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Summary: Bruce and J. Aundrea discuss the challenges of getting older and staying fit, including the aches and pains that come with exercise. They also reminisce about their childhood and share stories about their favorite video games.
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00:00.00
Bruce Anthony
So which hold aside here after outwards.
00:00.00
J. Aundrea
After our purpose after hours.
00:12.20
unsolicitedpod
Nothing shelling what you say your whole left side hurt.
00:13.80
J. Aundrea
Ah, what's up. Yeah, so but before we started you were just making a lot of noise just to get up and sit down. You were making a lot of noise and I was like that's how I know you know we're getting old.
00:22.30
unsolicitedpod
Yeah, yeah.
00:28.63
J. Aundrea
Because you make a lot of noise just to get up and sit down and my whole left side like so I started this new ah workout on my on my nordic track. Ah and by the end of the 4 weeks I'll be jogging so you know we jog a little bit during each day.
00:42.71
unsolicitedpod
Okay, and.
00:47.51
J. Aundrea
And man afterwards foot ankle Knee hip like is this I'm like I could fill it all like it's not pain. But I'm like ok ok I don't heartilage and leave have.
00:56.79
unsolicitedpod
Do you have I Do you have all the right support.
01:05.50
J. Aundrea
You know I need to get like a couple braces here's a leg brace. That's really what I'm looking for.
01:13.59
unsolicitedpod
Full labor. You probably need peep knee pads ah knee compression a knee compression sleeve I don't I have to get kneecom precious sleeves I had 1 on one knee. It's not good enough I need to get them on both knees because there are some times it just happened to me yesterday.
01:25.66
J. Aundrea
Yeah, um.
01:28.95
unsolicitedpod
As a matter of fact I was doing is yesterday was a heavy leg day and by the way I'm not doing 2 more I'm not doing two days of legs a week. No more my booty and and and got so big. My pants don't fit I put awesome.
01:41.85
J. Aundrea
Mm and you know what there's women that pay cash money cash money who would love that they only had to do two days a week
01:49.94
unsolicitedpod
No, but you know what though it's all ass because my quads don't look great and I'm like this is ridiculous.
01:55.34
J. Aundrea
They will literally go five days a week of squats and lunges to get.
02:08.35
unsolicitedpod
So basically anytime I do leg exercises. So basically I'm like what you gotta do squats you have to but I'm doing hip thrusts and everything my booty if I have a friend of mine who's a trainer at the gym that I work out at and she's always like they go. They go that thing thing bouncing again I'm like yo if you don't.
02:26.25
J. Aundrea
Do they have gluteal compression shorts that you could get that keep it from Balance L you Tra draw entity. It's up.
02:26.81
unsolicitedpod
Leave me to hell alone. Let me do the workout.
02:39.57
unsolicitedpod
I Never forget I think I was texting my home. My homegirl one time I was going out for a run and and I texted it and I was like I felt my booty jiggling as I was run with each day each time my leg hit the ground that booty cheek Jiggle and I was like.
02:55.20
J. Aundrea
Um.
02:57.97
J. Aundrea
Yeah, it's uncomfortable because you just feel like everyone's looking nobody. It feels like there are eyes on you. Yes.
02:58.40
unsolicitedpod
Just what women feel like this is the worst this is the worst but but yeah and nobody's looking, but it feels like everybody's looking but I was doing heavy leg day yesterday and I squat down and my knee just.
03:16.89
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.
03:17.66
unsolicitedpod
I got tend nice in both knees now and so I got down there and I started pressing up. It started really hurting the need I had to power in my legs but neat and all you all I heard was and it was through the music of my headphones. Yeah, that's.
03:22.21
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.
03:32.41
J. Aundrea
I will let me tell you how I hurt my knee. Ah so Cardi b and Meghan the stallion have a new song I called bongos it's great I love it I love the song. Yes.
03:44.48
unsolicitedpod
I'm glad that they still doing calabos now. All they need is a glorilla. She ain't got no bongos but you know just heard to have that deep voice in the background saying the hook or something.
03:49.30
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yes, but of course but I knows I'm huge fan of the 2 of them I love to them so when the song came out I'm like great another collab perfect I love the song. That's no little bong goes. It's great. Well I thought let me. See if I have Megan Knees the answer is no the answer is immediately no I squat down if my knee said bitch fuck as you do it.
04:19.44
unsolicitedpod
Oh man.
04:23.31
J. Aundrea
And all I could do is just take a knee with the other knee and just it just cut sit there for sex and I'll be like up took both me I took knees and I said oh right.
04:27.64
unsolicitedpod
You you you? you took both Knees. You took that you ain't take a knee you took Knees. And and and her nickname is a stallion and it's not just because she's built like she is. She's a brick house. It is nothing but muscle all throughout her body I would love to.
04:41.94
J. Aundrea
Megan's in her twenty s and yeah, yeah. Yes, yes, yes.
04:56.38
unsolicitedpod
Because I saw her when she threw out I think it was the Houston Astros first pitch or something like that and I was like good god this woman's body fat has got to be really low because she's like and she's not bbl is it. She's natural right.
05:00.33
J. Aundrea
Oh.
05:12.30
J. Aundrea
No, she's that she's very is a hundred percent she's like an Amazon. She's like yes yes, a real life. Um, and she posts her workouts like she works out like she works out hard. So.
05:14.57
unsolicitedpod
That that woman is it's not like Nicki Minaj or cardi because yes, she's a she's a black amazon she's black wonder woman. Yeah and beautiful I got a huge crush on matter of fact, make this dying I have a huge.
05:30.00
J. Aundrea
Yeah.
05:34.12
unsolicitedpod
She's yeah, she's the one. Yeah I have the I have a crush on her like I did from salt like salt from salt and Pepper Salt no I had a crush on salt well none and a hold on time out I had a crush on salt until they came out with Snoop that.
