Finding Light in Life's Challenges: The Good, the Bad, and the Funny

00:03.10
Bruce Anthony
Welcome First of all welcome this is unsolicited perspectives I'm Bruce Anthony you're a host here to lead the conversation in important events and topics that are shaping today's society join the conversation and follow us wherever you get your audio podcast subscribe to our Youtube channel to watch our video podcast rate. Review like comment share share with your friends share with your family hell even share with your enemies on today's episode is the sibling happy arrow I'm here with my sister J andrea kindda what we're gonna be doing is giving you guys a sneak peek into our patreon page for our show after hours uncesored for all our parents out there. That's got the children in the background parental discretion is advised that's enough of the intro. Let's get to the show.

00:57.80
Bruce Anthony
Now in my sister's infinite. Wisdom and I told her I was going to do this before I started recording this episode in my sister's infinite wisdom she decided to drive. Up from Atlanta Georgia to Washington d c on the day that we typically record she left later which means that she's going to get here later and she was ill prepared for the fact that this drive was going to take more out of her that she realized. So what does that mean means we're not filming filming a sibling happy hours episode so I had already planned to do this to give another sneak peek to our Patreon page just remind everybody. We have a Patreon page patreon.com backslas unsolicit perspectives in which we do two shows two shows a week my talk is straight ish and are sibling happy hour after hour hour after hours uncensored it is uncensored. It is raw. It is real. It is stuff that we do not talk about on the main show. We would not talk about on the main show. we should not talk about on the main show so like I said parental discretion is advised for this upcoming episode. Um, it's 1 of the most recent after hours. Ah uncensored episode. Don't worry.

02:27.75
Bruce Anthony
It's long enough. Everybody's going to get their fill of our of your sibling happy hour from unsolicited perspectives for this weekend and next week there's going to be 2 sibling after hour I mean 2 sibling um happy hour shows. Releasing on Tuesday and our typical one on Friday to make up for the fact that my sister poorly planned her trip up here. I'm excited to see my sister ah but also would have liked it better if she had planned better but you know siblings what are you gonna do you love him my younger brother. Makes me fight his battles. My sisters. My younger sister has me ah put in. We're predicaments. But that's enough of of me talking and throwing her under the bus you guys are going to get your sibling happy hour after hour hour after hours on censored once again, you can go to patreon.com ah backslash unsolicited perspectives you got 2 shows talk a straight ish after hours un censored. You can get both shows ah for $9 a month or you could choose 1 show for $5 a month or the other show for $5 a month. That's both shows for $9 a month or either 1 of the shows for $5 a month. Once again, the patreon page helps us continue to give you the free content from the main show as well as improve our production and also we talk about some real stuff on there or at least I do there's way more my personality that I let off and my talk is straight ish in the after I was uncensored.

04:01.20
Bruce Anthony
For me and my sister both. Um it is definitely a watch and you can always try it out for a month you don't like it cancel it. That's as easy as that. But that's enough for me talking and going on on on about the show. You guys go ahead and listen and watch it right now.

00:00.58
Bruce Anthony
But yeah, anyway, like I said that when I was listening to that show I was definitely angry. Ah, but I I was listening to it and I was like yo This is actually really good and and then I was thinking to myself. Maybe I need to start listening to my shows because me people keep telling me that the shows are good. Ah.

00:05.20
J. Aundrea
And.

00:16.54
J. Aundrea
Yeah I I hate hearing myself back like I hate it. Yeah how I get.

00:19.66
Bruce Anthony
Ah, but I I don't ever listen to him is on to the next one yeah yeah I don't like it either and I feel like I got a frog in my voice I don't be like Ben my name is Bruce Anthony and I'm here and I was like that's and I didn't know I sound like sling blade.

00:32.70
J. Aundrea
Yeah, you don't sound like that You don't no you don't so I just thought they're on a shade room and somebody posted on.

00:37.37
Bruce Anthony
It's in my mind I sound like sleep bla. But anyway, um, what you want to talk about.

00:44.67
Bruce Anthony
No lord here we go.

00:51.56
J. Aundrea
Um, still call it Twitter ah, yeah, adulting in 3 words and these comments ah fuck the shit I'm not okay, shit is ghetto. Yeah.

00:54.51
Bruce Anthony
That's what it is.

01:01.46
Bruce Anthony
Right.

01:11.14
Bruce Anthony
M.

01:11.32
J. Aundrea
Adulting is bullshit. Do not recommend paycheck to paycheck. Okay, ah, find somebody else. Ah this person put. I'm my fucking tired ah somebody said payment do date and I'm like yeah yeah, and there you pay it and the bill another bill comes like the next day and

01:37.59
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

01:45.70
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, that really pissed me off now they want to make sure it is like look you just paid it but you do know in thirty more days you got to pay this one right here right.

01:48.79
J. Aundrea
Like I just paid the shit can y'all give me the 30 days like.

01:59.49
J. Aundrea
Right? You still got you got keep on paying it I know that give me give me the email that my payment is due the day before like don't give me some time like give me some just give me some fucking time to enjoy.

02:04.39
Bruce Anthony
Is.

02:17.57
Bruce Anthony
Um, my ice tastes bad. My ice tastes bad. Ah I don't know how to clean it.

02:19.28
J. Aundrea
When last time you clean your icemaker. Oh okay, you should You should you take it apart it What you got like the tray what that makes automatic ice in there. You can pull the thing right.

02:28.47
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I don't know how to take that damn thing apart? Yeah yeah, it makes automatic hours here. Yeah no I did that 1 time and then it wouldn't shut back and then I had to call maintenance. You know I'm not maintain mechanically inclined.

02:42.16
J. Aundrea
Also when is the last time you changed the water filter in your fridge. There has to be.

