction with people but I do like I am wary of people like I don't have a huge circle or anything like that I think it's just that I've always been like my jobs have always been to be around people or whatever I guess like to be anything. It is like.
01:01:39.10
Bruce Anthony
A here.
01:01:44.30
Marilyn Notmonroe
I like that I like to talk and I think that you can find out about stuff like you know people aren't always meant to be in someone's life forever. But it's like for that moment if I can help somebody I'm so about that like to me I've experienced a lot I've done a lot of shit and if I can help somebody with.
01:01:52.80
Bruce Anthony
Um, right.
01:02:01.62
Marilyn Notmonroe
With it. That's cool because why the hell else did I go through this if not to be able to help somebody else.
01:02:03.82
Bruce Anthony
Right? That's dope all right? So you're doing only fans you doing cam. Okay I get this is a funny story. So of course I follow you on Twitter Twitter is a little bit different in Instagram. So yeah.
01:02:18.47
Marilyn Notmonroe
Oh yeah, Twitter I'm I'm loving Twitter like Twitter like you know I've grown my I've busted my ass to get my Twitter to where it's at.
01:02:26.70
Bruce Anthony
Or let's let's let's correct ourselves x now not Twitter x but I was in the gym one day I was working out and as I normally do because I'm looking for always looking for content. You know I'll go on Twitter.
01:02:31.14
Marilyn Notmonroe
I call it Twitter x if you see I but good morning Twitter ex.
01:02:44.81
Bruce Anthony
And because there's newspaper articles of following a lot newspaper organizations and I follow you as well and the reason why I know that you got back into doing scenes was because I was in the gym and you popped up and I like oh it was a scene that was just on my phone. And front everybody so slightly Embarrassed. So I I Still follow you I had to mute you because in public it it popped it popped it popped up. But so that's how I found out that you were doing scenes. So How did you transition from only fans cam where you're dominat. We are a dominatrix.
01:03:07.47
Marilyn Notmonroe
I know I get I get it.
01:03:23.20
Bruce Anthony
Ah, to to doing scenes. Okay.
01:03:23.61
Marilyn Notmonroe
Well no camming is more new actually camming is like what getting into now. Um, but I started only fans you know, figuring stuff out So a lot of solo work and um I never thought that I would do more than solo work. But I was kind of. Becoming like the old cat lady is not like like so like I I was done with like I'm like I didn't want to date like men suck every guy that I met. That's like you know around my age and single like they just fucking. They were just shit like the the kyliber of men and so.
01:03:45.11
Bruce Anthony
What do you mean.
01:04:02.68
Marilyn Notmonroe
I was like pretty much just like sitting around always making content for my only fans like solo content but I'm not dating I'm not doing anything I'm like too I need to get laid and so I'm like and my fans started wanting to see like you know me getting late as well.
01:04:10.74
Bruce Anthony
Are are.
01:04:21.64
Marilyn Notmonroe
And so I was like okay and I got that's when I started getting act like active on Twitter and I started following people when then I decided to do my first boyg girl collab and I was like okay I'm like you know I might as well if I'm gonna be single in doing this like I might as well just get back into like go full fled and just you know make.
01:04:37.87
Bruce Anthony
Um.
01:04:38.33
Marilyn Notmonroe
Boy Girl content make girl like just make content all the way around and then this company like I wanted to get into mainstream meetings I was like I might as well get into mainstream you know I'm the hottest I'm ever gonna be like um I've glowed the hell up like I might as well be the this bad bitch like most porn star. Oh sorry.
01:04:40.29
Bruce Anthony
E.
01:04:51.62
Bruce Anthony
Um, right.
01:04:57.93
Marilyn Notmonroe
Sorry, most most of them start in there like you know like a lot of the big ones like start in their 30 s like some a lot of them so I was like okay cool I might as well just go fullledged into this and just be the baddest bitch I can be and um.
01:04:59.22
Bruce Anthony
That's you know what? that's okay, don't even worry about it.
01:05:06.23
Bruce Anthony
He.
01:05:12.23
Bruce Anthony
Are.
01:05:16.60
Marilyn Notmonroe
I Tried to get some Asians It was hard because I have tattoos wasn't even my age is like tattoos like because luckily enough I Well it's just a lot of the kind like want a you know a pure innocent they think.