05:39.29
J. Aundrea
Oh you had a crush on Salt I didn't know you have crush with salt and pepper ah Salt I know but. I shoot shoot shoot.
05:53.88
unsolicitedpod
Then pepper off shoot shoot shoot then all of a sudden pepper I don't know that glow up with pepper pepper had a little bit more money and I was like oh so and pepper but Spinderella was always when they finally let her come to the forefront.
06:00.26
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Right? Because she swore she was the end and saw in pepper and they looked at her like she was on crack. Yeah no, you are not You are the deejay sit down somewhere.
06:13.45
unsolicitedpod
I was yeah gay. But yeah, no I Oh why do you think.
06:25.19
J. Aundrea
It was run dmc not run Dmc and jam master j like it just was.
06:29.83
unsolicitedpod
But yeah, no, but Meg the stallion is I have a huge crush I don't have a crushal and I have a weird crust on glorilla. It's not a real physical crush but it kind of it. Ya.
06:38.69
J. Aundrea
Um.
06:44.28
J. Aundrea
She's got a lot of charm like she's just swaggy. Yes, she's swaggy as hell. Yes, yeah I see you've really thought about this, you've really thought about this. Yeah.
06:47.55
unsolicitedpod
I like I I like I wanted to be my homie and in that way of her being my homie I might fall in love with her because because like she's not my yeah because she's not my physical type. She's really too thin for me but she's so cool.
07:01.67
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
07:06.83
unsolicitedpod
That I would like we'd be hanging out as friends and I'd like wait a minute bitch. Do I Love you it beautiful.
07:17.29
J. Aundrea
And this is like and Megan's natural face like she's obviously gorgeous with makeup on but court just gorgeous girl. Um, who.
07:25.72
unsolicitedpod
Because I tell you who's not I love her one of my favorite artists Cardi b look beat without that makeup on yeah, that's the work. She's is the work. She's done on all of her body. She will say.
07:37.20
J. Aundrea
It's the work. She's done on her face I Wish she hadn't touched. She's so young. Yeah, no, no her. She learned about um what is it.
07:44.30
unsolicitedpod
All the time I eat what I want to do and I just get lipo like that's her.
07:53.92
J. Aundrea
Starts with a V type of fat visceral fat. Yeah, that's around your organs stuff so she did She didn't make a post and so that's why she works out now because you can't get that She's like you can't She's like that's the dangerous fat and you can't get that lipo. She's like so she she does work out now.
07:54.53
unsolicitedpod
Yes, visceral fan.
08:08.80
unsolicitedpod
Yes, the okay house but because ah just for a while she was just doing a lipo and I was like mess that the dot.
08:12.91
J. Aundrea
Yes, right? but she didn't know about no the day. The dangerous fat that you can't get rid of that. Yes, right, right? You can't just be in lobster tails and.
08:21.40
unsolicitedpod
The doctor told her I asked about it. Doctor was like ah motherfucker. Do you realize all this fat around your heart. You got a fatty heart. But what work has she done to her face like I don't I don't I don't pay that much attention to what surgeries people are doing.
08:32.87
J. Aundrea
And King crab and.
08:40.89
J. Aundrea
I Definitely can tell especially when she's not wearing makeup that she had her eyes done like they just look but they just look like pulled back like a like a eye left or she's at a face look or something which makes no sense because she's so young. Um.
08:41.34
unsolicitedpod
So. I Wish she'd do.
08:56.94
J. Aundrea
I just feel like it's too young I'm at the age where you start thinking about fillers and I think she just turned 30 or 29 or something like that. No you got ah you got to understand cardi.
08:59.37
unsolicitedpod
How old is cardi nah cardi got to hold on this is this is Google in in real time.
09:12.88
J. Aundrea
Cardi B has been out for a while but she's not all she's only 30 she just turned 30
09:16.78
unsolicitedpod
Wow. Ah, ah cardi if you ever listen to this episode which you probably won't That's the reason why I feel comfortable saying this ah you look beat I'm sorry Bo you look beat when you get that makeup on you look great.
09:24.49
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, um.
09:30.14
unsolicitedpod
But nikki I don't think Nicki Minaj looks great without makeup.
09:32.25
J. Aundrea
Um, I don't even think I've seen Nicki Minaj's natural face. Yeah Megan the stop Meghan the stallion is ah 28 no because I honestly think all of these women are gorgeous I think you're on crack right now. But.
09:36.80
unsolicitedpod
You know what? let's not do this. Let's not do this. We're we're we're well no no no I'm talking about talking about. Their physical characteristics when that has nothing to do with what they're really truly good at and that is rhyme spiten and it and ain't nobody talking about ain't nobody talking about well if Jayz ain't firing. He I want to listen to him.
09:58.30
J. Aundrea
But at the same time they.
10:07.90
J. Aundrea
And you know Beyonce I'll say it must be the cash because it ain't your face I mean so I don't feel like you know we in a raw I think people who exhibit their their bodies and. Just like their aesthetic features like that's part of their persona part of to me the fact and Meggan with the knees and that her body is natural and that she works so hard on it or you know Cardi's body and the things but nickki Minaj's booty and all of that like I feel like they. That's also part of their persona is the way that they is also the way that they look.
10:50.34
unsolicitedpod
Okay, like okay I get it like if genuine all of a sudden got real out of shape like you can't be out there singing pony.
10:56.79
J. Aundrea
Right? Which which listen he has because I saw him is it was just it was the it was that he got older and it was the body role wasn't rolling.
11:07.18
unsolicitedpod
Ah, no, he just got older the yeah. Okay, it's not as bad as Bobby Brown though
11:15.53
J. Aundrea
And he was still trying to do the pony dancer was like don't don't do it. No Bobby just gives up halfway through the performance he and they rehearse this Bobby doesn't care. He didn't He's out of breath and therefore the dance is over.
