Allegations & Accountability: Diddy, Dark Secrets, and Dating

00:03.94
Bruce Anthony
Welcome First of all welcome this is unsolicited perspectives I'm your host Bruce Anthony here to lead the conversation in important events and topics that are shaped today's society join the conversation of follow us wherever you get your audio podcasts subscribe to our Youtube channel to watch our video podcast rate. Review like comment share share with your friends share with your family hell even share with your enemies on today's episode is the sibling happy hour I'm here with Myis Ja Andrea we're gonna be talking about what you should do when you approach celebrities in public we're gonna be talking about didy'all. And we're going to be talking about right pictures on dating sites and also let's not forget I'm going to be addressing the nickelodeon documentary but that's enough of the intro. Let's get to the show.

00:59.70
Bruce Anthony
What up says you've had an interesting day today I swear you don't never have nothing simple. Go on on your life. You always got something crazy going on.

01:00.75
J. Aundrea
What up brother boy no no I've said that a camera crew just needs to follow me around and just capture. The magic that is the disaster of my life. So no I um so my older dog Ronie Tender Roni ah you know she's got heartworm flea tick medication. It's like.

01:22.80
Bruce Anthony
Ah.

01:29.27
Bruce Anthony
What.

01:34.99
Bruce Anthony
E.

01:38.21
J. Aundrea
It's like a little treat Honestly, it tastes like beef. She loves it I give her her monthly medication I did not see her spit it out but I did see Roscoe bolt like it was almost like a smoke outline of him.

01:40.76
Bruce Anthony
M. Okay.

01:56.12
J. Aundrea
As he ran to get that treat and I grabbed him as soon as he grabbed it and I opened his mouth and he had swallowed it whole and he already is on heartworm preventative. This is a heartworm preventative for a much larger dog.

01:56.69
Bruce Anthony
I.A.

02:10.97
Bruce Anthony
A.

02:13.85
J. Aundrea
Is for the 50 to one hundred pound um he's he's three months old and £25 so said well my dog's poisoned so I pick him up put him in a car go to the vet. The vet is like he could have ate a whole box of that and he would have been fine. It's low dose. He's all right.

02:17.57
Bruce Anthony
E.

02:32.52
J. Aundrea
And I was like okay, cool, get home. There's dog vomit all over my room. My other dog is sick. Ronie's sick she got upset stomach clearly. Ah so it's it is's never just one of them. It's gonna be both and um.

02:41.22
Bruce Anthony
Me.

02:48.97
Bruce Anthony
Um, so now no, you don't need to take her to a vet. So so this I should have asked you this before you hopped in the car I always call first hey.

02:49.98
J. Aundrea
You know now I gotta take her to the V That's another bill.

02:59.94
J. Aundrea
M.

03:05.47
Bruce Anthony
This is what happened do I need to come in with it and they told you to come in.

03:05.47
J. Aundrea
I did Well you know it's the person at the desk if I had talked to the actual vet. She probably would have said no, it's fine.

03:15.53
Bruce Anthony
See now you need to have issues because did you have to pay for that vet visit today. Okay, okay.

03:20.59
J. Aundrea
I did not and the only the reason why is she didn't do an exam on him. She just came in. It told me what did he take? Okay, yeah, that's fine. He'll be. He'll be all right.

03:32.75
Bruce Anthony
I'm pissed off at the front desk people because they should have talked to the vet and just been like hey look is this? Okay so that would have pissed me all first and foremost. But you don't need to take Ronnie to the vet yet if she continuously vomits then you need to take her to the vet.

03:34.96
J. Aundrea
Right? yeah. No yeah I'm just yeah, well for today I'm gonna let her fast and let her stomach empty out and then just gave her some boiled chicken or rice and I also switched her treats.

03:47.39
Bruce Anthony
Right now you just need to put there on that chicken and rice diet.

03:54.89
Bruce Anthony
E.

04:00.98
J. Aundrea
So you know Ronnie's ronie is a little on the hefty side. Okay so I was talking to the vet and I'm like I give her a cup of food in the morning a cup in the at in the evening. Why is she so fat and she's like whoa does she get any snacks I'm like yeah of course she gets treats.

04:03.26
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

04:20.22
J. Aundrea
Yeah, you know naturally and she said well. What do you give her I was like you know, but ba bacon strips. Um, you know so snausages. Um, she said Okay, well I think we found the culprit.

04:35.31
J. Aundrea
She should be eating carrots and green beans. So I bought a bag of fresh green beans home girl ain't having it. She don't well somebody does love it.

04:38.54
Bruce Anthony
It's. No, because you've been feeding her Tritz It's so see she's not going to eat that now.

04:54.63
J. Aundrea
Roscoe loves green beans. He is he is tearing these green beans up so I stopped giving him the little cookie treat his treats are literal little cookies. They're little biscuit cookie treats cause most puppy treats are are soft and so I stopped giving him those.

05:03.27
Bruce Anthony
ME.

05:13.36
J. Aundrea
And he just gets the green beans now and I'm gonna try I'm gonna try carrots with her because they're sweeter and she might take to carrots better. So I'm a try carrots.

05:13.45
Bruce Anthony
What about carrots.

05:20.57
Bruce Anthony
Look I tried to give crypto carrots in the last year of his life and he was not having it. He's like no no, no, no, no, you've been giving me the beef sticks the snausages the milk bones don't be giving me this carrot stuff he was like you don't even eat this and I was like you know what bro you absolutely right? I won't eat this. Yeah.

05:32.54
J. Aundrea
Um, um, right? That's fair. That's fair, Um, but if I have to make a diet change in this house.

05:40.56
Bruce Anthony
I.

05:44.11
J. Aundrea
Everybody does everybody period.

05:50.83
Bruce Anthony
Okay, that's funny all right? So I we send each other we send each other ladies and gentlemen we send each other stuff every day all day long. Ah, we have right.

05:59.19
J. Aundrea
Yeah, because we're normal Americans we send each other memes and tiktoks yes.

06:05.85
Bruce Anthony
We got multiple conversations going on in Dms and on text message and they don't match. They're happily and simultaneously and we are we bombard each other to the point where it's annoying, but but also funny so you sent me something.

06:10.30
J. Aundrea
No, and they're happening simultaneously.

06:20.24
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, um.

06:24.75
Bruce Anthony
And I sent you something and we're going to attack the first one. Um in this first segment in the last one and the last segment because I think the one that you sent me is actually humorous and this is kind of humorous but also kind of important. So this young lady.

06:35.74
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

06:42.38
Bruce Anthony
Approached Anthony Mackey Anthony Mackey as Falcon and the new Captain America in Marvel cinematic universe. He also played. Ah, he also played poc in the notorious movie and he's done some other stuff. He's done. Oh he was the he was the asshole jerk.

06:46.29
J. Aundrea
Um, who yes.

06:54.11
J. Aundrea
Fantastic actor I am a fan.

07:01.80
Bruce Anthony
And million dollar baby that that's another that's another situation that he played so this young lady ah approaches him in public and this is her story about approaching them bear with us. It's a little long but I believe it's worth it.

07:03.57
J. Aundrea
Sure it.

07:20.10
Bruce Anthony
So I just met Anthony Mackeie and let me just say rudest human being alive so I live in New Orleans I'm here for spring break. Apparently Anthony Mackeie lives here too. I pulled up to a gas station here. Anthony Mackey comes in this huge fucking truck. All blacked out all fucking sleek windows down so it's like also if you don't want people to come up to you and fucking say how much they appreciate your work. Why the fuck are all your windows down and your blasting music smoking a fucking cigar. So I park my. Car getting ready to punt my gas I see Anthony Mackey across the fucking lot I gently walk up to him being like oh. Sorry to bother because I know celebrities are on time I know celebrities got shit to do I understand that so I walk up game very very very respectful, very very very open minded being like hey I'm so sorry to bother you tell me why Anthonyidy Mackey did this. No no, it's to my face. No and then just wentp back to what he was doing having me standing. There was standing there in front of Anthony.

08:39.32
Bruce Anthony
should I should I leave like should I should I go when I tell you all I wanted to do was walk up to that man. First of all, thank you for his time for you've been looking at me and then saying how much I thought appreciated his work and that was it that was it. I just wanted to be like hey Anthony Mackey like it's so nice to meet you like I'm so like your work is actually phenomenal. I'm so glad I'm not to meet you like have an amazing day so that was it.

09:11.27
Bruce Anthony
Was all I wanted. Okay I think that's enough ah Jay what do you think about that whole scenario.

09:11.44
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

09:18.64
J. Aundrea
I Think um, she's dead ass wrong for posting that period because it's the entitlement she felt entitled to his time and his space.

09:21.73
Bruce Anthony
Yes, I thought the same thing but tell me why you think she's dead ass wrong.

09:36.19
J. Aundrea
You're not entitled to anyone's time and space I don't care that they are a celebrity just because everybody knows of them doesn't mean that everybody knows them and you got to like you got to read the like. But.

09:38.18
Bruce Anthony
E E E. E e.