02:46.73
Bruce Anthony
There is no water filter in our fridge. It just uses the water from this to sink in the pipes. Yep nope.

02:57.11
J. Aundrea
Now there's a filter I'm a see on Sunday if I find it count pun you in the face all right less yeah us another person another person put.

03:05.65
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, this ice tastes bad I'm im pull this ice out I don't know where I'm put this ice but I'm just pull it out my floor gonna be wet.

03:16.56
J. Aundrea
Roll another one and I felt that I felt that okay somebody said send help please ah a broke joke crying screaming laughing and that.

03:17.56
Bruce Anthony
Keep going I'll be back I got to get rid of this I stay.

03:34.40
J. Aundrea
I feel a hundred percent but mostly it's just the basic basically people talking about how ghetto adulting is and it reminds me um, ah because adulting is ghetto but it also reminds me of that song that came out ah like a year ago. Um, ah, no call earth is ghetto and I'm like yeah the whole this whole thing is throw the whole thing away.

03:55.75
Bruce Anthony
Ain't nothing going on but the rent got to have a J O B if you want to be with me look let me to let me taste some did you see that Trump came out with some shoes. Did you see there was a Fox News segment where 1 guy literally said this is the reason why black voters are going over to Trump he knows culture. What better because black people love tennis shoes than to get them on your sides by coming out your own tennis shoe. Yeah that's really worth to tell you and and I can tell you right now. Nobody's paying $400 for some shoes unless they have Jordan.

04:32.60
J. Aundrea
That's really what he thinks.

04:39.94
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

04:43.49
Bruce Anthony
Now if Trump made a collabbo shoe with Michael Jordan now now now that's not true people if it was fire if they have Jordan on there and it's fire people might actually and people might actually buy but they not buy them air trumps.

04:46.55
J. Aundrea
No I don't think anybody will I don't think anybody will purchase that I'm sorry I don't.

05:00.74
J. Aundrea
No, no nobody nobody wants the Jim Crow ones like nobody. It's fucking interested in that are you fucking I fucking kid me yeah.

05:02.83
Bruce Anthony
They not buying that them air racisms.

05:14.45
Bruce Anthony
Good yeah with the Jim Crow ones that's hilarious did you steal that from somebody else that you just come up with that on. Yeah, that's fucking hilarious the jim crow ones. that's that's hilarious

05:21.70
J. Aundrea
No I just am of yeah nobody's it is nobody's fucking interested in that. But um, the the district attorney in New York is like.

05:30.10
Bruce Anthony
Jim Crow wants

05:37.66
J. Aundrea
Hey if he can't pay it as 300000000 whatever we gonna start season season. Thanks season them businesses. He already can't do business in New York so

05:42.99
Bruce Anthony
Well, that's the reason well, that's the reason why he's selling these four. The shoes are three ninety nine and he came out with a new champagne and wine that's $99 and people. Oh you haven't seen them yet. They're fucking horrible.

05:51.83
J. Aundrea
Now I have to see these shoes hold on. No.

06:03.50
Bruce Anthony
I Can't wait till you see if they are horrible when I saw um eyes like these look like straight trash. But I bet you people are going buy em.

06:11.12
J. Aundrea
Na I know somebody who aware I know people who there they're ah gold Le may they got a te on um ah and American flag.

06:17.45
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, an American flatterer.

06:22.48
J. Aundrea
But for some reason it only has 1 2 3 4 5 stars on it I don't know why that I don't know oh there's somebody out there at all.

06:26.20
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, don't know I don't know who you know that's gonna actually rock them shoes. Oh yeah, no they they're gonna the thing that gets me is a three hundred and ninety nine dollars price point that's absurd. You know the majority.

06:37.84
J. Aundrea
You right? that.

06:44.31
Bruce Anthony
Of his supporters are not people with a hope. Well, that's not true because a friend of mine told me that her she says she told me she was like I don't know if I can if she can be my best friend anymore because her policies and her political stuff is just so out there I was like.

07:00.29
J. Aundrea
M.

07:03.26
Bruce Anthony
Okay, where she lived long island I so yeah, long island is pretty segregated and she was like yeah the whole community is all Trump supporters I was like well how long has this been your friend since childhood and I was like well yeah, you know that's kind of tough like how bad is it. She was like I literally was on the phone with her last night and she was saying to me.

07:05.38
J. Aundrea
And.

07:22.52
Bruce Anthony
She can't wait to move out in New York state so that she can have medical freedom and I was like huh. Yeah I was like medical freedom. What does that mean cause she didn't take the vaccine I was like um okay I don't think anybody is.

07:28.30
J. Aundrea
What.

07:40.70
J. Aundrea
Now. Yeah.

07:40.51
Bruce Anthony
Pushing vaccines anymore I don't think people I like I haven't taken a booster in a while and like I don't I don't think ah I haven't even seen it being advertised a booster in a while now is this like if you get it good luck to you? um.

07:51.38
J. Aundrea
Yeah I mean now now honestly like I don't know any jobs that are acquiring you to have it like at this point if you get Covid they still expect I know my job still is like okay that don't have them to do what you being able to type right? So like they.

07:57.21
Bruce Anthony
Now.

08:09.99
Bruce Anthony
This is the crazy thing about the pandemic is that the great thing is people realize that companies realize mufus can work from home. The backside of that is when you're sick Guess what you could stay at home but you could still.

08:11.70
J. Aundrea
Don't care like they're like.

08:19.77
J. Aundrea
That.

08:28.67
J. Aundrea
Right? so.

08:29.33
Bruce Anthony
Work from home. So like people are working more now than they did going into the office.

08:37.26
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yes, that's one of the perks of working from home from a business standpoint is your the increase in productivity because you don't now there's definitely an increase because you don't have.

