Unpacking South Carolina Abortion Laws, Trump Indictments & Drama of #randommaninatlanta

00:03.40
Bruce Anthony
On today's episode is the sibling happy hour I'm here with my sister Jay Andrea we're gonna be del daddling a little bit then talking about the South Carolina abortion ruling and there we're gonna be talking about Morgan and some random Atlanta dude. But first things first.

00:26.58
J. Aundrea
What a brother.

00:27.35
Bruce Anthony
What up says I can't call I'm just chilling I messed up the the title it's it's what is it the random Atlanta du atlanta random dude random man in Atlanta Morgan. Well, that'll be in the third segment. Ah.

00:35.11
J. Aundrea
His random man in Atlanta. Yes.

00:43.97
Bruce Anthony
You got some? you've got you've had an exciting couple of weekends. You had your birthday party. You had dad visit last weekend and now you're going to vegas for the first time.

00:48.60
J. Aundrea
Yes, I have my birthday party. Yes, yeah vegas for the first time so I'm very excited. Ah, we have a cousin out there who I have been meaning to go see for several years now.

01:04.46
Bruce Anthony
Right? You you and me both. Yeah.

01:06.39
J. Aundrea
And I've been making promises but I finally I told her I promised her that I would come out this summer so pretty much the very tail end of summer I'm making it out there.

01:16.57
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, would then Summer technically last through september.

01:22.61
J. Aundrea
Ah, to me Summer is June July August that summer.

01:24.29
Bruce Anthony
And summer to me has always been until you have to go to school. Yeah, once you once the kids have to go to school summer is over with summer is over with yeah so okay.

01:30.38
J. Aundrea
Right? Like yeah summer's over. Yeah, so usually June Jack June July August to me that summer yeah

01:43.26
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, this literally the the last weekend in August because next weekend is the first I think is Friday or Saturday so this is the last weekend in August so I know she'll be excited to spend time with you you you did? yeah.

01:50.34
J. Aundrea
Yeah, so but but ah, yeah, but I made it I made it in the summertime I made it so it's down to the wire. But I'm making it I'm very excited to go to vegas I know it's hot out there but I was looking at the temperature and it's pretty much the same. Heat that we're getting here and Atlanta except we have humid heat and they have dry heat. So I'm a sea. Yeah yeah, yes, yeah.

02:16.30
Bruce Anthony
It's gonna be a different is different feel. It's just hot but the human heat to me always hits harder than just hot I can deal with just hot.

02:24.72
J. Aundrea
I can deal with just hot like I'm fine with just hot. It's the humidity on top of that. So then like I'm pouring sweat out of nowhere because of the humidity whereas a dry heat I might not necessarily sweat that much.

02:34.81
Bruce Anthony
Look let me tell you some this summer has been the hottest summer of any summers ever next summer is gonna be the hottest summer of any summers.

02:48.67
J. Aundrea
Um, and we used to have southern summers where it was it was hot as as children we would be outside in that summer heat the cicadas

02:54.70
Bruce Anthony
Right? It was hot but we're.

03:02.25
Bruce Anthony
Plan and and and join and and join ourselves. No ah I yell at crypto often during the summertime and in the wintertime for whenever the weather is bad.

03:03.41
J. Aundrea
Playing. Yes, this is not that.

03:14.86
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, yes, Roni is the most lolly gagged ass dog when it's hot outside or when it's raining.

03:16.88
Bruce Anthony
He wants to smell everything he wants to take his time I swear he does that on purpose just to piss me off.

03:29.38
Bruce Anthony
I.

03:30.13
J. Aundrea
She will not hustle up if it's cold now if it's cold she hustles because she does not like the cold. But if it's hot out or it's raining or somebody just don't want be outside as bugs something. That's when she wants to sniff every blade of Grass. That's available to her every pine cone. Every stick has to be investigated thoroughly.

03:55.47
Bruce Anthony
Ah, we got to rewind because that phrase that you said is very particular hustle up is a phrase that I used to use when I used to make you and our brother.

04:01.75
J. Aundrea
What I say Yes, yes.

04:11.63
Bruce Anthony
Chase my rebounds when I was outside shooting the basketball. Our brother hates that term and this is the first time I've ever heard you use it in decades.

04:13.70
J. Aundrea
M.

04:21.75
J. Aundrea
Yeah, it's not as triggering anymore I think it was I think it used to be very triggering um because I do remember ah getting your rebounds and yeah, no it it was. It's not as triggering him I've grown up.

04:28.39
Bruce Anthony
It.

04:36.50
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah.

04:38.44
J. Aundrea
I've grown up and now you're hustle up. It doesn't have the same impact that it did when I was a child now I can tell you to go to hell? Yeah, yeah now now yes a hundred percent a hundred percent

04:45.52
Bruce Anthony
But you understand the meaning. Yeah, but you understand the meaning behind hustle up Now you understand why I was saying it I needed jar to hustle up. Ah, what's going on in the news it had the Republican Primary debate last night.

05:01.22
J. Aundrea
Yeah I wasn't paying attention. It's ah it's I wasn't paying attention Trump didn't even show up which you know understandable. He's got a lot of legal woes at the moment you don't.

05:02.27
Bruce Anthony
I Just watch highlights near.

05:14.36
Bruce Anthony
I'll get into I'll get into that something that dropped this week next but ah yeah, for some strange reason. Ah, it's not strange reason. It's an understandable reason I don't want to watch it unless Trump is gonna be involved I want to just see the anarchy.

05:26.34
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, it's just it's just a bunch of people fighting for second place at this point because he's no and he's just leading with there's been.

05:30.94
Bruce Anthony
But supposedly there were still anarchy. Yeah, cause then nobody moved to needa last night

05:45.16
J. Aundrea
Indictments doesn't matter. He's leading an every demographic of republican voter men women those who make above 100000 those who make under 100000 he's leading among collegeucated non-college educated he's leading in rural city and suburban like easily's did every demographics. So. It's just a fight for maybe vice president. Maybe I don't know.

06:11.41
Bruce Anthony
I was talking to a friend last night she's a lawyer and she's the one that was just like he's going to jail right? and I was like no, he's not going to jail and um, she said you know I have some friends of mine and one is a.

06:26.52
Bruce Anthony
Extremely avid Trump supporter and other one I think just doesn't like Biden so we'll vote for Trump but I'm not sure I don't want to ask but they're really educated and I don't understand it and I was like oh I do she was like you do how how do you understand it I said oh okay, yeah, no. If you're educated and you support Trump you're just basically a racist or bigot or a misogynist. That's that that's basically he stands for everything that you want to stand for if you're educated you still support him. That's who you are and for those people that are on Youtube right now that's gonna leave a comment like that's racist saying I'm racist. No, it's not.

06:48.99
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

06:55.16
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

07:01.93
J. Aundrea
Now calling out racism or asking people to take accountability is is does not make you the thing that you're asking them to be accountable to it just doesn't yeah.