11:23.36
unsolicitedpod
My.
11:32.39
J. Aundrea
Period I'll still keep singing. You get 1 or the other you get me singing or you get me doing the little bop period. Yeah, yeah.
11:33.54
unsolicitedpod
I'm like he got it that is so hilarious when they show the videos that he just stopped dancing. He just like all out of breath.
11:49.37
J. Aundrea
It truly is ridiculous, truly ridiculous speaking of these ah you know these celebrities and whatnot and music. Did you watch the vmas I didn't because why but I don't know if I didn't even know.
11:49.95
unsolicitedpod
Oh man.
11:58.72
unsolicitedpod
Oh now I don't know half to me.
12:03.62
J. Aundrea
I didn't even know it still existed because I didn't know there were still music videos honestly. But yeah, yeah, because it's not Mtv yeah, that's where I see them Youtube I see them on social media. Um I don't know where they play because it day damn sure a Bt and Mtv.
12:05.63
unsolicitedpod
Yeah I don't know where I mean I know there's still music videos I just don't know where they play them I mean I see him on Youtube.
12:21.73
unsolicitedpod
I don't even I don't they need to change the name to Mtv because they don't play no music on Mtv and they haven't for a long time since t rl.
12:23.44
J. Aundrea
Ah, VHOne no I don't even I don't even honestly is Mtv still a channel because I don't I don't you know I don't I know I don't get a cable so I don't know I'll see.
12:34.48
unsolicitedpod
Oh yeah, because they just had the Jersey Shore of reunion.
12:41.90
J. Aundrea
So it became a reality Tv channel yeah.
12:44.39
unsolicitedpod
Pretty much. Yeah, you got tash 2.0 you got ah all you got de teen mom series. Um, you got the roll rules challenge look I was explaining to somebody earlier. Ah.
12:48.67
J. Aundrea
Oh God Catfish Catfish now catfish. That's my show.
13:01.57
unsolicitedpod
This week I found out you know you remember Tammy Tammy from real world tammy she got a tv show called unfaithful. It's unfaithful and something but it's basically Tammy cheaters and the first.
13:02.44
J. Aundrea
Yes, Tammy Roman yes oh no, oh boy I love it. You've already sold me on it green light.
13:19.29
unsolicitedpod
And I saw a clip of it on Tiktok and I was like oh I need to find this channel for the show. So I can watch this show and then I was I don't know it's it's somewhere out there but then I was thinking to myself. This is cheaters. All that stuff is funny when it's not happening to you.
13:25.85
J. Aundrea
What's it on Zeus or something. Okay.
13:36.23
J. Aundrea
Yeah, when exactly okay so there are 2 seasons of caught on the act unfaithful I love it I let me see where you can watch it watch the show of it's.
13:38.67
unsolicitedpod
That's ain't none of that stuff funny when it's actually happening in the you. Yeah yeah, you caught in the act got the paper gets what shadows it all.
13:54.75
J. Aundrea
Ah Bt plus.
13:59.64
J. Aundrea
Ah, beat plus if you have sling if you have sling you can watch it on sling something called fubo Tv I don't know what that is ah but yeah, is it? Well is it.
14:12.87
unsolicitedpod
I think fubo tv is free I think football teeth. It's an Mtv show but it's on BT plus ah okay well
14:15.33
J. Aundrea
It's it. It's an Mtv show so you can watch it. You can watch it? Yeah yeah, you can watch it on Bt plus you can see it are they both owned by Viacom like are they both are Mtv and BT owned by the same who knows I don't know.
14:28.79
unsolicitedpod
It could be Viacom slowly. Firecom is that is that company behind the scenes. You only know about Viacom because at the end of the episodes after all the credits they had this one little fireacom and I was like know what this is happening on a lot of shows who the.
14:35.99
J. Aundrea
Yeah. Right? right is is.
14:48.85
unsolicitedpod
Via via Com you you don't know who they they they are not ah a well known name but they are behind a lot of stuff.
14:55.33
J. Aundrea
They own vicom owns Dreamworks B E T paramount mgm ah no Pixar is Disney I think no.
15:00.55
unsolicitedpod
Time ah in Dreamworks Pixar
15:08.76
unsolicitedpod
Dreamworks is something like Pixar though it they yes.
15:10.69
J. Aundrea
It is something it's like do they make similar films. Yes, um they own Nickelodeon ah they own they they own a lot of stuff. They are my com is out here who vicom is out here and they and they do.
15:19.30
unsolicitedpod
Fire come back A quietly quiet they do? Yeah, they.
15:29.49
J. Aundrea
They do own parts of Mtv also so they do own Bt and Mtv yeah.
15:34.34
unsolicitedpod
You know all it seemed like they got their hands in a lot of things that determine what the culture is they have a lot of like Dreamworks I bet if you go through the movies for Dreamworks we would have them confused. We would probably think there are Pixar movies but they're probably dreamworks for movies.
15:41.18
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.
15:54.60
unsolicitedpod
And so they got to influence with kids they got to influence with a younger generation because a younger generation is still watching those Mtv shows they got a pulse on the culture and if I remember correctly they they probably had do they own a piece of the cw or did they own.
16:00.23
J. Aundrea
Yes.
16:11.90
unsolicitedpod
Ah, piece of UPN or w b because I feel like they had a lot of shows.
16:17.17
J. Aundrea
Um, let me see they own they own paramount pictures they own Cbs.
16:24.38
unsolicitedpod
If they own paramount pictures and Cbs it means Paramount plus is a part of them. So although all those paramount so that Paramount plus has to show that everybody raves about.
16:28.96
J. Aundrea
The Paramount plus is them. Yes.
16:36.51
J. Aundrea
Technically vodcom has a lot of like if they the Cbs has its own app paramount does bt does like they all have ah yeah vicom out here listen yeah.