01:05:21.74
Bruce Anthony
They have a problem with tattoos in the porn industry. Okay, all right? okay.
01:05:33.12
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yeah, and I mean it's also I think it's about just like meeting the right people I mean there's a lot of like politics in it. Um from what I'm learning. But I you know getting Twitter is where all the all the content creator and the porn stuffs sat the porn trauma like it's all on Twitter. Ah yeah, you all't see it like.
01:05:44.15
Bruce Anthony
Okay.
01:05:49.17
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, Instagram or Tiktok that's like the safer work stuff. But but where it's at so I started following people and I got reached out by a production company and I went and shot with them and that was kind of like my little break and then so that was cool. Um, and I've done 3 shoots like page shoots.
01:05:51.94
Bruce Anthony
Ah.
01:05:59.27
Bruce Anthony
Okay.
01:06:07.45
Marilyn Notmonroe
Ah, since I've been back and that was like all since may um because I started doing that in may like where I was yeah April was my first boy girls I just decided to get like into more than just solo work. Um, but now I'm actually.
01:06:10.63
Bruce Anthony
So here.
01:06:27.40
Marilyn Notmonroe
Bringing it back in.
01:06:29.20
Bruce Anthony
Okay, um, so what's how do I phrase this question. What?? What's better to be part of the mainstream or. Get that little mainstream rub and then go off and do your own thing.
01:06:49.83
Marilyn Notmonroe
I mean I'm figuring it out. Um, right now. But like I I met I met somebody and they also do the same thing. So I What I've realized is that for myself is that yeah I could go around the same and do the same thing that all these. Ah, like everybody else does and like sleep with like you know the big named creators and all that kind of stuff but the reality is is that like that doesn't do anything but bring me Internet Cloud like the only time that I've realized that I actually get my own fans like you know like people can follow me but the only time that I'm getting people and like where I'm. My like best numbers that I'm doing On. Um only fans is when I'm promoting myself like when I'm taking the time to do that when I'm streaming when I'm doing other stuff where people can see me and see my personality and they're like okay I I fuck with her and they subscribed to myself. So Um I got really lucky like I mean I literally like.
01:07:36.60
Bruce Anthony
Right.
01:07:43.28
Marilyn Notmonroe
I Met a man in this industry and he's like the best thing that's ever happened like I'm like ah like the best man ever like it's it's crazy as shit like it's it's crazy. Um, but he's everything that I ever wanted at a man and ah and I'm like okay I'm like none of my fans.
01:07:45.62
Bruce Anthony
You know that's beautiful.
01:07:54.64
Bruce Anthony
Oh.
01:08:00.79
Marilyn Notmonroe
Care who it is they just want to see it happening with me so I'm like as long as I focus on myself and like building my brand war because every time I go out of town too to shoot I end up losing like a few days of my life. You know like and I stopped streaming I stop what I'm doing and my numbers go down so it like affects all that.
01:08:01.36
Bruce Anthony
Right.
01:08:14.50
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah.
01:08:17.26
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.
01:08:19.50
Marilyn Notmonroe
So it's really not at the end of the day. It's not worth it. It's you get clout from it and maybe if I was like you know with an agency. It'd be a little bit different because they're gonna have me send me out everywhere but still that's still just on the same thing you're making money for them. Um, if Jordan the.
01:08:31.56
Bruce Anthony
From right.
01:08:37.72
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yeah, that I'm dating he like you know he was like he showed me the stuff from when I was younger and it's like they're making a shit ton of money. They've been eating off me and I got paid a measly thousand dollars and that's the thing that's like I'm getting clapped from these people.
01:08:43.64
Bruce Anthony
Right? They have yes.
01:08:52.63
Marilyn Notmonroe
But I'm getting paid and it's like they're gonna be the ones in 10 years it's gonna be the same thing as it was with bangros now and it's like they're gonna eat off of me and that's great I mean I appreciate the exposure that I've gotten and that's awesome. But now I want to focus on building my own stuff because the reality is that you just have to keep putting yourself out there and you'll make.
01:09:00.70
Bruce Anthony
Are.
01:09:12.20
Bruce Anthony
Um, here.