07:03.56
Bruce Anthony
Y'all are idiots.

07:12.96
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, well people are just people are just stupid. People are just stupid. But so you bring up Trump's woes and you know, ah one of the key witnesses in his um indictment for the classified files.

07:18.95
J. Aundrea
No.

07:29.76
Bruce Anthony
Ah, basically switched his ah switched his um not is his his story. So his name is I don't know trayvis Mr. Travis are.

07:35.64
J. Aundrea
And.

07:45.33
Bruce Anthony
He's an information technology worker who oversaw the surveillance cameras footage at the former president Donald Trump's Barlago property initially he testified to a grand jury in Washington d c that he was unaware of any effort to era the videos. However, after switching from an attorney paid for but paid for by the trump political action committee. To a lawyer from the federal defender's office in Washington he retracted his prior false testimony and detailed alleged effort to tamper with evidence related to the investigation of handling of the classified information stored at Trump's Florida home. His reversal led it directly to new charges against Trump by the special counsel Jack Smith's prosecution included in the ah superseding indictment issued by the federal grand jury in Miami last month detailed in alleged efforts to erase security camera recordings. So.

08:33.93
J. Aundrea
No, and.

08:36.30
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, so so dude was like look ah I lied a friend of grand jury what's that mean like what's that mean or you gonna go to jail I'm gonna go to jail now now. No no no and Trump's lawyer was like oh don't worry, you won't go to jail and he was like I need a new lawyer and when he got this new lawyer. He was like look I lied to y'all.

08:41.82
J. Aundrea
Do like I'm gonna go to jail.

08:50.40
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

08:55.29
Bruce Anthony
Like can I just tell you all the truth and not go to jail I'm not saying that this is exactly what happened but I'm probably ah I'm pretty yeah I'm pretty sure that he was like look I want to go to jail so ah, let me just tell you all the truth and will I be good to go and Thenre's like if you're willing to testify we could work out some well let me just say.

08:58.70
J. Aundrea
No, that's pretty much exactly what happened.

09:13.91
Bruce Anthony
That my previous statement I lied on that and here's the truth they was trying to tamper with some stuff and I testify in front of the bible Jesus ah, Jehovah Mohamed whoever you allll need me to testify in front of that's what we do.

09:14.69
J. Aundrea
Right.

09:20.45
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, listen hey listen cat tell all the truth can tell you all truth can I get can I get listen everything I said before let me tell you all truth.

09:32.63
Bruce Anthony
Like. Near like.

09:39.33
J. Aundrea
Hey everybody sit down everybody sit down sit down. Let's order some lunch. Let's let's get let's get real. That's that that would be me First of all I would have told the truth from the beginning because I ain't going to add the even the threat of jail I'm not going for nobody period.

09:42.30
Bruce Anthony
Good. Yeah no I will learn.

09:52.37
Bruce Anthony
Everybody everybody that's rocked with Trump has gone to jail everybody they go into jail I don't I don't know what he'd be doing that makes people so loyal I say he he had people be bewildered bewitched.

09:57.81
J. Aundrea
Yes, yeah.

10:04.65
J. Aundrea
I Really don't know it feels like a cold. It feels like a cold. Yeah yeah.

10:09.68
Bruce Anthony
He he just has he oh way here his his his people are absolutely a cult I mean that's absolutely a cult. But yeah, but he got some legal what was but guess what he still la't going the Jail he's still gonna be the Republican nominee.

10:22.10
J. Aundrea
No no, probably yes I mean it's crazy because this is so unprecedented. But.

10:29.20
Bruce Anthony
And he's got a good chance of being reelected.

10:37.60
J. Aundrea
We should really start thinking about setting a precedent that if you are currently facing criminal charges. You can't run for president like that. No.

10:48.38
Bruce Anthony
I agree and disagree at the same time.

10:54.45
J. Aundrea
Ah, how how do you disagree because that that seems pretty clear like if you got a Rico case. You can't be president of the United States

10:54.74
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

11:02.70
Bruce Anthony
Because all right? So for instance, um, the house. The republican house is already trying to bring up ah a committee to investigate the da in Atlanta right.

11:14.31
J. Aundrea
M.

11:17.90
Bruce Anthony
So anything that people are trying to do to get the truth out against Trump the house which is led by a majority of the Gop. The republicans are going after these people don't you think if we had set a precedent where if you are investigated or.

11:27.59
J. Aundrea
No.

11:36.49
Bruce Anthony
Ah, being charged with any crimes that republicans would use that to their advantage to knock out any Democrats that were actually running that could win when it comes to dirty pool republicans conservatives have always been really good at dirty politics. They've always been really good at that.

11:54.79
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, but I mean the reverse is also true if we don't do anything then is a bunch of criminals running for public office and being voted in by people who don't care that they're criminals so is not new.

11:56.50
Bruce Anthony
I Don't want to give them anymore bullets in the chamber.

12:06.40
Bruce Anthony
Oh how? how is that new. How how is that new. It's not new.

12:13.93
J. Aundrea
I'm saying and it's not new which is why I'm saying we need to set up some something needs to I don't think we should let the the threat of people misusing it stop us from doing what is essentially the right thing. That if you got a Rico case. Okay, if you are I mean state federal. They hit him everywhere. Okay, if you got like you shouldn't be able to be president United States I get it. There's a job where.

12:39.20
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, they are.

12:48.66
J. Aundrea
There's really no prerequisite like you can't say yeah you can't say well I have experience running countries like most people don't have that so I get that it's a job. They really don't.

12:49.33
Bruce Anthony
There is no prerequisite.

12:57.84
Bruce Anthony
Well, the the very first president in United States had no experience running any type of government. He was a general his side.

13:05.34
J. Aundrea
Exactly right? right? like none none of none of them ever really have experience running an entire government none of them until unless it's their second term.

13:13.52
Bruce Anthony
I Well no, if you're a if you're a governor a Governor is like a president of a state. It is a president of a state. Okay, not a country but a state you know a state You know you know you be governor.

13:20.41
J. Aundrea
Yeah, but no nobody nobody has experienced running a country. Let me say like yeah is completely different though your commander in Chief of right? That's a big deal.

13:33.20
Bruce Anthony
The only difference only difference says you have control over the military a larger like larger thing in the military.

13:40.38
J. Aundrea
And and you're dealing with both foreign and domestic policy like as opposed to just your state.

13:46.24
Bruce Anthony
Okay, so you have control over the overall military and foreign policy. Yes, but I'm saying like if you're a governor and you try to run for president that seems like the most logical next step.

13:54.69
J. Aundrea
Um.

13:59.84
J. Aundrea
Yes, yeah, but my point but my point is I get that there's really not many rules. There are some rules but there's not many rules because this is just a job. You can't truly prepare for. But.

14:03.56
Bruce Anthony
Or I mean I guess a senator anyway.

14:17.77
Bruce Anthony
Know but the the Rico case I mean that's funny. That's splashy, right? to me that's not the most important thing the most important thing was um, yeah no I mean and show state but the most important thing is those classified documents.