09:55.62
J. Aundrea
Now if my man said cause I've gone up to a celebrity before and I was actually with one of my friend' daughters who was a a fan of hers and wanted to take a picture with her we were at like um it was kind of like a Dave Andbusters for kids.

09:59.25
Bruce Anthony
In here.

10:08.31
Bruce Anthony
A. Okay, sure.

10:15.20
J. Aundrea
Is called main event. Um and she was there with her children and so I walked up to her with my niece and I said you you know is it? Okay, if she takes a picture with you and she said no not right now and not not when I'm with my kids and I said I respect that and we walked away and that's it like.

10:31.90
Bruce Anthony
You know.

10:34.14
J. Aundrea
When she's with her family right now this is her private time I asked I was polite about it. She said no I took that and I didn't go and I'm not even saying her name right now like I'm not going to do that I have approached a lot of celebrities because I I walk up right I walk right up to ok.

10:43.34
Bruce Anthony
E.

10:53.45
J. Aundrea
And I was like hey you know I'm a huge fan. Um, and and then I and then I keep it pushing because it's awkward. It's awkward to have somebody come up to you and be like oh my God I Love you so much and you're just like okay I've never seen you before in my entire life.

10:56.37
Bruce Anthony
Um e.

11:00.37
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

11:13.30
J. Aundrea
Ah, but because I'm good right? But because I'm good at my job like you feel entitled to my time and my space Nah says like no, that was some that was some entitlement right? there.

11:14.24
Bruce Anthony
Um, or if I did I did not notice it.

11:22.34
Bruce Anthony
Right.

11:30.30
J. Aundrea
And then the and then to get mad about it and post it on social media like my mans didn't cush you out. He didn't do he just said, No no, no no and and did it quietly. You don't want to stood there stuck on stupid. That's your fault.

11:34.73
Bruce Anthony
A.

11:46.93
Bruce Anthony
So there's more that goes into the video ah that I cut off because it was gonna go long and I forgot how much customs was in it and I apologize ladies Jim and normally I give y'all? ah a warning. It was a lot of custom. I hope no kids was around but you know what I'm not. It was too many cuw words I'm not bleeping it look I'm be real honest with yallll this postproduction is gonna take me about 2 hours tonight and I need some sleep. So it's gonna be some cussing in it. But my thing was is that later on in the video. She's like.

11:59.80
J. Aundrea
Wim Wi and bleep that. Yeah, not faith it who? yeah.

12:17.12
Bruce Anthony
Why I don't understand how he could have his windows rolled down blasted music smoking his cigar and not want people to come up to him. Ah so it's hot Plus he's smoking a cigar.

12:24.30
J. Aundrea
Excuse me is New Orleans in spring he's rolling them windows down plus he's smoking. He don't want to get smoked out in his own car.

12:36.14
Bruce Anthony
And and I love the fact that she was like I was gonna go I went up to really respectful. You gonna be like hey I'm sorry for bothering you no, you weren't sorry for bothering him because you bothered him so you weren't sorry right? and when when he was like no no, you didn't respect him enough.

12:46.42
J. Aundrea
You know you are right? yes.

12:55.37
Bruce Anthony
Just be like Okay, it's no problem I just wanted to say I was a big fan but have a great day because you don't know what that person is going through on that particular day. No, they're not obligated to be nice to you respectful, respectful.

12:58.60
J. Aundrea
Yeah, exactly no no one is obligated to be nice to you literally no one? Yes, yeah, treat me like a human being sure.

13:12.64
Bruce Anthony
You expect people to be respectful right? He put his hand up and said no but still, you don't yeah right, walking up on me and.

13:17.59
J. Aundrea
But again he didn't call her our and they all he said was no of ah yeah, like don't keep coming because all I see is a person I don't know walking up on me.

13:32.42
Bruce Anthony
If she had that type of energy that she had in this video walking up I'd be like Nah na na na na na na na na short. It. Let's let's let's go ahead and you keep going on with your day to save the time for me and and that energy that you got bringing towards me right now is a bit much.

13:34.40
J. Aundrea
That high pass energy. Yes, before you even get started maybe girl.

13:48.88
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you petty in your personal and your public life. But that's yeah.

13:51.14
Bruce Anthony
So So so so you have a good day have a blessed day I'm I'm quick I'm quick I'm petty I'm petty in my personal life laz and gentlemen when I'm petty I didn't know that I was petty. Ah it. I'm petty I'm petty I didn't realize I was petty I I found that I was petty when I got into my forty s I was like oh that's petty. You know one thing I Love to do when I stop talking to a female a woman excuse me stop talking to a woman I always text.

14:07.95
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

14:13.55
J. Aundrea
What.

14:18.93
J. Aundrea
And.

14:25.62
Bruce Anthony
You know hey I think this du't think this is going to work out Blah Blah Blah Blah you know, take care God Bless because you because I feel like you can't You can't say nothing mean to me or or sideways.

14:30.70
J. Aundrea
Yeah, my mine is good luck and God bless.

14:41.51
J. Aundrea
Yeah, but trust me that good looking God Bless It ain't even passive aggressive. It's aggressive aggressive. Yeah, and I actually got good luck and God Bless from our cousin she was.

14:43.62
Bruce Anthony
Once I say something like that is and I do it all the time I do it all the time.

15:00.84
J. Aundrea
Ah, an ex-boyfriend had called her we were riding in the car and an ex-boyfriend had called her to tell her some news I guess he got a new job and he was thinking you know now he's making more money. Ah, she'll see what a catch I am and she her response was why are you telling me? Well I thought you weren. Okay.

15:13.20
Bruce Anthony
So e.

15:20.48
J. Aundrea
Great good luck and God Bless and the way she said it and then hung up the phone I said you are a superhero and I absolutely loved everything about that and I will hit somebody with a good luck and God Bless so quick.

15:25.97
Bruce Anthony
It.

15:38.69
J. Aundrea
And then you get on that block list. That's I go.

15:39.40
Bruce Anthony
And I'm gonna tell all the people that are fans of the show out there because you've had a few instances where people have come to be like oh I listen to the show all the time you like you do and and if I would actually go out of the house I know that I.

15:50.12
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

15:57.97
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

15:58.93
Bruce Anthony
Would get approached and genuinely. Ah I am known to put myself in uncomfortable situations just to make another person comfortable I turned over a whole new leaf and and 2024 I've been saying no a lot people ask me stuff and it's a curt. No it is no.

16:14.61
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, because no is a complete sentence. Yeah, it is.

16:18.29
Bruce Anthony
Um, but right it is it is but I will say by and large unless I'm having a bad dayve somebody is is a fan of the show because it's still new right? There's that aspect of it because it's still new and they want to come up and meet me I'm. Pretty much going to be super gracious because this is new now 10 years down the road and and people gonna come Up. Hopefully hopefully you know people come up to me all the time because the show is super popular and everybody is watching. Yeah,, there's gonna be times where I'm gonna be like.

16:37.64
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

16:53.20
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

16:54.31
Bruce Anthony
No, no, yeah, there's gonna be times like and and look I understand we appreciate their work all famous people entertainers and things of that nature. We appreciate that work and we want to let them know that we appreciate their their work and and but you gotta read the room Jay I would say that you was wrong. Approaching that woman with her kids in the little David busters. She's literally with her kids.

17:16.76
J. Aundrea
Yeah, and and honestly I I I wasn't going to do it but it was my niece. It was her birthday and she was a fan and I was like okay. I'm bringing another child. It wasn't like me coming up to her by myself. Wish she's with her kids like I'm bringing a child over.

17:35.48
Bruce Anthony
With the kids where her kids scattered and planned because then that's when you tell your niece to be like go play with them little kids over there and.

17:44.20
J. Aundrea
Right? No they I mean they were just ah, you know like running back and forth. You know some was stop get somebody eat. She has a lot of children. So it's no back and forth.

17:49.40
Bruce Anthony
Not not back. Not back and forth back and forth you say force back and forth. Yeah, that's our country and us.

17:59.14
J. Aundrea
F O R F Fourth back and forth. Yeah.

18:07.92
Bruce Anthony
Ah, but yeah, you know celebrities I wouldn't want to be him actually you know Michael Jackson there was a you remember when Michael Jackson had them close out a grocery store because his dream was to go grocery shopping because he had never gone grocery shopping I mean think about that and like he's ultra famous. So that's.

18:10.33
J. Aundrea
Now now.

18:19.90
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

18:27.13
Bruce Anthony
That's an extreme and most of the time Anthony Macey's from New Orleans so he's probably back home taking care stuff and then California and New York people in Miami people probably not bothering them right? The the most bothersome people that they probably get in those cities is paparazzi right.

18:29.87
J. Aundrea
And.

18:37.48
J. Aundrea
Right.

18:45.68
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

18:46.22
Bruce Anthony
But you go back home Look you gonna get it. So maybe put on the disguise. No well not. It's true. The word no is.

18:55.19
J. Aundrea
I Guess but it's like nobody wants to live like that when not not not when the word no is an option now when the word no is an option. So no I think I think this was since was wrong for that. Um.

