Bear with Us: Trust, Sperm Donors & Hollywood Talents

00:03.72
Bruce Anthony
Welcome First of all welcome this is unsolicited perspectives I'm your host Bruce Anthony here to lead the conversation in important events and topics that are shaped today's society join the conversation to follow us wherever you get your audio podcasts subscribe to our Youtube channel to watch our video podcast rate review. Like comment share share with your friends share with your family hell even share with your enemies on today's episode it's the sibling happy hour I'm here with my sister Jay Andrea we're gonna be talking about man or bear who should a woman trust then we're gonna be talking about can sperm donors. Paid child support and then we're going to be ranking 4 actors in their acting ability. But that's enough of the intro. Let's get to the show.

00:56.40
Bruce Anthony
What up says I can't call it I can't call it. We got to film this show and then I got a pack.

00:57.11
J. Aundrea
Um, what up bretta.

01:03.54
J. Aundrea
Oh yeah I forgot you're going on a birthday trip. Not your birthday Your Bestie's birthday shout out to her.

01:08.84
Bruce Anthony
I'm head my besties birthday heading in New York cities yeah happy should I can I tell? well she I don't think she's tripping about how she's turning my bestie is gonna be turning.

01:16.92
J. Aundrea
Is we not releasing her names. That's fine.

01:21.26
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, ah my bestie is turning forty years old this this is a big birthday. She's having a big blowout in New York City because she's from all right this I joke on her all the time about this. She ain't really from New York city she is Cu Staten Island is absolutely a boro home of the woutan clan.

01:27.76
J. Aundrea
Um, this are.

01:35.27
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, yes.

01:39.78
Bruce Anthony
But staten island ain't no real staten island ain't part of New York cities I mean technically but ah Manhattan which Manhattan Harlem right because it's say Manhattan Harlem the Bronx Brooklyn.

01:45.51
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, yes, no, not technically what do you consider New York city

01:56.45
J. Aundrea
Um, if you consider queens you can consider Staten Iowa okay you're gonna have new yorkers down your throat.

01:58.87
Bruce Anthony
And Queens Well I almost don't consider Queens I Almost don't I Almost don't yeah I know and but I do because there's too many. There's too many real people and queens.

02:12.30
J. Aundrea
Are yeah.

02:18.20
Bruce Anthony
And so queens is definitely a part of New York city but Staten Island and I want to say I want to say well you got to take a bridge or a ferry to even get to Staten Island I don't even think there is a is there a bridge to Staten Island yeah yeah I I'm going

02:28.71
J. Aundrea
True. No, it's the fairy I think well you know what don't get don't get beat a lion because I don't know I've never been to Stan I've been to every borough.

02:37.40
Bruce Anthony
I don't know. But.

02:45.51
J. Aundrea
But I've never I've never been to staten island.

02:47.44
Bruce Anthony
But I joked on her the last time we were hanging out she came over to watch ah w rustlemania with me night one we had a really good time and I noticed the last time I hung out with her I was over her place that her New York accent is coming out more now than ever. And I was like you know make no sense for your New York accent to come out now you've been living in Dc for the last fifteen years well are they close I yeah i.

03:05.53
J. Aundrea
Um, there are 4 bridges that connect staten island to the rest of the world a clue the verraano bridge which I did know about that. So yeah.

03:17.58
Bruce Anthony
I mean does it connect to Manhattan or Harlem. Yeah I just I just remember so I just remember sex in the city and Carrie was like she had to make sure that she caught the ferry in order to get home or else. There was no way for her to get home.

03:23.80
J. Aundrea
I don't know. Ah, but that there are bridges.

03:35.20
J. Aundrea
So the ver is the verrazao bridge connects Staten Island and Brooklyn.

03:37.40
Bruce Anthony
Maybe they don't got no cabs out there. Okay, Brooklyn is right next to Manhattan because there's a bridge that connects Manhattan to Brooklyn the Brooklyn the I mean I mean Brooklyn isn't right next to queens.

03:46.11
J. Aundrea
Yeah I mean they're all right next to each other if we're being honest I'm looking at it as a person who lives in Georgia where they're where it takes an hour to get across town. So like.

04:03.10
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, okay okay I mean and and they are. It's real New York city and and she's from New York when her accent comes out I'm like that is very New York so she is I mean she's from New York she's gonna kill she's gonna kill me

04:05.81
J. Aundrea
For me, they're all close to each other. Yeah yeah.

04:17.60
J. Aundrea
Um.

04:20.53
Bruce Anthony
She sees me I heard you I heard your show I am from New York you always say that and lord knows I don't want to get another punch from her did I ever tell you the story about the punch. Okay soap there used to be this bar and I never let her liver down there used to be this bar and.

04:26.99
J. Aundrea
No, and I must know.

04:38.63
Bruce Anthony
Arlington Virginia called a town now on Sundays it was a sports bar but on Sundays it was like a club right for the football games I mean they had table service and bottles and sparklers and a deejay. It was lit.

04:38.99
J. Aundrea
E.

04:44.47
J. Aundrea
Okay.

04:52.95
J. Aundrea
Um, okay.

04:54.60
Bruce Anthony
And they would give you this giant bottle champagne for like $25 you would nobody ever went to a town and didn't walk out of there completely lit all the way up on a sunday.

05:04.38
J. Aundrea
Is it is a town was it is it like a play on an Atlanta bar because that's very much because it's even called a town so I thought oh.

05:12.00
Bruce Anthony
Na Yeah, no, no and I don't know why I was called a town. It's closed now. Um, and it started dying towards end cause people I mean we got too old like you got we got too old to be there anyway. So one night I had thrown a little party.

05:23.84
J. Aundrea
Um, is.

05:28.85
Bruce Anthony
For a lot of my personal clients and it was a packed table. It was like fifteen twenty people and we were drinking everything and my and my bestie came out support me right me my bestie one of my clients and her.

05:30.74
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

05:40.91
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

05:46.99
Bruce Anthony
Fiance at the time but now her husband were the last four there and the Dj was playing all the hits and we was dancing to having a good time now. My best is yep.

05:48.67
J. Aundrea
M. From the nine nine in the 2000 or what do? What do you describe as hits is that is that where we're talking about the same thing. Okay, okay, okay, yeah.

05:59.59
Bruce Anthony
No, it was hits during that time. So it was like hotline bling like and it was like it was like it was that time period Anyway, so we're dancing. We're not really dancing with each other. We're just like dancing in space and my best is an attractive person. So another female.

06:13.57
J. Aundrea
E.

06:18.10
Bruce Anthony
Started dancing with them. They were just dancing and in the next thing that I know I see this other female. Grab my besties booty my bestie in her drunken state thought it was me turned around and slug the hell out of me.

06:25.29
J. Aundrea
I.

06:37.54
Bruce Anthony
And I yelled that wasn't me I would never do that it was this woman right here and she was like oh my god I'm so sorry she hit me with look Jay I'm be honest if I had.

06:40.68
J. Aundrea
Um, he.

06:44.60
J. Aundrea
Did she know light. Okay did she just turn around and hit the first person that was behind her. Okay, so she didn't know it was you specifically she just turned around slugggged. Okay, okay.

06:49.13
Bruce Anthony
It was instinct. Yeah, that's she said it was just instinct right? And no she she to you. She just turned around slugging so it was instinct it wasn't it wasn't her thinking it was me it was just somebody grabbed her butt and she turned around and slugged him and.

07:04.76
J. Aundrea
Yeah, fair, got you.

07:07.35
Bruce Anthony
That person that she turned around the slug happened to be me and I joke with her all the time I say I'm gonna be on my deathbed and I'm gonna be like hey hey you remember that Tom you pushed me in the bar because she's like you never gonna let me let that down like note and but I was like.

07:20.65
J. Aundrea
No, no, absolutely not? yeah yeah, you get get this get to swinging.

07:25.26
Bruce Anthony
I was like that's how I knew you was for real for real cause I know some women have been grabbed and there's just like whatever like that's what people are gonna do not her. She turned around and not a slap it. But it what the slap it was a straight up but it was it was them hands and it was a solid.

07:39.79
J. Aundrea
It was dumb hands. Yeah, yeah, do that's yeah was pretty good. Good for her.

07:44.60
Bruce Anthony
It was solid it. was solid it yeah so yeah, so I never let her live it down. But anyway so we're gonna be going out in New York cities um having a good time and ladies and gentlemen I know it's New York City I say New York cities because that's what they said in the movie life.

