Exploring Legacy, Personal Growth, and Inspiring Encounters: A Sibling Happy Hour

00:07.63
Bruce Anthony
On today's episode it's a sibling a happy hour I'm here with Myis Jay Andrea we can be talking about 3 important deaths that are important to current events. We're gonna talk about Don Lemon and Tucker Carlson getting fired and then we're gonna talk about my night last night with my bestie celebrating her birthday. But first things first.

00:32.78
Bruce Anthony
What else is not much man I'm sitting up here still recovering from last night but we'll get to that later how you doing.

00:33.85
J. Aundrea
What up brother.

00:41.95
J. Aundrea
Yeah, you sent me a texter I didn't even know if we were gonna ah record today you sound like you was down and out and out and down. Yeah yeah.

00:50.70
Bruce Anthony
Now it's just it was ah a late night an early morning so I decided to take a nap which is something I don't normally do.

00:58.86
J. Aundrea
M.

01:00.90
Bruce Anthony
It was supposed to be like let me just rest my eyes for a little while turn into 3 hours and then you know how you take a nap you it was longer than you expecting you just disoriented it like it took me a couple hours to get like get my groove back because you took because you just took a nap.

01:07.28
J. Aundrea
Yes, yes.

01:15.10
J. Aundrea
That's how I feel right now because I yeah yes, yeah because I'm not getting as much like vitamins and minerals and shit like oh sorry stuff like that I am tired.

01:19.90
Bruce Anthony
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01:26.10
Bruce Anthony
I could believe it so let me ask how are you doing because um clients backslash fans of the show asked me earlier today. How's your sister doing I was like I know I haven't talked to her since Sunday and there was like check out your sister and I was like oh.

01:31.94
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

01:45.31
Bruce Anthony
I Guess I probably share it. So so let the people know how you're doing.

01:47.20
J. Aundrea
Um, I mean yeah, you should in not a professional capacity because you know my friends check on me more often than you do you do not check on me.

01:54.00
Bruce Anthony
Well hold on it's because we do this show and and we decided to stop talking so much on the phone because we were like this is show every time we talk on a phone. We was like this a show we're wasting. We're wasting stuff on a show.

01:59.90
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah. No No now now I had made your surgery you could check and see how I'm doing that does not Apply. We shouldn't be talking about current events or funny things or whatever.

02:12.22
Bruce Anthony
So I just I I I did hold on.

02:23.33
J. Aundrea
But I have major surgery you can you can see if I'm more.

02:26.25
Bruce Anthony
We talked we talked on Sunday and you is like I'm in a little bit of pain. But I'm might yeah it and it was at the way where we got at a roof finish now when we were when we got off the episode like we were done. It was just chich.

02:29.70
J. Aundrea
I don't remember that Oh when we were recording the after hours again. Professional capacity ladies and Gentlemen. My brother only cares about Work. He does not care about me outside of work. This whole this whole relationship back banter back and forth brother sister thing. This is for work only outside of this. We have no communication whatsoever.

02:48.87
Bruce Anthony
And.

02:55.50
Bruce Anthony
That is not true as that that that ah that is a lie that is a lie I will I will say.

03:03.17
J. Aundrea
Who really cares about me in a professional capacity.

03:10.43
Bruce Anthony
It is a common knock against me from all people close to me that is just like yo. You do not keep in touch and it's like I'm there like it's not like I I don't respond to people but yo I be busy I'm working like I be working like I Well you know I just started a new company.

03:14.50
J. Aundrea
You know.

03:23.87
J. Aundrea
Everybody works.

03:29.16
Bruce Anthony
I just started a new company last week on a whim that just decided this is just what I'm gonna do I'm just gonna start me a new company it. So I was just like i' just gonna do that and now was at the start this podcast six months ago I got a lot of I got a lot of what is it. It stuff in the i.

03:30.42
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, yeah, heard about that.

03:40.41
J. Aundrea
Did I got a lot of irons in the fire. But I also have a lot of irons in the fire and I also had I also had major surgery So nice. It would just be nice to get even just a text.

03:46.86
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah, because you just have surgery. Well I'm asking now.

03:58.41
J. Aundrea
Hey since how you feeling not in not spurn by like like lay not brought on by fans asking and so on their behalf you're asking me hey how you doing no ask me how I'm doing got ti.

04:10.74
Bruce Anthony
Um I I asked you how how are you doing if you well and I need to ask them more cause you will. But.

04:15.92
J. Aundrea
I'm well thank you? no no I'm just sad I'm just just ask um ah down £15 out. Yeah in a week and a half is crazy. Um, but yeah I need to. I was ready to eat like I'm ready to have food again. I want to clear liquid diet so just clear liquids I really really want to chew something other than gum I just been chewing gum to try to get this and say I'm tired of drinking things I'm tired.

04:51.40
Bruce Anthony
Well I mean you could chew things and not and not swallow right? like you could chew a snickers and then spit it out.

04:53.68
J. Aundrea
And 1 from. No, that' I feel like that defeats. No that makes me angry on several different levels one that I shouldn't be having the snickers and 2 that I cannot swallow the snickers like no that just go make me angry. No.

05:04.70
Bruce Anthony
But.

05:16.33
J. Aundrea
I'm not going I'm not even gonna go down that road. No.

05:16.55
Bruce Anthony
Ah, yeah, well yeah, see these are things that I didn't know that was going on. So I mean yeah, it's good that it's good that I asked because now I know.

05:27.21
J. Aundrea
Yeah, nobody said this whole process would be easy. In fact, they said it was gonna be very very hard. So ah, um, just you know I'm just venting a lot to anyone who will live for not you because you don't ever ask me about it with other people.

05:38.82
Bruce Anthony
What That's the reason why I'll never hit you up because I don't feel like being invented to.

05:46.11
J. Aundrea
I Have major surgery guys and let's also note I'm his I'm his baby sister like it's not like it didn't feel some sort of like protective thing because I'm like his older sister something I'm his baby sister.

06:03.79
Bruce Anthony
I Do have a protective thing hold on growing up I always looked after you and our younger brother.

06:05.30
J. Aundrea
Um, they had out there.

06:15.54
J. Aundrea
I'm talking about now Bruce we is now I'm talk about now and a you. It's not just oh John and so yeah and you can still check on me, you can still do that. That's still a thing you can do.

06:19.50
Bruce Anthony
You were grown. You were grown you almost 40

06:31.50
Bruce Anthony
While I'm checking on in on you now I'm just forgetful. Ah, you know what it is and I can I can openly admit it I could be self-absorbed sometimes.

06:33.16
J. Aundrea
I Think you're just lazy as what the thing is.

06:46.90
Bruce Anthony
I could be wrapped up in my own life and just forget about everything else on the outside.

06:48.62
J. Aundrea
Well do do do to do do do do welcome to the circus everybody. This is the let's brut is relaxed. He can be so.

06:59.92
Bruce Anthony
Hold on hold on when I was younger I was selfish. There's a difference between being selfish self absorbed shut up I almost gave you and matter fact I am I'm given my sister it for those in the audio version I've giving my sister middle figure right now.

07:07.63
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, that's why it's 2 different words. Yeah.

07:19.89
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

07:20.35
Bruce Anthony
But I I I try not to be so wrapped up in my own life that I don't reach out to others and and and I do like sometimes I just need to be reminded of something here's a case in point right? Ah as the person asking me hey. Talk to your sister like oh yeah, that's right she has had surgery I need to check in on her right I had another friend who's going through a divorce right now she listened to the show I'm not gonna put your name out there. Don't worry, but she's going through a divorce right now and I reckon and I realized when I was on her Instagram page that she went to a wedding this past weekend.