16:48.47
unsolicitedpod
But but if you'all look at a stock I know that's a publicly traded company. It's it doesn't have the name power of a Warner Brothers of ah of ah of a Disney but it seems like they got they they.
16:59.31
J. Aundrea
Right.
17:07.81
unsolicitedpod
Look they might not be that they might not be that Disney or the the um Warner Brothers but they write up underneath it mega rich and keeping their name real quiet. they they drug that's that drug dealer that you ain't know was a drug dealer. He was like he always got money.
17:13.52
J. Aundrea
Yeah.
17:22.30
J. Aundrea
Right? What? what do charles Do he always got some money. He.
17:25.69
unsolicitedpod
But you don't know really what he do but he always got some money he like well I know he be cutting hair at the barbers shop. No he owned a barbers shop and and the brody salon next to it and the store to sell the wigs next to that.
17:34.18
J. Aundrea
When he owned the barbershop. Yes, yes, it's he owned the whole damn block all right? So we're gonna.
17:41.26
unsolicitedpod
But Charles Charles front and charles front at the back of the barber shop like he doing no but he own the whole block. That's that's that's via car.
17:52.15
J. Aundrea
We go play a game is it is it dreamworks of Pixar Shark tail it is a dreamworks movie. Ah Kung Fu Panda Shrek
17:56.14
unsolicitedpod
Whoo. Okay here we go says I never saw that movie I'm gonna say that's dreamworks movie. Yeah that's ah, that's a dream works. That stream works. That's not Pixar. That's not Pixar. Yeah they're behind Shrek they're behind Shrek Shrek is a huge hit enterprise combu panda is a huge enterprise all wait a minute. Ah.
18:12.90
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yes, yes Madagascar all of them that all all of those. Yes, these are all dream works.
18:30.44
unsolicitedpod
What is Milwanna Pixar okay new of course no I haven't oh oh.
18:32.68
J. Aundrea
Mowaana is Pixar did you see Marwanna so damn good movie and I heard that making a live action one and the rock is gonna reprise his role as moy.
18:44.89
unsolicitedpod
Of course, he's gonna do that because now his daughters are semi grown. They his 1 daughter loved Marwaana and did not believe when she was younger did not believe that he was actually Marwaana so now of course he wants to play the live action.
18:54.65
J. Aundrea
Yeah, well he? Well he wasn' Awaana he was Maui but yes, what's the damn movie. It's heartfelt and I cry every time I see it.
19:01.83
unsolicitedpod
Well I don't I don't I didn't see the movie but she she didn't think that he was that character. J I still haven't watched the lady king yet I just saw hidden figures a month ago or two months ago and all it did was piss me off and all it well now all it did is piss me off. So why I want to watch these and historically.
19:15.43
J. Aundrea
Ah, that's true. That's true. You know, baby steps baby steps What did put you off. It was the great film shows the contributions of black women. What? yes.
19:27.86
unsolicitedpod
Inaccurate Downplay The racism downplayed the racism created the white Savior Narrative fuck all that I was I was just getting mad and mad as I watched that.
19:31.57
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yes, yes, because because because why people can't help but insert themselves into stories and they always were looking for some northern parts.
19:45.51
unsolicitedpod
And they and of course they had to choose one of the there's only 2 white saviors that will give a pass to Tom Hanks
19:52.36
J. Aundrea
Who.
19:58.99
J. Aundrea
Here I don't think he's done 1
20:06.20
unsolicitedpod
Green mile.
20:11.36
J. Aundrea
He didn't save him he died in the end. Um boy spoiler alert. No he said he would help him get out but John Coffey chose to die. Um I don't know that I get I mean.
20:12.23
unsolicitedpod
He released them early didn't he.
20:18.80
unsolicitedpod
Force gump.
20:27.74
J. Aundrea
Bubba still died I don't know black people still keep dying around him i.
20:29.56
unsolicitedpod
Ah, are if if if if they made a movie where he was the white savior we would accept it this time Kevin Costner Kevin Costner ' is the other one and it's only because of the bodyguard where he was the white guard where he was the white savior.
20:36.21
J. Aundrea
Yes, Tom Hanks he's he's an american treasure yet. It's because of the bodyguard. Yes, he literally was the white savior in that and and we still love him for it because you know what? And ah.
20:47.55
unsolicitedpod
It was.
20:54.77
J. Aundrea
Ah, love Kevin Costner and that's how that is he's he's actually done a lot of white savior movies. Yes, he had he had that one movie where.
20:54.83
unsolicitedpod
So of course that's he is only person him and Tom Xs his only person that could have played that character who Kevin Coster wait a minute how many.
21:11.70
J. Aundrea
Like he had a ah black granddaughter or something called black or white. That's it he had.
21:20.83
J. Aundrea
Like ah ah he had He had draft day draft day draft day was kind of a whites.
21:22.91
unsolicitedpod
It's special. He's free I don't know well because he did take the but he did He did take them really high when nobody nobody saw the benefit in taking them that high I don't know if.
21:36.56
J. Aundrea
Um, ah what else? what else? ah because I I I felt I got go through his filmography because I feel like.
21:39.10
unsolicitedpod
I Don't know if that's necessarily a white savior because you also say the white quarterback too.
21:49.44
unsolicitedpod
Who who.
21:52.60
J. Aundrea
I've seen a lot of movies where Kevin Costner is the lone white guy who stands up for justice and it's somehow involving black people for some reason who is that he do. He's need.
22:00.90
unsolicitedpod
Oh but you know what we have a black savior Denzel Washington if there's a little white girl in trouble denzel gonna save him don't take.
22:11.58
J. Aundrea
He is He is gonna save that look quick by any means necessary. Even yeah, yeah.
22:19.78
unsolicitedpod
Don't take the Malcolm X slides don't take no Malcolm X lies until it is.