07:57.16
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

08:03.56
Bruce Anthony
When Martin and Eddie was arrested in the south they said Mr. New York City is because it was 2 of them. So I know that's not when my speech impeddiment comes out just let y'all know all right? You know what? that was a long way of wishing my best day a happy birthday. But let's get into something.

08:10.37
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, we we we we know? yeah.

08:22.87
Bruce Anthony
Speaking of women let's get into something that that you brought to my attention that that was very interesting. So can you do it. So can you introduce the people to what it is that you sent to me.

08:24.83
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, because it is all over my timeline. Yes, um so.

08:41.14
J. Aundrea
Sorry I was the dog. Ah so a Tick Tock I believe it's a ticktok has been going viral. It is essentially somebody out on the street interviewing women and it's a compilation of these women's answers to this 1 question that he's asking.

08:56.79
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

08:58.79
J. Aundrea
And the question is would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or bear and if they and if he asked 10 women nine of them said bear and quickly like not.

09:03.66
Bruce Anthony
Are.

09:12.14
J. Aundrea
Not like a slow response. They didn't have to think about it. The one woman that I saw that did say a man. It was very slow to come out like that was a slow she thought about it. Ah really weighed her options and. So. There's been a lot of backlash again from these um, Incel Alpha Male Red Pill guys that got microphones and we wish they didn't um so.

09:44.50
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

09:46.82
J. Aundrea
They they are incensed like they are livid that so many women because of course then women stitch this video or they do wet it and they like get the bear the bear. And honestly, ah if I were to answer that question would I be in a would I rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear. The answer is the bear and that's and that's just the truth. The answer is the bear and the reason why and a lot of women have pointed this out and some men too is that. If The bear attacks me people will believe me, they'll believe me they won't ask me dumb things like what was I wearing to attract the bear. Why was I walking in the woods you know I mean I would ask me why I was walking in the woods because why was I in the woods when there's bears in the woods. But.

10:19.80
Bruce Anthony
E.

10:36.43
Bruce Anthony
Name been going for a hike I know a lot of people that go for a hike. Yeah.

10:37.50
J. Aundrea
The point is may have been going for a height don't know but the point is these these red pillars. They are pissed because they're like you really think that you be safer with a bear and.

10:55.00
Bruce Anthony
I'm gonna have to cut you off, You're gonna have to explain to people what the red pill is I know what it is. It's going from the matrix but but you got to have to explain and there's ah a huge thing on the internet about Red pill. Um.

10:55.38
J. Aundrea
The.

10:58.85
J. Aundrea
Yes.

11:07.53
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

11:08.23
Bruce Anthony
Ah, you gonna have to break this down for the people because you keep saying red pill and there's gonna be some people that's gonna be listening to this saying what is what does red pill have to do anything about it like ah.

11:18.20
J. Aundrea
So they're using it incorrectly. So there's the red pill and the blue pill. So ah so in the matrix.

11:20.77
Bruce Anthony
Of course, of course they always use it. They say correctly of course.

11:34.38
J. Aundrea
What was it. There was a red pill and a blue pill and.

11:37.23
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, Neo had to make ah Morpheus gave Neo a choice between the red pill or the blue pill.

11:41.40
J. Aundrea
Yes, and so the blue pill the story ends you wake up in your bed you believe whatever you want to believe that was the line from the matrix you take the red pill and I'll show you how deep the rabbit hole goes. So basically.

11:57.24
Bruce Anthony
3

11:59.49
J. Aundrea
To be a red pill person is um to be what what these guys love to call themselves an independent thinker right? But they.

12:11.50
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah, that's what they think they think they're but too far and and they think they are enlightened but actually what they're doing is exactly what the blue pill would do.

12:18.30
J. Aundrea
Typically take it too too far yet? yes.

12:28.54
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, correct Oh no and not irregardless. It's just regardless I didn't know you were irregardless guy.

12:31.40
Bruce Anthony
They're going to sleep believing what they want to believe I regardless of facts. Oh no, what.

12:44.80
Bruce Anthony
I am regardless no but be I like Ill Regardless it put X it puts extra emphasis on things regardless of the fact. Okay.

12:47.46
J. Aundrea
Oh no, it's just regard. It's just regardless but hope all right. You don't all right? She thank you.

13:04.49
Bruce Anthony
If I was writing a paper. It would be regardless of the fact, not irregardless because spell check would be like this is not a word but regardless of the fact that they are um I forgot my whole point now because you wanted to call out my ah my grammar. What was my point.

13:06.90
J. Aundrea
Right.

13:22.80
Bruce Anthony
I had I was about the I was about to kill him with I had something deep you had to be like not illre regarddless I was like you know what? That's not the point. Yeah, yeah, they're living in the illusion of their own.

13:27.80
J. Aundrea
So you you are basically saying what they're what they're actually doing is taking the blue pill and living in this illusion.

13:38.65
Bruce Anthony
Their own belief because it's easier for them to believe that they're right about their small minded thinking than the fact that life is way more nuanced than they want to give it credit for because this is a situation I said it on the Tuesday episode people love to be the hero of their own story.

13:43.46
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

13:57.54
J. Aundrea
Um.

13:57.61
Bruce Anthony
Being the hero of your own story means like you you you pulled yourself up by your boost bat boosttraps Regardless of the fact that that you got help right? that you don't wanna acknowledge. It's the it's the I want to take the last shot to win the game of life. So.

14:05.88
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

14:15.43
J. Aundrea
Um, and.

14:15.76
Bruce Anthony
It is very hard for these people to have nuanced conversations where their belief system is challenged and the the person that's challenging them or giving them straight facts that they can't deny. They can't know cause in that would mean how to that would mean that they have to admit that they are wrong. So they don't want to do that. So yeah.

14:20.41
J. Aundrea
Um, now.

14:31.73
J. Aundrea
Right? And and and part of what this is is they believe that they are awake to the ultimate truth which is that men and women are different.

14:35.84
Bruce Anthony
They're taking the blue pill.

14:46.25
J. Aundrea
And therefore we should submit to our gender roles like that's the ultimate truth that they think they've woken up to.

14:51.16
Bruce Anthony
But and their truth is half right because men and women are different. we we yeah

14:56.65
J. Aundrea
Yes, and that's that's fine. It's fine that men and women are different. It's when you start to place those differences in a hierarchy that it become that it becomes a mess. So anyway, they're they're pissed off about this. But what's so interesting.

15:04.18
Bruce Anthony
Yes.

15:14.47
J. Aundrea
About the vitriol that is coming out of these men's mouths and some women ah because do not forget that picmes exist and none of them have been picked.

15:22.65
Bruce Anthony
Explain to people what picnies are you don't a lot of stuff out here. People might not know we.

15:33.38
J. Aundrea
Okay, so a pick me typically is or a pic Misha is it is ah a woman or girl who everything she does is for the male gaze.

15:39.50
Bruce Anthony
Then.

15:49.36
J. Aundrea
Or for male validation and at the expense of herself and other women men do it too but a pick me woman. Yeah, ah so a pic me woman is going to say yeah women women should be in the house or I don't I don't think women should be allowed to vote.

15:51.66
Bruce Anthony
Um, men do it to they. They're just called simps.

16:07.63
J. Aundrea
Ah, prime example is ah ah Tick tocker. Her name is pearl. Um, she is she is terrible. Yeah yes, so Pearl has ah fallen out of favor.

16:10.35
Bruce Anthony
Oh God I can't stay. We've talked about pearl before when we in the manosphere episode ladies and gentlemen just look up the manosphere episode. We talk about Pearl but go ahead.

16:26.90
J. Aundrea
Because she went on a talk show I I cannot forget remember who this he's a conservative white man and he pretty much throws it down to nothing I I agree with like literally nothing. This man says.

16:35.80
Bruce Anthony
That's narrowing it down right.

16:42.35
J. Aundrea
But he challenged her on everything that it wasn't tucker. Um, but anyway he challenged her on everything she brought up. It was the pice. Yes, it wasn't Pis Morgan who interviewed her it was somebody else, but it was that show. Um, so.

16:43.88
Bruce Anthony
Was it Tucker Carlson

16:52.28
Bruce Anthony
Peers it was Pis Morgan yeah okay here.

17:01.64
J. Aundrea
Like she wants mandatory um ah Dna testing at the birth of your children and he's like well what you're implying is is that my wife is a whore and I take offense to that. Ok well maybe maybe it should be voluntary.