01:09:12.49
Marilyn Notmonroe
Like you don't need to do Mainstream Mainstream gives you clout, but that's really about it and you'll make the quake money but you're not going to be able to do much with that later on if you're not focusing on your own brand.
01:09:22.79
Bruce Anthony
So it's kind of like the the music industry right? Like if you you can sign to a big label and and they'll put a lot of money behind your project but you might not own your masters. But if you go independent you own your masters which means that you keep making money off every time your song is played So basically.
01:09:34.79
Marilyn Notmonroe
And.
01:09:42.56
Bruce Anthony
You saying going independent is working out well for you because you're a hustler going all the way back to when you were working 2 jobs in high school. Ah, you're a hustler so you're saying no I don't need your clout what I want is some dollars and I can get the dollars by myself.
01:09:57.89
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yes, I mean I'm figuring that out. Obviously it's Allie this is all brand new. So. It's like I'm figuring it out but I'm like I think that this is what's going to work better for me. Plus it's just like again going. It's just a lot of words like it's it's a lot of work. It's a lot of wear and tearing your body and mentally too. It's I mean it's fun, but it's like why not. Why not just travel with this man that I'm like you know head over heels with do our own thing and like and then I'm home I'm building my brand with my solo stuff like again because it's the people are always new. They're always coming like so it's it's I mean it's internet. It's there's so many people like.
01:10:21.10
Bruce Anthony
Um.
01:10:31.61
Bruce Anthony
Um, yes.
01:10:35.58
Marilyn Notmonroe
The people that were subscribed to me a year ago. There's probably like 2 that are still subscribed and that's just the reality of it So I can continue reinventing myself changing stuff and a lot of the content that I already have I can keep using it as long as I'm managing myself correctly and I'm working on my state for work Stuff. So I thought like I I kind of felt back from my state forward stuff and focused on the other stuff and it's like. I Realized that was the air in my way like you know and I mean you're not going to know until you try and I'm like okay no I need to focus on me myself my brand this personal training stuff that I want to do like I need to focus on what I want to do and not other people.
01:10:57.89
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah.
01:11:06.10
Bruce Anthony
There you go I Love that now tell me about how this relationship works Do You are? So you're filming scenes and you said and nobody really cares about who you're doing it with they just want to see you do it. So I Assume that. You guys are only filming scenes together.
01:11:23.27
Marilyn Notmonroe
Well I mean I didn't start like that. But it's just like as time and like both like just like in realization like I was like why am I doing this I'm like I don't need to I don't you to do all this different stuff like you know like I rather just go spend a weekend Do what we need to do and I mean and the thing is like.
01:11:34.90
Bruce Anthony
E.
01:11:41.74
Marilyn Notmonroe
He has his own um like company that he's working on too like in his own stuff. So it's like it works on his his own brand that he's building like his scumbag university and you know they're doing like a sawardity house for like an allwoman event and stuff like that. So. It's like I get to like work with him and we can work on our own projects make our own stuff like we have this. Dopeass collab coming up with 2 other like content creators. Um in a few weeks that like we're doing and it's for Halloween and we have like a few things and it's like we're literally we have like you know a filmer like somebody a videographer coming I was a filmgrapher of an idiot. But. Yeah, a videographer coming like all that kind of stuff and we're going to make our own video and it's goingnna be dopeish shit. So it's like why? Not just do it yourself like you can do it correctly and you can you can bank you can make like a killing and it's not even that like that gives you like into like the doors to get the awards to do all that kind of stuff like.
01:12:25.14
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah.
01:12:35.83
Marilyn Notmonroe
How the world is in the internet now like all of us we can be our own boss in a lot of this is so just have to promote yourself correctly. That's the reality of it just promote yourself correctly and do cool shit like.
01:12:38.12
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, that's true.
01:12:49.66
Bruce Anthony
I'm gonna give you a new side hustle that you might not even realize that you could do. You could be somebody that helps other people like you promote their businesses because not a lot of people know how to promote and market. Obviously you have a knack for it.
01:13:06.83
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, I mean I'm still learning.