08:47.00
Bruce Anthony
Even though they tried to say there wasn't any increase.

08:55.74
J. Aundrea
You don't have the whole like office culture where you got a you know every time you go to the break room somebody says something to you like have nice nice weather. We're having I don't want talk to you bill? Okay because you have coffee breath and it bothers me.

09:03.68
Bruce Anthony
I Don't know is that it now is there is a difference. There's different type of breaths right.

09:16.36
J. Aundrea
Ah, you stand way too close when you chat? yeah.

09:23.64
Bruce Anthony
Coffee Breath is one thing it doesn't necessarily stink but hot breath still seems to bother me.

09:31.80
J. Aundrea
It's a coffee breath is offensive especially those. Ah, honestly sociopaths who drink black coffee. Um, no no sugar, no cream nothing in that just black coffee.

09:41.92
Bruce Anthony
Ah, but.

09:48.23
Bruce Anthony
I drank black coffee 1 time yeah I drank black coffee 1 time because I didn't want the sugars and the creamers I just needed the caffeine. It was disgusting but I got through it. Um.

09:48.50
J. Aundrea
It tastes like nothing.

09:55.74
J. Aundrea
Now it's disgusting. Yeah, it's disgusting.

10:01.20
Bruce Anthony
No I'm not talking about the funk of Coffee breath because it it definitely has a distinct smell I'm talking about people who just their breath is just hot doesn't necessarily stink their breath is just hot for some reason hot breath just and right.

10:06.24
J. Aundrea
Um, oh yeah, yeah, were you just like you know, do you have a fever like what is going on. Yeah.

10:19.30
Bruce Anthony
Like they're dehydrated it but their breath doesn't stink but is hot and it's like get your hot as breath out my face.

10:26.66
J. Aundrea
And that'd be the main person that want to tell your secret and I'm like there are a lot of H's in the secret that you're trying to tell me and my ear is sweating.

10:43.20
Bruce Anthony
You't even back in the day back in the day when I actually had hair and I hot the hot breath people come up to your ear and start talking I ain't need no shape up on that side because they melted all the hair.

10:43.24
J. Aundrea
The inside of my ears sweating. No, no, No I mean my hair was curly before I mean my hair was straight before this conversation and now it's curly. That's the humidity from your mouth.

10:53.87
Bruce Anthony
On that particular side.

11:03.69
Bruce Anthony
So what are the ventures that you got planned on for your trip up here. What are some things because you know we have to get together with our cousin.

11:14.22
J. Aundrea
To I don't know I don't know anything all I know is I'm coming up for a sweet 16 my niece. Yeah I know I know.

11:22.56
Bruce Anthony
Who's we 16 Oh okay, she's she's 16 already cat a time be flying by.

11:30.49
J. Aundrea
Yes, she will be 16 It literally is's just like oh my stomach is in that's out ah because I just remember her being a little baby like it I was yesterday. Oh all these all these young people are just growing up.

11:38.86
Bruce Anthony
Well yeah, that ain't singing love baby. No more.

11:47.59
J. Aundrea
And ah and it just reminds me that on August I'm not gonna say the date but in August I will be 40 and but I actually have no problem with that. But as far as like my plans.

11:53.72
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

11:59.24
Bruce Anthony
4 1

12:03.29
J. Aundrea
Ah, coming up. Yeah I was just gonna we Don play it by year I don't have any if you call me up that day and say hey let's get drinks tonight then they all get drinks with you that night like that's the.

12:11.42
Bruce Anthony
Well, you know I'm only it's only gonna be during a weekend because during a week My week is crazy. Yeah.

12:17.12
J. Aundrea
Yeah I mean I'm gonna be working too. So yeah and plus I can't stay out long because again I got roscoe and.

12:26.28
Bruce Anthony
Well, you'll be crashing at well. Okay, are you crashing in my place on Sunday. Okay so I need to fix up my place. Ah.

12:38.76
J. Aundrea
Just give me a pillow and not close in a pillow case.

12:43.96
Bruce Anthony
No I have no last time you was here I gave you multiple pillows because I have multiple pillows you just can't get no pillows from my bed but I got multiple pillows yet. No no, the last time you was here which was ah yeah.

12:52.10
J. Aundrea
Don't remember having a pillow. Oh you're right? It was a false So like it was sheet a fitted sheet flat sheet and everything and I was yeah I was like oh you gave me a washcloth and towel or everything Oh like.

13:01.33
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I gave I gave you everything? Yeah I gave you everything come on Now it's.

13:11.35
J. Aundrea
Ah I was I was shocked I do remember you absolutely right? You are absolutely right? You went You got all the things so that you can have guessed.

13:13.91
Bruce Anthony
Yes, no I had no I have all the things I've always had all what happened was is during the pandemic I bought more to things that I already have so now I have extra.

13:25.11
J. Aundrea
Ah, yeah, because ladies and gentlemen let me just say this. This is a man who sleeps with 48 pillows on his bed.

13:29.77
Bruce Anthony
There Beforehand I did not have extra.

13:41.57
Bruce Anthony
It's 6 okay now actually 1 2 3 4 5 yes 6 one yeah 6 the 6

13:42.77
J. Aundrea
And. And apparently every single one of them is necessary so necessary that the pillow I got was a pillow case stuffed with t-shirts.

13:55.93
Bruce Anthony
Then no no no because there's a pillow right here on my floor and I think I have at least 1 Yeah, so it's bare. No, it's a bare of pillow I'm go put a pillow case over it and I think I have at least 1 other pillow in the closet. Yeah, no.

14:01.31
J. Aundrea
On the floor we get floor pillows.

14:11.11
J. Aundrea
M.