17:12.29
Bruce Anthony
Me.

17:19.40
J. Aundrea
Well, they're already voluntary. You can already voluntarily do that I don't believe in divorce not even in cases of infidelity or what would you do? if if this happened or what would you do with that and the problem would pick me is that and and the problem with a red pillar that is that none of their arguments are based in like reality.

17:19.43
Bruce Anthony
For right.

17:37.27
Bruce Anthony
O.

17:39.25
J. Aundrea
They're delusional so they'll never actually hold up to any kind of scrutiny. We see this all the time with the fresh and fit guys. They get owned by people constantly you know the 2 dos in ah Miami.

17:48.47
Bruce Anthony
Who were the fresh and fit guys.

17:57.65
J. Aundrea
Is there 2 black dudes. 1 of them ended up getting a stripper pregnant and tried to get it to have an abortion. It's myron I need you to get? Yeah, need you to get know I know but I need you to get on social media in general like you gotta.

17:57.72
Bruce Anthony
No I don't know. Um.

18:04.98
Bruce Anthony
I'm not I'm not as okay I'm not as versed in the Tiktok world as you are and you better. Enjoy it. Well not I'm almost so I'm on Instagram a lot. But yeah.

18:16.78
J. Aundrea
Are you reading the timeline. Are you reading? what's happening. Okay, well it listen listen listen.

18:21.38
Bruce Anthony
It's just not the algorithm just doesn't push that stuff to me. Um, but you better enjoy Tiktok because they about to you got 1 year you got 1 year

18:32.97
J. Aundrea
And I discovered something called rug talk are RUG rug talk and it is professional rug cleaners cleaning some of the most disgusting rugs you've ever seen and it is so relaxing and satisfying to watch.

18:34.78
Bruce Anthony
What is rug talk.

18:51.32
Bruce Anthony
Ah.

18:52.54
J. Aundrea
Them clean the hell out of these rugs and if I lose that.

18:58.26
Bruce Anthony
It'll move to another social media platform. Don't worry, you won't lose it so but but going back to the conversation of man or bear you didn't send me the initial Tiktok what you sent me was a.

18:59.10
J. Aundrea
Yeah, somebody I'll come up with something. It's fine.

19:09.16
J. Aundrea
Um.

19:11.37
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

19:14.71
Bruce Anthony
A wife asking her husband hey if our daughter is in the woods who would you rather have in the woods with her a man or bear.

19:25.20
J. Aundrea
And he really really struggled to answer the question Honestly I can't even remember what his answer ended up being I think it was the bear. Yeah I think it was the bear.

19:32.81
Bruce Anthony
It was a bear he said to bear. Yeah and he was like that's incredible that that's my answer is the bear. But yes, it would absolutely be the bear.

19:41.94
J. Aundrea
Yeah I saw another one. Ah it was a brother eating some Popeyes he really didn't have time for her his wife shenanigans but he gonna answer the question so he's eating this chicken as she's like you know who would you rather your daughter be alone in the woods with a man or a bear and.

19:48.94
Bruce Anthony
Um.

19:59.77
J. Aundrea
With no hesitation. This man said the bear and she said why because the bear ain't gonna do something ungodly to my daughter.

20:05.71
Bruce Anthony
Right? And so the the larger point the reason why we're bringing this up ladies and gentlemen. The larger point is to explain to men out there cause I know a couple of men that are like this men out there. What real life fear for a woman is like and. For some men. They're just not going to understand unless they have a daughter I guess that's the pressure point right is if they have a daughter because the damn show Ai n't doing it if they got a sister or mom right? But if they have a daughter. It's something about the the father daughter connection that makes them.

20:28.56
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

20:35.52
J. Aundrea
Um, you're right.

20:44.50
Bruce Anthony
Look at women completely differently than they would look at any other type of woman and then in that sense then they can see the patriarchy and how it exists in the world and how women are fearful all of the time and you know I don't really like you know he was one of my favorite comedians.

20:48.98
J. Aundrea
Um.

20:55.88
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

21:03.85
Bruce Anthony
He's disappointed me and it hurts that that I can't be a champion for him like I used to be but de chappele made a joke and it was a very very good joke to explain how fearful women are in everyday life he was saying he had a bag.

21:12.98
J. Aundrea
Um.

21:22.36
Bruce Anthony
$10000 of cash that he had got paid for doing a comedy show and he was on a subway in New York City and he was scared to death that he was going to get robbed or killed if anybody found out what he had in in this bag and he said that's when he realized what it was like being a woman because he had something.

21:26.47
J. Aundrea
Um.

21:38.40
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

21:41.75
Bruce Anthony
That if other people knew he had it. He knew would be in danger and women have something that men know they have and so they are in constant constant danger and these so-called real red pill people. The real reason why they don't want to examine that.

21:50.70
J. Aundrea
Um.

22:01.28
Bruce Anthony
Is because 9 times out of 10 They're the men that those women should be afraid of.

22:05.37
J. Aundrea
Yeah, the the the thought experiment really exposes The fact that while a lot of you know these quote unquote high value men or Alpha man see themselves as I'm the provider and the protector they don't ever take it a step further and ask. Who are you provided who are you protecting me From. You're not protecting me from Bears. Um.

22:27.98
Bruce Anthony
Um, now you can't do that and and there another p work there the sometimes men in general if you want to be the provider you want to be the protector That's cool also acknowledge some of us.

22:42.71
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

22:43.49
Bruce Anthony
Ah, the predator That's just real and that's not no oh you just being a sip. It's not dangerous out there for a woman. Okay I Do There's a reason why you don't want to go to jail.

22:52.74
J. Aundrea
Um, okay, yeah because I don't remember if this was part of Dave's joke or if I just took it a step further. You can tell me but I imagined you know, um a man.

23:09.79
J. Aundrea
With a backpack. It's got $10000 and he's walking down the street. Everybody knows what he's got in the backpack. Some people are just gonna look. They will be like damn some money in that backpack show is nice and they'll keep going some people are gonna say some.

23:20.92
Bruce Anthony
A and.

23:28.58
J. Aundrea
A I know what you got in that backpack can I get some right and then some people are just gonna take it and we don't know women do not know who it who which one of those you are. We don't know so we have to assume yes.

23:29.52
Bruce Anthony
E. Dear.

23:43.67
Bruce Anthony
Don't know and it's every day.

23:47.31
J. Aundrea
We just have to live assuming that everybody is going to try to take our backpack.

23:55.21
Bruce Anthony
So he didn't expand upon it that was alluded to right that was alluded to um, but he didn't expand upon us. So you expanded upon and da per if you out there listening know that we still love you. We just don't agree with some of the things that you've been doing but.

23:58.52
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

24:08.89
J. Aundrea
I mean I don't know you I don't I So I don't love you. But I appreciate your work.

24:11.43
Bruce Anthony
That joke you used to but that joke was hilarious. Okay, yeah I took it too far when I say I Love you I don't take love you I Love your work I Love your work I Love your work I Love your older work. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but not you.

24:21.16
J. Aundrea
Yeah, you're right right? Appreciate average did your work. Yeah, but it's it's I think a lot of it. A lot of the anger and the vitriol. First of all.

24:29.70
Bruce Anthony
Ah.

24:36.10
J. Aundrea
Men always go straight to when we're talking about equality and you got these men who are you know these high value men. Whatever these red pillars. They always go straight to a violent scenario to prove why equality doesn't exist.

24:50.98
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

24:53.68
J. Aundrea
You know what? I mean it's always like oh what it? How about I can I put you in the face then so it's where equals like it's always like it goes to some and it's like you're proveing the point you're walking face first into the point and you are still missing it because your first thought. Was to go to something violent I ah hunt and I don't know that that bear's first thought is going to be to attack me I've seen a lot of videos where people have just been like get get out of here and the bear will turn around and run away.

25:25.87
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah, I'm it can go sideways but there could be to and and the same thing could be true with the man in the woods right? It could be. It could be hey we lost in the woods. We got a band together to find some way to get out here and but also and go to other way.

25:30.10
J. Aundrea
It can right.

25:41.27
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, yeah.

25:45.76
Bruce Anthony
And that's a sad commentary on men by and large if y'all don't understand that watch I saw away sunny in Philadelphia it's a sad. It's a sad commentary on men by and large that anybody would sense would say bear.

25:48.44
J. Aundrea
The implication 2

25:58.12
J. Aundrea
Are.