01:13:07.10
Bruce Anthony
Not a lot of people know how to do it. But but you you have the thirst to learn how to do it? Well some people there's a difference between entrepreneurs and workers entrepreneurs will go and learn the necessary skills to be able to do it on their own workers. Either Don't have that initiative or don't have the work ethic and they'll just take the give me this thousand dollars for this scene and I'm cool because I don't want to have to worry about promoting and marketing and do this other stuff so that's another lane somewhere down the line when you've. Really gotten a handle on it that you feel confident about that you can sell your surfaces to other content creators to help them promote the business just just a little something that I'm throw out there.
01:13:50.32
Marilyn Notmonroe
You know I thought about that later on but I have to there's this goal that I have to reach and um, again, this it's not like what I'm doing is easy like I have lost pages I have literally had my feet cut from under me and I don't even know why like this safer work is yes like.
01:14:02.64
Bruce Anthony
With Instagram or tik tocker on on an x or.
01:14:07.80
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yeah, exactly those like Instagram hates me with a passion. Um like as soon as I get right? I don't understand because like my stuff is like not bad at all compared to 99% of people like there is whole titdy's vaginas everything and like I don't do that.
01:14:22.40
Bruce Anthony
Get no I've seen it on Instagram on my Explorer page I'm like when did they start allowing like see through where I can actually see the color of the nipple like I can see it I see it right there. It's brown.
01:14:31.80
Marilyn Notmonroe
No, it's bullshit. It's bullshit like the thing is that you can get away with stuff but you don't if somebody's reporting you like oh I definitely have a hater out there like who the hell knows.
01:14:39.29
Bruce Anthony
So you have a hater out there might be your ex-boyfriend. It sounds like your ex-boyfriend. Ah I'm just gonna put that out there. He sound like a hater. Um, okay I don't I've taken up so much your time and I know I've.
01:14:50.30
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yes.
01:14:57.33
Marilyn Notmonroe
Ah, your 5
01:14:59.49
Bruce Anthony
Y'all don't understand I've been so excited. This is the woman that got me to do this podcast. That's why I don't think you realized the influence that you could have on people. It was a simple conversation that we had I would love to interview you because you have a very interesting story. Okay cool I'm down. And I was like oh I don't have a podcast I need to start one and then I went out and started and then this is the reason why all right? So I'm really excited I'm really excited that that you're on yeah you know we we're doing it all right? we doing. Okay, this will be I don't know if I'm going to post this as a seventy fifth or seventy sixth episode ah but it'll be the one of the 2.
01:15:22.24
Marilyn Notmonroe
That's awesome. But you you chased it.
01:15:36.13
Bruce Anthony
You know we're um, we'll be at at that ah hundred before the end of the year and that's not including our Patreon. So that's thank you. Thank you for putting that battery in my back.
01:15:43.21
Marilyn Notmonroe
You're welcome. That's awesome. Just I mean you got to chase your dreams I think that's the whole point of it of life is like figuring out what works for us and if we fall out try again, try something different. It doesn't really matter. Just do you something have a passion for it to do it.
01:15:57.87
Bruce Anthony
And you know what I tell people don't worry about money. Don't chase money chase the thing that you're passionate about the money will come if you're passionate about it if you're chasing money eventually, you'll lose the money but you'll never lose passion for what it is as you're Trickson so you.
01:16:14.46
Marilyn Notmonroe
That's very.
01:16:17.70
Bruce Anthony
You're chased this is your passion Europe and and I'm trying to figure out what your actual passion is I think your passion is and I might be putting words in email to live the life. You want to live without having to answer to anybody.
01:16:30.76
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yes I don't believe that any of us are meant to answer to anybody honestly and it's just I think that the humans are supposed to work together like I think like that's a whole different subject. But so like now I Just don't want to I don't want to hurt myself anymore like that's the reality of it I don't want to.
01:16:40.95
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.
01:16:49.17
Marilyn Notmonroe
Clock in and just do stuff for other people to make money and it's not even that it's the fact that these people do not get a shit about you like you could be dying and guess what they're gonna replace you the next day and that's just the reality of it. So I'm using sex work as a way to get the life that I want without having to be a slave on someone else's clock.
01:16:54.62
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, and.
01:17:09.00
Marilyn Notmonroe
I.
01:17:09.68
Bruce Anthony
There you go? Ah so based on all of your experiences going back from when you were 18 to now the current state. What advice would you get to individuals considering entering or exiting the sex work industry.