07:42.70
J. Aundrea
Um, no.

07:48.84
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

07:57.74
Bruce Anthony
And and and I was like I sent her text like hey how you doing I know you went to a wedding like how are you dealing with all of this I don't know it's what she's going through is not in my mind every day right? Sometimes I just because I'm wrapped up in my own ish.

08:02.33
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

08:12.73
J. Aundrea
Brag.

08:17.50
Bruce Anthony
And things that I'm doing like I forget certain things I forget things in my own life right now I've had to renew my passport eight months eight months eight months look

08:24.79
J. Aundrea
You still have renewed that damn passport you gone you you go to where you better. Go ahead and plan that trip to New Orleans because youin't going nowhere else nowhere.

08:36.97
Bruce Anthony
My closet I got a closet door for clothes and a closet door for my laundry room or a door for my laundry room. Both of them are off the hinges have been off the hinges for the last year and a half I all got do is call maintenance I haven't done it year and a half I haven't done it so I just get wrapped up in my own.

08:44.91
J. Aundrea
All you have to do is call maintenance.

08:55.15
Bruce Anthony
Ish and just look J I I don't be playing video games like that in nowhile had no time I had no time now. No I'm I'm not that I'm not that type of person.

08:56.43
J. Aundrea
But I know some of that time is you playing video games where you can take a second um or damn know you need to say you need a personal assistant.

09:11.23
J. Aundrea
You get a virtual you can get a virtual assistant they work part time and they'll schedule your stuff that you need done.

09:14.94
Bruce Anthony
I or I can just start making lists of things that I need to take care of for that day.

09:22.90
J. Aundrea
Wow, you've never that list collect us a dusties list that you got Nicholas page in your house acting like it's a national treasure. Yeah damn dusty.

09:29.52
Bruce Anthony
But.

09:36.27
Bruce Anthony
Um, know I've I've made lists before like there have been days where I wake up and I'm like there is so much I need to get done today. Let me make a list. It is not. It's like in my notes for my phone. Let me make a list of things that I need to get accomplished today.

09:45.10
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

09:51.51
Bruce Anthony
And I like I get them knocked out and I'm like oh wow that was a really productive day I get everything knocked out whereas if I don't make that list Some of those things are going to get done some of those things are just going to be completely forgotten about case and point my passport yeah name nothing wrong with other good productive day.

09:55.56
J. Aundrea
Ah, yeah.

10:01.35
J. Aundrea
I love I love a good productive day I love a good productive day. Yeah were you in the day like this was a productive day I feel very good about myself. Yes, Bruce get that passport done but it's funny because I have.

10:13.00
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah, ah if.

10:19.51
J. Aundrea
Actually have a friend who scheduled me like she put my surgery in her calendar so that she wouldn't forget to reach out to me and um, she asked for my address. It was a while ago I was expecting you know some gift But. I Have a a it Ah a I just put it out there if yous send some gifts mouth and time you know, but whatever like whatever.

10:40.61
Bruce Anthony
With yeah.

10:48.62
Bruce Anthony
Like yeah, you ain't get no guess all right? Well let's right, send me something look. They got Costco that delivers and and yo city and they delivered liquor where you can't drink no liquor right now. But ah, but.

10:50.81
J. Aundrea
And I ask for my address if you not go send me no gifts.

10:59.36
J. Aundrea
How you can't drink now. Yeah I get your point. Yeah.

11:03.63
Bruce Anthony
You know sure.

11:08.28
Bruce Anthony
All right? That's enough of us being self-absorbed. Let's get to the show 3 people. Ah where you talking about yourself. Yeah.

11:10.96
J. Aundrea
I Urge your surgery I wasn't self-absorbed. That's not so I literally had something major go on like you upro for your passport. Not fine.

11:22.60
Bruce Anthony
Okay, ah you yeah like other people and got made major things going on a case of point case no case in point I started a new company last week and you have yet to bring it up or talk to me about it at all. no no no I sent you a link to the website that I built the data that built it.

11:29.25
J. Aundrea
You must. Because this is the first time you've told me about it I heard about it from other people who know you didn't have know you didn't maybe you did maybe you did that you know what it's probably sandwiched between a lot of memes from Twitter.

11:41.41
Bruce Anthony
Yet? Yes I did yeah I did I absolutely did. I know I don't rather don't really send you a lot of me Twitter oh but okay, shut up so we could get to the show 3 people passed away the great hair beafonte.

11:51.41
J. Aundrea
Video area. Yes I from the same person. Yes, ah and who is slang. To the 2 of us and whenever we think something is very sophisticated or yeah, just say it is Harry Belafonte it's something Harry Belaon adjectives adverb whatever the hell.

12:16.53
Bruce Anthony
Excellence or suave or had Harry Belionte look debonair.

12:27.42
J. Aundrea
I Don't know my brain's not working because I had no nutrients. But yeah, we're still here. We're still important to show for you. All we love you.

12:31.50
Bruce Anthony
Your brain not working and my brain not working because I'm exhausted but we still we we still hear we still standing ah for you? Well Okay, let's thank you for listening and watching. Yeah yeah, thank you the way you.

12:45.95
J. Aundrea
I Know now we are no yeah guy rest him.

12:46.90
Bruce Anthony
Way you said it the way you said it made us seem like we weren't appreciative. Um I'm very appreciative. Thank you? Um, ah so Harry Belafonte Jerry Springer and then I know whichitch that set up imateil.

13:03.70
J. Aundrea
Yeah Carol Carolyn Bryant who I personally hope is in double hill.

13:11.60
Bruce Anthony
She is literally a Jezebel.

13:16.47
J. Aundrea
She is literally evil like I Just hope that she's in Double Hill with Gasoline Jumpsuit on um and the thing is I will never know because she and I will not be going to the same place So I'll never know to.

13:17.97
Bruce Anthony
River.

13:33.30
Bruce Anthony
My thing my thing with her my thing with her and now I want spend a lot of attention on her because whatever good writtens. Um say for instance at that time she felt afraid for whatever reasons the reason why she lied you might could forgive it.

13:33.95
J. Aundrea
Double him but I hope she is. Yeah.

13:50.17
Bruce Anthony
If she ever owned up to it and just was like I was wrong I'm sorry he shouldn't have had to pay for my mistakes. Jail would have been nice. Yeah Jail would have been nice I mean um, she's in the.

13:56.20
J. Aundrea
And then she goes to Jail because she lied because she lied. Yeah, that's a crime. Yes.

14:07.89
Bruce Anthony
She's an accomplice to a murder. So yeah Joe would have been nice. Um, but it was just the fact that to my recollection and the research I've done she was never an apology. She never even felt bad for it.

14:21.37
J. Aundrea
No, and then and then you gonna die So the ways people the hoops people jump through to escape accountability. It just truly ah come on now this is ridiculous.

14:31.22
Bruce Anthony
But it's just it's funny isn't the right word but I don't know the right adjective to describe this. It's it's It's interesting that on one spectrum we have this woman who is honestly the reason why the civil rights movement really kind of picked up major steam.

14:48.18
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

14:50.95
Bruce Anthony
Um, and in a negative way and then you have harryella afonte who was a civil rights activist from the data he was born I don't care nobody say before he spoke his first words he was active. Yeah, yeah, he was a.