26:04.60
Bruce Anthony
Because naturally you would want to say Well no I don't want to be in the woods with an animal that I don't like I don't know what the animal is gonna do. But I don't know what that man's gonna do now if it's me if it's a male I'd rather be in the woods with another male than a bear.

26:13.44
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

26:24.16
J. Aundrea
Yeah I mean I'm a be honest aside you know from like heart disease a woman's number 1 predator is a man.

26:24.18
Bruce Anthony
But you know but I'm not a female.

26:35.31
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, well they don't the red pillars quote Unquote don't want to hear that though.

26:40.63
J. Aundrea
No, but when you talk about? Yeah I'm I'm here to Peter check my girl. Okay from who other guys sometimes yo damn friends. Yeah.

26:52.90
Bruce Anthony
Well I have an interview I had an interview coming out on Tuesday where the conversation goes. Ah I won't give too much away. But there's an interesting conversation about men protecting the women that they love. It's a very interesting conversation and it's a different.

27:03.98
J. Aundrea
M.

27:09.93
Bruce Anthony
And unique perspective that I I don't think a lot of people have ever thought of I never thought about it so when it was pitched to me I was like oh that's really interesting so there there is something that that I'm gonna release on Tuesday that's gonna be really compelling but that. Is not the same as what we're talking about right now we're talking about these red pillars quote unquote because once again, they're blue pill people. Red pillars are we're red. Well definitely me sometimes you you more like a purple pill person.

27:27.74
J. Aundrea
Right.

27:33.49
J. Aundrea
A.

27:41.30
J. Aundrea
Yeah, ah yeah, because you know I don't want to invite more drama into my life than I need do I need to know everything? No I Just don't I don't yeah.

27:52.83
Bruce Anthony
I'm so curious I want to know I like hey man I'm like Marva Gay I want to know what's going on. Do you have any more final thoughts on this.

27:57.19
J. Aundrea
Yeah, you know I Just think that if you just listen to what these women and men are saying about why they would choose the bear. And did a little Self-reflection. You might see that the person I don't want to be stuck in the woods with Sir. Is you.

28:34.66
Bruce Anthony
Speaking of those red pillars. This one is gonna set them ablaze I'm not gonna throw my friend under the bus by saying he's a complete red pillar which is really a blue pillar. Um, but he shows a lot of tendencies that one.

28:38.66
J. Aundrea
Um.

28:44.20
J. Aundrea
Um.

28:52.38
Bruce Anthony
Would show if they were red pill person because he is the one that brought this to me now he typically brings stuff to me and I'm like well that's not true and and he's like yes it is I saw it and then I'll Google it and the one of the first.

28:59.56
J. Aundrea
Um, okay.

29:03.80
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

29:11.56
Bruce Anthony
Things that pops up is me disproving what it is that he brought he brought to me so this one he was like hey look I saw something I read it and I did my research right now and I confirmed that is true I said say and I was like art I was like.

29:14.11
J. Aundrea
And.

29:21.74
J. Aundrea
Oh Lord I always question when non-researers say they did their research.

29:30.96
Bruce Anthony
Hit me with it. He was like did you know that that sperm dern rears are out there having to being forced to pay child support and and my first the first thing I did was my eyebrow went up and my my forehead scrunched like the what the hell are you talking about face.

29:47.84
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

29:48.68
Bruce Anthony
He was like no no no no no I know what you're about to say but I did my research and I did my proof and it's real and so he's telling me the story and he was like I read in a newspaper article blah blah blah blah this and that and the story was true. However, the story was in Britain and I was like okay well I don't really know the laws.

30:01.46
J. Aundrea
Um.

30:08.63
Bruce Anthony
Over there for paternal rights. So this doesn't really prove your case and you brought it to me like it's some epidemic that's going on that sperm donors out here are being forced to pay child support I don't know why you're in a tenzy. Ah ah, a frenzy about this.

30:08.66
J. Aundrea
Um, right.

30:25.14
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

30:27.36
Bruce Anthony
Feel like there's more important things to be in a frenzy with but I did say this is really interesting I'm going to Google search and then when I Google search one of these first things came up so there was a couple of cases where sperm donors.

30:37.83
J. Aundrea
M.

30:43.90
Bruce Anthony
We're either taking to court for child support or had to pay child support and when you hear the cases it makes sense all the first case is North Carol is a North Carolina case Anthony it should be garretts.

30:47.92
J. Aundrea
Um, okay, okay.

30:59.58
Bruce Anthony
But it's it's it's garrletz or something like that. Maybe he's french Anthony Anthony we just gonna call him Anthony Anthony Grols okay whatever Anthony agreed to provide artificial inseminations for Erika Glenn through a verbal contract.

31:04.48
J. Aundrea
Yeah I think it's girl else. But yeah.

31:17.69
Bruce Anthony
Department of social services in Warren County North Carolina went to court to get him to pay child support. This is so he he did end up having to pay child support but it was later voided on appeal.

31:18.10
J. Aundrea
Um.

31:30.21
J. Aundrea
Um, yoker.

31:32.58
Bruce Anthony
So this was a situation where the lower courts are like yeah you got to pay child support because you entered in a verbal agreement to artificially inseminate Erica within the upper courts were like no this is this is. This is not that he didn't agree. He agreed to help her have a child but he didn't agree to anything else. There was a Pennsylvania case where a man donated sperm to a friend and provided limited financial support later. He developed an interest in the children and then the court.

31:48.20
J. Aundrea
Um.

31:53.32
J. Aundrea
Um.

32:05.55
Bruce Anthony
Ordered him to pay child support. So this this wasn't an anonymous donor. So my friend brought it to me like anonymous donors all over the world are going to have to start paying child support. No this was a man that donated sperm and he was giving her a little bit of bread then he grew.

32:07.93
J. Aundrea
Um, okay.

32:24.23
J. Aundrea
N.

32:24.50
Bruce Anthony
And attachment to the kids and then the court was like okay so since you want to be in a kid's life pay some child support because you're their father that seems reasonable to me. Okay, that seems reasonable to me. What do you think that.

32:34.70
J. Aundrea
Yeah, that yeah yeah, you're no longer a donor at that point if you're involved in their lives. You're you might not take on a parent role. But you've become more than a donor at that point.

32:42.74
Bruce Anthony
You're no longer a donor that. But.

32:48.95
Bruce Anthony
Right? There was a New Mexico case mind you guys I did some research and these were only cases that I found so once again, my friend brought it to my attention. It's not an epidemic. It's not something that he should have been in a frenzy with he came in in hysteria he was like have you heard.

33:05.97
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

33:07.29
Bruce Anthony
And I was like Nah I have a hurry. What's going on I was like man what's going on what's going on. They got donors out here paying child support and immediately I'm like that don't sound right doing it is I researched it I'm I'm literally telling y'all. That's how the conversation went and I know he's going listen to this. He's like man you really crush me I was like yeah I told you I was going I told him I was gonna crush him.

33:21.34
J. Aundrea
Um.

33:25.33
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

33:27.28
Bruce Anthony
I told him I was going to talk about it I I did not reveal your name so you're still anonymous kind of like an anonymous donor anyway, anywhere there was a New Mexico case a man donated his sperm to a lesbian couple and had regular visitation with the children. He was ordered to pay $250 a month of child support. He wasn't in a not an anonymous donor and he had in a relationship with the children so that makes sense that he would have to pay some child support.

33:49.23
J. Aundrea
Right.

33:59.58
J. Aundrea
Yeah, you're yeah, you're not got hey donor means you're just donating. You don't have any connection to the child. You are not involved in the rearing of that child all you are doing is.

34:01.99
Bruce Anthony
The fun.

34:19.59
J. Aundrea
Donating Sperm That's it. You don't know where it's gonna go hell it could sit in a freezer nobody could end up picking it like that's the you know you get paid either way. So what do you care like you know so it did just might not.

34:27.88
Bruce Anthony
Right? Yo stats Yo stats may not be appealing to women. You might be getting. You might be getting rejected in real life and in a sperm life that that is tough.

34:39.51
J. Aundrea
Um, and hey that's that's tough you know I know but that's that's tough you know so but hey.

34:47.70
Bruce Anthony
By the way that ladies and gentlemen if you go all the way back to the one Hundredth episode our uber driver said something and we could not remember what he said that made us start laughing and that's yeah, that's what it was all day. That's right, that's right.