01:17:26.60
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, there's so much. Ah, if you're entering it I Honestly believe that entering this you you really need to think about it. You need to figure out what works for you. You don't even have any.
01:17:29.32
Bruce Anthony
I know I just do a doozy at you.
01:17:40.00
Marilyn Notmonroe
Kind of toxic relationship or anything like that going on like you need to do this because you want to do this like that This is something that you want to do you enjoy pleasing yourself. You want to like whatever it is like but you do it for you like you said chasing the money don't do it for the money because you're.
01:17:46.90
Bruce Anthony
Um.
01:17:58.13
Marilyn Notmonroe
Not going to get money right away probably um and if you do it's you have to be careful what you're doing to get money right away unless you get the chance of like going viral suddenly and blah blah blah. But like if you're gonna do like you know like porn dancing all that kind of stuff dancing is instant gratification 90% of the time.
01:17:58.18
Bruce Anthony
Are here a.
01:18:13.12
Bruce Anthony
Okay.
01:18:15.89
Marilyn Notmonroe
The adult industry is just like you just think about it before you do it because you can lose yourself in it and I was able to go back into it smarter and that I'm very very lucky for and also get a good support system if you can um.
01:18:23.29
Bruce Anthony
Um, right? okay.
01:18:33.10
Marilyn Notmonroe
Be open with your family.
01:18:35.66
Bruce Anthony
Huh Yeah oh I didn't Wow I didn't even ask that question. Um, when you first started doing sex work or when you first told your family How did they take it.
01:18:48.22
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, oh the first time around I wasn't I wasn't mentally there like I said like I was young and I rather party and stuff like that so they they hated it? Um, but now they're very supportive because they know my mind frame. They know what I'm trying to do um.
01:18:52.20
Bruce Anthony
Are.
01:19:05.10
Marilyn Notmonroe
So yeah, they're very supportive which is great and me and my mom I mean everything that I'm doing the ultimate goal is that we're gonna open up an animal rescue. So like that's yeah I mean there's a reason I'm doing everything I'm doing too. It's like we we lost a lot of stuff through Celsius and Voyager with bitcoin. So like I'm just trying to help my mom again and so like and I mean and she's.
01:19:11.17
Bruce Anthony
You know.
01:19:21.65
Bruce Anthony
He.
01:19:24.98
Marilyn Notmonroe
She's aware now I told her what I'm doing and she's fine with it because I'm I'm at home This of the time I'm calling my own shots I'm I'm able to fix my body I'm able to so spend holidays spend time with them like I go when I cook for my grand like or go cook with my grandma and my mom and do all that kind of stuff like I mean I'm with.
01:19:37.33
Bruce Anthony
Um, hey.
01:19:43.96
Marilyn Notmonroe
My family a lot I spend a lot of time with it now and I'm able to do that because of this because I was able to be like screw everybody else I'm gonna do what I want to do and work for myself.
01:19:45.58
Bruce Anthony
Just go.
01:19:55.12
Bruce Anthony
There you go what about for those people. Um, that are in the place that you were when you first got started. What do what advice would you give to them if you if you're not you said you weren't mentally or emotionally.
01:20:04.20
Marilyn Notmonroe
Ah.
01:20:13.40
Bruce Anthony
Prepared for that life am I putting words in your mouth or is that paraphrasing.
01:20:14.10
Marilyn Notmonroe
No no I mean that I was young. So it's like for that I mean honestly, if if I can make a law. It would be like you know like that. No one under like 25 should get into this kind of stuff like even strip clubs or whatever like it's just.. There's like it's mentality like your brain isn't fully formed until you're 25 anyways. So like really, you're a kid. You're just a fucking your kid and you don't know anything and you think you know shit but you really don't know anything and it's all trial and error. So There's I mean I could say so much stuff. But it's just really like hopefully have a support system.
01:20:32.70
Bruce Anthony
This yeah.
01:20:39.30
Bruce Anthony
Right.
01:20:47.67
Marilyn Notmonroe
Be careful. Don't drink do not drink. Don't do drugs don't like it's your job don't treat it as a club or partying or as fun because it's your job and that's the mentality I didn't have when I was younger. So it's like you have to realize that it is your job.