19:03.42
Bruce Anthony
Always an option. Well well.

19:13.78
J. Aundrea
Yeah, but I but ah what I heard is this is not like the first time he's he's like turned people away.

19:22.62
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, no, he's turning look. He's turned people away and what I there's he has a history of it and what I will say is just because he's an outgoing actor does not mean that he's an extrovert.

19:28.96
J. Aundrea
M. Right? right? does not mean that this man don't have social anxiety. We don't know because you do not know him and then also you're a stranger walking up to somebody saying.

19:40.88
Bruce Anthony
Right? We don't know. Right? And your face probably looks crazed, you probably look crazed because you see a person that you really enjoy and you walking up with the Craz Face. You don't see what your face look like right.

19:50.55
J. Aundrea
I'm sorry to bother you. He'll know what you want So The answer is just no yeah. Yes, from across the gas station remember she says she's on the other side so she walks all the way over probably looking crazy. She looked crazed in the video. Okay.

20:12.70
Bruce Anthony
She does look crazy's in the video.

20:16.62
J. Aundrea
So you probably look at you probably don't know that your face is looking crazy. Nobody else is bothering this man. He's just pumping his gas and you go walk across the whole parking lot looking crazy sorry to bother you.

20:21.98
Bruce Anthony
Um, just pumping this gas that's already doing.

20:36.10
J. Aundrea
No, no, no, you're in it. Yeah.

20:37.37
Bruce Anthony
Um, now you got it. That's it. Yeah yeah, now this ain't this I I don't This energy is too much for me right now I'm in a rush. I gotta go somewhere this could turn into a long conversation that I can't get myself out of and I'm kind of trapped because when you pump in gas you kind of trapped.

20:52.88
J. Aundrea
Yeah, because I I have to stay there until my gas is done pumping and any woman who knows stopping for gas when you buy yourself, especially if you stop for gas in the hood you are getting approached at that pump.

20:57.89
Bruce Anthony
Right.

21:06.61
Bruce Anthony
Oh Jesus not rip for f.

21:12.80
J. Aundrea
By all manner of refraff. Okay, and there's nothing you could do and there's nothing. You could do you got to keep pumping to get all. You could say it? No no, that's all you could say because I'm stuck I'm I got stand here.

21:28.19
Bruce Anthony
Um, well speaking of no we said that sometimes you said that no is always an option but sometimes it's not and unfortunately that's the case in.

21:35.94
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

21:41.46
Bruce Anthony
2 situations that we're gonna address next in puffy and this nickelodeon documentary.

21:55.63
Bruce Anthony
Will cis puffy in trouble again. Puffy is under federal investigation. Um, federal agents executed a search warrant at Combs properties in both Los Angeles and Miami they've interviewed multiple subjects.

21:56.50
J. Aundrea
M.

22:12.69
Bruce Anthony
And their allegations are they're they're general and so we don't know what the specifics are but there're sex trafficking sex assault solicitation and distribution of illegal narcotics, narcotics and firearms.

22:18.57
J. Aundrea
And.

22:26.14
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

22:28.58
Bruce Anthony
Ah, federal agents executed the warrants at Combs Properties I've already said that in Los Angeles and Miami ah, this investigation comes after ways of lawsuits filed against him since November um, you had the lawsuit with Cassie Casey Cassie Cassie

22:44.67
J. Aundrea
Cassie.

22:46.33
Bruce Anthony
Ah, in which he was the lawsuit alleged that she was trafficked raped beaten by Combs for over 10 years um and then you have other lawsuits multiple lawsuits filed against Combs dating back to the 90 s which he founded the record label bad boy records.

22:52.57
J. Aundrea
M.

23:04.47
Bruce Anthony
These lawsuits accused him of various misconduct including sex trafficking sex abuse and rape of course Sean puffy P Daddy Combs has strongly denied all the allegations and his attorneys have called him baseless sickening and they used the term.

23:08.32
J. Aundrea
Yeah, okay.

23:15.42
J. Aundrea
M.

23:24.26
Bruce Anthony
That has become real prevalent um not fake news which which term do you think it is not fake news but it's a term that our former president uses all the time. Yes, they've said they've said witch hunt. They've said witch hunt. Um.

23:32.30
J. Aundrea
Not oh Lord not a witch hunt please shall.

23:43.34
Bruce Anthony
Technically he has not been formally charged um or cues. These are just allegations right? but he's under investigation. So this is what he got going on I was talking to somebody early today and she was like did you hear.

23:50.81
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

24:01.48
Bruce Anthony
Puffy is in like some country where he can't get extradited and I was like wait a minute. What no that's not true no no no I just I just found out about this I just afraid about this and I was like no I mean the night it happened which was Monday night I was like the night had happened. They were tracking a plane that was leaving California. Was Goingnna go to I think somewhere in the caribbean where there was no extradition but it was later proven that night that puffy was in Miami when they were rating his homes in Los Angeles he just well he was in Florida and they were like no, that's not true and I was like no it. It absolutely is true.

24:23.73
J. Aundrea
M. Yes, he wasn't he he was in Florida he wasn't in his Miami home but he wasn't Florida at the time. Yeah, read the newspaper.

24:40.53
Bruce Anthony
So so my problem was is that the way people get their information people throw out accusations and this person I'm talking about was throwing out these accusations and I was like none of this like none of this is but he's been accused of.

24:47.98
J. Aundrea
M.

24:59.84
J. Aundrea
Yeah, and.

24:59.98
Bruce Anthony
Um, there are rumors that he used to have these freak parties. There are rumors that that he's been with underage people and and these allegations were enough and valid enough for the Fbi to start an investigation and let me explain some to y'all people that if y'all don't understand Fbi.

25:12.46
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

25:19.85
Bruce Anthony
If the Fbi is investigating you and they rage your home. They pretty much already got the the basis of what happened they're just collecting evidence to shore up their case because if they bring you before a judge 9 times out of 10 You're going to be found guilty. The Fbi is.

25:26.37
J. Aundrea
Yes.

25:37.98
J. Aundrea
Because what you have to understand is these raids require a warrant and a warrant must be signed off on by a judge a judge who hears the case that they have so far and thinks that it would be lawful.

25:39.70
Bruce Anthony
Very thorough. So right.

25:55.94
J. Aundrea
And prudent to search this person's property. It is incredibly difficult to get a warrant you have to have a case like you have to have a case. Um, and so.

25:56.90
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, right nowadays nowadays there was back in the time the good old boy system you know there? Yeah back in the day.

26:10.54
J. Aundrea
Know what? they just to kick the dough over and yeah, so yeah, yeah, you're gonna have to get that warrant and so if they had enough for a warrant for not 1 but 2 of his homes on different coasts.

26:15.85
Bruce Anthony
Back in the tap. But but now now you need to you need that war. Yeah.

26:26.55
Bruce Anthony
Who writes like it wasn't It wasn't too right.

26:31.10
J. Aundrea
Like 1 judge didn't sign off on a warrant for l a and Miami they they don't have jurisdiction over that it had to I had to get 2 judges to sign off 1 in Miami ah 1 in and California and l a so it's like.

26:45.43
Bruce Anthony
That's.

26:47.52
J. Aundrea
but but but Bay Bay like they have something on this man. They just need the evidence like you said yes.

26:54.22
Bruce Anthony
Well his handler got caught that did that is something that happened his handler got caught in Miami and it was the first time I've ever heard of pink cocaine. Yeah and I never knew about that for those people that don't know about that.

27:06.53
J. Aundrea
Yeah, that's new. Um, you know.

27:11.47
Bruce Anthony
That's cocaine and ecstasy which is ah as Rick James said cocaine is a hell of a drug add an ecstasy to it. You know? yeah.

27:17.57
J. Aundrea
Right? It's like what? um but you know that's rich people stuff. There are things that we don't know being in certain tax brackets. But I think that's a lot of why like first of all.

27:32.89
Bruce Anthony
Um.

27:35.29
J. Aundrea
Any woman who was of age in the 90 s knows it. It was a it was a hard time to be a woman because boy ah the harass the sexual harassment ah assault like especially of black women especially of young black women.

27:51.16
Bruce Anthony
E.

27:53.41
J. Aundrea
Especially ones you know in that world that entertainment world I mean you hear how they used to talk about us in songs like it was it was it. It's as if these women are not human beings and so um.

28:03.79
Bruce Anthony
Um, I mean.

28:11.70
J. Aundrea
I Think a lot of black women my age or hearing this and be like yeah I'm not surprised I Remember how it was I remember how it was I Remember how y'all used to talk about us how you used to treat us. Um.

28:22.68
Bruce Anthony
Um, but supposedly puffy didn't stop in the 90 s he's still going.

28:28.56
J. Aundrea
No, because there's no reason think think about it this way too I thought about it a lot of these you know not just rich but wealthy wealthy people you get to a certain point where you amass a certain amount of wealth and power that you that you.

28:39.14
Bruce Anthony
In here.