14:19.22
J. Aundrea
You got to think a a Rico case has got to be up there and yes I just like saying it. Yeah.

14:35.12
Bruce Anthony
Now that my man turned ah snitch I mean he he snitching I would snitch to look I'm not above but I'm not above snitching over a lot of situations. So I've snitched on you.

14:37.41
J. Aundrea
Yeah I was finished immediately. Yeah no I was finish on you I would be honest with you. Yeah, you have So it's it's I mean I mean well.

14:55.90
Bruce Anthony
Repeatedly.

14:57.16
J. Aundrea
Let me see what I snitch on you if I'm implicated yes I was snitch on you if I'm not implicated in anything like if the police is just like where's Bruce I'd be like I don't know you know a.

15:05.94
Bruce Anthony
Okay, yes, but I'm talking are would you snitch on me would you snitch on me if we both did a crime and you got caught and I got away. Okay, so if we but if I did something and you got brought into it.

15:17.56
J. Aundrea
Nah I would just take that out. Yeah.

15:24.79
Bruce Anthony
And you was like I had nothing to do with the he right over there? Yeah no I I would I wouldn't snitch if me you did something and I got caught I'm keeping my mouth shut. But if you did some and they like hey Bruce you facing jail tile I'm like j is right down the road I'll take it to her right now.

15:25.24
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah I'm to yes yeah I'm telling.

15:34.66
J. Aundrea
Yeah, right, right? You're ah facing an accessory after the fact type of charges. Yeah I'm I'm not going. No no.

15:49.53
Bruce Anthony
No like da Ah, very.

15:50.53
J. Aundrea
if I if I did something and I got caught. Okay I'm gonna take that l if you just happen to get away because you ran faster than me then it is what it is they always gonna just wonder who was the second person right? that they're never gonna know um, but if I had nothing to do with it.

15:59.40
Bruce Anthony
They always don't want to get.

16:07.53
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, the old person The only person yeah look that's not to me that's not snitching that is I getting in trouble for something that I didn't do That's not snitch it that that is look I now now if.

16:08.22
J. Aundrea
Ah, you just no hell no listen and y'all can say what y'all want about me I'll give a damn.

16:15.90
J. Aundrea
Is my pleasure. Yeah I'm saving my ass I'm saving my ass.

16:27.37
Bruce Anthony
I Get hemmed up and I start telling on other people doing other stuff not that snitching see this people nowadays don't know they don't understand what snitching actually is.

16:30.30
J. Aundrea
Right? that snitching.

16:38.90
J. Aundrea
Sni and is you got caught doing some something you did and so you gonna start throwing other people under the bus to try to get out of either get out of what you did or Lessen lessen the penalty for it.

16:45.12
Bruce Anthony
Ah, phrase.

16:54.45
Bruce Anthony
Yes, that snitch that snitch and all this other stuff. It was like no man he right? No I mean I'm not gonna voluntarily give if I know somebody is Robin you know I'm not Goingnna voluntarily give up in for prime example, prom example, the office.

16:56.58
J. Aundrea
Death sitch it all the little stuff I Sitcher. No.

17:08.88
J. Aundrea
You got to come find me and ask me.

17:14.33
Bruce Anthony
Office in my building. My building is a non-moking building. You cannot smoke in your apartment or your balconies there are smoking sections outside of the building. That's where everybody's supposed to smoke. Do people pay attention to that rule noen.

17:16.26
J. Aundrea
Um, you can.

17:24.65
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, obviously not.

17:31.37
Bruce Anthony
Says I'm not directly affected by any cigarette smoke from any people that nobody that lives around me smokes. So I don't smell anything but other people do but where I do smell some is weed smoke now I know what you're saying to yourself Bruce you smoke weed why would weed smoke bother you.

17:36.67
J. Aundrea
And.

17:45.68
J. Aundrea
Um.

17:48.24
J. Aundrea
It wound it. Yes, when when I'm out and other people are enjoying that pisses me off and that makes me and that makes me want to tell.

17:50.26
Bruce Anthony
Well weed smoke bothers me when I'm not smoking wheat when I'm just.

17:59.93
Bruce Anthony
Yes, well because we doesn't smell good it. No it stinks. That's the reason why that's the reason why I say you got that stank.

18:06.74
J. Aundrea
Yes, it does something if you if you you got that if you got that loud that stank then yeah yes, but sometimes no.

18:16.14
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, so I always have my window open and I like to sit on my balcony and one of my neighbors likes to smoke weed on their balcony and I don't mean this a little bit. They wake and bake every morning sometimes I can smell in an afternoon and in the evening there for real pothead.

18:23.48
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

18:32.69
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, um, yeah.

18:36.11
Bruce Anthony
It bothers the hell out to me and if I catch him I'm go kick the ass I'm just Im if you watching him right now. Let me let me look in the camera if you watch it right now and you know who you are when I catch you. It's an ass will become your way I'm not gonna say nothing I'm not gonna do nothing but just whip that ass immediately.

18:54.38
J. Aundrea
So.

18:55.50
Bruce Anthony
On site but the office is sending out these emails like hey just to remind you guys. This is a non-moking building. So I went to the office and I said hey you know a lot of people probably don't check those emails. Yeah I might have to go old school and slide a notice up under underneath the door and they were like well do you know anything and I was like.

19:00.58
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

19:13.16
Bruce Anthony
Do I know anything like how like do you know who's smoking I was like no I'm on balcony sometimes and I see people smoking or whatever. Well who is it I was like 9 or snitch y'all go just have to catch him. Wow we go catch me if nobody speaks up I was like I can't do it like I but just can't do it.

19:20.73
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

19:29.48
J. Aundrea
Can't do it right? But I'm not gonna bring the Authority I'm not gonna bring the authorities in if I had to bring the authorities in if if I could deal with it myself I'll deal with it myself like.

19:29.71
Bruce Anthony
When if it bothers me I will deal with it directly I will deal with it directly. But I can't be going tell him who I'm not gonna bring the authorities it.

19:46.60
J. Aundrea
I'm not gonna bring in. No, you know we not gonna call the police if we don't have to.

19:49.32
Bruce Anthony
Now For instance though, if I get if I start to get blamed if my neighbors think it's me that's smoking when I'm not oh then I'm telling then I'm telling because I don't have nothing to do with it and I'm not gonna take the hit somebody else.

19:56.25
J. Aundrea
Right? Then I'll tell him. So here's here's the moral of story when you make your problem My problem dines show ask because I I'm telling don't make your problem My problem.

20:06.79
Bruce Anthony
Then I'm telling.

20:10.83
Bruce Anthony
There you go.

20:18.73
Bruce Anthony
Ah, that's right? Well speaking of people trying to deal with problems. We got abortion.

20:22.68
J. Aundrea
Because once it's my problem. They all best are off and I'm telling period.

20:34.87
J. Aundrea
I.

20:36.45
Bruce Anthony
Up next.