22:23.91
J. Aundrea
Ah, even to his own detriment. He does not care. He will throw his life away for a little white girl. He will do it in a heartbeat. So okay, young Creasy or whatever the hills they will yes, you will throw his whole life away.
22:33.58
unsolicitedpod
Ah, all cushy. You know Chris Lee a real talk wolf. But I tell you what though I tell you what though.
22:42.17
J. Aundrea
For a little girl. He's known for a month like he really did not know her that long and they bonded.
22:50.65
unsolicitedpod
Before equalizer came out Malcolm X was the most important movie that he ever did but Manifier was my favorite movie that he ever did but equal equalizer Toppps maniffier.
22:54.39
J. Aundrea
Yeah I love that movie I Love it I have still never seen the equalizer franchise. No I've never seen.
23:07.41
unsolicitedpod
But you're seeing the first one though. Ray.
23:13.28
J. Aundrea
And I've never seen no fast and furious I've never seen equalizers I've never seen any.
23:17.35
unsolicitedpod
Well, the fast if few the fast few all right? Let me just say this I was talking to somebody I don't know three or four months ago because a new fast movie came out ah fast 10 where Jason Momoa plays a character that's very reminiscent of the joker. And he stole that movie Jason more. It was fast 10 was fast 10 ah, he's he absolutely he's but but here's the thing. Ah.
23:36.46
J. Aundrea
You? Okay, what this is ah this is a fast fear go I might watch that because his acting has been getting a lot better recently.
23:51.61
unsolicitedpod
This ah, the new aquaman trailer came out today and I don't even like aquaman and DC has been bombing except for blue beetle blue beetle was fantastic if you want to watch. It's an obscure superhero but it's ah it's it is not quite.
23:59.63
J. Aundrea
What that hell is blue beetle.
24:11.30
J. Aundrea
If.
24:11.55
unsolicitedpod
Latino Black Panther but the closest thing that anything could be to latino black panther I I yeah now she's yeah.
24:15.86
J. Aundrea
Do you see this little half her acting up she been acting up this whole time. Nothing's wrong with her. She's already eating. She's fine just acting up and I'm very distracting all right, go ahead.
24:30.25
unsolicitedpod
That's all right? That's all right? That's that that's that baby but blue beattle I highly recommend that that was. It's a really it stars you ever seen the new cry to kid Tv show that's to do.
24:35.20
J. Aundrea
Blue beetle. Okay, let me Google that. Yes, okay, okay, got George Lopez in it.
24:46.90
unsolicitedpod
Stars as blue beattle and it's real good and George Lopez has this one scene if you watch the movie as soon as you see the scene you know exactly what I'm talking about is absolutely hilarious I literally laughed completely out loud when I saw that scene I I died I forgot. How funny George Lopez actually is that was the show.
25:07.39
J. Aundrea
Oh let me tell you George Lopez show please it that ah hilarious. So that such a top tier show and and honestly I feel like people need to go back and watch it if you haven't like really watch it.
25:13.93
unsolicitedpod
Here.
25:23.70
unsolicitedpod
I Think some people because it's so ah, what do they call Mexican Americans there's a Mexicana There's a no, there's a there's a word. There's a there's a word.
25:24.79
J. Aundrea
So.
25:34.11
J. Aundrea
That's just Mexican me that's just Mexican and Chicano Chicano is not that's not derogatory.
25:40.40
unsolicitedpod
Something I don't I don't know if we could say that can we say that you know I am I if I don't know if it's derogatory and not automatically assume that it is out make all merry list I was talking to who was I talking to earlier today off.
25:49.97
J. Aundrea
Um, ah take it as disrespect. Yeah Chica Chicano and Chicana are identifiers for people of mexican descent born in the United States
26:02.69
unsolicitedpod
Okay, boom there you go so it has a lot of Chicano and chicana elements that ah people wouldn't understand how I didn't understand them. Um and I feel like I'm color adjacent.
26:07.24
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.
26:13.63
J. Aundrea
Yeah.
26:15.70
unsolicitedpod
Because there's some similarities between black cultural about culture and like there's a lot of facted matter is that where all every other culture that tried to hold on to some of their traditions were all very similar.
26:20.18
J. Aundrea
You know we're all kind of similar.
26:32.86
J. Aundrea
Um, yes.
26:34.76
unsolicitedpod
Italian people irish people asian americans no matter which one you are whether you're filipino Japanese Korean Chinese all end in indian ah all the latino cultures. There's all a basis of.
26:42.87
J. Aundrea
Sure Indian and.
26:53.49
J. Aundrea
We are all communal cultures. That's the difference The if you look at the West is a very individualistic culture or society. Everyone else the global majority as I like to call us we are communal societies.
26:53.93
unsolicitedpod
Families and celebration and families.
27:12.93
J. Aundrea
Ah, we believe all of us have some sort of like um customs or traditionals around our ancestors and ancestral worship. You don't really see that a lot in the west What white people I don't believe white people have ancestors because y'all don't do not venate them.
27:30.29
unsolicitedpod
Well I mean I think that I think a lot of white people in this country because everything is so mixed when you say white like you're a comment like it's so easy for me to be like oh so So what's your background. Oh I'm German irish.
27:32.67
J. Aundrea
Ah, like.
27:37.00
J. Aundrea
M.
27:48.58
unsolicitedpod
Italian Croatian What So what are you I'm white so there they don't identify with anything whereas if you're Italian I've only known a few Italian people that didn't identify with their italianness and then I had to point them out I was like.
27:50.43
J. Aundrea
Um, that's the that's white white. Yeah.
28:02.33
J. Aundrea
Yeah.
28:06.36
unsolicitedpod
You may not recognize how Italian you are but this this this and this is very Italian Oh I Guess you're right? Yeah, you're you're very Italian whether or not you identify within or not, you're very Italian ah Irish people let me tell you something about Irish people.