28:47.48
J. Aundrea
Truly believe that you are an untouchable or that anything can be solved with a check and they thought that this could solving they could solve this issue by giving Cassie a check but that just opened the floodgates because honestly I don't even think.

28:59.25
Bruce Anthony
I Just opened the floodgates the air.

29:07.20
J. Aundrea
Other people are coming for for a check I mean it might be that but I also don't think so I think it's like wait somebody actually said something somebody actually publicly said something like we know about the whispers and the rumors and the things like that are how how women are treated I mean think about.

29:12.86
Bruce Anthony
Oh.

29:26.57
J. Aundrea
Um, you know to how all the old rappers the NW a those guys you know, be it dry beaten all these yeah when I was he is. He's still is still alive. Oh yeah yeah. yeah

29:31.80
Bruce Anthony
Way well okay, dray ice cube was a good man. Good man. This woman is this I'm what I'm saying he was a good man to his woman and still is but I'm talking about you talk about when he's an and NW wait as was it was.

29:45.28
J. Aundrea
But yeah yeah I mean Biggie used to be rumors of about her beating beat him beating the hell out of Kim like and faith. You know like I mean we knew what was happening to these. We knew what was happening.

29:51.17
Bruce Anthony
Here He be and faith and faith. Yeah.

30:02.45
Bruce Anthony
I I know I don't think timeout I don't think we knew in the moment. no no no r kelly r Kelly yes but I'm talking about biggie put his hands like we didn't know that in the moment that we actually didn't know that until it came out.

30:03.67
J. Aundrea
Around R Kelly like we knew that man made a song called a a number but a number and the rumor about him being yeah.

30:21.68
Bruce Anthony
And his movies and and Kim talked. You did not you did okay when gig money came when get money came out in in ninety four ninety five

30:22.70
J. Aundrea
No I knew it back then I knew it back then I did because the rumors were out there because it's not. It's not like he was doing it behind closed doors. The crew saw him people saw it.

30:36.54
Bruce Anthony
The crew song but but they weren't talking I'm telling you it was not known Well I guess you was in the hold on timeout. How was you in the know more than me when I was in high school and you wasn't even in middle school yet.

30:40.70
J. Aundrea
And nobody was people were talking there were there were women around and people were talking.

30:53.29
J. Aundrea
Man I was I was I was on the block look.

30:55.58
Bruce Anthony
Know what? no no thing a block you was barely reading jet magazine now. No blogs in 95 he was barely reading jet magazine you talk of cashish right now.

30:59.25
J. Aundrea
No Blogs Blogs blogs.

31:09.71
J. Aundrea
Nub. No, but I mean I don't know it was just like rumors and whispers like it was never.

31:12.76
Bruce Anthony
And in the two thousand s we knew after biggie died we did not know don't win Biggie was alive.

31:21.34
J. Aundrea
Oh I'm bad at time I don't know. But um, my point is like before all this stuff came out. It wasn't like we didn't know how people were being treated and not just women. Apparently.

31:31.40
Bruce Anthony
No yes as far as the treatment of women. Yes, yes, well yeah, women and and men because because as of right now the I are not at the Irs. Well maybe the Irs soon.

31:38.82
J. Aundrea
Not just women. Ah we go We gonna say people because it was.

31:49.56
Bruce Anthony
But but the Fbi has investigated. Um I've read somewhere for Jane does and 1 John doe. Um, so there's there's some men and there's some stories. There's a lot of stories of of.

31:59.10
J. Aundrea
Ah.

32:02.29
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

32:08.31
Bruce Anthony
Puffy's abuse of power and um, that's all coming out. We knew that he was kind of a tyrant but I didn't know that it went to this extent extent and we still technically we don't know everything because.

32:09.13
J. Aundrea
M.

32:21.99
J. Aundrea
The full extent. Yeah.

32:26.23
Bruce Anthony
The the charges are very people are going to say well's pretty obvious I'm like no the charges are very general when you say trafficking trafficking sex trafficking can be a variety of different things right? A lot of people are going to think sex sex trafficking is like the mules.

32:30.86
J. Aundrea
Yeah. Yes.

32:43.55
J. Aundrea
And.

32:45.42
Bruce Anthony
That will like Kidnap women and like force them to have sex. Um, that's that's one way to sex track. Another one is a pimp a pimp is a sex trafficker right? Um, it could have been a situation where it could have been groupies.

32:49.70
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, but I I think right? yeah.

33:04.19
Bruce Anthony
That he was just like yo. You know you supposed to serve the team that's sex trafficking. So there's a by the way all of them horrible like first of all, all of them horrible I want to make this clear all of them horrible I'm I'm not I'm not I'm not doing that.

33:08.70
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, especially if if he flew him out if if yeah, there's no yeah.

33:23.38
Bruce Anthony
I'm just saying we don't know exactly what it is Um, we know that it's bad and we know that he probably did it.

33:28.38
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, and and we know enough from the court documents from Cassie's suit of just what happened to her and that was his girlfriend.

33:37.57
Bruce Anthony
Right? That was his that was his boo that was his boo thing that he carried around and was out here on the streets like Young'll you y'all know this my girl and let me, um, let me let y'all in on a little secret.

33:44.49
J. Aundrea
For 10 years

33:51.36
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

33:57.40
Bruce Anthony
From men from the 80 s and ninety s the way we treat our girl our significant other is completely different from the way we treat our side piece I got advice from an older person 1 time.

34:08.98
J. Aundrea
More.

34:15.67
Bruce Anthony
And I'd had I had a girlfriend and I had a side piece and I was treating them both like kind of like my girlfriend one went a little bit better. My girlfriend treated a little bit better but you know if I took one out to ruby Tuesdays because I was you know was in college.

34:19.64
J. Aundrea
Um.

34:29.10
J. Aundrea
M.

34:31.66
Bruce Anthony
You know if I took one out to ruer Tuesday I might take the other one out to you know know if I took 1 to tgifriday I might take the other one out to Applebee's you know, just like a little bit less just a little bit less but still nice in this older gentleman I'm not gonna put him out there not go put him out there but he ain't that much older than than me. He's only 8 years

34:38.70
J. Aundrea
Right? right.

34:49.70
J. Aundrea
Me and.

34:51.53
Bruce Anthony
So you know who you are if you listened this older gentleman and put me on to the games. He's like nah nah nah you supposed to take your girl to tgifridays you supposed to take your side piece to Mcdonald's don't ever teach your side piece as good as you treat your girl. So if puffy is treating his main girl. Ah god that I mean he's really seventy eighty s and 90 s but a guy that was really out there in the 90 s was treating his man girl like that. Let me tell you it is 100 times worse what he was treating women that were not his girlfriend and supposedly men.

35:10.76
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

35:22.67
J. Aundrea
And men and and I'm a and I must say this too. He did not want to enter into the Discovery period of the suit. Which is why he settled that bad boy a day after she filed it. Oh okay, unintentional, no unintentional. But but I mean we in the history of my life I ain't never seeing nothing Settled. Ah.

35:40.63
Bruce Anthony
Was that a pun bad boy you didn't even mean to do that It was untened. It was clever though.

35:56.46
Bruce Anthony
It wasn't the next day but it was it was are you sure because we talked about it on the show.

35:56.96
J. Aundrea
The next day it was the next day he's yet he settled it the next day as in a separate lawsuit from November Twenty Twenty three this is I'm reading this from npr singer Cassie Ventura who had signed a 10 album deal with combs' bad boy entertainment when she was 19 accused comb of years of sexual misconduct harassment sex trafficking and rape the suit was settled the day after it was filed.

36:29.10
Bruce Anthony
Wow. Okay.

36:31.96
J. Aundrea
He did not want to enter that Discovery period and have evidence entered on to record.

36:34.35
Bruce Anthony
Well supposedly, there's videotapes. That's the reason why they rateid it and supposedly I read somewhere. This is all supposedly I'm not like 1 of those people where I read something somewhere and then I'd say it's fact that I don't know this for fact, but I did read this somewhere is that he had cameras.

36:46.37
J. Aundrea
Yes.

36:53.95
Bruce Anthony
And his residence all over the place that were constantly filming so there are celebrities out there who are in his home that there's videotape on and that means there's videotaped on these freak parties that he used to have um, don't freak.

36:54.94
J. Aundrea
I.

37:02.27
J. Aundrea
M. For sure.

37:10.68
Bruce Anthony
No, he yes, he was down. No he went to Howard Howard but he probably went to freak Nick that's another documentary. We'll talk about in another time because I just watched a freak Nick Documentary um but you know there's people at this people had them sex parties. So.

37:12.59
J. Aundrea
You do what you went to hour correct.

37:25.56
J. Aundrea
Yeah, which again like here's the thing if it's a bunch of consenting adults. Do your thing. Do you when you are using your power influence.

37:28.67
Bruce Anthony
You know I.

37:32.30
Bruce Anthony
Right? Do yo thing.

37:42.85
J. Aundrea
And money to coerce people into doing things. They would not do ordinarily and that they don't want to do that's when it becomes a problem.