14:59.99
J. Aundrea
Ah, he had a black power kissed up here's the thing I Never I always say people nobody's born woke but that's one dude where I'm like Okay yeah.

15:14.78
Bruce Anthony
You know I heard something that the term woke actually came from the civil rights movement when um, the people were driving through those Southern states and they could only drive at night or was it during a day. They know they can only drive in the middle of the night and never to stop.

15:15.51
J. Aundrea
Maybe.

15:29.46
J. Aundrea
Need.

15:33.90
Bruce Anthony
Cause you didn't want to get pulled over in Alabama mississippi in the deep south um, because something bad might happen with you and before they were part they would say remember to stay woke as in stay awake. Don't fall asleep as you were driving.

15:43.96
J. Aundrea
Yes.

15:48.00
Bruce Anthony
And then and then that that's what I something I read earlier today and I was like oh that's interesting. That's like literally where that term came from and then we took it on to like to be enlightened is.

15:56.15
J. Aundrea
I would I always heard that eica by do coin the term work for what there was 1 thing and need to I did that.

16:02.80
Bruce Anthony
Look as people dont stop gar eica by do all this credit for everything now they people give it air look eka bad. Do broke up outcast she none but the black Yoko Ono seeing none but the black yoko on no.

16:15.56
J. Aundrea
Untrue No, that's ah untrue. That's just that's just categorically false.

16:21.86
Bruce Anthony
She and destroyed career. She destroyed didn't she didn't she did Angelo a made a good album since he since he had his run. Well I don't know. Ah.

16:30.41
J. Aundrea
He not what he needed her never you dated Angie he was married to Angie Stone I don't know they have a child together but they don't he was never know.

16:41.62
Bruce Anthony
Erica but how many big I mean um, what kids is what are her baby daddies.

16:46.11
J. Aundrea
She has 3 children ah one by Andre 3001 by J Electronica and 1 by somebody else I can't remember who ah I can't remember that and all of them are just fine.

16:55.75
Bruce Anthony
And name been the same since they.

17:02.76
Bruce Anthony
But on on the hills of you know the spectrum and the civil rights movement we got Harry Belafonte and we got that witch who I'm not gonna name or name. We also have Jerry Springer and Jerry Springer is also a part of civil rights just not in a way that you would think.

17:03.20
J. Aundrea
All of them are just fine. Um.

17:11.16
J. Aundrea
Yeah, no, yeah, no, he isn't and.

17:20.78
Bruce Anthony
Well I found out that he was born in 1944 and his parents were literally a holocaust survivors and he was born like on their way out of the country. Yeah, they yeah so yeah.

17:27.69
J. Aundrea
Okay.

17:35.73
J. Aundrea
Um, ah you know that.

17:37.98
Bruce Anthony
And I also didn't realize that he was eighty almost eighty years old or 80 years old but he always looked young.

17:40.34
J. Aundrea
I Mean you show was on for a minute you know the streets. The streets are hurt over this. Okay, what.

17:49.41
Bruce Anthony
And I was talking to some people. It ain't it ain't just the streets I'm talking to some people as is they like? yeah it was He was the voice of all of our sick days.

18:02.55
J. Aundrea
Yes, yeah, if you're a 90 s kid Jerry Springer if you was homesick from school that was it that was any kind of any day off you had if you were watching midday television you were watching Jerry Sprinter

18:20.31
Bruce Anthony
Um, and they would also run the shows at night too because they would and all my goodness and when those too hot for tv Jerry Springer tapes came out and you think I didn't buy 1 when I did a damn show. Did.

18:21.79
J. Aundrea
Can.

18:27.92
J. Aundrea
M. He was. He was a big he was he was trash Tv he was trash tv but he was all our you know he was our adolescence then that's true and the streets the street is all over my Tl. The streets are hurt over here.

18:47.13
Bruce Anthony
I But I think people forget that he used always have a message at the end of his episode a meaningful it. It was always I mean would be hit and miss you doing a show you doing that many shows you can't you.

18:52.88
J. Aundrea
He tried to yeah.

19:00.81
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, right right? um.

19:03.87
Bruce Anthony
You can't do that much meaningful messages with that many shows I mean it is ridiculous but it was he would always do it a final point and he would always try to have a message to all the nonsense that was going on but he was a part of the civil rights movement he gave. Ah, he gave.

19:20.56
J. Aundrea
What are you about to say no absolutely not and not in a no no I mean he was as derimental to us is like Sally Jesse Rapfael or Ricky Lake

19:22.61
Bruce Anthony
He gave black people a television time. What.

19:34.53
Bruce Anthony
Wait a minute. How are they? how were they detrimental.

19:38.72
J. Aundrea
Ah, man Ricky Lake had the worst black people on her show Ricky late. Yes Ricky Lake used to make us look real bad. Real bad. So yeah, she used to make us big red glasses getting on my earth.

19:41.87
Bruce Anthony
Worse than morey. Ok Sally Jesse you make us look bad too. What why you're kind of glasses.

19:56.61
J. Aundrea
Yeah, know daytime tv for a night for eighty s baby. We we had it. We had it the early 90 s late eighty s ninety s was woo what we have some good talk shows real good talk shows. You don't have that now. Everything is like.

20:00.21
Bruce Anthony
Why you're attacking the glasses.

20:06.15
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah.

20:16.50
J. Aundrea
Pandering to like moms in the midday and stuff and it's all like feel good stuff. No back in the day you have donahue and he would have have ah Lewis farrakhan and then that audience full of racists and they would just not talk like yeah but it needs to be real but used to keep real.

20:22.27
Bruce Anthony
Um.

20:28.85
Bruce Anthony
Yes, yes, the ah that's what I want this show to be and when in a few years I wanted to be I've model it after like the 80 s.

20:35.29
J. Aundrea
Ah.

20:45.86
Bruce Anthony
Not Jerry Springer I don't ever want to be like Jerry Jerry Springer but like the Donah Hughes heraldo before he was yeah before he lost his mind. Um, who else was out there doing stuff didn't whoopee have a ah daytime.

20:46.47
J. Aundrea
Right? And before he lost his mind.

21:02.31
Bruce Anthony
Talk show before she was on the view. Okay, yeah, that's what I was. That's that yes I'm sorry right? Yes, so that light.

21:02.44
J. Aundrea
I don't think so I mean you forget about the queen oprah the Queen me queen of daytime television. Yes, she would she would get them hard hidden and she would get. And people ask and that was great I love opra.

21:21.55
Bruce Anthony
It it well but that's like ah I just interviewed and the show be out this upcoming Tuesday it's a 2 part interview his name is Joshua Shay he's a porn addiction expert and like he was talking to me about porn addiction and.

21:32.45
J. Aundrea
Okay.

21:39.49
Bruce Anthony
The increase of porn and how it's ah affecting younger people and like I thought it was really real interesting. It could be a salacious topic because you're talking about porn. But actually you know what me and him were saying was porn is often. The thing that people don't want to talk about.

21:44.94
J. Aundrea
New New for it.

21:58.75
Bruce Anthony
But it's one of the biggest moneymaking industries in the world and it is everywhere so you can't hide it. You gotta talk about it and so it was real interesting. So yeah I model this show off of those 80 stuff. Not Jerry Springer though I attributed him.

22:00.88
J. Aundrea
Right? yeah.

22:11.48
J. Aundrea
M.

22:18.60
Bruce Anthony
To giving black people television time.

22:19.47
J. Aundrea
The cat can't I can't get what you buy that. But I'm telling you let me tell you the streets are hurt. They hurt.