14:14.87
Bruce Anthony
Ah, but first of all, don't knock my pillow game because one I'm a big guy and 2 I like to be cuddled so I have my I have my 2 main pillows and another pillow that that the the little pyramid that I actually put my head on.

14:16.99
J. Aundrea
Too many pillows.

14:33.62
J. Aundrea
Ah.

14:33.76
Bruce Anthony
I got 2 like like throw pillows comfy pillows one them pillows that you could punch. They feel like a body that's but they're not full body pillows I got 2 on the side of me and I got another pillow that I put between my legs because that's good for your back.

14:38.37
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

14:47.48
J. Aundrea
Am I The only person that sleep? Yes, ah am ah am I only present sleep one pillow. No I put my head on it because only I one head I put my head on it and I go to sleep.

14:51.58
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I don't know how you do that your social path. Well, That's the crazy thing because I don't know how that one pillow can fit that head.

15:09.14
J. Aundrea
First of all I have a normal size head.

15:14.27
Bruce Anthony
Normal if you are Andre the giant can you wear a fitted hat what size i.

15:15.60
J. Aundrea
Of A very very normal size head. It's yes, shut Up. I Over normal size head I a debt nobody is ever. You are only person who has ever said I have a large head youre that only one nobody has ever said there should be before. But yeah, one pillow is called lay down go to sleep.

15:31.71
Bruce Anthony
You.

15:42.77
Bruce Anthony
Ah.

15:44.56
Bruce Anthony
Now I Well I I toss and turn I have a queen size bed one I'm already a big guy and I have a queen sized bed and I toss a turn all over place. You know a place I had a difficult time sleeping until that fan came.

15:46.68
J. Aundrea
You don't know all those pillows all around you because you're supposed to be sleep.

15:54.97
J. Aundrea
M. My My full says guess bit.

16:03.99
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I I laid down that bed. My feet was hitting the floor as like God I mean it's been a long times of it a full size bit I turned to my left fell out the bed got back up slaid backdave turned to my right fell out the bed I'm like oh my goodness I tried to stretch like.

16:19.71
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, no, no, there's no monsters in my house. Um, so that's yeah.

16:21.80
Bruce Anthony
You know I like to sleep like Jesus and put my arms all the way out I couldn't do that because a monster might have crawled up from under the bed and got my arm because my arm was touching the floor. The I think my queen size bed is not.

16:34.65
J. Aundrea
That's still another hero there. But there's no buses or house.

16:39.88
Bruce Anthony
It's definitely not big enough. You know when I I have friends that spend the night ah is definitely not big enough for friends to spend the night because I try to be real considerate. So I try to stay on my side but that just women sleep relatively wild.

16:42.25
J. Aundrea
And yeah.

16:50.43
J. Aundrea
Yeah, um.

16:58.67
Bruce Anthony
And are all over the place they're like women are like kids they sleep all over the place or the women that I deal with the women I had to wait a minute the the way that started.

17:03.00
J. Aundrea
I Have to just agree. Yeah you deal with while sleeping women. That's you.

17:15.57
Bruce Anthony
Is you you deal with wild women which is also true. So true which would make them wild sleep in women through what wild woman sleeps peacefully I don't think not none of them.

17:16.97
J. Aundrea
That is also true. Both things are True. Yes. Now because they all probably got emotional problems and then they they did all that manifests in its sleep because they got it out. They got it all out.

17:33.18
Bruce Anthony
You know if you know the wild women that do probably sleep peacefully the ones that are always angry yelling and screaming at everybody all day long. They real tight. Yeah, they got it out.

17:46.16
J. Aundrea
And now they tired and they take 1 pillow and they lay their head on it and they go to hell to sleep and that's ah, that's the eat you sleep go to sleep. Oh you tossing turns sleep better.

17:48.30
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

17:56.29
Bruce Anthony
I wish I could sleep better. That's I actually last night I slept through the night my alarm literally woke me up and not not me being like half wake half asleep I know the alarm hasn't gone off yet I'm just gonna stay in bed till alarm goes off no this morning.

18:10.64
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, yeah, well.

18:15.74
Bruce Anthony
It literally woke me up and I was like Wow that was pretty good I didn't he had to wake up to go to pee which lets me all know that I'm dehydrated because I've been dehydrated all day long.

18:25.91
J. Aundrea
Well, you got to drink some water or a godarade or something.

18:32.52
Bruce Anthony
I drank at least a a gallon of water every day and and another three liters of um, sparkling not sparkling water carbonated water. That's the reason why I always got a pee.

18:42.68
J. Aundrea
Yeah, well go go go. But oh my God I don't know why you shared that. But anyway going back to these sneakers which are still on my screen.

19:00.33
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

19:02.62
J. Aundrea
Ah, shout out to Michael Tyler a spokesman for the Biden campaign who said quote Donald Trump showing up to Hawk Bootleg off whites is the closest he'll get to any air force ones ever again.

19:20.82
Bruce Anthony
Who That's a that's that's a bar that isn't as is an absolute bar. Yeah, no, no, no, he got him on that one.

19:21.29
J. Aundrea
For the rest of his life that is epic.

19:29.97
J. Aundrea
Yeah, that is a bar. Ah I that I boy that way he was that was in the chamber he was locked and loaded and the shot was fired. Um.

19:39.69
Bruce Anthony
Me me.

19:46.91
J. Aundrea
I don't hear the Michael Ty let me look at this movie. You know sometimes I gotta see what people look like.

19:51.73
Bruce Anthony
Well I got a good feeling that he's of a certain persuasion am I wrong or right.

20:01.73
J. Aundrea
Lets see let me say let me see oh Michael Tyler Black yet

20:05.52
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I knew it it you all come up with those type of bars Refererson Air Force one and then mixing that with air force ones and and not be a so I knew he was a hip hop I knew he was hip hop.