34:58.52
J. Aundrea
He did say that's tough but we couldn't remember why he said that's tough that was yeah we don't know what he said it to we you said something and he was like man that's tough I don't know either.

35:06.78
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I don't I don't remember what it was yeah.

35:13.37
Bruce Anthony
I don't know what I said I don't know what I said but yeah, it's tough ah art here's the last case here's the last case and then I'll talk about the case that he brought to me because I didn't have it in a rundown but I remember I remember what he said? ah so there's a Kansas case.

35:17.50
J. Aundrea
Yeah, okay.

35:26.41
J. Aundrea
Um, okay.

35:29.30
Bruce Anthony
In this Kansas case a man that was involved was William Marrota not Marriotta Morerota who responded to a Craigslist ad from a lesbian couple seeking a sperm donor. It was back in the day it was back in the day all right? that insemination was conducted.

35:35.73
J. Aundrea
Um, no, no okay, all right.

35:48.36
Bruce Anthony
Informally without the assistance of a licensed clinic or physician ah despite signing an agreement waiving his parental rights the state of Kansas later sought child support from him after a couple applied for state benefits.

35:49.87
J. Aundrea
Um, no.

35:55.21
J. Aundrea
Um, and.

36:07.10
Bruce Anthony
The court ruled that because the insemination was not performed by a licensed position. He was legally the child's father and required to pay child support now there is a difference between the previous cases and this Kansas case and I'm going.

36:15.80
J. Aundrea
And.

36:24.94
J. Aundrea
Um, what's that.

36:25.91
Bruce Anthony
And and it gets into the legal protections of sperm donors many states have adopted codes like the uniform parentage act the upa which seems to specifically state that donors are not parents sperm donors who donate through a license clinic or facility.

36:27.96
J. Aundrea
E.

36:35.74
J. Aundrea
Um, yes.

36:45.74
Bruce Anthony
Are typically not legally responsible for any resulting children and cannot be held liable for child support now are yes.

36:50.44
J. Aundrea
Then they are very clear on the websites like they are very clear when you go on these donor sites that this is a donor. This is not a parent. You cannot go back to them for support or you know to be in the child's life. They. They you? That's not what this is you? You're getting a baby.. They get a check. That's it.

37:12.33
Bruce Anthony
Um, right? right? And and so in that in that I know what people are gonna do because I said. Spam Sperm donors are donating through a license or clinic facility are typically typically not legally responsible I know people are going to jump on that typically the typically did the the the ah not the opposite I Guess not the opposite.

37:29.74
J. Aundrea
Um.

37:34.80
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

37:43.34
Bruce Anthony
And why they would be responsible is some of the cases that were presented earlier where either you didn't do it through a license ah facility or clinic. Okay, and in this instance, if you developed a personal relationship with the mother.

37:45.67
J. Aundrea
Um.

37:50.72
J. Aundrea
And.

38:01.87
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

38:02.46
Bruce Anthony
Or the kids once you're no longer anonymous. Yeah you you develop a relationship now you have a responsibility so going back to the original story of what my man brought to me. Yes, it was based out of Britain it day. It was an anonymous donor lesbian couple.

38:09.38
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

38:20.96
Bruce Anthony
They ended up splitting right? Um, she was seeking benefits. She did search out for the donor found the donor developed a personal relationship with them and then later took him for child support now is that shady. Yeah, but guess what he did guess what he did.

38:20.98
J. Aundrea
And.

38:36.75
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

38:39.52
Bruce Anthony
He developed a personal relationship now you have ties to not only the woman and the children time to pay up. You can't just be in their life without being in a life ain't no half stepping big Daddy Kane said that ain't no half stepping.

38:46.68
J. Aundrea
Um.

38:50.90
J. Aundrea
Um, right? no.

38:57.30
Bruce Anthony
So if you're gonna be in a kid's life Guess what you might get hit for child support Once again, there is not this big epidemic of anonymous donors that went through clinics that are being hit up to start to pay child support which is what this person basically presented to me when he came to me with this Hysteria like you hear what's going on.

39:16.40
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

39:16.28
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, no, so once again, this is another situation where I'm throwing you under the bus because you didn't do enough research and had you done enough research you would know that this isn't a thing I mean he did read the article and article said hey this dude ended up having to pay child support.

39:20.95
J. Aundrea
Um, you got to read the article. You can't.

39:34.66
Bruce Anthony
But then you understand that the facts behind it and the difference between what he did and what majority of anonymous donors. Do they stay anonymous and then if you want to be in the kid's life Guess what? you're going to have to have some responsibility for that kid if you want to be in the kid's life.

39:44.40
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yes.

39:54.37
J. Aundrea
Ah, so so there are a lot of ah donors a lot of donors that are anonymous, but there are also donors who are ah open or open Id and what that means is that if they're just open donors that the child can get.

39:54.47
Bruce Anthony
If not then stay anonymous.

40:12.14
J. Aundrea
Their contact information anytime open id the child gets their contact information when they turn 18 um is really right that so that's one protection.

40:14.89
Bruce Anthony
Um e.

40:19.52
Bruce Anthony
After you at you don't pay child supported 18

40:27.85
J. Aundrea
And also you know it waits until the child is mature enough to understand this is my donor not my parent right? Um, and so and as you know I was looking into this as well I Still very much am ah interested in becoming a single mother by choice.

40:34.20
Bruce Anthony
E.

40:40.41
Bruce Anthony
In.

40:45.90
Bruce Anthony
I Love how you phrase that.

40:46.95
J. Aundrea
And I oh that's that's that is what that is the correct terminology. Yes, yes, single mother by choice. There's a there's a difference between single moms who don't want to be single moms.

40:51.10
Bruce Anthony
That that that's that's okay I learned something new every day.

41:02.29
J. Aundrea
And they were forced into that position and I love that everybody always blames the mom and not the person who left Nah every very rarely when we talk about when we talk about when these guys grow up and they out here Wreaking Havoc on everyone. Everybody talks about.

41:09.81
Bruce Anthony
That's not true. They be maybe blaming the the the man that left ah and.

41:21.75
J. Aundrea
The mother wound that they're trying to heal and nobody ever talks about the fact that Joe Daddy wasn't there and you out here being ain't shit because you oh sorry and you out here 8 1 1 us what us I forgot about that you out here. You know, not worth a damn because you didn't have.

41:25.13
Bruce Anthony
There will you? okay. We allow 1 one s word or an episode.

41:40.83
J. Aundrea
Anybody in your life to provide a positive example of how a man should be so that's neither here nor there and that's a whole nother show we talking but I I am going to be very clear with my children about.

41:42.90
Bruce Anthony
A.

41:49.56
Bruce Anthony
Just.

41:59.42
J. Aundrea
Their conception because a lot of um children who are born via donor do have you know some issues around like the fact that you paid money to have me you know like there was a transaction.

42:11.60
Bruce Anthony
I I would think I would think that at once they realize once they get to a certain age. It was like oh my mom my dad my parents really wanted me as opposed to being opposed to finding out.

42:25.10
J. Aundrea
Yes.

42:30.83
Bruce Anthony
Ah, you was an accident. We didn't plan for you and I was like okay see I just kept me you just kept because we had no choice but okay, yeah.

42:32.87
J. Aundrea
Um, right.

42:39.44
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, right? like I'm going to be very clear like I wanted you so much that these are all the things that I went to in order to bring you here. That's how much you were wanted and loved and if they want to meet their donor. Um, I'm gonna choose open or open Id donors and not so I can hit them up for child support.

43:03.30
Bruce Anthony
Ah, but you won't get child support unless.

43:04.70
J. Aundrea
Unless you go through and I understand why some people do go through like Craigslist or or Facebook there's a lot of Facebook groups where you can link up with potential donors because it is expensive. It's expensive.

43:17.97
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah, know, but ah, but my man move him but my there's a lot to this story in Kansas that I kind of want to know right? that that article didn't really give a whole lot of detail in so they got this. They they found this deal on Craigslist and.

43:24.51
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

43:31.36
J. Aundrea
And.

43:34.73
Bruce Anthony
And and insemination was conducted informally I don't know what that the what that mean.

43:36.64
J. Aundrea
Right? He and he delivered 3 cupfuls of his man stuff for free and this was like what what cups where you. Yeah, what are you?? What cup three cupfuls.

43:58.51
Bruce Anthony
And what they use I mean was it did he actually you know was he intimate with them. Did they use like a turkey based. Ah.