22:23.90
Bruce Anthony
It's. Well I think that we are deeply sad by hair be afonte I think we are hurt by Jerry Springer and I feel like we are joyous by the witch.

22:31.56
J. Aundrea
Yes. M. I and I don't feel a sense of joy because the family will never get justice like death is not a form of justice. She lived a nice long 88 years like with her family and her friends and.

22:50.60
Bruce Anthony
It can be.

23:00.24
J. Aundrea
You know what? I'm saying remarried like it's and then she probably died peacefully in her sleep or some bullsh luck head you know and then promptly promptly went to hell. But I mean.

23:01.67
Bruce Anthony
Ah, yeah, I'm here.

23:14.80
Bruce Anthony
Okay, so can't you take solace in the fact that she's burning an eternal hell Oh I I don't want to that's I don't want it I but I don't want no parts of hell I don't yeah and I don't want.

23:20.46
J. Aundrea
No cause we'll get to see it like we'll get to know that and you know we'll never know we'll never see it because we not want us in this. No I want no parts I Know little part I don't want to know about it I want no parts of he. Um.

23:31.40
Bruce Anthony
I Don't want to see it Ah, nothing like that them. So when things get too hot I'm like hey it's too hot. Let me let me go ahead and pray.

23:37.35
J. Aundrea
Yeah out of that up. That's why I'm so worried about climate change like is this is no.

23:45.83
Bruce Anthony
I was gonna bring up you know Mar Taylor Green has been on one and I was gonna be like let's talk about the well she's really been on one and I was gonna talk about it but I was like and George Santos announced his re-election bid and I was like really brah.

23:51.16
J. Aundrea
Where would she opt 1

24:05.25
Bruce Anthony
And I was like no I don't want to talk about that stuff like I'm done with that I don't want to talk about that so you have any final thoughts to the 3 defs but you already gave your thought to the ah to the witch.

24:07.14
J. Aundrea
Now? Yeah, um, yeah, you know obviously rest in power to rest in just black power to Harry Belafonte ah he's definitely been He was definitely one of those black voices that we could be proud of and Jerry you left a hole in the community baby like ah ah you showing been off for a minute but.

24:41.48
Bruce Anthony
Ah.

24:43.69
J. Aundrea
You know passes left a whole of the computer in the streets. The streets are really ah they really.

24:47.81
Bruce Anthony
But he birthed the show I think the Steve Wilkco show is is on remember his bodyguard has his own show. So you know there's still the remnants I mean Jerry was eighty he couldn't keep doing that show.

24:53.14
J. Aundrea
Yes, no, no, it was way too much. It was doing way too much. But yeah there you go.

25:02.81
Bruce Anthony
So rest in rest in black power rest in power and burn in hell.

25:25.22
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

25:26.00
Bruce Anthony
Ah, this we had some interesting things that happened on cable news television this week Fox they said a mutual parting. Ah but I don't think Tucker Carlson did he got fired he got fired and Don lemon.

25:38.88
J. Aundrea
It's not what happened? Yeah because yeah.

25:43.47
Bruce Anthony
Show got fired because he got called from his from his age. It was like hey ah I don't think you need to your black ass to work today. It hey are you in a car to the ah to the studio.

25:50.10
J. Aundrea
Hey you know how he was going going to work today. You gotta do that.

26:01.65
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, go ahead turn around bro. Go get you? ah a Mc rib or mcriddle or something like that going home I and I need to talk to you They they was both fired. Ah.

26:09.67
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, yes because ah. Tucker's last show he talked about coming back next week so he was definitely everybody was fired. Yes.

26:15.94
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, but he was fired on that day. They may have waited. They may wait until after he finished filming is like hey tucker we need to talk to you for a second come on in is.

26:25.30
J. Aundrea
They were life and 5 4 3 2 we're out talking you 5 was that quick.

26:35.49
Bruce Anthony
So there's various reports I know why Don lemon is fired so I'll get to that in a minute but there was various reports of why Tucker Carlson was fired. Some people say it had to do with the settlement lawsuit and the fact that there's another lawsuit coming. Um.

26:37.98
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

26:45.80
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

26:49.94
Bruce Anthony
Some people said it. It didn't have anything to do with the lawsuit. It had to do with the evidence that was found during a deposition of his text messages that he was basically you know going at the Fox executives and they're like oh we can't have that. There's also been some misogyny from Tucker Carlson for years and that is something Fox will do.

27:06.30
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

27:08.29
Bruce Anthony
Fox will fire you for any type of sexual harassment because that's the reason why they got rid of yeah if you come it it if it becomes public and he's got he's being sued by a former producer of a show right now. Um for stuff like that. So Fox will fire you cause that's what they did to bill. O'reilly.

27:10.73
J. Aundrea
If your thumbs out in Public. Yes and will. Yeah.

27:26.47
Bruce Anthony
If if it's some sexual or harassment that comes out and then they say there was some other um, real hateful stuff that he said through text messages. It's even worse than the stuff that he said on the show and lord knows he said a lot of stuff on the show but he came out with a video on Twitter that was kind of different.

27:27.42
J. Aundrea
This.

27:36.40
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

27:46.14
Bruce Anthony
Ah I don't like to call things weird. It was different. It was unique in what he was saying it it it really? It's basically he was saying like hey you know coming out of that coming out of that. It's great to see. There's so many great people out here in the world and also there are so many.

27:46.24
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah I have not seen this video. What is yeah.

28:05.95
Bruce Anthony
Conversations that need to be had that are more important in the conversations that we're having and and no news media outlet is really having those conversations and I was like wait what it was. It was just different. Um, but I think it's all for a bid to be Trump's

28:17.15
J. Aundrea
M.

28:23.51
Bruce Anthony
Vice president.

28:24.49
J. Aundrea
Probably I mean there's a lot of doors that's open for um, first of all, it's a combination of all of those things and and you know the scuttlebutt around Fox was for a long time. How long is Rupert Murdocht really going to put up with Tucker Carlson

28:32.51
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah.

28:41.72
J. Aundrea
And his shenanigans doing whatever he wants on his show blah blah blah. So it's 700000000

28:50.63
Bruce Anthony
With at least another 7 It was 765000000 with at least the new the lawsuit that they have with systematic I think it is um the the one but there's another lawsuit that they currently have ah another defamation lawsuit.

28:52.50
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

29:00.30
J. Aundrea
That was dominion. Okay, um.

29:07.72
Bruce Anthony
Um, and they said they will not settle for anything less than what do menion got there's gonna be another check at the very least that they' gonna have to cut for 765000000 they are high but my thing is laen Laura Laura Ingraham and Sean Hannity were also a part of.

29:13.17
J. Aundrea
You His ratings ain't that high. Yeah, not that high.

29:25.11
Bruce Anthony
All of that misinformation more even more so than Tucker Carlson actually was like if you look at the reports Tucker is just a I call them the unholy trinity. Um, he's the worse of the 3 but he actually didn't.

29:35.68
J. Aundrea
Um, he asked? yeah.

29:42.22
Bruce Anthony
He didn't really attack the voting systems. He just espouses a lot of hate and he got it from his daddy but like oh so there's this documentary. It's so on Hbo and the documentary is is basically about the.

29:45.26
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, who who is daddy.

29:57.17
J. Aundrea
Um.

30:00.20
Bruce Anthony
It's not the first transgender person. Um, but it was this right I had a conversation I had a conversation about.