20:16.71
J. Aundrea
Yeah, what is to call him off whites and like you know, nobody you you got a yeah know what? you what you doing.

20:28.25
Bruce Anthony
Well because off whites aren't really an air force. 1 thing off whites are jordans so he mixed in a lot of things but he wanted to bring the bomb. Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah I mean they look like book late. They boot look like boot lay ones.

20:36.21
J. Aundrea
Um, but they are they do look like bootleg. They yeah yeah.

20:46.49
Bruce Anthony
Jordan ones they look like boot leg Jordan ones if matter. Of fact, if I was Michael I would be like hey look this is copyright infringement. he might cas selle he might I mean's a might sue not sell you Mike A sue sue Donald Trump for the sales.

20:56.25
J. Aundrea
Yeah, he might yeah but but it's ah and they say this in New York Times um it's easy to get distracted by the sheer absurdity of it all a former president is hawking sneakers.

21:15.44
Bruce Anthony
Well, he's always I'm yes, but he's a salesman so that doesn't surprise me remember when he was hawking steaks like he's always selling something.

21:27.42
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, but that was before he was the president of the United States

21:33.47
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, most people take the prestige and the dignity of being a president and carry on not everybody's gonna be Jimmy Carter sorry

21:40.65
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, why me you you even have you know the see student George W who is now a beautiful portrait artist. But.

21:57.43
Bruce Anthony
Well well ah W also W also could have been a standup comedian because that that dude is funny.

22:01.24
J. Aundrea
He is funny and listen I don't know anybody that loves Michelle Obama more than George W because that man lights up when Michelle is within fifty feet of him. He.

22:09.29
Bruce Anthony
Barat don't even love Michelle like Joe like love you be.

22:19.60
Bruce Anthony
I I gained don't get me wrong W really pissed me off during his presidency but I gained a tremendous amount of respect for him.

22:21.14
J. Aundrea
But he love so but.

22:30.56
J. Aundrea
He was terrible.

22:37.63
Bruce Anthony
During the transition period of how not only him his wife and their daughters were so gracious to the obamas I mean stories go ah with the daughter showing because they grew up in the house just like the daughters were going to they were around the same age as when they got in there.

22:44.34
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, um.

22:54.40
Bruce Anthony
And they were like well this is where we go when we use a skate down here and they they were just showing the the girls everything and they were so gracious as opposed to what bill Clinton did when when w came in when they took all the w's off of the keyboards throughout the office. Yeah, you know about that bill is file built.

22:58.56
J. Aundrea
And.

23:10.39
J. Aundrea
No I did not know that. But ah yeah I mean um George george george w's transition of power it was it was it was smooth. Um, and and I think i.

23:14.30
Bruce Anthony
Bill was foul man bill was foul. He took the dumpies. E.

23:29.40
J. Aundrea
Gonna be I think I got allowed to do it Michelle I think he just like Michelle and he was like I don't want to embarrass myself. Let's ah, let's let's let's show them around. Make sure they yeah.

23:33.73
Bruce Anthony
Are. I Actually contrary to what I believe his politics to be I'm not on his side of politics on the majority of things I will say that I think he is a all has always been a decent.

23:48.45
J. Aundrea
Um, right.

23:58.35
Bruce Anthony
Human being he believes his policies are what's best for America and he genuinely wants to help people. He wants to follow in servitude of people just like his daddy.

24:11.99
J. Aundrea
Yeah I guess um, you know, but that now the road the road to hell is paved with good intentions like let's be honest here.

24:14.23
Bruce Anthony
It just went about it differently and let's be true but hold on if if we was either 1 of us as president and they tried to assassinate our daddy when we come up with every excuse in the world to try and get that country.

24:32.86
J. Aundrea
Yeah, but I mean I would I would can up to cia black ops and wouldn't nobody know about it. Um, no, you don't think you don't think our our government agencies are operating.

24:33.64
Bruce Anthony
We Might we might say it some math. You can't do that nowadays. Everybody knows about everything. There is not that there Cia black.

24:49.72
Bruce Anthony
Complete Secrecy Absolutely not and secrecy. Yes, but everything? yeah everything comes a light let there be a look. There was a house that just blew up down the road right? that just blew up down the road and and normally.

24:49.95
J. Aundrea
Incomplete Secrecy man you crazy.

25:06.90
Bruce Anthony
They would've just been like oh gush who was a gas league but no because since he was connected to some government agencies there. Everybody is everybody on on next door app everybody on next door app is like no I think it's this. It's a government conspiracy like you can't you can't operate in complete secrecy anymore.

25:14.38
J. Aundrea
You.

25:22.62
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

25:24.73
Bruce Anthony
Because we're more knowledgeable of things that are going on in the world and we're more connected than we ever have been so when the government does some foul shit we're like nah that shit is foul like I see what you just did like it's harder. It's it was so much easier to to be the cia and assassinate Malcolm x him.

25:35.64
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

25:44.32
Bruce Anthony
And the Fbi assassinated him Martin Luther King but you couldn't do that now you couldn't do that now you wouldn't be able to do it. So yeah.

25:49.65
J. Aundrea
Um, now so I I I see the ah the is so it's Fox News host Raymond Arroyo because white latinos. Um.

26:04.53
Bruce Anthony
Are you playing to talk about the clip that I was talking about. Yeah.

26:06.85
J. Aundrea
Is though about yeah about how black people love sneakers boy this is a big deal. He said quote certainly in the inner city. So when you have Trump roll out his sneaker line. They're like wait a minute this is cool. He's reaching them on a level that defies and is above politics the culture always trumps politics and Trump understands culture like no politician I've ever seen get the fuck out of.