20:42.60
Bruce Anthony
Well j they doing it again I feel like every week I'm having to come on here talking about how they doing it and what do I mean by say they are doing it yesterday.

20:44.39
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

20:50.63
J. Aundrea
And.

20:58.91
Bruce Anthony
August the twenty Fourth or twenty third I don't know when this happened I know when yesterday was 20 took okay so is the twenty third or the twenty second it was it was a couple of days twenty third okay August the Twenty Third South Carolina supreme court

21:00.81
J. Aundrea
Twenty third because because today is the twenty fourth so yes it is a is a twenty. Third yeah.

21:15.47
Bruce Anthony
Has upheld a law banning most abortions after roughly six weeks of pregnancy. This ruling is a reversal from when the court struck down a similar law saying it violated the state constitution the law known as the fetal heart heartbeat and protection from abortion act. Limits most abortions as early as six weeks into a pregnancy with early cardiac activity can be detected in the fetus or embryo the law allows for exceptions to save the pregnant woman's life and for fatal fetal abnormalities abnormalities as well as limited. Expect.

21:49.64
J. Aundrea
Um.

21:51.11
Bruce Anthony
Ah, exceptions good. Got it's because I had a protein shake and I can't speak ladies in general. Ah another well because a protein shake is thick. It's like drinking a milkshake.

21:55.69
J. Aundrea
I Don't get the correlation but sure oh so then you turn into Mush mouth. Got you.

22:05.59
Bruce Anthony
But yeah I got the mushmath right now. So I'm I'm having trouble initiating and it dries out my mouth. So now I'm thirsty anyway, anyway, um, and they also give limited expectations up to twelve weeks for victims of rape or incest.

22:10.34
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

22:20.83
Bruce Anthony
Physicians who knowingly violate the law could face felony charges jail time fines and have their license to practice in the state revoked by the state board of medical examiners. Um it it gets worse guys. Let me just tell you what the justice John Kittrich wrote

22:40.77
Bruce Anthony
He said that while the 2023 act infringes on a woman's right of privacy and bodily autonomy the state legislator made a policy determining that at a certain point in the pregnancy. A woman's interest in autonomy and privacy does not outweigh the interest of the unborn child to live. Why is all this happening because like I said they just overruled a ruling that they just did it's because the recent ruling on this abortion is a reversal of its own decision just earlier this year. The court's change of stance. Its issue is attributed to the replacement of the lone female justice. Misss Hearn with Gary Hill by republican state so Gary Hill took over from Miss Herne so they got all mails on this supreme court and now they overturn and and and so mind you they just ruled doing this earlier this year this year.

23:27.79
J. Aundrea
Um, and that is important.

23:39.13
Bruce Anthony
Has only been nine months so they changed their ruling and just listen to what he said he's saying the the justice. What's his name again justice justice ah Kittrich is saying yes justice Kitrich is saying.

23:52.33
J. Aundrea
Kitrid you.

23:55.30
Bruce Anthony
Well yeah, you know we don't want to infringe on a woman's body and autonomy. Ah, but we don't want infringe on the baby's life. So that's super seized woman at six weeks at six weeks men

24:03.61
J. Aundrea
Right? And and and my question is says who men right? Yeah anti-abortion Republican men because.

24:13.60
Bruce Anthony
Men. Yeah.

24:20.54
J. Aundrea
How can you weigh 1 person's bodily autonomy against the life of an unborn child. The fact is that I got to carry this baby is my body that this is happening to.

24:30.37
Bruce Anthony
Right.

24:36.64
J. Aundrea
Physically mentally emotionally psychologically all of the things. So who decides that the life of the unborn child which you can barely call it that at six weeks sorry to clump a cells. But. That that child's life supersedes one my privacy my medical privacy and also my right to say what I can do with my own body I mean that's the crux of the entire argument.

25:09.50
Bruce Anthony
Well we live in a in a woman, a male supremist society you know and and and and they'll quote scripture. You know they they love quoting scripture.

25:16.16
J. Aundrea
M.

25:24.49
J. Aundrea
Yes.

25:27.20
Bruce Anthony
Don't want to follow the teachings of Jesus but love quoteing scripture and they'll they'll say all these different things. But it's always about control but it's so funny that the gop is always talking about cancel culture when they are consistently canceling the rights of people that they don't agree with.

25:32.31
J. Aundrea
M.

25:43.39
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

25:46.41
Bruce Anthony
So it's it's not cancer culture. It is do what we want you to do do live how we want you to live and that's the american way it goes back to that christian nationalism that we talked ah talked about a couple of weeks ago you know it is them andoctr naton there.

26:04.10
J. Aundrea
M.

26:05.37
Bruce Anthony
Beliefs on others enforcing it and here's another thing. It's always the lawmakers that are making these laws. They don't ever put it up to a majority vote. They don't ever let the citizens decide on this. They have a couple of times in like Iowa and things in that nature cause they were like well these people ride with us.

26:13.83
J. Aundrea
Now now.

26:24.14
Bruce Anthony
And they believe that abortion is wrong and we it should be outlawed and overwhelmingly the majority of the people say no, we don't I don't feel like I should tell another person to do with their body. Anybody who was sensible says I don't have the right to tell you what to do with your life or your body.

26:31.99
J. Aundrea
Net.

26:35.97
J. Aundrea
And. Right.

26:43.50
Bruce Anthony
That's on you and if you're a believer in Christ like a lot of these Christian last lists say who made them the judge less I check there's only 1 person if you believe in christianity. There's only 1 person who could be the judge jury and executioner.

26:59.30
J. Aundrea
Yeah, tell that to Christians who are probably the most judgmental. Um it I'm talking about the the political Christian The yes yeah, um, so this isn't.

27:03.82
Bruce Anthony
I'm not gonna say all Christians but a lot more than a few more than a few get the Christian nationalists. Yes.

27:16.94
J. Aundrea
About abortion at all. It's not about the life of the unborn child because they don't care about children in this country. Um, we've proven that over and over again. It's um, it's It's so it's a political talking point. It's.

27:21.25
Bruce Anthony
Um, don't care.

27:35.33
J. Aundrea
Um, something tangible that they can say that they got done during their administration that doesn't have any impact on them specifically in their own lives right? It just affects the lives of women particularly poor women particularly women of color.

27:50.99
Bruce Anthony
Sometimes it done I've read statistics. It's not just poor women out there getting abortions. It's a lot of people from all economic levels that get abortions.

27:58.99
J. Aundrea
Oh yeah, but they can still get 1 if you got the money you can go somewhere else and still get one. You can go somewhere else and get 1

28:05.50
Bruce Anthony
Where you gonna go to Mexico that afternoon.

28:12.80
J. Aundrea
You could travel I mean you could travel to another state. You can go somewhere if you got the money and the means to do it. You can go somewhere else.

28:19.41
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, but also it's not like abortion is cheap in this country people think that it's like oh it's $25 it's a copay to go get an abortion. No look at how much it costs like people they act there they out there thinking that poor people just out there getting abortions right and left. Nope.