28:12.83
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.
28:21.29
J. Aundrea
M.
28:23.81
unsolicitedpod
If somebody says they are irish they are holding true to some of those principles to to irish people because irish people are the minority other white people they ah they go to Europe.
28:33.79
J. Aundrea
Um, right.
28:41.99
unsolicitedpod
They are The ones is just like oh you Irish You got you have a nice land. You got good whiskey like Irish Irish people are look down upon there's so many similarities between Irish people and black people. Even even.
28:46.42
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, right? he.
28:53.41
J. Aundrea
Was a.
28:59.90
unsolicitedpod
In coming to this country where they weren't slaves they were indentured servants where they didn't have Jim Crow there were situations in certain areas where they would say no dogs. No irish allowed so they were just they came in and such.
29:01.91
J. Aundrea
Yes.
29:12.82
J. Aundrea
Oh.
29:18.29
unsolicitedpod
Big groups that white people looked at them and was like look if them and black people get along. That's gonna be a problem cause they some fight they some days some fighting motherfuers black people and Irish people some fighting motherfuckers and and this it's gonna be a lot of them.
29:28.87
J. Aundrea
There's gonna be hell to pay.
29:34.63
J. Aundrea
Yeah, right I seen gangs in New York no I haven't yeah yeah, right.
29:36.51
unsolicitedpod
So this is what we gonna do we go create right? We say like we gonna create this thing call white gains gains. New York is good. Good movie. We gonna create this term call white which is completely an american term not anywhere else. It's white. Gonna create this thing called white and we're gonna let irish be in with us just so they don't join forces with black people. We're gonna tell them that they better so that they hate them.
29:59.36
J. Aundrea
Because yeah, because everybody else is nationalistic. Everybody else is what are you? Oh I'm insert whatever country they're from. We don't say that in America.
30:05.20
unsolicitedpod
Well. Well when we go Abroad. We'll say a man. Yeah, not when you add Katta he and you said he was canadian.
30:18.50
J. Aundrea
When I travel abroad I'll say I'm American but well no, don't when I go abroad I say I'm Canadian with Death listen.
30:30.80
unsolicitedpod
Look speaking of Carnena I Just saw a ticktokck where there was a certain part of town where it was nothing but hose on the street I'm not talking about women I'm talking about literal hose and they was all fine like I qui.
30:39.19
J. Aundrea
Yes, yeah, ah, a limit to the people of Columbia beautiful people. Um, yeah I mean yeah, there's gonna be this house wherever you go I mean you can make some money if you can make some money out and you go find them.
30:50.50
unsolicitedpod
Now.
30:55.99
J. Aundrea
They go. They're gonna be on the track they go be.
31:00.60
unsolicitedpod
I I would go out to I'd go out to Columbia and turn a hoe into a housewife I'd be like you know what? you are beautiful and I want to take you off the streets. You want to come to America with me I'd be like should be like I've been with many men many men.
31:08.67
J. Aundrea
Um, still be on here keeping up.
31:16.90
unsolicitedpod
Wished for pawn be but of my I don't give damn about that woman. You bought the what you gonna do? What do you want you won wait hey it is what it is then then then I bring her here and she' be like what you want me? Do you want me cook for you clean for you I was like.
31:21.15
J. Aundrea
We all got a pass this she was like this was yesterday hey it's past.
31:35.62
unsolicitedpod
You know what we could do that together. But what you want to do like what do you want to do because you' go sitting around this house all the time when we go back to school you want to learn a trade like you I don't want you to hoe No more so like as we marry it now. So so you want go to want do some school in I say into college we can. We can go get that education on.
31:46.60
J. Aundrea
Um, right? yeah.
31:52.50
J. Aundrea
Right.
31:54.40
unsolicitedpod
You know you want to learn coding we gonna do something but you ain't gonna be waiting on me hand to foot I'm not no passport bro I don't want that I won't I want a partner but stay fine though stay fine. We gonna go to the gym together I know I I look I've evolved.
31:59.21
J. Aundrea
Right? Yeah, oh boy foia boy all right.
32:11.50
unsolicitedpod
But I still have a chauvinist sometimes I mean do do it is what it is I've evolved but there's still some parts in me that's still a little chauvinistic but really is a chauvinistic when I take care of myself and I want my partner.
32:11.78
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, well it is what it is? Yeah, yeah, yeah, no again.
32:30.87
unsolicitedpod
To take it. Yeah.
32:31.67
J. Aundrea
Is just value systems and it just you just get with another fit person. Don't be trying to make a nonfit person go hiking I'm saying that with a lot of vitriol because that's me I'm the nonfit person that don't want to go hiking I don't know.
32:43.96
unsolicitedpod
Now you know you like going hawking you and you and dad went hiking. Yeah no, but and but you changed but but you know your whole mentality and then changed now since that surgery you are now.
32:49.70
J. Aundrea
I do now but there is there was a time in which don't ask me first date you want to go for a walk now. Yeah yeah, I'm an athlete I'm pretty much what I call myself.
33:01.68
unsolicitedpod
And to fitness not when you can't do the Mag the stallion and you gotta get down on both knees. You ain't a okay all right.
33:09.00
J. Aundrea
No I am an athlete I'm an athlete um I think we should I think you should look up the definition of athlete and you'll see that it describes me. Yeah, oh no, no, it doesn't a person who's proficient.
33:18.65
unsolicitedpod
Okay, not right? Well whatever I'm proud of you So Keep it up. Yeah I'm an athlete I'm the only athlete out of all 3 of us because there's not a sport that I can't play so I'm the old I took all the athleticism and booty out of.
33:27.96
J. Aundrea
And sports are other forums of physical Ex I'm not proficient. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, right? Yeah, you did.