30:04.73
J. Aundrea
Because that's going back to antiquity the first trans person like that's we have no idea that is.

30:15.11
Bruce Anthony
Transgender and the history of transgender with somebody earlier this week. It was very disappointing that they were so misinformed. But um, it's it's about it. So there was ah a trans woman that came out with this car call Carl Carr called the Dale that's a talk twister.

30:28.73
J. Aundrea
Um.

30:32.68
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

30:34.72
Bruce Anthony
Car called it Dale it was a 3 tire car that she was developing that was going to blow out all the other competition this was in the 70 s um and and obviously she's a trans woman so she's portraying herself as a woman Tucker Carlson's daddy.

30:48.15
J. Aundrea
Yes.

30:53.30
Bruce Anthony
Was a reporter that basically uncovered that this Trans woman transitioned so used to be a man and said oh this is a reason not to trust this person. They're a liar about this car and about everything cause they're a liar about this like like a spouse and hey and when I.

30:58.57
J. Aundrea
Do next.

31:09.10
Bruce Anthony
It was funny because it's a 4 part documentary and I wish it was late. It's the documentary is called a lady and the Dale because Adele was the name of the car and it's interesting because as you get to like episode 3 they kind of don't bring out his name and then they say his name and then they bring out and like.

31:15.62
J. Aundrea
New.

31:28.52
Bruce Anthony
They do say his name. It's like Carlson it's a common last name and then they say the relation of who his son is and I was like oh that's Tucker Carlson's daddy. Oh so he didn't have a chance. He was born into hate like Tucker I don't want to defend this dude I will say he never had a chance. His daddy was born.

31:29.67
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

31:37.50
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

31:47.90
Bruce Anthony
Is a hateful bastard and his mama left him because his mom left because she was married to a hateful bastard and if you watch it lady in Adele you see absolutely the beginnings of Tucker Carlson ah and a sad because Tucker got some kids so it's gonna carry on.

32:02.10
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

32:07.00
Bruce Anthony
It's gonna carry on. But how do you feel about tucker being fired.

32:08.70
J. Aundrea
Good runs for bad rubbish I mean but it but it's not gonna be the end of Jesus right? It's am weak I film this show and do you know who calls.

32:14.90
Bruce Anthony
Oh lord.

32:26.63
J. Aundrea
Your mother every damn week I get it. She's calling I had surgery. She's calling make sure I'm all right? but Mom got a damn it.

32:44.16
Bruce Anthony
All does mom know that we filmed the show we filmed Friday show Thursday night to yes, well no, what wait a minute if you've never told her like hey mom we mom could think that we just filmed the show and post it immediately.

32:47.21
J. Aundrea
She are one of our most dedicated listeners. She has to know.

32:59.55
J. Aundrea
She was here with me and she knows I record and guess what I was a here recording what I hear on the door knock Knock Knock Why why were recording I could hear a little knock on the door.

33:02.62
Bruce Anthony
Like there's no other. That's right she was.

33:10.27
Bruce Anthony
I use it.

33:18.60
J. Aundrea
How we're we're got it right now.

33:21.23
Bruce Anthony
Who Mama love you dear Mama all right back to Tucker Carlson I can I'm keeping all of this in all of that is staying in because it's just that's just that's just a solicitive perspective on the sibling happy hour. That's just how we get down.

33:26.84
J. Aundrea
Yeah, been in.

33:33.60
J. Aundrea
Last keep it in um, it's not gonna be the last like I was saying it's not going to be the last to him. Obviously he's got a lot of places he could go. This is not the only news network that will pick up Tucker Carlson that people will take a chance I mean I'm sure. News max or oh and might take a chance on him. They'll probably put some you know parameters in place to keep him in ah in line but not to mention ah the potential for a political career for this guy I mean truly.

34:06.94
J. Aundrea
Is not the end of Tucker Carlham he's a white man in America let's be real. So like this is this is just as I don't even know that it's a setback. It might be the loosening of reins that let him truly fly won his bigot wings. So.

34:08.62
Bruce Anthony
There I.

34:26.19
Bruce Anthony
That's what I think it is I think it's a loosening on the reins I think he was like at first he was like wait man what because he's getting. He's getting that money. So at first he's probably like wait a minute what now he's probably like ah no, not as much as dominion got but but.

34:26.28
J. Aundrea
Anyway. Yeah, not more dominion got. But yeah, but.

34:41.97
Bruce Anthony
But dominion I think is almost no I don't think they're out of company I don't know. Um, okay so that's sucker Don I knew Don was on his way out soon. It had been to building things First he had gotten into a disagreement on his morning show with caitlyn collins.

34:50.25
J. Aundrea
And.

34:57.41
J. Aundrea
In rehears.

35:00.47
Bruce Anthony
And they sent him home for a couple of days then he makes the comment about Nikki Haley the age comment. They sent him home for a little bit then he rightfully challenges. Ah the political candidate the republican G O P candidate

35:06.42
J. Aundrea
And.

35:19.00
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

35:19.49
Bruce Anthony
I don't know his name but he's ah indian american and and what he was saying was that um the second amendment has been good for black but has been good for the civil rights movement and Don lemon pushed back all right to push back where Don went wrong.

35:30.50
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

35:39.23
Bruce Anthony
Is he said well wait a minute. What are you again? What is your nationality and he is like I'm indian american and and Don was basically just kind of brushed him off like you don't have a conversation is but he did it in kind of a disrespectful manner. Ah, he's.

35:50.37
J. Aundrea
I Mean it's not wrong. He doesn't have a dog in this fight. But.

35:56.67
Bruce Anthony
Don wasn't wrong for any of his checking he was wrong for the way that he did it especially coming from the fact that he had already gotten into issues with his coworkers and already done the 8 like his black ass was gonna get fired who's he think he was Tucker Carlson

36:04.96
J. Aundrea
Um, I mean I feel like I feel like he shouldn't know when they took away his show and put him on a morning show like yeah.

36:16.11
Bruce Anthony
Well, the morning show is ah gets there's more eyeballs to the morning show.

36:19.55
J. Aundrea
Now bears at work nobody is in nobody's watching Don Lemon in the morning your work they they took him up. They took him off prompt. No, that's primetimenewshours everybody isli everybody getting ready for bed. You got the news on you settling in. Okay.

36:26.92
Bruce Anthony
Nobody's watching Don Lemon at Eleven o'clock at night.

36:37.35
Bruce Anthony
Look his black ass should get some ice cream his black as shouldn't know when they got rid of Chris Cromo that he can get got to and and instead he started.

36:39.26
J. Aundrea
Get headline but with high screen.

36:47.95
J. Aundrea
M.

36:53.94
Bruce Anthony
Doub in down and I'm not saying that he's wrong. He he was wrong in his comments with Nikki Haley and no matter what your politics is you don't talk about somebody's age like don't do that I don't know what the situation was with him and caitlyn collins like I wasn't there so I can't say if he was right or wrong on this one and he was right to check.

37:01.97
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

37:07.49
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

37:13.76
Bruce Anthony
That G O P candidate for some some of the things that they were saying. That's what journalists are supposed to do is just wrong in a way that he said it I often say things did you enunciate that correctly. Okay, ah, he's a G O P Political candidate

37:20.20
J. Aundrea
The vck rama schwami that had to like Rama Schwami that's it

37:33.30
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, um I often like I remember growing up I used to tell dad all the time dad. That's not what you say is how you say it like I I understand what you're trying to tell me but like you saying it the most non nice terms is just turning me off So I'm not gonna get the lesson that you're trying to teach me because you're not saying it to me right.