28:25.80
J. Aundrea
Um, now try right? yeah.

28:37.20
Bruce Anthony
Poor people be having a lot of kids because they can't afford abortions.

28:37.35
J. Aundrea
no no yeah everybody don't head at two hundred fifty three hundred dollars or more to do this or more to do this right? um.

28:43.13
Bruce Anthony
Or more yeah because it gets more expensive depending on where you are in the pregnancy I donate to plan Parenthood That's how I know all these things.

28:55.89
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yes, we get to get the newsletter and it gives you lots of stats and very helpful. Um.

28:59.48
Bruce Anthony
And then and then I also do my independent research ladies and gentlemen and don't think I just take planned Parenthood's research. It's it's an I take them and I'm like is this true. That's that's what everybody should do in their life. Get some information.

29:08.11
J. Aundrea
You know? yes.

29:14.67
Bruce Anthony
Is this true. Do a little research. That's all it takes Google is your friend.

29:15.74
J. Aundrea
The one it takes and it's truly so much information at your fingertips. It's not like when we were growing up. You had to get that Encyclopedia Britannica go to the go to the library or something like that look through micro fish.

29:26.89
Bruce Anthony
Library look back in the day back in the day back in the day when you had an argument with somebody about some fact.

29:38.91
J. Aundrea
So yeah.

29:41.48
Bruce Anthony
There was no way for us to look it up in real time and go find out. We just argued around in circles about that fact and a lot of times we was wrong. A lot of times we were wrong. We're not wrong now because Google is real easy to just type up get what you need to get and you're all set. But. I read this headline and I was just like I'm not a female I personally won't ever have to decide whether I want to keep a child in my belly or not I won't ever have to make that decision. But.

30:03.98
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

30:13.54
J. Aundrea
Right? and.

30:19.28
Bruce Anthony
I Don't feel like I have the right to make that decision for another person and I don't understand why some people are so self-righteous to believe that their way is the absolute best way.

30:22.72
J. Aundrea
Right.

30:35.25
Bruce Anthony
And everybody should follow their lead.

30:39.10
J. Aundrea
This's because they're so righteous and it's fascism like you say like you know I mean yeah.

30:44.47
Bruce Anthony
So so people always talk about the isms right? and I loved when Obama was ah president and you know the tea party was a thing and they would bring up. He's a he's a socialist communist fascist and I was like well.

30:58.49
J. Aundrea
Yeah I don't think you understand what each of those things are to know that you can't be 3 out of 3

30:59.16
Bruce Anthony
He could be 2 or one of those things but he can't be all 3 right? And and also the fascism is a is a yes. They have fascist tendencies but it's not truly completely fascism because fascism socialism and communism fascism and communism typically comes with a dictator that's typically how that goes socialism typically doesn't have a dictator because socialism is not.

31:31.61
J. Aundrea
Um.

31:37.29
Bruce Anthony
Quite communism and stop throwing socialism and communism together Communism has forms of socialism isn't but Socialism doesn't have form of communism and they're different. They're similar but different. Um, but yes this is very this is a fascist state burning books.

31:45.31
J. Aundrea
Yes.

31:55.48
Bruce Anthony
Banning reading controlling your body. We've seen this before in history could all well the media controls the media.

31:57.17
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, controlling the media.

32:09.42
J. Aundrea
I Think especially when you're talking about extremist right? wing ideology that is what's controlling the media not the media itself.

32:21.87
Bruce Anthony
I will say this so the other day just as an experiment and I do this some time to time I went on Fox News foxnews dot com and I was like all right? Let me check out these headlines and what stories that they are featuring because I watch the news. Ah, the news is on all day long because I need content for this show.

32:40.67
J. Aundrea
So.

32:41.38
Bruce Anthony
And I like to be informed so I'm I'm watching the news and I'm like all right. These are the these are the stories that are on Abc News listen to the channels that I'm watching Abc News and Nbc News not Msnbc Nbc News those are 2 different things.

32:54.54
J. Aundrea
Um, right you write one is journalism 1 is entertainment. Yeah yes.

33:01.27
Bruce Anthony
And so I was like let me go on Fox News well one is journalism 1 is commentary and you got to understand the difference between the 2 Um and a lot of people don't they think the talking heads are giving him news and the talking heads are giving you opinions but I went on Fox News and it was hunter bying this Joe Biden Nat

33:11.56
J. Aundrea
Now.

33:21.40
Bruce Anthony
Woke all got you G O P and conservatives love saying the word woke. Don't understand what it means but love saying it. You know it is you know you guys taking the word wo know they can't ever just define it and people you know what you know.

33:27.73
J. Aundrea
They love it because I think they asked I think they asked Ron Desantis and he couldn't define it now.

33:40.65
Bruce Anthony
What conservatives are they're your parents here's what I mean by that remember back in the day when we would have slang terms. Well we still have slang terms now I'm at that age where I'm like wait a minute. What's cap again is is cap in line or is that not cap like whether can you explain that to me.

33:47.25
J. Aundrea
Yes.

33:56.57
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

34:00.17
J. Aundrea
No cap is the truth. Yeah, yeah, right.

34:00.62
Bruce Anthony
But so the G O P and kisser. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no cap I get it now but I'm saying when it first came out but that's conservatives right? They just hear a word and they don't understand the meaning of the word. They just kind of run with it and create their own definition of the word just like our parents used to do when i.

34:16.97
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

34:19.98
Bruce Anthony
I Used to say hey I'm straight I like that I'm gonna take that straight is straight and great like you you cool like you like you solid and then Mom would be like this food is great I'm like mom that's not how you use that. That's no.

34:27.12
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

34:34.40
J. Aundrea
Yeah, kind is. It's not too. It's not too wrong. It's not too wrong though.

34:37.80
Bruce Anthony
No, not. It's wrong and but it was wrong. But so they took the word woke. So so on Fox News it was Hunter Biden this Joe Biden as their criminals nothing about Trump they did have Rudy Giuliani's mug which is funny.

34:51.24
J. Aundrea
Um, now Yes, dear.

34:56.85
Bruce Anthony
Because the the head the main of therico man is is in a rio charge but nothing else, nothing nothing about Trump's indictments ah not about classified documents. None of that stuff none of it. It's all woke this woke that oh a black man shot somebody.

35:03.41
J. Aundrea
Now. Now.

35:16.19
Bruce Anthony
Like they love putting that type of news out there but nothing else and I was like wow if all you do is pay attention to Fox News I get how you would think Honder Biden and Joe Biden are the worse.

35:16.80
J. Aundrea
M.

35:29.39
Bruce Anthony
And how and why you should be deftly afraid of black people and brown people. That's what Fox News is telling you so it's got to be true because it's news but that's them controlling the news that isn't the people they're just sensationalizing what people want.

35:33.30
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, strike.