01:20:48.38
Bruce Anthony
Um.
01:20:58.89
Bruce Anthony
30 all right Marilyn I'm gonna get you out on this promote everything that you want to promote right now.
01:21:11.61
Marilyn Notmonroe
All right? So my Twitter is where you will find all of my links. Um, and so that is at not Monroe and otmonroe 2 underscore o and from there it'll take you to the spicy ones. Um I don't know if we can promote those on here. Ah okay, well, all of the spicy links. Um my stream mas my chatter mate cam soda and my only fans it's all the same not Monroe so Marilyn Notmonroe Tiktok you can put in.
01:21:28.35
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, you can promote all your stuff we go. We promote him.
01:21:46.90
Marilyn Notmonroe
Not monroe I have I get I get chopped off all the time and come back with new heads. Ah but not Monroe is the what they're all underneath. So like there's like 8 of them now that are mine. Um my pop one. I mean they they I've lost 2 big accounts on there like 2 like decently big ones and um and I'm you know you have to build again and have a thousand subscribers are yeah fall. But yeah, so not Monroe and Instagram not Monroe 2.0
01:22:04.14
Bruce Anthony
Is.
01:22:17.90
Bruce Anthony
Okay, I highly recommending if you don't if you're not into sex work that's okay, I highly recommend finding Instagram and The Tik Tock because I'm telling you she has personality. You're going to laugh. You're going to see parts of her life. She's got a very interesting daily structure outside of the sex work. You are an interesting person so follower. Um I want to thank you once again for coming on I appreciate your time.
01:22:37.99
Marilyn Notmonroe
Ah.
01:22:43.73
Marilyn Notmonroe
Thank you.
01:22:55.54
Bruce Anthony
Um, like I said this has been a year in the making and it was worth the weight. So I really appreciate it.
01:22:56.19
Marilyn Notmonroe
Of course and thank you for having me and I am so proud of you for chasing your dreams and doing it and making it this far like that's pretty dope.
01:23:08.19
Bruce Anthony
Thank you I Appreciate that you know every now and then and it's nice to hear something like that I appreciate that and ladies and gentlemen excuse me what you say.
01:23:09.43
Marilyn Notmonroe
No, it's all I said it's awesome Just I mean for anybody watching do what you want to do like We only have one life just remember that we have one life So live it I think it's that simple.
00:38.30
Bruce Anthony
I Don't know what to say? Um, thank you I don't think is enough. Um.
00:49.46
Bruce Anthony
I don't know what to say? Thank you I don't think it's enough ah to Marilyn for giving me this interview I've interviewed a lot of people but like I said she's the one that put that battery in my back to get me to start this? ah it meant the world to me for her to come on and do this interview.
01:07.40
Bruce Anthony
And the time that she gave me to be able to to get the 2 parts out of this interview because she gave me so much of her time I really really do appreciate it. Um I appreciate all my guests that have come on. Um, but like I said Marilyn will hold a special place in my heart because she helped. and just to hear her life and the fascinating tales of how she grew up how she entered the sex work industry how she exited everything in between. Reentering the sex work industry now and taking control of it and making it hers and being a true entrepreneur like I said all of her information is in the descriptions and the Youtube page and on all of our audio podcasts go follow her on Instagram go follow her on Tiktok. Go follow her. She is a very interesting person. Great personality. You're gonna laugh, you're gonna enjoy everything that you see. Um, once again Marilyn thank you! Thank you? Thank you? Thank you? I will always promote our website. Going on wwwwww.unsolicitedprospecives.com you can get all of our video and audio of everything that we're doing you'll also see links to our Patreon page at patreon.comback/unsolicitperspectives I cannot stress enough if you guys love the sibling happy hour you're going to love.
02:38.38
Bruce Anthony
After hours uncensored it is Billy Dadling at its finest between me and my sister and talking straight ish where I tell more personal stories and little stuff that I don't want the masses to know in our merch page. You know we got a couple of t-shirts up there like I said I'm Goingnna as I have more time I'm gonna build more stuff out. Um, go ahead jump on ah the t-shirts and don't forget if you drink liquid iv use unsolicited promo code to save 20% that helps us out and it helps you out. But as always I thank you for listening I thank you for watching and until next time I holler.