37:53.41
Bruce Anthony
Yep, so yeah, we'll see what happens to puffy P Diddy ah

37:57.50
J. Aundrea
And I'm a be honest, he Sean comess to me for for now I'm but I'm not you know a nickname is a sign of affection and I'm not I'm not down with it. He's Sean.

38:05.33
Bruce Anthony
So a good friend of mine came to me and and we were talking about puffy and he was like I can't take it I can't take it. You're not gonna take my 90 s you're not gonna take my ninety s music away from me. He's like look r Kelly cool I could do away with that. But you're not gonna take the everything that he's been a part of and I was like yes, he's actually been a part of so much iconic music.

38:31.41
J. Aundrea
Yeah, and and the reason why this and is this is not gonna be the end of people coming forward about about these guys. Um, the reason why they were able to do this for so long is Because. We loved the product of their work and as long as they kept giving us Bops. We were willing to ignore the fact that the lyrics to their song the stuff they're saying is bordering dangerously on sexual assault.

38:48.21
Bruce Anthony
Here he.

39:05.84
Bruce Anthony
Well yeah, yeah.

39:07.94
J. Aundrea
Or the stuff that they're rapping about is bordering dangerously on Pedophilia you know, like we were willing to still dance to a J none but a number.

39:13.20
Bruce Anthony
M.

39:22.90
Bruce Anthony
Dear.

39:24.91
J. Aundrea
Where this grown man is singing with this 15 year old where the rumor was that they were married like that. The fact that we were willing to be complicit in it is I think really was killing people the most.

39:27.89
Bruce Anthony
And they were.

39:37.63
Bruce Anthony
E. You ain't lying.

39:44.64
J. Aundrea
Not not not that oh I can't listen to the music anymore because um, honestly when the last time I put on something by Sean Holmes it's been a minute.

39:54.70
Bruce Anthony
Um I listen to biggie least once a week.

39:56.94
J. Aundrea
And that and that man was a you know a domestic abuser and maybe more we don't know.

40:01.38
Bruce Anthony
You will look I'm about to and I'm about to just start separating the art from the artist because he making no more money off of it so I can enjoy it.

40:14.40
J. Aundrea
Yeah I mean the money the money is going to his family so I don't I mean it.

40:18.97
Bruce Anthony
You know and and and and and puffy. It's not like these people make money off of streams off of Apple music which is what I have they don't make money off of that I mean they do but it's not real money. They're not making real money so that's that's how I'm goingnna. That's how I'm gonna.

40:31.35
J. Aundrea
It Yeah I mean yeah, but I mean that's gonna be everybody's individual journey like I personally don't.

40:37.88
Bruce Anthony
Deal with it. It's just say you know I could go ahead and do this.

40:45.00
Bruce Anthony
A.

40:50.17
J. Aundrea
Separated when when when this stuff comes to light and it is confirmed and you are found guilty by a jury of your peers. That's it you done in my book you done. It's a rap I don't need to watch the Cosby show again. Um I didn't I didn't. I wasn't a huge fan of R Kelly to begin with um, you know he made some bos but I can live without it like I'm not going to die if I don't listen to him anymore.

41:14.21
Bruce Anthony
I was be a lot of pops. Ah, so are what if Martin Lawrence with some came out Martin law and you can never watch another Martin episode.

41:28.17
J. Aundrea
It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter like I have there has to be a line for me of like Okay, what's the line where I say I can no longer participate in the promotion of a person.

41:31.96
Bruce Anthony
Okay, you you be.

41:46.13
J. Aundrea
That I wouldn't go around I wouldn't go within a hundred feet of

41:48.20
Bruce Anthony
Okay I did I hey look I've talked about it several times in this podcast. That's an individual journey for every person and the and the bar is going to be moved based on how you feel about their work. That's just true.

41:55.92
J. Aundrea
M.

42:01.84
J. Aundrea
Right.

42:04.92
Bruce Anthony
If it came out that Prince did something similar to puffy. You're not going to stop listening the prince. Okay, well nice. Okay, that's true.

42:08.27
J. Aundrea
Yes I am yes I Am That's just that's the line. That's you can't now I can't say that I care about women or I Honestly I can't say that I care about people and their bodily autonomy. And they're right to say no to things and have that no respect it and still continue to put money in the pockets of somebody or their estate I can't do both like I can't do both like that's but that's me that's not gonna be everybody.

42:34.62
Bruce Anthony
You right? I'm not gonna argue with you better you right.

42:43.38
Bruce Anthony
Well, there's a.

42:46.80
J. Aundrea
Some people can separate the art from the artist like I mean you could take somebody like Mahatma Gandia who who who I was he racist or anti-semitic I can't remember what it was but you know.

43:02.58
Bruce Anthony
Ah, you really are you reckless speculating right now and before you start those are two days or lower apparently allegedly.

43:05.20
J. Aundrea
No, it was one of the it was one of the things or okay, let's take let's take Dr King who a parent knew up alleged allegedly was not was not faithful to his wife.

43:17.50
Bruce Anthony
Apparently allegedly, there's tapes there's tapes there's tapes. There's there they got that they got the tapes they gave they gave credited. They gave credit. That's the tapes. No, it's not a legend.

43:22.95
J. Aundrea
All let's tape oh down return to every I got the tapes. It's not a ledger if not a legend damn oh sorry sorry Dr King but it.

43:35.72
Bruce Anthony
Martin was a hoe.

43:40.30
J. Aundrea
Listen There are some people that are probably like can't rock with them because that might be their line right? And then there are some people like no, we have to divorce who he was in private from his.

43:46.60
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah.

43:59.80
J. Aundrea
Public Political image and the thing that that stood for the symbol of who he was like we have to separate that so it ah it's gonna be personal for everybody I can't get on here and say y'all can't y'all can't listen this spring y'all can't support this but y'all can't do this that.

44:02.41
Bruce Anthony
Um.

44:09.47
Bruce Anthony
Is personal.

44:17.99
J. Aundrea
That's that's between you and ah, whoever guys your spirit like that's between y'all like that ain't got nothing to do yet. Yeah, that ain't nothing to do dan' got to do with me.

44:24.96
Bruce Anthony
Guides guides guides your spirit. Yes, well people there's a whole generation of people. They're going to have that same conversation when it comes to what they grew up with with Nickelodeon.

44:38.32
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, it's a gross word. Yes.

44:40.69
Bruce Anthony
Because speaking of pedophilia Peeddophilia I hate saying that word. Um, yeah, it really is a haysay that word quiet on the set the dark side of kids Tv a fourpart documentary tv series that dis into the behind the scenes world of children's television. Particularly those shows of Daniel Snyder's tenure as a producer on Nickelodeon it premiered March seventeenth and eighteenth of this year on and investigation discovery it exposes the climate that was extremely toxic under Snyder's tenure

45:14.56
J. Aundrea
To say the least it was abusive.

45:18.58
Bruce Anthony
and and and the golden years of Nickelodeon the 1990 s and early two thousand s um, it was a rough time look don't get me started on watching on Usa up all night and all those sex movies that was on Bikini Summer bikini summer 2

45:23.65
J. Aundrea
Again, the 90 s was just a rough time.

45:37.54
J. Aundrea
It was the decade of soft core porn for sure. Um, why oh boy, you know.

45:37.89
Bruce Anthony
Bikini Summer 3 bikini car wash company bikini car wash company to bikini drive in bikini bistro let me tell you something before people had porn hub usa up all night ah

45:51.90
J. Aundrea
All the names that and B E T uncut that was.

45:56.88
Bruce Anthony
BTKBT took uncut came later but yeah, same thing by that time porn was out but anyway what are the allegations from this documentary. The dark side of kids Tv acquired on a set the dark side of the kids Tv one of them was inappropriate jokes Snyder habitually included child actors in sexual.

46:01.63
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

46:16.89
Bruce Anthony
Kind of sexual sketches. Um, well 1 sketch featured a superhero shooting snot in a move described as a come shot joke for children. Um, there's there's a lot of inappropriate.

46:17.45
J. Aundrea
Kind of.

46:27.94
J. Aundrea
Oh.

46:34.73
Bruce Anthony
Scenes now I wasn't watching Nickelodeon at the time because I was like a young young adult I was a high teenager a high teenager literally and figuratively a high teenager so I wasn't watching Nickelodeon um, there was also a lot of racial discomfort a lot of of the black actors and actresses that was on Nickelodeon Recounts racial

46:39.87
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, um.

46:54.59
Bruce Anthony
Discomfort experiences like for 1 instance, when one young black ah boy was cast as a girl scout cookie dealer that was reminiscent to a drug dealer type scenario. The working conditions were really bad. The cast members described difficult working conditions, unsafe sketches.

47:03.74
J. Aundrea
And.

47:13.32
Bruce Anthony
And long work days that allegedly violated child labor laws and let's not even that's before we even get into the actual pedophilia so actor Drake Bell revealed in the third episode ah that he was sexually abused by a former nickelodeon dialogue coach Brian Peck

47:23.40
J. Aundrea
See.

47:30.69
J. Aundrea
And.