35:40.90
J. Aundrea
That is that is the that is right wing ideology controlling what controlling the media and what I say that is it is an order to further that ideology. They are filtering what they show to the people. So it's It's ultimately the ideology that's fueling it and the and and the proliferation and the perpetuation of that ideology.

36:01.85
Bruce Anthony
Yes, but.

36:18.10
J. Aundrea
And you can do that you can control the way people think by controlling what information is available for them to consume. Yeah.

36:26.17
Bruce Anthony
Yes, I will say that I'm attacking Fox News I also got to attack Msnbc because every now and then I'll turn on Msnbc and luck I support Joe Biden but also he's old as hell.

36:40.30
J. Aundrea
1

36:44.80
Bruce Anthony
And I don't like I don't like when he's up there speaking I feel like something bad is going to happen every time he talks because he looks very much his age look when you compare ages when you compare energy levels.

36:49.60
J. Aundrea
I Don't know why he he? yes.

37:00.77
Bruce Anthony
That's one thing I give Trump Trump got that energy that look no he did. He doesn't drink or or he's never drank because his brother was an alcoholic or something like that so he he don't drink now. Ah.

37:01.80
J. Aundrea
Hey well we don't know if that's supplemented by something.

37:11.82
J. Aundrea
Yeah, alcohol alcohol don't make you sharper.

37:19.46
Bruce Anthony
But Mcdonald's I guess Mcdonald's I guess in big macs work big mac and fries. You know who says that he doesn't he looked like he do with his old high booty ass.

37:22.49
J. Aundrea
Yeah, I'm surprised he doesn't have high blood pressure and diabetes I be surprised. That's why I'll say and I'll be surprised if he doesn't you know he got a don't.

37:38.49
Bruce Anthony
Ah, so ah.

37:39.68
J. Aundrea
That's 1 Thing Trump got a don't I seen it in a little ah little white shorts. He'd be wearing at the tennis court. That's what you wear at the tennis court. That's what you wear and knows somebody somebody needs to tell.

37:42.34
Bruce Anthony
So while so I tell him don't put on no lo weishowwiz now you could wear any other color but white.

37:56.92
J. Aundrea
Secret service to stop people from taking photos of him from below. That's the problem. There's a way to shoot that where he doesn't look like a like he got a elephant booty. There's a way to shoot it.

38:00.53
Bruce Anthony
And oh.

38:09.61
Bruce Anthony
But you you know what's funny. He can eat whatever he wants he can do whatever he wants to his body nobody sitting there trying to control him and his body sure enough trying to control women their bodies with this new ruling and I just you know.

38:19.29
J. Aundrea
Um, now now.

38:28.71
Bruce Anthony
I mean I'm past that point where this kind of affects me but like it. Ah you know people people don't pay attention to stuff that don't affect them and and people are like everybody wants to talk about politics and and anytime somebody says that I say because politics is important like just it's just.

38:37.40
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

38:43.19
J. Aundrea
Yes, yes, it is it literally has an effect on every single part of your life. There are people making decisions that affect you affect you directly.

38:47.66
Bruce Anthony
It's not that important. No it absolutely is important.

38:54.70
Bruce Anthony
Every single and and just because you yeah not defect you affect you? Ah, but I had to make that's what yeah it is but that's like the first time.

39:02.80
J. Aundrea
Well I said out I was trying to mix effect indirect. So okay, ah directly.

39:12.26
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, that's the first time I could call you out because you love calling me out every time I'm my mush mouth says some knowing I got a speech impediment just rubbing it in anyway, that's that's my sister y'all she's a jerk anyway, anyway, like now you you that you own exactly who you are.

39:15.71
J. Aundrea
Right? He gonna I never said I wasn't I never I have never said I wasn't I am an ask hole and that is ah.

39:30.77
Bruce Anthony
But.

39:35.57
J. Aundrea
Who I am and I make no apologies because I don't apologize.

39:39.43
Bruce Anthony
Ah, it just you know we talk about this a lot and it just bothers me. You know it just.

39:43.36
J. Aundrea
Is is the hypocrisy I think because there's nothing materially different about the band that they shot down. The only thing that's different is the makeup of the court and that it's all men. So it's the it's the hypocrisy of it that that's most.

39:55.19
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah.

40:03.70
J. Aundrea
Annoying about this.

40:05.21
Bruce Anthony
That's my pet peeve hypocrisy but all right, you know that's what and it's all these. It's just so funny. It's you know a South Carolina is it's Florida. It's Arkansas.

40:09.20
J. Aundrea
Um.

40:17.27
Bruce Anthony
Georgia actually did Georgia do any bans on education I know they try to suppress the votes they try to suppress voting.

40:23.50
J. Aundrea
Um, there was the whole thing about um I think something about slavery being beneficial I think that was also something here as well.

40:34.10
Bruce Anthony
That that was Florida. Okay.

40:38.50
J. Aundrea
But there was also something in Georgia about them changing the curriculum to take race out of Tulsa Race massacre and things like that. So just like making they just call it. They just call it the Tulsa massacre just the Tulsa massacre.

40:42.48
Bruce Anthony
I don't I don't really know how you take race out of sorts of Race massacre like what? how do? yeah, but okay, but like how do you frame that where it's not race evolved because.

40:56.17
J. Aundrea
Because.

40:59.76
Bruce Anthony
People try to frame the civil war as a war on states rights and and that's partly true I mean I mean that is true was slaves Yeah, that's what it was so it was a fight to own so it was a fight over slavery and they they did to frame it. They said states' rights and but that right was slavery. Ah.

41:05.30
J. Aundrea
The state rights to own slaves. Yeah yes. Yeah I don't know how they're going to reframe it Maybe as an economic as economics or class issue or something like that as opposed to a race issue but it was definitely a race. It was definitely racial.

41:18.90
Bruce Anthony
That's all they cared about.

41:24.33
Bruce Anthony
Oh I guess I guess you could because it was black wall street. Yeah.

41:34.40
Bruce Anthony
All right? well.

41:34.24
J. Aundrea
100% racial period and the fact that people don't understand how intersectionality works again boggles my mind. Um, you know.

41:41.82
Bruce Anthony
What did I call it that 1 time what I call it instead of intersection out. That's it intersexuality.

41:47.93
J. Aundrea
But in inters sexuality I was like not intersexuality. Oh but it's ah it's the same thing like you know? yes, it could be about race economics and class. It could be about all 3 because all 3 of those things are acting on people at.

41:56.10
Bruce Anthony
It's. Yeah, at the same time. Yeah, all right? You know what? I'm tired of talking about depressing stuff. But since we were talking about abortion and keeping babies or not keeping babies.

42:05.92
J. Aundrea
At the same time. So yeah, it's called intersectionality people.

42:19.48
Bruce Anthony
Next up, let's talk about a woman that decided to keep her baby with some random dew from Atlanta.

42:20.77
J. Aundrea
E.

42:34.23
Bruce Anthony
Jay i'mmanna let you take the lead on this one cause you know more about this than I do but you sent me some tiktoks and I've seen her before and I'm like yo first of all I thought just not misogynist ego.