37:38.10
J. Aundrea
M.

37:45.39
J. Aundrea
Yeah, right.

37:52.13
Bruce Anthony
Um, Don came at his head and don. You know they had to let Don go but would I mean but you're right, he was he he was spitting facts like this second amendment wasn't for helping black people, especially when they the Nra the Nra purposely tried to repeal certain gun laws.

38:03.80
J. Aundrea
How.

38:12.10
Bruce Anthony
Especially in California in the 60 s after the black panthers started walking around with guns because it was legal.

38:16.92
J. Aundrea
Yes, that was literally the only time that the nra was for gun control was when black folks had guns.

38:25.63
Bruce Anthony
Is when when black folks have guns I have a friend ah I have a friend. She's been my friend 15 years older lady ah in her sixty s from San Francisco grew up during the time of the black panthers white grew. Ah so she was living in San Francisco not in Oakland and I remember us having a conversation and this is ah not she's not a person that's racist at all but she was like oh the black panthers were bad right and I was like no they weren't. That was the news that but that was a news that was given.

38:59.90
J. Aundrea
And I can understand when they end the question with right because you don't know and you're asking you legitimately you're not making a statement that was a question and I could say that is incorrect what hears What really was going on and that's a lot of yeah.

39:05.20
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, right right.

39:12.96
Bruce Anthony
Ah, right.

39:16.75
J. Aundrea
So I I can I can respect it if it's in the form of a question like you truly just don't know what all I know is is black people with guns and that's typically not a good thing but you know no one with guns is a good thing. Kindnna that did you hear about all these countries like New Zealand and Uruguay and all this in uruguay erguay gu.

39:40.29
Bruce Anthony
Orruguay Uay It's why Gu okay make a damn points make a data point.

39:50.88
J. Aundrea
Think Well okay, ah issuing travel warnings to the us because of mass shootings. Yes, yeah, it's pretty pretty pretty sad.

39:56.24
Bruce Anthony
Really I did not know this.

40:08.70
Bruce Anthony
Ah, but I I got to push back on the statement that you just said you said there's no nothing. Nobody is good with a gun uroguy.

40:12.89
J. Aundrea
Ah, um o boy it is New Zealand canada Australia United Kingdom France and uru guy issue travel warnings to the us because of mass shootings. They're not.

40:23.27
Bruce Anthony
Um, they ain't wrong. There's one every week so they're not wrong. Ah, but I got to push back I got a push back and when you said there's nothing good with somebody with a gun That's that's not true. You know what's good.

40:27.14
J. Aundrea
Yeah, and there there's more than one every day.

40:41.79
Bruce Anthony
If I got a gun somebody breaking in my place.

40:42.70
J. Aundrea
Who was that was that mean we just gotta to we gotta work out what the systemic issues are causing people to have to break into another muzz place.

40:53.10
Bruce Anthony
I mean I completely agree with that. But in that particular moment I'm not trying to speak to that person that's breaking it in place hey man, let's talk. What are some systemic issues that you got going on in your life that is causing you to break it to my place.

41:00.92
J. Aundrea
Hey for this.

41:07.35
J. Aundrea
Yeah, not on that. No that real. That's real i' of your last like that's all I you know I got a bet with a sock on it. You know like that's what I've got to do I have explained that the physics of a bat with a sock on it.

41:10.31
Bruce Anthony
Let's talk about this a band with a sock on it.

41:25.89
J. Aundrea
To you before if you go to hit somebody with a bat. What are they gonna do. They're gonna try to grab that bat. Now you're tough and back and forth for the back. But if that bat has a sock on it and you pull the bat. The sock will come off. They'll fly back where you.

41:26.23
Bruce Anthony
Okay, we explain it to me again because I don't remember.

41:34.50
Bruce Anthony
Oh okay, you did explain right? if.

41:45.80
J. Aundrea
Get your stance back and bus them in the head. That's why you put a sock on your back. The brilliant lady I wish I could remember her handle on Tiktok but she showed us all why you put a sock on your back and truly is genius I don't know how we got to this Don Lemon listen

41:50.46
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

42:05.48
J. Aundrea
You were on that morning show for two months it was terrible. You made a lot of pride. You had a lot of gaffes. That's the reason why you got your old show taken away. This shouldn't have been a surprise I think the only thing that was surprising to him is that they never called him and told him but they don't owe you that they could just call you they they didn't like you don.

42:15.95
Bruce Anthony
Not This is. The.

42:25.40
J. Aundrea
That the people of Cnn the hireups they don't like you they were rather just call your agent and tell them that don't come in nomo youin't got to come and gone if you go pick up your last check or mail it to your house you you got to come here. No more. Okay.

42:43.98
Bruce Anthony
Ah, is there a black lead person on Cnn now. Ah I used to that used to be my station of choice. Not so much. They've been taken over by new management and and I'm and as i.

42:45.81
J. Aundrea
I don't watch Cnn so I would not know.

42:59.77
Bruce Anthony
As it's own in the background I'm listening to it I'm like okay can't listen to this anymore. Um, so that's your final thoughts on Don and tucker.

43:00.23
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah. Yeah, he shouldn't he should have known that was coming and for tucker he's a white man in America this is not the end.

43:12.55
Bruce Anthony
I don't think it's the end for Don either Donna did work again. He's a name.

43:14.92
J. Aundrea
Yeah, but there's a bt news he can. Ah, ah, ah, you can find a place to like will the last we see of anybody so it's fine.

43:27.50
Bruce Anthony
Like.

43:42.29
Bruce Anthony
All right? Let's end on a lighter note I Guess it's all been like because we was cracking jokes about people being fired like but look. That's what we do to similar happy hour. We go find a funny. It's gonna be inappropriate.

43:45.89
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, crack and jokes about people dying. So it's fine. Yeah, we go find. It's gonna be wildly inappropriate. But that's okay.

44:04.32
Bruce Anthony
Oh so before we talk about last night I got to talk about how I met um god Jamie Hoyer she was ah an actress on law and order SV you and she.

44:15.27
J. Aundrea
You were incredibly excited about this.

44:20.59
Bruce Anthony
Oh my God because so she played cat she was detective I call a detective cat and and I dug I dug her character for so many reasons one she wasn't soft. She was a female detective. She wasn't soft soft matter. Of fact, she was kind of like hey man you.

44:26.46
J. Aundrea
Um.

44:39.20
Bruce Anthony
Kind of police brutality need need to need to pull it back. So I like the fact that she was badass. She's gorgeous right? But also she was the first detective that was part of the lgbtq community and certain people that probably don't even listen to this show.

44:44.93
J. Aundrea
Um, and you.

44:58.12
Bruce Anthony
But know me in my personal life found out how much of a supporter I am for the Lgbt Q I I forgot about the I the Lg P L G B T Q I a community um plus yeah, it's it's It's a lot to remember hey yeah, hey look hey y'all.

45:05.89
J. Aundrea
Yes, plus it's a lot a lot of letter. Yeah.

45:16.14
Bruce Anthony
Um, a huge supporter that's a lot to remember but she was the first like person of that community that was a detective on the show and and I was just like oh I I I love fact and then she was on for a couple of seasons. They wrote her all and and she's also a person of color because she's a Lebanese um.

45:23.85
J. Aundrea
Menu.

45:30.99
J. Aundrea
Okay.