47:32.91
Bruce Anthony
Ah, Pac was later arrested in 2003 for sexual abuse charges. There was also a production assistant named Jason Michael Hadley who was was described as a full blown pedophile who sent sexually explicit photographs to some of the former child actresses.

47:49.60
J. Aundrea
Um, and the thing is self-described like.

47:51.49
Bruce Anthony
Now get self-described so you didn't get a chance to watch this. But as I'm watching this, you didn't Okay I.

48:01.77
J. Aundrea
I Now wouldn't say I didn't get a chance. Um I I chose not to yes.

48:10.14
Bruce Anthony
Watch it because it's different. It's different when I read things than when I see them I'm a visual learner right? So it's similar to the r Kelly situation like I knew about it I had read a lot of stuff but it was different when you hear the victims recount read.

48:18.19
J. Aundrea
Um, and then.

48:22.12
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

48:28.90
J. Aundrea
Um, re count. Yeah yeah.

48:30.48
Bruce Anthony
Recount recant recount their experiences. Um, you know Daniel Snyder came back and he you know he said he apologized for some of the things that he did. There was a lot of instances during this documentary where he's asking employees to. Give him massages now this this is the point I want to make because I had an argument with somebody today that accused Daniel Snyder of being a pedophile. There is no instances in any of these documentaries nor other accusations that he was a pedophile. He was a 100 % asshole um

49:04.80
J. Aundrea
Yes.

49:08.27
Bruce Anthony
He was kind of a dictator on the set. He was ah verbally abusive to to his co-workers and to some of the casts inappropriate sketches. His response was this was an eye open experience. I didn't realize he's basically saying I didn't realize I was that bad. And also with some of these sketches just realize that I didn't have final final say like these sketches had to go through different levels to get approved to get on Tv and he's actually right about that he is right? So that doesn't excuse him for writing these sexually explicit um scenes.

49:34.89
J. Aundrea
Yeah now.

49:44.81
Bruce Anthony
With preteens and some teenagers that if you go back and you see these scenes as adults. It's like yo I've I've experienced sex I know exactly what that is that means that there were so many people that were inappropriate on multiple levels.

49:58.62
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, and that's not unbelievable because we we see you know I think there was a.

50:04.80
Bruce Anthony
Throughout this entire studio. No, it isn't.

50:15.92
J. Aundrea
Ah, fashion campaign I can't remember which line it was but they like had ah little black kids and like Monkey t-shirts or something like that and that was on their website and it was just like you know people there was the backlash and and people had them take it down. Um.

50:27.78
Bruce Anthony
Um, in.

50:35.17
J. Aundrea
Or they had like these t-shirts that look like reminiscent of blackface like they were black shirts with big red lips on them or something like that I mean and that goes through again. Just like this dozens of people and I so.

50:47.37
Bruce Anthony
You mean like this new good times cartoon that's coming out have you seen the the previews for that You don't want to. They're coming out with a new good times cartoon. Good No it is some cunery buffoonery.

50:51.79
J. Aundrea
No oh, there's no need.

51:03.89
J. Aundrea
M.

51:06.23
Bruce Anthony
Menstrual all types of stuff going on there. Ah it is disgusting but continue on what you were saying he was talking about how all these things have to go through levels.

51:13.80
J. Aundrea
Um I forgot what I was talking about now. Yes, and the problem is there are not enough diverse people and voices. In the decision maker rooms to stop everyone and say hey this is offensive deeply.

51:31.34
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah.

51:38.95
Bruce Anthony
Well on the ah Amanda binds on the amanda show and if anybody that's our age grew up during that time. Amanda binds was a star.

51:50.65
J. Aundrea
And.

51:52.51
Bruce Anthony
She started out on all that and then got her own show the amanda show she was a household name and perhaps the biggest star child star to come out of Nickelodeon because you want to talk about Ken and nakele they were great as a pair Amanda literally had her own show.

52:02.62
J. Aundrea
And.

52:10.58
J. Aundrea
Yeah, not only that she was on. She had the um her show and she was still on all that. Yeah and starring.

52:11.22
Bruce Anthony
And then.

52:18.54
Bruce Anthony
And they had started doing movies like she was huge and and people and and Daniel Snyder kind of like hitched his his. What do you say? Yeah, yeah, thank you, thank you? Um, which makes sense if you're going to be a producer.

52:27.51
J. Aundrea
Wagon to her to her train. Yeah.

52:34.21
Bruce Anthony
And you've made some hit shows and you see this star hell quincy jones did it with Michael Jackson right you you attach yourself to this incredible star and you ride it because you know it's gonna take you somewhere but they were really really close. Sometimes it seemed inappropriate close.

52:50.11
J. Aundrea
Um, yes.

52:53.10
Bruce Anthony
And to me I don't feel comfortable somebody a neighbor of mine asked me to babysit their their younger son a younger son is eight years old I met their son. The son is great and I was like no thank you I'm a grown ass man you I don't babysit kids.

52:59.95
J. Aundrea
M. Um, yeah.

53:11.48
Bruce Anthony
Like that's it's kind of weird I think that you can get somebody. That's you it shouldn't be but I think it's kind of I think it's kind of weird. That's not family. It's not family.

53:13.34
J. Aundrea
It shouldn't be.. It shouldn't be it should yeah I don't I don't I I don't know that you know it kind of says it's still but it says something I think about our society that our immediate thought is to sexualize. That interaction. Yeah yeah.

53:32.94
Bruce Anthony
Well I just look no thank you no thank you right um so like like I said Daniel Snyder said that this this documentary gave him a little bit of soul searching and that hey if they feel like they need to edit it. They they should edit it. Um. And that it he sorry that he made people um uncomfortable with the with the massage request and that he was a little bit of a jerk and he apologized about that. Um I don't you know in these type of situations this person really sorry are they just not. But I applaud Josh Beck

53:59.63
J. Aundrea
Um.

54:06.57
J. Aundrea
Ah, yeah I don't know.

54:09.13
Bruce Anthony
Um, was his. That's the name right? Josh Beck Drake Bell who is Josh Beck oh Brian Peck get Brian Peck okay that's what I did look I didn't mess up everything I didn't watch the shows.

54:12.98
J. Aundrea
Drake Bell I don't ah you mixed up and and hit the show was Drake and Josh. Yeah, yeah.

54:25.48
Bruce Anthony
But anyway I applaud Drake Bell for coming forward because sexual assault is not easy for anybody for any gender. It's not easy, but there's something about the masculinity of males.

54:27.81
J. Aundrea
Yeah, no, no, no.

54:42.11
Bruce Anthony
That when they sexually assault it.

54:42.39
J. Aundrea
Um, there is a there is almost an imperative that they remain silent and it is an incredibly unfortunate.

54:51.75
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, it is in that society that society doing that. Um.

54:59.80
J. Aundrea
And I think it makes me think about you know what's become of Amanda binds. Um and not enough people really scrutinizing her issues with. Um, mental health and substance abuse and things like that and thinking what happened to that child during that time that she's clearly dealing with trauma.

55:28.40
Bruce Anthony
Well so here's the thing a lot of these child actors unless they come from a family of actors Nobody knows how to handle that and nobody knows what the parent's intentions are.

55:44.10
J. Aundrea
Um, now writes.

55:47.45
Bruce Anthony
A lot of times and I see this with my friends that have kids their kids are doing something that mimic what the parents did and they're living vicariously through their kids and they so not stop being a parent but you can see in some instances in generalities in life. Where a parent will stop being a parent and with the Brian Peck and the Drake Bell situation Drake Bell's dad was like yo. Um I don't feel good about this Brian Peck stay away from him and Brian Peck created a wedge between his father and Drake Bell

56:18.64
J. Aundrea
Um, there.

56:25.40
Bruce Anthony
And then goes into the family dynamic where Drake Bell's parents had a nasty divorce so they're not together. So Brian Peck went to the mom and the Drake Bell said your dad is still in money and they cut him out and the dad was like I don't want to leave my son.

56:30.73
J. Aundrea
M.

56:37.72
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

56:42.66
Bruce Anthony
But I understand that this is what you want to do so I'm allow you to do that. But they said keep that man away from Brian keep keep him away from Brian Peck and and Brian Peck still put his hooks in them and and come to find out at the end of the documentary Brian Peck is out of jail.

56:52.11
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

57:01.11
Bruce Anthony
And working on lots with kids again because he only got six years and he only got 6 years

57:01.45
J. Aundrea
Ah.

57:04.24
J. Aundrea
And you just and you just think this is this culture that we live in of abuse permeates the way that it does.

57:14.63
Bruce Anthony
E.

57:23.70
J. Aundrea
Because there are so many people in exchange for money fame and power that are willing to turn to blind eye. Not even that sometimes be actively complicit.

57:26.55
Bruce Anthony
So.

57:48.52
Bruce Anthony
So Jay we have a situation of something that you sent me that is near and dear to my heart personally because I haven't been on a dating site in I want to say almost three years I review

57:52.88
J. Aundrea
Still get. I have not in probably 10.