33:46.80
unsolicitedpod
That' snap. Ah, that's that's that all up J I could play soccer now I got I Ah J Yes I can I got into soccer.
33:47.38
J. Aundrea
Did. I Don't know I don't I don't know that you could beat me in soccer you will last longer than me and say you can't play soccer sister went in.
34:03.39
unsolicitedpod
When we use it do it in gym class and middle school I got so I was like they were like because I was quick not fast quick I was quick and I was good with my feet for some reason I've always been good on my feet. Um, even though I was tall and lanky.
34:07.60
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, um.
34:19.39
unsolicitedpod
And so it was like you know you could play soccer and I was like it's too much running in soccer not not not but it's but it's like quick sprints and there breaks in between and and and it's not back and forth back and forth.
34:22.54
J. Aundrea
It is a lot of run well is. It's a lot of running and basketball y'all just run it back and forth back and forth back and forth.
34:36.69
unsolicitedpod
Is back and forth and then you set for a little while and there's some this a shot clock so you playing there's some time when you play defense.
34:42.60
J. Aundrea
It It depends on the position that you're playing you know I was defense so I didn't do a lot of running back and forth I'm pretty much I'm pretty much between the goal and Midfield you want to es score the goals and win the games. Yeah.
34:51.42
unsolicitedpod
J What do I want to do yeah, want That's right? So I'm not gonna play No damn defense I didn't play defensive basketball that was the part of the problem there was like brial place of defense now I'm trying Score Jasco some baskets I try I'm resering all my energy.
34:59.74
J. Aundrea
Yeah, okay.
35:03.96
J. Aundrea
5 now one.
35:10.35
J. Aundrea
Right? Its no defense level. But no yeah, okay I failure you? yeah I feel you yeah.
35:11.80
unsolicitedpod
On the office event I try to when when I play football it was like you weren't building on a defensive side. No, they don't get to score touchdowns I I want to play on office aside at the ball I want to score I'm selfish like that all now these people got 35 minutes I think that's good enough. So.
35:29.20
J. Aundrea
Listen when when it was at 29 minutes and you brought up another point I'll say okay, we go.
35:30.21
unsolicitedpod
So we go in.
35:34.79
unsolicitedpod
Um.
35:37.53
J. Aundrea
My knee is still bothering leave me let me stretch my leg out. But.
35:42.11
unsolicitedpod
Ah, you know what I've been doing is really been helping ah Cbd oil.
35:49.32
J. Aundrea
Does that stuff you know I'm so skeptical of that the like does that actually work.
35:50.89
unsolicitedpod
I don't I don't use the cream I put in in my drink before I go to bed I've been doing that and ah I would say this and then we don't get off so there was a leak in my bedroom at the entrance way.
36:00.87
J. Aundrea
And.
36:06.90
unsolicitedpod
And so they had to pull up the carpet and they got those one of those big industrial carpet drying fans that they put in my bedroom. It's been in my bedroom for about a week the maintenance guy was like yeah man is there a carpet drys like yes dry all I we'll come up there and get the fan I was like you Don got to do that you can come get the fan.
36:10.31
J. Aundrea
And.
36:25.65
unsolicitedpod
Like when you need it. He's like all right when I need it I'm a come i' a need to come get it I was like cool just let me hold it for a little bit because that sound that's that that super industrial when where I can't even hear my Apple alarm go off and you know how loud that Apple alarm us.
36:31.51
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, listen I have an external ac unit and a fan I just saw a Tickt Tock and he thought it was a guy who was like what psychos out here with the Ac on and a fan trying to sleep I said me me.
36:54.21
unsolicitedpod
Me me. But.
36:58.83
J. Aundrea
Um, with thick blankets comforters year round year round.
37:02.28
unsolicitedpod
You row so art I got 1 more point I know I would say I ain't talked to you and we ain't done the show in a while. So and I had a future drink. Alright so I was talking to somebody and I was telling them the story about the industrial fan of how I've been sleeping I'm telling you Jay I've never slept so good so much. So.
37:07.27
J. Aundrea
I.
37:18.90
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay yeah, doesn't matter.
37:20.50
unsolicitedpod
I'm thinking I'm gonna pay to $200 to buy my own because it's just a great fake as superound machine that's used to dry carpet and he is like he was like yeah I can't sleep without sound either and I was like and I've been telling him for years like he needs therapy. He needs to go to therapy.
37:34.96
J. Aundrea
Still.
37:38.80
unsolicitedpod
And I was like you know this a trauma response right? He was like what he's like I don't want to hear the shit right now I was like I mean it is. It's a trauma response needing sound to go to sleep. He's like no there isn't so I pulled it up.
37:49.41
J. Aundrea
What e.
37:54.30
unsolicitedpod
And it is it is a trauma response from your childhood the fear of abandonment fear of being alone. The sound help sothees you to help you go to sleep and and he was like damn me Bruce I told you I didn't want to hear thisclamation and I was like you know you got some deep rootded issues with the issues which you are your mother that you have not addressed.
38:03.79
J. Aundrea
Um.
38:12.50
J. Aundrea
Home.
38:13.65
unsolicitedpod
He was like I've been a 4 therapists they didn't I I just didn't like it I was like you just didn't find the right therapist for you but you got some deep root issues and and then.
38:19.82
J. Aundrea
Ah, yeah, what? what? I'll say mine is not a trauma response I have tinnitus real bad and so if there is no other sound in the room. All I hear is really loud ringing in my ears and I cannot sleep.
38:32.47
unsolicitedpod
You sure. Also you sure also is in trauma response. No, it's not about being alone. It's about abandonment. You don't have enough, you've done a lot of therapy. You've done a lot of therapy.
38:35.74
J. Aundrea
So I have no I love being alone. Love it. No fears of abandon of it none I wish people would I wish people would leave me to hell alone I Wish everyone would abandon me. Yeah, yeah.