42:47.55
J. Aundrea
Um, um, that that's what you gleaanned from that. It's okay.

42:49.27
Bruce Anthony
I was like yo she fine like she bad to me. She kind of bad. But anyway you send me these ticktoks. They're kind of funny bymel I mean I yeah yes, yes, um, yes, ok I got of 1 track mine i.

43:03.62
J. Aundrea
<unk> yeah.

43:08.86
Bruce Anthony
Openly admit that but ah, but I'm gonna let you explain it to the people out there and I'll just chime in.

43:09.12
J. Aundrea
Um, say.

43:12.75
J. Aundrea
So I've been following this tiktoker. Her name is Morgan Bailey with 2 eyes I've been following this tiktokker since probably to begin in the summer she basically makes tiktoks about being. Ah, impregnated by a random man in Atlanta and just her struggles as a scene single mom. So yes, she she calls him random man in Atlanta so this was somebody that she dated.

43:35.58
Bruce Anthony
Let's let's let's point out. It's not a random man. She knows who the man is she just calls him a random man in the letter. Yeah.

43:46.81
J. Aundrea
Met when she was 21 he was 30 so that will automatically let you know what the situation is whenever you have that big a age Gap He he he would say thanks to her like call her little girl and stuff so you. You typically know when it's guys like that they're they're date in younger girls to manipulate.

44:05.98
Bruce Anthony
Now I'm dated. Well I've dated younger women but I've dated younger mature women.

44:15.30
J. Aundrea
Yeah, they're not dating. They're not dating young girls because they're ah, worldly inexperienced. They're looking for naivete. Okay, so um, she got pregnant.

44:22.58
Bruce Anthony
Okay, okay.

44:30.80
J. Aundrea
He moved her up to Michigan and then one month thirty days after she gave birth via csection. Um, yeah, they were in Atlanta he moved her up to Michigan.

44:38.32
Bruce Anthony
Moved her moved her up or down from Michigan I thought he was a random dude in Atlanta okay, he was just visiting in Atlanta.

44:49.50
J. Aundrea
1 no they lived there for some reason he wanted to move to Michigan she never elaborated as to why she was not clear as to why? but ah, he wanted to move to michigan they moved up to Michigan she gave birth.

44:52.47
Bruce Anthony
Okay, why do he move her up to Michigan then ok, ok, all right, all right.

45:07.92
J. Aundrea
One month later after giving birth v a c section and dealing with postpartum. He leaves her moves back to Atlanta and moves in with the next girlfriend she is now a single mother. She makes a lot of videos about how depressed she was behind this man. But it's basically all of her videos are really funny tiktoks about being a single mom um telling stories about this random man in Atlanta she never this is very important. She never doxes him. She never. Posts a picture. She never uses his real name. She always calls him random man in Atlanta a random man from Atlanta so recently so she's am master huge following she is getting on Tiktok and.

45:48.99
Bruce Anthony
On Tiktok right.

45:57.81
J. Aundrea
Um, Twitter I think too but on Tiktok she's a master huge following her videos get millions of views. So she's now making she's monetized. She's making money now off of this. Yes, she's social media famous now. Still.

46:07.77
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, she's social media famous now.

46:15.63
J. Aundrea
So never doxes this man. He decides recently to docs himself he decides to come forward this young man I think his name was jaquan or something like that I'm not a hundred percent sure

46:27.38
Bruce Anthony
And sound that that sounds right I I've never heard his name before but that sounds right? It ah sound. That's this sound like some shit a Jaquan would do.

46:33.80
J. Aundrea
That it sounds accurate. Okay, it sounds like definitely yeah, sounds like something definitely so he decides to ah make himself Known. Didn't have to no one asked for it. No one asked for it. No one asked for it and it's he accused her of clout chasing after him. Even though that's literally impossible because she never tells anybody.

46:49.58
Bruce Anthony
Asian.

46:53.68
Bruce Anthony
He trying to get in. You're trying to get in and that money he sees money.

47:07.94
J. Aundrea
Who you are so how she could get clout from never revealing your identity is very weird. Ah what it seems like is that your clout chasing now that she's am master following and is making money to support your daughter.

47:18.76
Bruce Anthony
And.

47:24.36
Bruce Anthony
A a.

47:26.20
J. Aundrea
Which you are not doing he tries to give a whole bunch of receipts about how he ah cash apped her $16000 while she presents her own receipts that he took her cash app card and this is all money. And it shows each text where he says he's about to use the card so that money was his money that he's using and I believe he still has her cash app card. She should probably cancel that catch up card. But this this is a situation where you have ah.

47:41.64
Bruce Anthony
Um.

47:51.79
Bruce Anthony
Yes, it's probably cancer.

47:59.93
J. Aundrea
Ah, hobosexual. He's basically a man using a woman for an apartment a car and a debit card. You see it all the time. This is 3 things that they want.

48:02.20
Bruce Anthony
Um, and.

48:05.35
Bruce Anthony
Re reenunciate that again and re give that definition again because I know some people are gonna be like just know a homosexual she said Ho Bo H O B O Ho bo.

48:15.32
J. Aundrea
Um, ho oh yes, yes, ah yes, a hobo sexual is a man using a woman for an apartment her car and her debit card. Those are the 3 things.

48:22.87
Bruce Anthony
Sexual.

48:31.74
Bruce Anthony
And and let's be clear this hobo sexual never says apartment. He just says apartment I'm staying at her apartment. Yeah yeah.

48:34.16
J. Aundrea
Um.

48:40.74
J. Aundrea
Yes, and I'm staying in her apartment. Yes, um, doesn't because you know he's typically he typically and got nothing going on. Um, and it's true. She was footing the bill for everything he lived with her. He used her car. He used her debit card. And her cash out card. So he he outs himself tries to give his quote unquote side of story. It just makes him look even more of a deadbeat because she of course also has receipts and this is playing out live. On Tiktok. Everybody's get. It's all over my timeline all over my timeline and what I would encourage people to do do not give his video any likes. Ah I really don't want you to give him the views a random man in Atlanta.

49:29.27
Bruce Anthony
But I want to see what he looked like.

49:36.46
J. Aundrea
Truly truly and I think throughout this whole. Ah Saga Morgan has discovered that she is she I think she thought she was baby mama 6 but she's actually number 7 baby mama 6 reached out to her. Had all the receipts and everything nope she's number 7 now I don't know if she knew she was number 7 when they were together. Ah other baby mamas have come out and made videos in support of her. And also corroborating her story that he is in fact, a deadbeat. He could have stayed a deadbeen anonymity like he did not need is this is this crazy need to tell your sigh or to have your two cents or put your two cents in or so is this? Ah, it's this ridiculous need to not just let things go because you didn't that yeah, it's about control. He wants to control. Yeah he wants to control a narrative.

50:38.69
Bruce Anthony
Ah, it's about control. We just talked about in last segment.