45:35.76
Bruce Anthony
And so I was like this is this is dope like they don't really I mean ice tea's been only detective of color. Besides you know, a couple people. There was a guy that was a native american 1 time and I yes he is um was really nobody else. They got rid of the captain.

45:41.29
J. Aundrea
Yeah, and he's literally the lightest black person you could find yeah.

45:54.92
Bruce Anthony
Who was oh, that's what it was the captain who was black. No, he wasn't gay but they had a black captain and they got rid of him and I'm just like man just getting rid of all the people of color and I was like the show was good like what did they do and then they created ah another female character that's a rip off. Basically detective cat without being gay and without being a person of color and I was like oh I see what y' did so I met her randomly at a Harris Teter up the road for me. Um, most people that listen to the show know I live right outside of Dc in Northern Virginia and she explained to me she was like yeah I'm from right around here I grew up around here.

46:19.62
J. Aundrea
You.

46:32.64
Bruce Anthony
And in my head I'm thinking. Oh yeah, you got to be from somewhere like you just didn't drop out of space. It's just become this character or theto like okay that's really dope it cool I was really excited to meet her because I realized that she was top 4 favorite characters of that show of all time.

46:33.12
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yes. New death.

46:46.60
J. Aundrea
And now to to be clear when we say you love law and order s V He really really does audience. So.

46:51.60
Bruce Anthony
Yes.

47:02.16
J. Aundrea
He sends us a picture of this I occasionally if if it's on Usa which it always is. It's always ah you say and I've nothing to do I will watch it because it is a good show. Um.

47:11.40
Bruce Anthony
It's always hard.

47:15.56
Bruce Anthony
Crazy show.

47:18.61
J. Aundrea
This is this random wolf that you met at a Harris Theaterer and we have no idea who it is well I think mom recognized her you said it that yeah you said it in a group chat and we're just like I don't okay, who is that.

47:25.89
Bruce Anthony
No mom was one was like who is that.

47:34.78
J. Aundrea
But um, you were very very excited about this encounter. Um I would say too excited.

47:43.59
Bruce Anthony
I absolutely was too excited because I don't fan boy out I've met a few celebrities in my lifetime I've met Kevin Hart um I've met Cat Williams I played with players that went to the Nba.

47:43.97
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

47:49.65
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

47:56.90
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

48:00.61
Bruce Anthony
Um I met Ray Island 1 time I've met I don't know how many what type musicians I met musicians before I even kicked it with a few people. Um I'm not gonna name no names. But I've kicked it you know because our ah our uncle through marriage was a.

48:06.86
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

48:19.89
Bruce Anthony
Person that worked at a major nightclub in the Dc area and used to get me in the Vp section. So I used to hang out with people I don't fan boy out That's that's not like I'm I don't I'm very rarely impressed and that's not to say anything. That's just like I don't get too high or low most of time in my life anyway. But.

48:22.85
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

48:30.72
J. Aundrea
Yeah. Yeah, right.

48:39.35
Bruce Anthony
When I met her the the way I met her was we walk to the grocery store together. She's with somebody and I'm looking at it I'm like that can't be her. Why would she be here this random Harris Theateratter grocery store like why was well no no, no she doesn't live here. She's from here. Her family is from here like she grew up here but she lives in New York

48:41.57
J. Aundrea
In.

48:48.31
J. Aundrea
Because she lives here. Okay.

48:58.95
Bruce Anthony
Because I started following on Instagram and by the way Jamie I'm still waiting for you to follow me on Instagram ah still waiting for you to follow me back. You asked me, you asked me my name 3 times to make sure you have my name but I still haven't gotten a follow back. You haven't you you haven't even read the dm that I set you like you know.

49:03.21
J. Aundrea
Um.

49:10.85
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

49:14.47
J. Aundrea
Yeah, is truly too much I am very concerned about your well-being.

49:17.60
Bruce Anthony
If you got a publicist um that manages your ah as yeah, if you got a publicist somebody that manages your I'm not hitting on you even though I do think you are gorgeous.

49:28.56
Bruce Anthony
Now I'm cool I'm cool. You know it's all right? I'm not checking my Instagram constantly every time I get a notification to see if that's her follow me back. That's that's not yes I am but so we walk into the grocery store together and I'm looking at her and I'm like oh man.

49:34.50
J. Aundrea
Um, yet you are yes you are.

49:47.21
Bruce Anthony
She looks like her but there's no way that that's her and then like we're kind of. We're not I'm not following her but wherever we're going is the same direction and I said excuse me, you know you really remind me of and she's and she said without me finishing and ah and a sly little grin.

49:52.59
J. Aundrea
Who.

50:07.80
Bruce Anthony
I could be her and when she said that and I heard her voice because she has a dark she has a deeper voice when she said that I'm ladies and gentlemen I'm 6 for 4 right now I'm probably about two hundred and thirty pounds I'm not a small man I'm in my workout gear I'm actually funky because I just finished working out.

50:09.57
J. Aundrea
You.

50:22.93
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, he.

50:26.60
Bruce Anthony
And when she said I might be her I jumped up in the air did a full 3 60 spin landed and said oh my god I'm telling y'all that is not something I normally do in my life.

50:36.70
J. Aundrea
And when I heard this I was immediately ashamed because you had an opportunity to really play this cool.

50:42.20
Bruce Anthony
I I I did not I did not but that that was a genuine sincere moment though.

50:51.23
J. Aundrea
Yeah, which is fine I Guess that's fine I'm sure that made her day.

50:59.22
Bruce Anthony
She was not ah she was laughing. Her friend was laughing not like laughing like making fun of me laughing laughing at the excitement and the joy and let me explain to you that the back and forth I had with this woman because as per.

51:01.12
J. Aundrea
Um, you think.

51:05.45
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

51:15.82
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

51:16.43
Bruce Anthony
The case with me I put my foot in my mouth. So I said I Love the show I Love your character in the show. Why did they write you off as she like no right, she she looked at me she was like I don't know and I was like that was their mistake and blah blah Blah blah and so I'm just we're talking.

51:23.12
J. Aundrea
Golf course that never first.

51:34.25
Bruce Anthony
And were going back and forth and she treated me with such kindness and I was fidgeting with my phone I wanted to ask her to take a picture but I didn't want to she was like do you want to take a picture and I was like yes please And at first I was gonna do the hold my arm up selfie thing but I was like no this is too important.

51:34.26
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

51:45.40
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

51:53.28
Bruce Anthony
And so I asked some random guy to go to ske me excuse me sir with that. Um, ah yeah, because you're an asshole and this is the reason why I don't ask to see how you do it from your major surgery.

51:54.26
J. Aundrea
It was me I like get somebody else to do it.

52:07.71
Bruce Anthony
So I ask a random guy and I'm just like hey man I'm I'm sorry can you do me a favor. Can you take a picture of us he said yes sure So I hamed the phone and I was like oh wait this needs to be in Portrait Role Portrait mode because I need to have the best quality picture that I possibly can so he is like.

52:08.39
J. Aundrea
Um.

52:26.30
Bruce Anthony
He took the pictures. He took a couple of them. He was like I hope they are good I didn't even really look at the picture. She kind of grabbed my phone and looked at me. She's like oh that's a good picture and I was just like just thank you so much I Really appreciate it I'm a big fan now. Dad said when you ask her to be on the show that thought was crossing my mind.

52:41.24
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

52:44.91
Bruce Anthony
As I'm interacting with her but it felt like that what it came off as shady as hell like I'm acting like I'm acting like I'm excited just to get her on the show that moment was pure. It was genuine. It's an uncharacteristic moment for me.