38:52.00
unsolicitedpod
You done a lot of therapy and there is no abandonment issues I'm the only one that got abandonment issues out of the 3 of us.
38:55.23
J. Aundrea
Now I do not have abandonment issues. Yes I've never I've never been abandoned just you no my whole life.
39:01.38
unsolicitedpod
Oh yeah.
39:11.66
J. Aundrea
Has just been the desire to be left alone I wish people would it it and no one will no one will give up on me. No one will just say you know what Java I watch my hands and I'm walking away. No one will do this for me I don't understand why nobody loves me enough.
39:18.34
unsolicitedpod
And.
39:31.66
J. Aundrea
So walk away so right? like please please note please leave me alone but also always be there and notice.
39:31.92
unsolicitedpod
With that reason why I'll be bothering you but then but when I don't be bothering you you be like you didn't even know it's I had new glasses today. You can't you can't so.
39:49.53
J. Aundrea
And and notice every single thing about me. That's all I'm asking for.
39:50.83
unsolicitedpod
Well I know I have abandonment issues and I know I have anxious attachment style it sucks. So it you know.
39:58.46
J. Aundrea
Yeah, and you would think I would because I didn't get to be a baby good before our younger brother guy came along like I just I I was always like that's true and so probably that's.
40:11.80
unsolicitedpod
But you're still the only girl the greatest blessing if you were the young. Well if you were the youngest you would have been the youngest if you were born first you so you would have been the oldest because you's still the only girl had Adam.
40:17.79
J. Aundrea
Reason why. So in yeah.
40:30.48
unsolicitedpod
Been a girl damn I said his real name had our well it's too late now if he had been a girl. There would have been some issues.
40:35.53
J. Aundrea
It's too late Now you said it? Yeah God I can't imagine having a sister that's a nightmare. Yeah no, no. Thanks now I have to share.
40:51.23
unsolicitedpod
I love my sister. Ah yeah, dad would specifically I'll never forget the time that dad bought us was it. What was it. It was either nintendo 64 to dreamcast.
40:53.10
J. Aundrea
I have to share but I'd have to share like you and you and Adam had to share I never had to share I just took your stuff.
41:06.15
J. Aundrea
M.
41:08.92
unsolicitedpod
He bought one the system and the other one the games I was like so you want us to kill each other like this is a double experiment. You want us to kill us kill each other. That's what is gonna be is like fabric.
41:11.80
J. Aundrea
Oh God Yeah here you're looking for murder. Yeah yeah.
41:28.16
unsolicitedpod
I Don't know how I guess we didn't have no what we mean we him always had kind of little issues. But I guess I guess we made it work I don't know.
41:35.44
J. Aundrea
Yeah I don't remember many fights over the dreamcast or the Nintendo I think it's more because it yeah.
41:41.42
unsolicitedpod
No, it was in ni 10 it was a Nintendo 64 it was absolutely in the Nintendo 64 because the dreamcast he bought.
41:49.30
J. Aundrea
I Think it's just because he he wasn't much of a video game person. He's never been much of a video game person I I hate to play I Hate to play video games with both of all one. You would never let me play but when I did get to play.
41:52.56
unsolicitedpod
Ah, where he hated playing video games with me because I was an absolute jerk when I went.
42:02.77
unsolicitedpod
Well hold on time out cause you you this is gonna sound bad but she was very much a girl and you would want to play sports games and just mash buttons and I'm like look this takes strategy here. Let me show you how to play and you like I just want to mash buttons and I like this I was like Jay this is no fun for me.
42:11.76
J. Aundrea
Yeah, no, no no lakers versus setic Lakers versus cex you just picked the Portland Trail blazers because they always hit the threes. That's how that's how I play that's I play and you're mad because could be me cook ke in threes.
42:21.92
unsolicitedpod
H.
42:28.13
unsolicitedpod
No I wait man I beat you too easily. I beat you too easily it was no competition. It's the reason why it's the reason why let let me tell you something on I don't I guess it was Nintendo 64
42:31.37
J. Aundrea
Over and over again I don't need to know no strategy I don't need no strategy. It's called Press Buttons Dribble shoot.
42:45.87
unsolicitedpod
It would me him our brother would play those wrestling games and I found a little cheat I found a little cheat where when he would pin me I found a little cheat where it would get to it would go almost to 3 and my man would kick out every time. No matter what he did he would get so mad.
42:49.55
J. Aundrea
Ah.
42:58.15
J. Aundrea
Um, well.
43:04.78
unsolicitedpod
He would get so bad. He'd be like I'm killing you I don't understand you hit me with one move it went because the reverse was you could do this little Jiggle and it would automatically have your man kick out of a pen. But if you pin somebody you could do the little jiggle and it would automatically hold them down and he didn't know the secret.
43:15.13
J. Aundrea
M.
43:23.60
unsolicitedpod
So I would do it specifically just a bit off off he would get so mad pay look you got to figure it out I think eventually I told him because he would get so mad he was swear you wouldn't play with me anymore.
43:23.70
J. Aundrea
Such an ass but that's but that's the name of the game. That's the name again you figuring out.
43:38.42
J. Aundrea
Yeah, the.
43:40.45
unsolicitedpod
And I was like well no I like beating up on you So here, let me tell you this little trick all right. That's enough for the day for real this time. Yeah no and I got to eat dinner I think I'm will go for another little nighttime walk. Yeah, all so ah.
43:44.76
J. Aundrea
Yes, but 45 minutes at this point.
43:53.81
J. Aundrea
All right I got to go ah have edible and try to enjoy the rest of my evening. Yeah.
44:00.48
unsolicitedpod
Yeah, yeah, ah, alright, then were on that note ah will holler by by.
44:06.48
J. Aundrea
Um. Yeah I mean bye.