26:43.79
Bruce Anthony
Right? because he don't Trump don't understand culture. Not our culture never has never will we have never set up the right, but we have never as the black community. We have never sat up there like Trump is cool. We thought he was funny.

26:44.54
J. Aundrea
Here.

26:49.20
J. Aundrea
No doesn't want to.

27:02.54
Bruce Anthony
We'll let we'll agree. We'll we'll laugh if you will laugh at you if you're funny, we'll laugh if you're funny, but that don't mean that we go invite you to a cookout and I have never heard anybody ever ever say? Yeah I would like Trump at a cookout. Well yeah I have you know, but they them that that's not my cookouts.

27:06.10
J. Aundrea
Yeah now.

27:17.20
J. Aundrea
Yeah, you have but death's man we're not saying nword huh. Well, that's brothers. That's that's negroes that ah care more about their money.

27:20.30
Bruce Anthony
And the cook as I would go to. It gets I mean it's and Jay I will say this until listen to audience I will say this and to the listener audience. There are certain words that I forbid forbid to be on any.

27:34.21
J. Aundrea
Ah, m.

27:43.38
Bruce Anthony
Unsolicited Podcast Network show that is one of them just not going to do it right? The f word is another one the f word. That's derogatory towards gay people will not be ever using it. We don't use slurs.

27:48.49
J. Aundrea
Um, I Really I say it a lot I say it a lot.

27:55.86
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, well yes yeah.

28:01.75
Bruce Anthony
We don't use slurs period I'm just saying I'm trying to I I try not to use it in my personal vernacular a I know you do I Know you do.

28:03.20
J. Aundrea
Where I don't shame me because I use the n-word.

28:13.97
J. Aundrea
Oh I do it it just it just puts that icing on the cake is the cherry on top because y'all are that and I'm not talking about us.

28:23.65
Bruce Anthony
1 1 of my friends ah right 1 of my friends right yeah one of my friends.

28:33.64
J. Aundrea
I'm talking to oh go ahead.

28:36.10
Bruce Anthony
1 of my friends I told him I was like yo you would be really, we would do a great show together. He's like yeah but I say what you what I want to say no yes as in your thoughts because that's what I want but you got to watch your language man fuck that I see a lot of people on Youtube then as a ya check this out. A lot of people on Youtube say a lot of fucking things if they're monetized. They're monetized because their subscriber list is so high that they get so many views that Youtube will kind of turn a blind eye but they're still under certain.

28:54.23
J. Aundrea
M.

29:01.70
J. Aundrea
M.

29:09.79
Bruce Anthony
Community guidelines where the money that they would be making is cut all right. They could be potentially making more if they didn't while out but because they have such a subscriber list they can while out a little bit more than normal those other people that don't have a subscriber list.

29:13.50
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

29:27.59
Bruce Anthony
Have no chance of being Monetized period. So I told him I was like hey bro man if you want make money but I know a lot of podcasts to do that. Okay, yes, yes, and if it's the audio form. Yes, but when it comes to video. No.

29:28.00
J. Aundrea
Yeah, so.

29:34.36
J. Aundrea
Yes.

29:41.89
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

29:44.64
Bruce Anthony
Fuck that shit made me you can't let me just be me I was like look you have a you have a talent you are hilarious. You a personality I believe that you can make money off of this personality that you exhibit but the personality has to fit in some form of a fucking box.

29:51.19
J. Aundrea
Um.

29:56.21
J. Aundrea
M. Yeah.

30:04.54
Bruce Anthony
If you can't conform even the slightest bit in order to go get the bag I don't want to work with you.

30:08.86
J. Aundrea
They say used to say this all the time in old School Hollywood. It's got to play in Peoria You have to be the you have to be on a certain level relatable. To a broad audience or else. You're always gonna end up with this niche audience. Um, So yeah I get that that that's why I haven't said it a damn I Really want to say it now I think I said Negro I think I said negro.

30:33.44
Bruce Anthony
You said it one time the album? No no, no, no, there was 1 episode where you did say it. Yeah you said it and he' like damn my bad I was like and we're about it just 1 time.

30:43.16
J. Aundrea
Did I say the whole word. Oh well because God Damn it? Yeah no I'm sober.

30:52.95
Bruce Anthony
It was when you was high now you are you high right now. Are you sober? Okay, you know I told you you could smoke when we're doing these.

31:00.98
J. Aundrea
Yeah, but I may I you I Also I'm also in school so I have to study I can't I can't just always get high I have stuff to do.

31:05.42
Bruce Anthony
Are you got work to you got work to do you got work to got job it. How high did you get with your visitors last weekend I I know it because they get.

31:18.78
J. Aundrea
The entire time who smoked they drove. Yeah, not that old then her 50 s.

31:24.70
Bruce Anthony
High Did they driver fly down. Wow they old asses drove because they owe.

31:37.37
Bruce Anthony
That's old look let me tell you some yes I be forgetting i' be forgetting how old I am because I don't consider myself I am the exact same age. My two boys that have families. But I'm not the same because.

31:38.28
J. Aundrea
You are. Yeah, yeah.

31:51.53
J. Aundrea
Um, bright.

31:55.17
Bruce Anthony
I could be a lot more youthful because I ain't got kids weigh me down not like kid Okay, kids weighing me down is not the right thing is is like okay this yes.

32:01.43
J. Aundrea
No, that's accurate kids having kids makes you less cool and that's just the truth like I have I have watched cool people have kids and become lame and that is just the product.

32:20.30
Bruce Anthony
Right.

32:20.65
J. Aundrea
Having kids because you have to be a role model to them Kiss You can't be your trifling self. Yeah yeah, because being trifling does take energy.