58:06.50
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I refuse to use them I've had my I did 4 years of being on dating I actually did longer than that on dating sites and I'm done I'm done. Ah y'all are also weird people.

58:10.96
J. Aundrea
Because because y'all look weird. No no, no I'm saying y'all all y'all like not men I'm talking about Y'all y'all y'all on? No no, no, no y'all on them on them date site.

58:21.50
Bruce Anthony
I'll get each on my Gen Gen Oh I thought you were talking to me directly talking about the the the X Y chromosome I I think people would by and large are you have their own uniqueness and that's that's what I'll go to say so you sent me a video.

58:28.54
J. Aundrea
Y'all are weird.

58:33.10
J. Aundrea
I Yeah deeply troubled.

58:39.99
Bruce Anthony
You sent me a video of this young lady talking about her date from a dating site and I'm just gonna play it for you guys and then we're gonna talk about it guys I Just finished my date I am so embarrassed.

58:42.88
J. Aundrea
Er.

59:00.52
Bruce Anthony
I'm not gonna cry here'm not gonna cry I'm sorry and I just had a home clean myself up a little bit. He came he came and so the whole thing is went to this restaurant. He wanted to go to and it was a little too expensive but I don't know I I sent it for money. So went I had this like I had this dress on and I changed because I just had this dress on and everything and had my hair out like you know guys I cut it but it wasn't like this I had it parted a little bit and so I went and and he was like looking around like oh. He would look for somebody my yells and I was like okay I'm like hey I'm Tia and then she was like tia. Oh yeah, it's for me from be okay and then we he was like looking for Pes and he told me to sit down so I sat down I smiled and he didn't smile back at me. And then he was like I don't look like my pictures. I do look away of interest I don't photoshop anything I tell everything how it is I'm gonna insert out of the end of the video the picture I put in and he was like you know, just being so quiet to the meal and all that.

01:00:14.35
Bruce Anthony
He didn't even want to pay I said hey I didn't bring my money with me and then he eventually paid and and now he cash he he sent me a request says pay for the food and that's not I Just don't understand why men like this men are evil. Okay, so the context context ladies and gentlemen she posted pictures of what she posted on her dating site.

01:00:43.41
J. Aundrea
Yes I sent I sent you ah you might not have had a chance to look at it but she actually posted her B L K site and all of the pictures that are on there m.

01:00:51.33
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I didn't see that I did see that in the video that I sent you so she she she has pictures on her site and then she showed the picture of what she looked like that night and I immediately started hollering because.

01:01:01.76
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

01:01:09.55
Bruce Anthony
She did not look like the same person those pictures on the dating site. Not she's not my type but those pictures on the dating site were ah very nice pictures. Yeah, and the picture that she's sent that that she sent out from the night

01:01:09.98
J. Aundrea
No.

01:01:16.76
J. Aundrea
Very nice. She we look very cute. Yes.

01:01:28.95
Bruce Anthony
Of the date I was like who is this because that is not the same person in this profile. So that's the context but but she's blaming okay because I don't know these things because I don't I'm not photogenic.

01:01:36.21
J. Aundrea
No, so the the pictures the pictures she definitely had filters. Um she they they were filtered and um, they were not recent because she. Ah, is a bit heavier than she was in the photos. So another video that she has she still contends that she looks just like she does in her photos. Her thing is she wrote in her bio on her B L K site.

01:02:01.60
Bruce Anthony
And she doesn't she doesn't then get anything like it.

01:02:12.30
J. Aundrea
I'm a chubby black girl. That's what she wrote but that and this is coming from a chubby girl Cis So I get you? Well still. Okay, um.

01:02:16.60
Bruce Anthony
Um, were not really all that chubby anymore by the way ladies and gentlemen. My sister is losing that weight but that's another story for another day.

01:02:30.46
J. Aundrea
The chubby you were in the pictures is not the same chubby that you are now it's it's not and and what she said was why would I post the pictures of how I look now when I don't feel confident I posted those pictures because I was confident in those pictures? Yes, ah yes.

01:02:32.14
Bruce Anthony
And okay.

01:02:41.44
Bruce Anthony
Oh I didn't sneak.

01:02:48.76
Bruce Anthony
You don't look like that That's false advertisement.

01:02:49.10
J. Aundrea
But you don't look like that. Yeah, you don't look like that and I wouldn't say you cattfish because those are your pictures but but it's filter fish. Okay.

01:03:00.41
Bruce Anthony
Um, it's a version of catfish. That's the.

01:03:07.15
J. Aundrea
Um, you you have wigs on or your hair done differently in those pictures and you came with your hair half done to the date. Okay, it yes.

01:03:14.43
Bruce Anthony
Right? It was half done. That's another thing right? So not only does she not look like the person that she has in the profile.

01:03:24.00
J. Aundrea
You put no effort into the here's the thing I'm not on these day and size. But when I was there's some things that I noticed and some rules that I came up the picture you post the pictures you post need to be from the same year.

01:03:31.21
Bruce Anthony
Oh no.

01:03:40.40
Bruce Anthony
Yes.

01:03:43.28
J. Aundrea
Okay, they can't be you from college like they can't be you that one New Year's eve where you were just popping that night like they can't be from that they have to be from this year ah things I notice ah some women do.

01:03:45.89
Bruce Anthony
Death.

01:03:51.28
Bruce Anthony
In right.

01:04:01.33
J. Aundrea
You all y'all like to post group photos and we all know who's who are you which one are you in the photo. Don't yeah.

01:04:02.22
Bruce Anthony
Right? And it be and I remember a couple of times that I that women you know was like you get to little interest thing or whatever and you're like okay let me click on her profile. And it's a bunch of not even 1 single picture of themself all group pictures and I'm like I don't know who you are who are you which one are you because you're not even pointing out who you are in this group picture I see a couple of yo friends and I'm like.

01:04:26.55
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, right? And it's always a group picture of your most attractive friends. Yes, yeah.

01:04:40.72
Bruce Anthony
I Would like to go out with all your friends which one are you.

01:04:44.12
J. Aundrea
If you are chubby put them full bodies on on their like you got to you gotta let people know they love cause I'm a I'm I'm a culprit of that of of this medium shot. Okay I'm a culprit of that too because.

01:04:47.13
Bruce Anthony
Women Love taking them pictures of angles.

01:04:55.49
Bruce Anthony
M.

01:05:00.41
J. Aundrea
You know my face card don't decline so that I like to highlight my feature but when I was on data sites I had full body photos because you need to know what kind of chubby I'm talking about.

01:05:06.49
Bruce Anthony
Start.

01:05:16.13
J. Aundrea
Because there's the kind of chubby that still does yoga and goes to the gym and like you just thick and then there's the chubby that I was which was now I eat Doritos on the couch. Yeah, um.

01:05:19.30
Bruce Anthony
Right in.

01:05:29.88
Bruce Anthony
And I love toritos. Ah I just I made that sound just because I haven't had a chip all year and I can finally have some chips on Monday because it's the first and I promise myself three months sorry you just said Doritos and it's my so.

01:05:41.29
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, you're gonna get some munchies I know you're gonna get some munchies.

01:05:45.21
Bruce Anthony
Second favorite chip. Ah no I can't because my I'm realizing I'm older now my stomach does not agree with a lot of stuff that I want to eat is the the pleasure. The temporary pleasure is not worth the pain afterwards. But that's a different story for a different day imma tell you.

01:05:55.67
J. Aundrea
Ah up right.

01:06:03.70
Bruce Anthony
I've told the story and I'm not gonna tell the full story again where ah this woman that I met on a dating site and I went to go see her and the very first thing she said to me was I hope you like big girls and I was like I don't mind big girls. But that's not what you presented on this profile. You are drastically different like twenty five thirty pounds different and all her friends were bad and I was like I really wish I had matched with one of your friends up in here.

01:06:24.62
J. Aundrea
Um, right? yeah.

01:06:39.47
Bruce Anthony
And that was the one that punched me not because I said any of those things though because I said him in my head but that's what I was thinking.

01:06:42.73
J. Aundrea
To write. Ah, another thing I noticed Fellas First of all, fellas learn How to take a selfie stop taking them selfies from below Nobody wants to look up your nose. But another thing y'all be hat fishing and sunglass fishing.

01:06:53.78
Bruce Anthony
Um, back yo. Yeah yeah.

01:06:58.99
J. Aundrea
I got a I got a lot of guys and they got a hat and sunglasses on because they don't want me to know their hairline's electric sliding away from their eyebrows and they got 2 eyes like 2 2 broke compasses 1 looking east one looking west no shape

01:07:05.52
Bruce Anthony
Are.

01:07:12.38
Bruce Anthony
All now now you can't do yeah no shave be real. That's I like that? Yeah yeah.

01:07:17.22
J. Aundrea
But be real. You know like no shade but be honest, be honest because what's gonna happen is like Cis you're gonna get embarrassed and you gonna get that cash at request after the date to pay back for ver meal.

01:07:30.42
Bruce Anthony
She but first of all, first of all, yes, no money like okay, don't get me wrong I'm a gentleman so I'm paying the first date I believe you never assume.