52:49.32
J. Aundrea
Total health.

52:57.75
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

53:01.12
Bruce Anthony
I Wanted to live in that joy if something happens later on down the road if it's meant to be it will happen. But in that moment I just wanted to enjoy the unfiltered joy that I rarely have now I'm not saying that I don't have joy but I'm just saying just like this. It's.

53:03.86
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

53:09.94
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

53:16.76
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

53:19.76
Bruce Anthony
For me to have this type of joy is not common for me to just like jump I don't jump up an air doing 3 60 He'll mind I got bad knees. Um, so I wanted to hold on this moment I wanted to hold on to this moment so much.

53:35.18
Bruce Anthony
I Made a point to not run into her again in the grocery store because I saw her a couple of times and I ducked down the aisles because I didn't want it to be any more creepy than I think it already was.

53:42.67
J. Aundrea
Yeah, if what I don't think of I don't think she thought it was creepy I think she thought you were a fan of the show and you really liked her character and you were excited to meet her. It was a big deal. Yeah.

53:51.96
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah, no, it was a big deal to me and like I said she treated me with such kindness. She made it a point to try and remember my name and and to beat so she was just so nice and I learned something from that moment we have fans out there.

53:59.17
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

54:07.86
J. Aundrea
Near.

54:11.16
Bruce Anthony
We have fans all over the world. It's not like weird like this the number 1 podcast in America I'm not trying to portray it like that. But we literally I see downloads from all over the world because I can track where they're coming from and and a lot of these people have never met me before right? and maybe they're like.

54:22.10
J. Aundrea
Um.

54:24.57
J. Aundrea
Right.

54:30.85
Bruce Anthony
Die hard fans of the show and they listen to absolutely every episode like people that I know that I know our of as fans like I know them listen and maybe one day they see me in a grocery store and they're excited to meet me because they enjoyed my podcast and maybe I'm having a shitty day right.

54:35.83
J. Aundrea
Small.

54:45.52
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

54:49.63
Bruce Anthony
And maybe I'm not in the mood to engage because oftentimes because I'm an extrovert Introvert or Introvert Extrovert I Often don't like engaging with people but I do like people. It's a weird concept that I can't understand but maybe I'm having a bad day and I don't feel like engaging. But.

54:56.58
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

55:08.81
Bruce Anthony
That person that interaction with that person. Maybe it makes their day I will never forget the interaction that I had with her that will live on for the rest of my life. That's a passing moment for her but but her impression to me will last a lifetime so I made it I'm gonna make it a point to always be.

55:12.83
J. Aundrea
Yeah. Yeah, yeah.

55:28.52
Bruce Anthony
Try to live up to what she did to try to live up to that kindness towards other people because it makes a difference. Well, ah.

55:30.10
J. Aundrea
Yeah, you're better than me because I'm a be like you wanted. Can we get a picture now get somebody else to do it. Listen you get it. It depends on which Johnny you gonna get and I can only keep a real I can only get real.

55:46.76
Bruce Anthony
You told your government name. You just said your government name.

55:49.16
J. Aundrea
Um, I just said job people know my name is honestly you can google J Andrea and get my name like it's not that difficult. Um I did I I wasn't adamant about it. But I mean my name is Jona like that's it's i.

55:55.89
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, okay, but at the beginning when we first started this podcast. He was adamant about you news.

56:07.65
J. Aundrea
I Don't know what you can do with that information very little. So if you want to try to steal my identity you just gonna be practicing. You're gonna give it back. You're gonna give it back and you're gonna feel sorry for me so like it. Oh don't worry about it.

56:09.49
Bruce Anthony
It.

56:20.82
Bruce Anthony
Then.

56:24.23
J. Aundrea
Um, but yeah that a you I hell I don't know what kind of John are you gonna get and and that's not me being on some like you know I'm a celebrity or and no bullshit like that with oh sorry, a cus to get it. Ok ok, cool.

56:37.91
Bruce Anthony
We have already established that we could say shit a few times episode actually I did a ah finish your thought.

56:44.10
J. Aundrea
Yeah, it's not on that This is my normal personality. This is my normal personality I am not on some like ah because I'm not famous. Nobody recognizes me when I go outside no one so like literally that's not this is my normal personality.

56:47.55
Bruce Anthony
Dear.

57:01.15
J. Aundrea
If you come up to me I mean maybe I'll be cordial. Maybe I won't I don't know I'm suspicious I don't know I know I don't know who's a ah yeah.

57:08.27
Bruce Anthony
Okay, I mean I get that I get that I get that also because I remember a kind I remember a time that you really got mad at me about a guy that was I don't remember the whole story and you know what we're gonna.

57:21.10
J. Aundrea
Ah, yeah.

57:26.58
J. Aundrea
Oh.

57:27.52
Bruce Anthony
And we're gonna say this for the after hours episode. We're gonna say that story when my sister got annoyed to me about a guy and and I'll tell more about the the night I had with my bestie celebrating her birthday on the after hours episode y'all yeah y'all got to join Patreon because I'm tell you what before we get off in this episode the fortieth episode were clips.

57:34.86
J. Aundrea
Yeah, growing here about this.

57:46.94
Bruce Anthony
That I gave for free of a couple of clips from after hours uncensored and talking straight-ish they had a whole episode to see what that's like so.

57:47.83
J. Aundrea
Um.

57:58.45
Bruce Anthony
Y'all want to hear these stories go ahead and join that Patreon page at patreon.com backslas unsolicit perspectives this is good content on there is more content because we free and we cuss and and all that good stuff that was it. That's all I had to say what.

58:04.58
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

58:10.86
J. Aundrea
Yes, it that's in the show by guys. Um, not one talking you know about the rest of your day.

58:15.16
Bruce Anthony
I Mean this is and it and and I it it is a a show but we gonna do a better. We're gonna do better. We gonna do a better sign off than that. So so J where you what to the people out there.

58:28.39
J. Aundrea
A may I finish that stuff you got on your to do list go ahead and do it. This is now I'm not talking to you I'm talking about anybody out there it is it is but but also you know you got some stuff on your to do list that you need to get done. Go.

58:33.30
Bruce Anthony
Oh yeah, that felt like a direct shot.

58:43.62
Bruce Anthony
Um.

58:46.42
J. Aundrea
And do it. There's really no, you're the only person in your way that's stopping you from getting your stuff done and it is it is procrastination but it's also like I don't know this is a weird feeling of getting stuff done. It's just the finality of that thing being done I don't know it's It's a a weird thing. It's a weird psychological thing talk to your therapist I don't know but get the stuff. Yeah, get the stuff done. Get the stuff done write it down.

59:10.42
Bruce Anthony
Um, it's a sense of accomplishment.

59:17.88
J. Aundrea
Make a little box next to it so you can check it off when you finish it and get the stuff done. You got some stuff on your to do list. Go ahead and get it done Yin got ya Ai n't doing nothing come on. It's almost friday come on. It's Friday you got though you got the weekend ahead of you get some stuff done. That's my sign off? yeah.

59:36.59
Bruce Anthony
Okay, ah it felt like a.

59:37.73
J. Aundrea
That was my new thing I'm gonna give you all advice. That's gonna be my sign off.

59:42.42
Bruce Anthony
So it sound kind of sending to me because it felt like a direct shot.

59:44.80
J. Aundrea
It is is partly directed exactly at you.

59:52.91
Bruce Anthony
I'm get my passport renewal done. But on that note I'm a holler.