44:04.88
J. Aundrea
Um, no I I think they went the old turkey based route because they they said in insemination.

44:11.67
Bruce Anthony
But doesn't sperm die really quickly once it hit once it hits air. Okay I'll be known. Oh I mean it lives for three days you know what? this is this conversations make me really uncomfortable.

44:16.68
J. Aundrea
No, in fact, it lives for like three days

44:28.53
Bruce Anthony
And very rare ladies and gentlemen am I uncomfortable talking about stuff on our solicit perspective I know but I'm on this I'm talking about a man and insemination with 2 lesbian couples I've been with what it's 1 lesbian couple but 2 lesbians.

44:29.11
J. Aundrea
This is normal science. Yeah.

44:40.50
J. Aundrea
Right.

44:43.29
Bruce Anthony
And I'm I'm having this conversation with my sister and it's all as though me all types weird right now. So so it lays Jim as real.

44:46.29
J. Aundrea
But but the fact of the matter is if if you apply in your state For aid, they're going to look for the other parent to get reimbursed. That is how that is how it works if the person is anonymous then.

44:52.95
Bruce Anthony
E.

44:58.69
Bruce Anthony
What what happens is when it's an anonymous donor though right? Yeah so I mean okay, right get right? So this goes back to the rules.

45:06.12
J. Aundrea
You don't know who they are either. So it's there's nobody to go after but if this is somebody that you do know who it is. You're gun. They're yeah if you do it the if you do it the yes it is offensive but it.

45:17.17
Bruce Anthony
Ah, where if you do it through a clinic or facility.

45:25.38
J. Aundrea
It provides protections for you and the donor. Um everything is clearly laid out. You sign the paperwork everything is up and up and above board like it's it's very there are protections for the both of you and that's why it's important to go through a clinic. Also you know they can do like genetic testing and all kinds of things like you just mean the std testing and like you just me enough with somebody from Craigslist. Ah.

45:47.46
Bruce Anthony
Right? Also like std testing that's kind of a point I think its when Craigslist was a thing not not Craigslist now I don't know if Craigslist isn't a thing anymore. It might be.

46:04.70
J. Aundrea
I Think it is.

46:07.40
Bruce Anthony
It might be. It might be a thing I think Craigslist has been replaced but by like Facebook marketplace ah yeah, ah, but like I don't think people still out here in these streets just using Craigslist I got my first apartment through Craigslist. But this was.

46:10.42
J. Aundrea
Yeah, because a lot of people sell and and buy stuff on Facebook marketplace.

46:24.00
Bruce Anthony
2005

46:24.15
J. Aundrea
Ah, every time I move I sell a bunch of stuff on craigslist. Well the last time I moved but that was you know seven years ago so maybe

46:30.76
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, and I don't think the buy's usually correct list anymore. So what's your what's your final. What's your final analysis on my friend and his Hysteria bringing this to my attention.

46:42.60
J. Aundrea
Um, my final analysis is calm down. Um these yeah if if you look at all these cases. Um.

46:45.40
Bruce Anthony
Right? You know what he was incredulous. He said did you hear I like no man I didn't even hear.

46:56.96
J. Aundrea
Very few of them. It looks like most of them The state brought the case against the man because the the parent the man either got involved or the parents went to get some sort of you know State a or or.

47:00.80
Bruce Anthony
Right? The man got involved.

47:11.54
Bruce Anthony
And it wasn't anonymous. The donor wasn't anonymous.

47:16.10
J. Aundrea
The donor was not anonymous. They are known some of them they had wanted to or did have relationships with the children like it's these are special cases and guess what there's like 4 of them so relax. Ah.

47:22.24
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, then you yeah right right? I did my research I found 4 4

47:35.14
J. Aundrea
Like let's everybody calm down right? and 1 of them got thrown out the North Carolina case got voided by the appeals court. So.

47:37.63
Bruce Anthony
And the history of sperm donors which let's just say it goes back to the 70 s right? Let's just stay right right? It let's just say was let's just say artificial inseminate is started in 1970 I know it started before then but let's just say it started in 1970

47:54.10
J. Aundrea
And go.

47:56.46
Bruce Anthony
Over a 54 year period I've got four cases and how many how many and artificial inseminations did.

47:58.68
J. Aundrea
The right.

48:05.72
J. Aundrea
There's there have. There's been if not if not tens of thousands at least there's been hundreds of thousands like there's definitely been many many children. Yeah.

48:12.42
Bruce Anthony
I what a year a year a year I would say a year. Um, so four 4 and this you know it goes back to our first segment I'm not calling my friend a red pillar. But. A lot of the conversations that he brings to my attention sometimes be on them red pill type stuff right? and I'm just like this is an example of people. Not really thinking through subjects.

48:31.92
J. Aundrea
In.

48:43.15
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

48:46.93
Bruce Anthony
So ladies and gentlemen out there. Please please have better critical thinking just take a step back and think and observe the other side and truly absorb it and if you absorb the other side and you still ain't rocket with it. Okay.

48:57.65
J. Aundrea
And.

49:05.32
J. Aundrea
Um, okay to write.

49:06.60
Bruce Anthony
At least you took it in but we have to ladies and gentlemen do better in our critical thinking because some of y'all out here and am I calling my friend this I'm saying some people out here in the world majority of people out here in the world. Not some majority are dumb as hell and can't think.

49:16.65
J. Aundrea
E. What I think I think your friend is on the right? No No I'm bringing I'm bringing it back around to your friend I think your friend is on the right page or on the right track because they're bringing.

49:25.91
Bruce Anthony
I'm tired if I'm sick of it I'm not talking about my friend I'm not talking about my friend I'm talking about people by and large.

49:40.97
Bruce Anthony
Okay I never thought of it like that.

49:41.70
J. Aundrea
It to you who will go back and look deeper at it as opposed to just putting it out there in this echo Chamber of people who agree with him but still bringing it to somebody.

49:52.76
Bruce Anthony
I Don't know that he did not do that.

49:59.85
Bruce Anthony
Ah, but with that yes the the intention the intention absolutely was to take to try and say I got you Bruce I got you.

50:00.16
J. Aundrea
Who might not agree now. The intention will probably be to take you down a pig like oh ah, but you thought I was crazy but look what they're doing oh here. They're not yeah yeah. Yeah.

50:18.16
Bruce Anthony
Because they they said hey look I did the research on this one and and how I know that they came in ah when we were hanging out with the intention to take me down a pig is because they brought up something else and it had to do about wrestling and I'm like don't don't try and debate me on wrestling.

50:21.55
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

50:30.10
J. Aundrea
Um.

50:34.57
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

50:36.59
Bruce Anthony
And he said did you hear the story about the big show and the ah the the incident in Japan I was like what are you talking about? it was like yeah no he had prom when like they had to do a special bathroom I was like that wasn't him that was Andre the giant. No ah, no, no, no, no, it was him I was like what't him. Was Andre the giant and Andre dry has a million and one stories over there that didn't happen to the big show. No habit to the big show. He said it and I was like oh I wish you had told me that from the jump. He's lying. He told a story that happened to Andre the giant and he applied it to him. This is something that wrestlers do it's called working.

51:01.95
J. Aundrea
Um.

51:13.70
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

51:13.86
Bruce Anthony
There's a shoot when they're being real and there's a work when they're doing the character and he took a story from Andre the giant and made it a big show. Well I mean all I could do is take him for his word for I was like I get it I get it. But if you had told me that from the jump I would have told you that he stole the story from Andre to giant.

51:23.97
J. Aundrea
Um.

51:32.60
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

51:33.59
Bruce Anthony
And then he's before before before I told him that he stole the story. He sent me the video of the big show telling the story and I was standing right next to him I was like oh you trying to be on one today I was like okay I got you I got you I was like take it take your one.

51:45.62
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, That's ah ah. Um, go ahead.

51:50.56
Bruce Anthony
Take your one I would have done the same thing I was like you doing me I was like you hanging out with me too much because you're doing something that I would do. You're being an asshole just like I would be speaking of assholes I don't know how I transition from the assholes to to Ah what somebody.

51:55.14
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

52:05.36
J. Aundrea
Deaths I don't think I know what the next segment is so I'm interested So how you gonna bring this around. Ok that's.

52:12.70
Bruce Anthony
Some of these some of these actors have played assholes that was a reach but we gonna make the segment ah shorter because this is this is running along but I thought this was interesting.