01:07:35.86
J. Aundrea
And that's another thing sis going somewhere with no bread.

01:07:44.19
J. Aundrea
But you should never assume.

01:07:48.95
Bruce Anthony
And I'm a guarantee you if the woman doesn't do the pump fake. We will never go on another date effort and I've already described on previous shows. But for some people that are just catching up the pump fake is when the bill comes women you pretend that you're going in your bag to take out a car now.

01:07:56.29
J. Aundrea
And.

01:08:05.58
J. Aundrea
M.

01:08:08.82
Bruce Anthony
These new guys out here. They own something different and maybe they got the right idea because if you're own these dating sites and you're go in on a whole bunch of date set becomes really expensive for the mail but the guy typically my generation I guess will say.

01:08:16.60
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

01:08:26.67
Bruce Anthony
Hey what you doing don't disrespect me this is on me know I invite you out this first date? Whatever but you got a pump fake if you own pump fake I'm looking into the camera on this one if you don't pump fake I guarantee you with me there will not be a second opportunity. There won't ever and I've done it before.

01:08:29.14
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:08:39.79
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah I Just never I Just never assume I just never assume I don't go I don't go anywhere with with no money and it's not like she didn't know the restaurant was expensive. She said that.

01:08:45.99
Bruce Anthony
And she she literally said no money.

01:08:52.82
Bruce Anthony
Right? Yes, and guess ah guess what and you got that cash at request you better pay because I'm gonna keep sending it I'm a keep because you lied to me, you didn't look the way you did. You should have been facted. The matter is let me tell you some This brother was very respectful because he continued on.

01:08:55.77
J. Aundrea
Like you knew pay it pay it. Yeah.

01:09:08.93
J. Aundrea
Through right.

01:09:12.43
Bruce Anthony
With the date I have a lemon rule I get drinks first I don't even do dinner dates I get drinks first start a tab first drink if by that first end of the first drink if there's no match I say hey this has been nice. You take care of yourself.

01:09:16.87
J. Aundrea
And.

01:09:28.83
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

01:09:31.00
Bruce Anthony
Doesn't look like we're compatible because I know immediately if we're gonna be compatible I call it the lemon rule he continued on with the date and got himself some to eat because I personally would have been like yo. You don't look like your pictures like at all I seen the pictures and I saw her pictures. Ah you don't look like yourself.

01:09:33.97
J. Aundrea
And yeah. Yeah, yes, mm.

01:09:49.20
Bruce Anthony
You don't look like what you presented I'm gonna go ahead and bounce because this is never going to be something I'm going to entertain. It's harsh but is real.

01:09:54.38
J. Aundrea
My ish might yeah ah because you know you have the right to be attracted to whatever you're attracted to um, my issue was she didn't even try to look like them pictures like.

01:10:03.64
Bruce Anthony
From.

01:10:10.60
Bruce Anthony
No.

01:10:12.41
J. Aundrea
If I'm posting my best photos I know that that's what you think I look like so that's the person that's going to show up to the date. Do I always look like that now some I'll be looking dusty. Okay I don't it ain't no shame of my game I'll be looking.

01:10:16.00
Bruce Anthony
E.O.

01:10:31.81
J. Aundrea
Dusty but I'm at home I'm chilling watching cartoons having a good time in Doritos on the couch living my best chubby life. Okay, but if I know I'm going out on a date. First of all, you're trying to put your best foot forward.

01:10:32.56
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah in Doritos on the couch.

01:10:40.33
Bruce Anthony
Live in my best life.

01:10:48.33
Bruce Anthony
You you supposed to you supposed to.

01:10:50.55
J. Aundrea
Everybody is every yeah, you're supposed to be trying to put your best foot forward and you know that he is expecting a woman that looks like the pictures you posted since you could at least done your hair and and put and put a fresh beat on your face like and beat your face like like I I'm ah.

01:10:59.19
Bruce Anthony
Right.

01:11:09.78
Bruce Anthony
E.

01:11:10.35
J. Aundrea
Confused and then you got the nerve to be upset about like less. We can be a lot of things in this world. The thing I wish she would be the most is for real because that's. And and and every and and there are women in the comments like you shouldn't feel down on yourself. You're a lovely woman. However, cis come on like that's mostly what the comments are are like Cis come on death that don't.

01:11:31.87
Bruce Anthony
Um.

01:11:38.77
Bruce Anthony
Right? yeah.

01:11:47.63
J. Aundrea
Doesn't look like the same I thought it was mother and daughter before I realized that those were pictures of her I saw all the other pictures and I was like okay.

01:11:51.74
Bruce Anthony
Um I didn't even I didn't even think they looked similar I didn't think they were the same person at all. Okay.

01:12:03.18
J. Aundrea
This is clearly older pictures number 1 and and you're not, you're not that person anymore. It's okay to not be who you once were to be somebody new but like be authentic, be that be who you are and if you don't feel confident. Get off the apps now's not the time.

01:12:04.12
Bruce Anthony
Oh.

01:12:18.57
Bruce Anthony
Right now's not well. That's a whole different discussion because that's about loneliness a lot of people on arm.

01:12:22.29
J. Aundrea
The time the time is for you to work on you? Yeah, yeah, yeah, oh no, it's ah it's about herrself her own self-esteem if you right.

01:12:36.53
Bruce Anthony
No I'm talking about her being on the app right now that's about loneliness to to say Well I don't feel comfortable but ah confident about myself and I'm not gonna be on the apps would be saying I'm going to have to be alone right now with myself and and learn to be comfortable with myself.

01:12:41.43
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

01:12:54.69
Bruce Anthony
Which means you're alone and a lot of people don't want to be alone. They don't.

01:12:54.94
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, but you're not gonna find the person for you if you don't even know who you are.

01:13:05.50
Bruce Anthony
That's a bar that's a bar and on that note J What do you want to tell the people out here.

01:13:11.42
J. Aundrea
I need to apologize to Mahatma Gandhi na and and and and and and no no wait wait accord I like looked it up this is from npr there is no way around it.

01:13:15.50
Bruce Anthony
I know I say I was like yo you being real reckless right now. Okay.

01:13:30.48
J. Aundrea
Gandhi was racist early in his life says by says biographer ramahandra goha Gandhi as a young man went with the ideas of his culture and of his time he thought in his twenty s that europeans were the most civilized.

01:13:32.54
Bruce Anthony
Okay, early in his life.

01:13:48.90
J. Aundrea
Indians were almost civilized and Africans were uncivilized so he had some early writings that were racist. He called black people Troublesome dirty they live like animals. But however.

01:13:52.62
Bruce Anthony
Um E e.

01:13:55.65
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

01:14:03.40
J. Aundrea
He outgrew his racism quite decisively and for most of his life as a public figure he was anti-racist talking for an end to discrimination of all kinds that doesn't mean that he didn't get some backlash. There was a Gandhi statue. Um. In a at a university campus in Ghana that was removed and activists there and in Malawi were using hashtag gandhi must fall because they were angry about his early writings so he he he has some yes, but.

01:14:24.30
Bruce Anthony
The.

01:14:34.89
Bruce Anthony
So he's like Malcolm x he was like Malcolm x yeah like.

01:14:40.67
J. Aundrea
I Need to give him space to have had that growth and to become actively anti-racist later in his life. So there you have it? yeah.

01:14:43.40
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I think that's the best transformation when you do a complete one eighty ladies and gentlemen pay attention to the to the phrase I just used one eighty it's not three sixty that's that's that's my yeah, yeah, just.

01:14:55.85
J. Aundrea
Oh for the love of god 3 sixty is a circle y'all you just ended up right back where you started.

01:15:03.17
Bruce Anthony
I I don't know that just really grinds my gears it really really bugs me when people say you did it 3 60 I was like so I'm um, the same as what it was no, you're different then that's one eighty that's one eighty I went halfway. Ah anyway, so for him to do ah ah one eighty I think that's ah the the better travel.

01:15:07.85
J. Aundrea
Um, because no, no, that's all. Yeah yeah.

01:15:20.88
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

01:15:22.95
Bruce Anthony
When you have this poisonous type of mentality and you come to enlightenment. So yeah, yeah, it was learned. Yeah, it was learned.

01:15:26.91
J. Aundrea
That was learned. It wasn't like it was coming from him. It was ah it was learned and that was just the way society was back then and and as a lot of people know you know India had or maybe still continues to have the caste system and ah.

01:15:40.22
Bruce Anthony
Still has yes, still has they do Boley Wood is is based off of the cast system.

01:15:46.22
J. Aundrea
Lot of yeah and a lot of issues with colorism and things like that. So you know it was it was the time and it was you know, just the way society was so but shout out to him for making that one eighty

01:15:58.30
Bruce Anthony
Everybody can make that one eighty maybe even never mind I was gonna go to some political figures right now. But I'm just not gonna do it I won on that note I want to thank everybody for listening and for watching and until next time as always a holler.

01:16:07.48
J. Aundrea
Ah.