32:26.26
Bruce Anthony
No, it could be that it also could just be you too tired to be trifling. Yes, so that so there's his guide of and and where I live and I I talked to him one time and he.

32:37.38
J. Aundrea
It does it does take energy.

32:44.95
Bruce Anthony
Seems so much older than me but he was not even 10 years older than me right? and I was just like I'll never want to hang with you like I was just looking at him I was like we will never hang out you 2 old acting like I don't want to go kick it with you.

32:45.32
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

33:02.71
Bruce Anthony
Like no, you probably gonna wear loose boot jeans and and and a pullover Nfl Sweatshirt well will boot cut ah boot just like boot cut jeans but really baggy bootcut jeans but not baggy like how.

33:07.74
J. Aundrea
That not loose, not loose Boot jeans I don't even know? Yes, yes.

33:22.19
Bruce Anthony
Bagggie is kind of cool now. Bagggie is like baggy from the 90 s like you got jeans that are too big for you because for some strange reason old men lose 10 to £20 every day they they lose it and gain it they lose it and gain it. That's like.

33:24.23
J. Aundrea
Yes.

33:37.60
J. Aundrea
it's true. yeah it's true yes I sneezed and lost £40 here

33:40.98
Bruce Anthony
Um, genes is tight as hell yesterday. Why are they falling off your ass today I don't understand it I think that's your prostate man I think you need to get that checked out art that's enough for this episode.

34:03.89
Bruce Anthony
I'm pissed off because we recorded the after hours for this week on Monday and I still haven't posted it yet because I forgot to do the post-production on it. So I tried to rush and do it today.

34:08.19
J. Aundrea
M.

34:18.50
J. Aundrea
Ah, no.

34:19.67
Bruce Anthony
But then my computer locked up and didn't and it was taken it too long. So now I'm gonna do it tomorrow not tomorrow Saturday because we were releasing a main episode now I like to release main episodes and after hours on the same day. It's too much it's too much content so but then they go get it back to back because I'm a release.

34:27.55
J. Aundrea
Ms.

34:32.89
J. Aundrea
Inca. Yeah.

34:37.60
Bruce Anthony
Well we recorded on Monday on Saturday and released this on Monday so I mean y'all getting your money's worth and but as besides I gave you a really angry good show on on Monday I thought it was good. It was angry but these and with these internet trolls really pis they was.

34:41.92
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

34:49.67
J. Aundrea
Yeah, it was angry. Yeah, but you know a lot of them were just bots from Russia.

34:56.94
Bruce Anthony
Really pissing me off.

35:03.49
Bruce Anthony
These weren't bots these were actual people I clicked on the profiles and it's like oh you're actually they're just trolls. Um the the doctor that I interviewed Dr Adrian said there's a whole book written about.

35:04.11
J. Aundrea
Yeah I still treat them as parts there.

35:19.80
Bruce Anthony
Trolls and it's like trolls be trolling our trolls have to troll or something like that like it's a compulsive thing they have to do it and yeah haters gotta hate.

35:23.31
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, because it's like it's like hey get a hobby and they can't like they have to troll.

35:30.98
Bruce Anthony
It Yeah said it just means that these people are really unhappy with their own lives. Yeah I'm glad I'm not unhappy with my own life I mean I got my insecurities but I mean like everybody right? But I mean yeah.

35:35.58
J. Aundrea
So miserable. Yeah I mean we all do yeah but I can't imagine approaching every day with such a negative attitude I can't I can't imagine that. I Can't imagine just being just that miserable.

35:57.61
Bruce Anthony
Um I.

36:00.92
Bruce Anthony
I can't I don't have the luxury because my main job is nothing but motivating people all day long. So if I'm in a fucked up mood. They're getting fucked up situations. So I always have to be up. That's the reason why.

36:07.17
J. Aundrea
Near? yeah.

36:15.15
J. Aundrea
M.

36:20.59
Bruce Anthony
Like to stay in the house because I like yo sometimes they like Bruce you're such an optimist like yo sometimes I'm faking the fuck out of this shit like seriously you get on my fucking nerves right now and I'm just smiling your face like rare for real.

36:27.70
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah to be honest, to be honest.

36:37.37
Bruce Anthony
But I need to help you grease these goals and you can't do it yourself. That's the reason why you hired me so we gonna do this but just let me know just let you know I'm agitated today and sometimes they catch hell. But but the way that they respond to them catching hell is the workouts get harder.

36:48.62
J. Aundrea
Reema.

36:57.30
Bruce Anthony
And they are like are you okay do I need to say something and then and then that makes me laugh and then I'm not I'm not in a bad mood anymore.

37:00.70
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, Freea play. Yeah, you want to talk about it because I'm about to pass out this work. Are you going through something.

37:08.19
Bruce Anthony
We talk about here as a yeah, yeah, that's well, that's what I say what you talk about? that's why I tell it like what you talking about? are you all right? because have I done something to offend you 1 of my class always says that have I done something to offend you.

37:19.14
J. Aundrea
Ah, are you? Okay, right.

37:27.41
Bruce Anthony
The funniest day ever The funniest day ever I'll say this and then it will be done a client and it's a male client that I've had for a long time and I always I Really enjoy hanging out with this client I call it hanging out I Really enjoy working with this client lately because I asked him.

37:30.97
J. Aundrea
You go.

37:42.11
J. Aundrea
And.

37:47.60
Bruce Anthony
He's always laughing and joking in our session and he has such a button up life and I'm like yo do other people see the side of you because this side is like a dope side the side that I know other people see kind of not dope. But this side that I see is really dope. He's like no, you're the only one who gets this I was like you need to start loosening up a little bit. You're.