52:20.19
J. Aundrea
All right.

52:27.98
Bruce Anthony
Ah, saw a meme on Instagram because that's the social media platform that I use the majority of time is Instagram not Tiktok but it was a say the meme said rank these actors 1 through 4 However, you define good acting and the actors were.

52:28.34
J. Aundrea
Um.

52:32.32
J. Aundrea
Eat. Yeah.

52:43.37
J. Aundrea
Um.

52:44.84
Bruce Anthony
These are not the rankings. These are just the list of the actors and then we'll rank them Denzel Washington Sam it says Sam Jackson but we know him as Samuel L Samuel L Jackson Jeffrey Wright and force whitaker and I thought this was really interesting because these are 4

52:51.27
J. Aundrea
Um, Samuel L yeah um

53:02.23
Bruce Anthony
Extremely talented black actors and we want to rank them 1 through 4 one being the best for being the fourth best because not the worst.

53:02.58
J. Aundrea
Yes.

53:11.63
J. Aundrea
Right? They're all amazing award winning fantastic actors who've had I think Jeffrey Wright has probably had the shortest career but still a prolific career.

53:19.25
Bruce Anthony
Actors.

53:27.39
Bruce Anthony
You know who my number one is gonna be but you're gonna be surprised of the order of my list but I want to hear your okay here's the order of my list going from 4 the fourth. Best.

53:29.26
J. Aundrea
Ah.

53:34.73
J. Aundrea
I Want to he I want to know get to tell me okay, go.

53:46.18
Bruce Anthony
To the best number 4 forced Whitaker number 3 Samuel L Jackson number 2 Jeffrey Wright

53:50.53
J. Aundrea
Okay.

53:58.33
J. Aundrea
Um, okay.

54:02.67
Bruce Anthony
And then of course number 1 Denzel Washington he's my favorite actor I think he's the best actor that's ever acted and I know people want to talk about like Marlon Brandon and Sydney portier. No, it's Denzel Washington

54:13.28
J. Aundrea
Ah, okay, ok I think we both put for in the number 4 spot which is not again and not to say anything. He's the fourth. Best yeah like.

54:23.37
Bruce Anthony
He's just he's the fourth best. He's not the work he is. He's the fourth best. That's all that is Force Whitaker is a fantastic actor.

54:31.24
J. Aundrea
Yeah, and he has given us a lot of amazing work. Ah I mean the first time I remember seeing him was ah the crying game. Honestly, ah yeah, he was in there as a small role. Ah you know ghost ghost dog the way of the samurai.

54:40.41
Bruce Anthony
I don't remember seeing him in the crying game. That's what I've never seen ghost dog I'm gonna be real honest with you. Yeah, my.

54:50.60
J. Aundrea
I Mean that's it was it was terrible. Um, it was terrible. Ah yeah.

54:57.95
Bruce Anthony
What was the movie with lay leon. That's the first time I ever saw him. Ah, he was like some up and coming. It's one of his earliest movies. It was like in the the early 90 s late 80 s or early ninety s

55:01.14
J. Aundrea
The movie with Leila or Sean about.

55:14.12
J. Aundrea
In.

55:14.89
Bruce Anthony
Anyway, it's not important my favorite thing that he's done might be this Tv show godfather in Harlem where he plays Bumpy Johnson that might be my face because it's it's these are the 2 actors that are going head to head in the majority of the episodes.

55:20.85
J. Aundrea
Yeah debt.

55:33.68
Bruce Anthony
Force whitaker fantastic actor Vincent Deoffreo fantastic act I mean if those are your 2 headliners good god um, so he's done a lot of he. He was really good on empire.

55:33.74
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

55:38.24
J. Aundrea
In.

55:49.80
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, when he was id I mean and the last king of Scotland um, oh he was he acted the hell out of that. Yeah.

55:50.63
Bruce Anthony
I never saw a last king silent. He might be fourth on my list because it is because it's a lot of things that his that I haven't seen because I will not watch the butler.

56:00.91
J. Aundrea
I mean I've seen a lot of him I've seen a lot like he's in a lot of movies that I've seen. He's not the most prominent person in the films though. Like if if if we talk about him in the great debaters. Well you're going to talk about denzo Washington and the great debaters. So.

56:05.33
Bruce Anthony
Right in you right. Then yeah, you're go be talking about Denza year are well who's your number 3.

56:20.17
J. Aundrea
You know my number 3 Samuella Jackson Samuel Jackson and and not because Samuel is not an amazing actor he again. This is another person. First of all.

56:23.67
Bruce Anthony
No okay, all right.

56:31.81
Bruce Anthony
Yes.

56:36.86
J. Aundrea
If you look at his filmography. It is over two hundred films he I do I don't know you know what? That's a good question I don't know. Um.

56:38.90
Bruce Anthony
This is ridiculous. He's done the most films of any actor hasn't he what any mainstream actor Mainstream I think I think he's he's done that or or his movies has grossed.

56:54.80
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

56:56.98
Bruce Anthony
Or what that's what um I think it was his movies is gross more than any other actor which he might be losing that title soon because the rock dwayne.

56:59.19
J. Aundrea
Yeah, the rock we now because because Samuel Jackson being a lot of the movies with the rock.

57:08.67
Bruce Anthony
They they was in 1 movie together and they had 1 quick scene who.

57:15.11
J. Aundrea
My point is Serviel Jackson will pop up in a movie it. He'll be in a Quentin Tarantino movie you'll never even see his face. He'll just it was killed bill. He was just a piano player I think at.

57:23.48
Bruce Anthony
When was he in aquent tear tune a movie and you didn't see his face.

57:33.24
J. Aundrea
Ah, Beatrix Kiddo's wedding. He was just playing it. You didn't really see his face. It was in shadow you heard his voice but like he'll just be in stuff like so Mace Mace win do I mean a lot of the movies on his filmography I have seen several times.

57:35.67
Bruce Anthony
Um, ah okay, Mace Window Mace window

57:50.96
Bruce Anthony
you know what? I you know what I think my favorite Semel Jackson movie is fresh now not nod that come over as not pope fix it.

57:53.22
J. Aundrea
Ah, was that mine is gonna be diehar with a vengeance I'm a be honest with you. Ah.

58:06.26
J. Aundrea
Ah, it now though it's gonna be daharwood a vengeance I freak I love him as Zeus it diharwood avenges I think they I think his chemistry with ah the amazing Bruce Willis

58:08.34
Bruce Anthony
Not post fixing. Okay.

58:20.48
Bruce Anthony
Johnross okay Bruce Willis okay oh you talk about diehar because Bruce with us was also in um, um, where he was Julius and um.

58:22.97
J. Aundrea
Yes, diehars Bruce Willis yeah

58:32.70
J. Aundrea
Oh yeah, no ah is is's gonna be you know I also like snakes on a plane um I will be honest I would be honest I enjoyed it that was a good movie. It did it did it make any sense. No, but you know.

58:33.34
Bruce Anthony
Paul fiction.

58:37.57
Bruce Anthony
I like I like I like black snake moan. It was good Moon No, it made no sense why you got me trained why you got this chain around my waist.

58:49.21
J. Aundrea
Doesn't matter right? um him and him at in literally all the Marvel movies is Nick Fury um he's got a stellalar career. It's not going anywhere. He's still going to be around. He's.

58:57.15
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, fantastic.

59:07.21
J. Aundrea
Out of 4 amazing actors. He's number 3 is the best number 2 Denzel Washington um

59:08.59
Bruce Anthony
E.

59:15.59
Bruce Anthony
This is too long of no my god no you got to repeat that I knew you was gonna go there I wish you was here so I could smack you and ladies and gentlemen I don't be hitting women. Ah but I'll smack it for this. You just said who is your number 2 the man that played Malcolm X.

59:27.69
J. Aundrea
Um, tensile Washington. Yes.

59:33.20
Bruce Anthony
The man that played um um, ah what was his character's name in Mo Better blues.

59:38.23
J. Aundrea
Literally the man that just played like he was. He's but you got to understand again. Yes I finally watched all 3 of the equalizer movies. They were fantastic.

59:44.54
Bruce Anthony
That we just talked about the equalizer last week yeah we talked about that we talked about that last week and you gonna put him in number two bleak. That's right bleak gear bleak.

59:56.41
J. Aundrea
He was he was bleak in ah mo better blues. Um, you got man, you got mo better brulus you got Malcolm x oh you know, probably 1 of my one of my favorite films with him was much ado about nothing he played Don Pedro if you get a chance to watch it please do. He's.