37:50.67
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

38:05.92
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

38:06.50
Bruce Anthony
Really fucking uptight and I always know I got him when he starts cackling when his ass starts laughing and he goes I got I like that that shit makes me die laugh it because he'll he'll be in a bit of a workout.

38:11.34
J. Aundrea
See Yeah I would have died I would die laughing at that. Yes.

38:24.35
Bruce Anthony
Ill say something that I don't even know it's fucking funny I just say shit sometimes and and and he's like that's fucking hilarious I'm like what I say because I don't you remember I don't even pay attention to what the fuck I'm saying I'm just saying shit and he'll to be in the middle of workout hit. He'll.

38:27.21
J. Aundrea
Press.

38:40.24
Bruce Anthony
Do something and then start cackling I say hey man focus man because you got this heavy ass wait. But what time what time I was having him do this really tough exercises and he was on the ground doing these exercises and he was sweating and he looked up to me and he just said why are you making me do this.

38:55.00
J. Aundrea
Via.

38:59.65
Bruce Anthony
And I dot dot laughed it. He say why you making me do this like he's about to start crying everything as I he's like is this even doing anything as like what do you think it is it is what is it work.

39:00.77
J. Aundrea
Um.

39:08.70
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

39:15.97
J. Aundrea
Every day I can if you have if you could feel it then why are you asking.

39:16.40
Bruce Anthony
King I said everything I could feel it.

39:21.97
Bruce Anthony
But it was the way he looked at me and all is earnest. The right word not earnest and all earnest is sincerity and just like why are you making me do this. He is.

39:26.24
J. Aundrea
Yes, yes.

39:36.36
J. Aundrea
That is hilarious.

39:38.64
Bruce Anthony
Yes, sometimes sometimes I really enjoy my job all right where you went to the people out there because it's hot. It's these lights is hot.

39:44.53
J. Aundrea
He yeah, listen so we we ran over on the show. So I didn't get to say this I meant to say that on the on the main show but ah, send him my condolences. Um. To the loved ones of hiv and aids activists. Um hada broadband I don't know if you remember but back in 9096 she appeared on Oprah Winfrey over for Oprah Winfrey the Oprah Wentfre show ah when she was eleven years old talking about her.

40:03.98
Bruce Anthony
So.

40:20.88
J. Aundrea
Personal story of being born and living with HIV aids um she passed away at 39 years old um but she spent her life spreading hope and positivity through education around H Iv and aids so.

40:23.00
Bruce Anthony
A.

40:29.40
Bruce Anthony
A.

40:36.92
Bruce Anthony
Did she pass away from the virus like was that that was a cause I didn't I didn't know she was living with full blown aids since birth.

40:39.10
J. Aundrea
Ah, yes, yeah, she had been living with a with full blown aids since birth.

40:52.74
Bruce Anthony
Um, okay, cause that's rare for people to get full blown aids now. Yeah, and that don't make no sense. Don't make no sense. She lived 39 years before blown aids.

40:56.11
J. Aundrea
Well I don't know if she had full blanade since birth. Well it. It's like her at somebody I think her father posted. Um. And he said with great sadness I must inform you that our but our beloved friend mentor daughter hada passed away today after living with aids since birth.

41:17.53
Bruce Anthony
Did he meant to say H I v.

41:23.30
J. Aundrea
You know? ah.

41:26.53
Bruce Anthony
Because 39 years is a long time to live with aids because remember back in the day once you got h I v once it turned in age you was dead in a little bit now most people don't even get aids anymore is just h I v.

41:31.47
J. Aundrea
Right.

41:44.18
J. Aundrea
So she was born and it yes so that's that's why they're 2 different acronyms. Um.

41:47.37
Bruce Anthony
There's a difference ladies and gentlemen between HIv and aids and everybody wants to lump it together. But there's a difference right? because people because people are like you got aids remember with Donald St said that about Mar Johnson

41:58.34
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

42:04.55
Bruce Anthony
What's wrong with mag johnson he's got he's guy when he was being interviewed by Anista Cooper and and you remember that oh it's my favorite scene.

42:11.96
J. Aundrea
No I think so so um, she was born with undiagnosed H I v Um, she was adopted.

42:21.80
Bruce Anthony
And.

42:22.84
J. Aundrea
And they later learned that she was HIV positive and when she was 5 She developed aids.

42:26.61
Bruce Anthony
Oh dams so she lived 34 years with aids. Yeah I'm telling you the medicine nowadays medicine nowadays they make aids basically HIV basically disappear there are drugs out there that people that are h I v positive but are dating.

42:41.64
J. Aundrea
And.

42:44.90
Bruce Anthony
Their partners can take who aren't h I B positive that prevents them from getting H I v now I feel like that should be sold in the grocery store right? next to tylenol.

42:48.19
J. Aundrea
M.

42:57.87
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

42:59.65
Bruce Anthony
Because I would love to take that as part of my daily pill each day I'm just saying I said I would love to take that pill daily each day.

43:04.75
J. Aundrea
But you could just practice safe. Yeah.

43:17.80
Bruce Anthony
That's what I said Okay, and if there was a birth control pill for men. Go ahead and sign me up for that one too and put it right next to the Advil I'm just saying all right on that note because Mom is listening.

43:25.80
J. Aundrea
E M. It right? Nice yeah ad put it right next to the Advil Shut up brus.

43:35.40
Bruce Anthony
Mom is listening to sorry my 1 what you want to tell the people out there.

43:43.78
J. Aundrea
Ah, yeah, hey just like I say every week. Thanks for fucking with us. But.

43:49.90
Bruce Anthony
And I'm going to say thank you for fucking with us too I don't mean to steal her words but I can't come up with anything different and I got to start the post post productiontion for this show. So on that note holah.