01:00:03.67
Bruce Anthony
Can you got game.

01:00:14.45
Bruce Anthony
That one down.

01:00:14.78
J. Aundrea
Finer than fine. Um, you got Crimson tied devil in a blue dress preach's wife fallen. He got gay like it so many and I'm still it man off the inside man.

01:00:23.15
Bruce Anthony
A man on fire man on fire the and hope that's a great book like come on now we we not even talk about the movie that he actually got an Oscar for even though I don't think that's his best acting performance.

01:00:31.14
J. Aundrea
American gangster.

01:00:41.26
Bruce Anthony
His best acting performance was malcolm x boat train and day. Yeah, okay, it wasn't a amazing performance because people don't know Denzel Washington is not pelican brief. He's more.

01:00:41.87
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, training train a day He it was an amazing performance like let's be clear it. It really was.

01:00:59.24
J. Aundrea
True Also pelican brief. Yes, everyone I ever told about the brief is dead. Yeah I know pelican I I listen.

01:00:59.32
Bruce Anthony
Training day then he is pelican brief but also pelican brief.

01:01:08.82
Bruce Anthony
Didn't he do a movie where he was in a wheelcha a whole movie and Queen Lateefa was taking care of him. Yeah with um, with ah John voice daughter.

01:01:20.67
J. Aundrea
What movie that.

01:01:22.45
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, it was John voice who is Angela he was with Angelina Jolie and he was in a wheelchair the whole time. He was an investigator. He was a crime investigator and they were trying to catch this. Ah, it's it's got bones bone collector come on now and you got number 2

01:01:31.22
J. Aundrea
Oh isn't that um, something bones something the bone collector to the bone collector. Yes, shit. Do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do do Jeffrey right.

01:01:40.20
Bruce Anthony
Okay, same is you got number 1 drum roll young Jeffrey right? and and okay he was my number 2 I'm right.

01:01:48.20
J. Aundrea
Yeah, because here here is why it's Jeffrey Wright okay because everything that I've seen him in I am moved I'm moved and I I I'm sorry ah like I am.

01:01:59.40
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

01:02:07.54
J. Aundrea
Emotionally invested in his performance like he draws you in the first time I ever saw him was when he played um Jean Michelle Basquiat in Basquiat but um, one of the like ah to me his like breakout performance was his people's Hernandez ah in shaft.

01:02:24.27
Bruce Anthony
That's the look when I walked it I went into the movie theater with my that harlot girl that I dated that Jezebel with when she was my girlfriend at the time we went to go see shaft where he played people's Hernanddaz and from.

01:02:31.84
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

01:02:36.26
J. Aundrea
Are.

01:02:41.80
Bruce Anthony
For the next month I was dominican I was people Hernandez you got a boat when how they boat you got mind you there are some stars in that movie because that's another Samuel Jackson movie Christian Bale in that movie this is before this is either.

01:02:45.55
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, yeah, yes, yeah, yes.

01:03:00.39
Bruce Anthony
I Think this is before um the the movie where he was a serial killer.

01:03:05.52
J. Aundrea
Um, is it is it before American Psycho ah

01:03:07.30
Bruce Anthony
I think it's before American Psycho because I I believe that was 2000 I think American Psycho was after 2000

01:03:17.47
J. Aundrea
Yeah american psycho ah was 2000 the shaft was 2000 so they were it was the same year. Yeah yeah.

01:03:23.20
Bruce Anthony
The okay so that was a hell of a year for Christian Bale congratulations to you? Um, but Jeffrey right I mean have did you see him in the batman movie as he plays James Gordon Fan I mean ja I'm Jeffrey right is phenomenal. He was phenomenal as Narcisse and um.

01:03:31.80
J. Aundrea
Um, yes.

01:03:39.38
J. Aundrea
Okay.

01:03:39.82
Bruce Anthony
ah boardwalk empire um yes ah yeah that's the reason why he was number 2 but to me he doesn't have an iconic role. This is just my personal opinion doesn't have an iconic role as Malcolm X because Denzel Washington played a real character a real person.

01:03:46.74
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

01:03:58.00
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

01:03:59.73
Bruce Anthony
A charismatic important real person and as you're watching that movie. You completely forget that it's Denzel Washington and you fully invest in the fact that that is Malcolm x.

01:04:04.30
J. Aundrea
Um.

01:04:14.71
J. Aundrea
I mean he has played real people. Jean Michelle basat is a real person he was in he was in Ali. Um, he was it was wills movie. He's also a manchurian candidate but you know again, that's Denzel Washington film so

01:04:16.65
Bruce Anthony
I didn't see that movie will will smith stole the showuffeur Ali I mean yeah, her.

01:04:30.00
Bruce Anthony
Near There isn't any movie that he did with denzel where he out shown denel.

01:04:32.67
J. Aundrea
You know I get it but he always.

01:04:37.46
J. Aundrea
But I'm but the difference is I feel something when I watch Jeffrey Wright he yeah he is he.

01:04:41.50
Bruce Anthony
You feel something every time you watch. Okay, all right? well.

01:04:54.25
J. Aundrea
His work moves me and so I I Really enjoy it. Um, his latest movie. Um American fiction. So good if you get a chance to sit down and watch it. Please do so good.

01:05:09.21
Bruce Anthony
Well, he's goingnna get his own Hbo what is is is still Hbo Max or is is just max now whatever it max he's well he was I don't know if the new Dc is gonna do it. But I think so yes, no I think he's still getting. He was getting his own show Gordon because he plays James Gordon and the new batman.

01:05:15.34
J. Aundrea
Um, it's max. Yeah.

01:05:20.66
J. Aundrea
Are.

01:05:28.58
Bruce Anthony
Um, so and he was phenomenal in that um I'm I'm a huge Jeffrey Wright friend I'm fan. Okay ladies and gentlemen I didn't see there's a lot of those moves I didn't see so ah okay well I definitely didn't see that that just seems like that that wouldn't appeal to me.

01:05:28.58
J. Aundrea
Um, Mo yeah.

01:05:36.29
J. Aundrea
Um, not to mention him and westworld. Well Westworld is a Tv series. Yeah.

01:05:47.47
Bruce Anthony
Um, but okay ladies and gentlemen y'all tap in Y'all let us know who you who rank your list you know and nobody is wrong I think my sister is wrong, but nobody is wrong after.

01:05:51.63
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, let us know.

01:05:58.66
J. Aundrea
Now I think it's a personal opinion. Um.

01:06:01.73
Bruce Anthony
No, no, no and I can't argue with that Jeffrey Wright is a person that when he acts you are moved by his performance. So if you have if you don't know who Jeffrey Wright is go check him out.

01:06:07.89
J. Aundrea
Yeah, there are there are times when I watch Denzel and definitely when I watch Samuel and I know I'm watching Dinzel and I know I'm watching Samuel Jackson there I have yet.

01:06:20.80
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah, this is they but that's because they've been in so much.

01:06:27.59
J. Aundrea
To see a Jeffrey Wright performance where I'm like I know I'm watching Jeffrey right? he be he but he embodies his characters so well and they are so different. He is an amazing character actor. Um, but he's also an amazing. Just.

01:06:30.98
Bruce Anthony
Because we don't know who Jeffrey Wright is

01:06:47.34
J. Aundrea
Actor actor like he yeah I just I really enjoy his work and so if I if I had to rank them. It's gonna be Jeffrey Denzel Samuel and forst.

01:06:53.25
Bruce Anthony
Okay I Well that's your ranking I got my rank in Laz and Gentlemen y'all let us know but J What do you want to tell the people out there.

01:07:06.67
J. Aundrea
Can you answer who would you rather be in the woods with a bear or a woman and if you could say woman really quickly. Yeah, but it takes you a minute to say man.

01:07:16.72
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah, it was gonna say woman. It's gonna say woman. Yeah, oh.

01:07:25.47
J. Aundrea
Versus Bear you need to you need to think about why that is.

01:07:31.82
Bruce Anthony
That's real. That's really the real deal holy feel and now that we not go see the rest be Las yeah there, that's right and on none that on on that note ladies gentlemen. Thank you for listening.

01:07:36.10
J. Aundrea
Um, and all you ladies and gentlemen know how I feel.

01:07:47.69
Bruce Anthony
Thank you for watching and until next time as always a holla.