50:47.26
J. Aundrea
That he did not have to participate it but you can't he can't sit back and watch somebody gain clout game fame and the money that comes associated with that and not say something but you just outed yourself. To whole internet that you are a deadbeat not once not twice, but 7 times over.

51:11.38
Bruce Anthony
This this is a thing. Maybe he is going for I know there's a a number that that a guy can reach where he doesn't have to pay child support anymore and I don't I think it's double. No there is there's a there's a number and I think it's double digits if a guy has like 10 kids he doesn't have to pay child support.

51:20.61
J. Aundrea
I don't.

51:30.80
Bruce Anthony
Because he can't theoretically afford child support. Well you can't afford if you got 7

51:32.92
J. Aundrea
Well, he can't afford to because I own he has a job he said he says he's a motivational speaker. So that means he don't have no job somehow.

51:41.94
Bruce Anthony
I Look he's motivating these women to have his kids. Yeah, so they maybe.

51:48.99
J. Aundrea
Somehow some way he must be working with something. He must have some game I truly don't understand ah except for the fact that he goes after much younger women um with a certain level of naivete. That's the only thing that I could. You wouldn't be able to bag somebody his own age now with 7 kids let me tell you some if I ask you? you got a kids they say yes, 7 and I ask how many mothers and you say 7 that's the end of the conversation I'm sorry that's first of all, if you say 7 that's the end of the conversation.

52:07.93
Bruce Anthony
He must romance prison.

52:15.20
Bruce Anthony
A.

52:21.88
Bruce Anthony
I the 7 is a lot kids.

52:26.80
J. Aundrea
but but but 7 kids 7 but I'm not about to assume that I'm gonna be any different from the 7 women that came before me I'm not.

52:34.83
Bruce Anthony
Okay, so what's the what's the numb. What's the limit. What's the limit of kids and baby mamas.

52:42.40
J. Aundrea
I think I think 2 baby Mamas maybe 3 but I really feel like 2 is still is still a lot but it's manageable I have friends who husbands have multiple baby mothers.

52:51.84
Bruce Anthony
It went.

53:01.71
J. Aundrea
And it's doable like it's due to as doable. It seems me yes yes.

53:03.27
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, they say it's a blended family is a thing blended families that but when I say if a woman got 2 baby daddies and I say now one did with it I'm wrong women want to attack me. But why what's wrong up with that.

53:19.27
J. Aundrea
no no I think that I think 2 I think 2 is fair and no I think 2 is fair where you're just like death's one too many you know, saying like I'll ah like know you a previous relationship that resulted in a show. But.

53:29.50
Bruce Anthony
Um, like well no.

53:35.54
J. Aundrea
But 2

53:36.63
Bruce Anthony
Well at my age a person could ah easily have been married 2 or 3 times I I am I am I oh.

53:41.37
J. Aundrea
That feels like a lot I don't feel like we're old enough for you to be now on your third marriage with me.

53:52.17
Bruce Anthony
I know I'm definitely I'm old enough I'm in my forty s I mean I'm almost in my mid 40 s almost I'm still in my early 40 s but yes, never think about it. You could have gotten married which o college sweetheart at 21 that not workout, get divorced in your twenty s get married in your thirty s.

53:57.28
J. Aundrea
Um, that that that feels like a lot.

54:10.29
Bruce Anthony
Your late 20 s early 30 s that not work out meet the love of your life at 40 and be married again on your third marriage at 43 44 and you could have had kids in each one.

54:16.90
J. Aundrea
But those are not but those are not baby Mamas like like our parents are divorced. My mom mom is not a baby mom. They were married. That's not a baby mama even though we are full adults but that's it.

54:26.11
Bruce Anthony
They were married but but dad always calls mom baby Mama it was full. It felt like full.

54:36.45
J. Aundrea
But that's I don't consider if you were married and had children and the marriage didn't work out that's but but that but to me if you had kids in wedlock. He.

54:40.67
Bruce Anthony
But you're not married no more. You're not married no more. So Now. So Now we're judging people if you have kids in wedlock or out of we like what if they never got married but they were in long term relationships. What if a person that is 43 years old like myself was in a relationship.

55:00.76
J. Aundrea
I said to I said to and that a like that 3 is a lot I mean but here's the thing here here's the thing I don't have to I'm not gonna judge anybody for how they live their life up until this point.

55:05.32
Bruce Anthony
But what if they had 3 what 3 is a lot.

55:16.97
Bruce Anthony
Seems like you kind of judge it.

55:20.71
J. Aundrea
No I get to decide whether or not I want to participate in that's it I Just get to decide whether you lived your life The way you lived your life. No shade I don't have to participate in it just because it is what it is like no I get to say.

55:25.13
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

55:33.44
Bruce Anthony
True. That's absolutely true.

55:40.40
J. Aundrea
3 baby mammas is a lot to deal with.

55:40.68
Bruce Anthony
Well I think people I think people don't understand like I remember having a conversation with her ex-girlfriend and she was like I don't understand where we can't still be friends and I was like well I don't want to be a friend. Well I don't think that's fair I was like you don't really get to decide what I want to do with my life.

55:52.94
J. Aundrea
Right? No no right.

56:00.33
Bruce Anthony
I've chosen I don't want to be your friend therefore we're not going to be friends. It doesn't matter if you want to be friends and not well I mean you know everybody thinks I'm cool I don't know why everybody thinks I'm cool but everybody everybody won.

56:05.51
J. Aundrea
And why would you want to force a relationship with somebody who's not interested I get it but I don't get it. You're not be kind of a nerd.

56:18.59
Bruce Anthony
Air everybody 1 be my friend on I'm absolutely a nerd like I openly I openly admit that I'm a nerd I'm a I'm a person who likes history video games and comic books like I'm absolutely a nerd like ah I don't know why people think I'm cool I really I mean I do because I am.

56:25.13
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

56:39.80
Bruce Anthony
But I understand it I get it. But yeah people were like all all X is eventually they like so you you want to be friends I'm like no, you're a great guy I know I am but you know I don't think you're so great. So I don't want to be cool with you. Ah.

56:39.74
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

56:47.32
J. Aundrea
No, no yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, and now's just a and I was just too far gone like at this point we've been through too much to now be friends. That's dumb. Yeah.

56:56.77
Bruce Anthony
I Made a mistake. It was me I I made a mistake I have emotional trauma for my childhood. Yeah,, that's as I understand that I don't know why women don't understand that you know another thing I know I saw some I'm about to go on from the tangent I saw something the other day. And I was like I wholeheartedly agree with this and I know I know you're gonna feel a particular way about this women are always like guys should open up guys should share more gosh should open up guys should share more but when men do.

57:21.91
J. Aundrea
Inca.

57:31.72
J. Aundrea
Um.

57:34.20
Bruce Anthony
Women get turned off by that because they say they want the God to be in touch with his emotions but everything throughout her life has told her strong man Strong Man Strong Man Strong man. Don't talk about your problems.

57:39.82
J. Aundrea
A.

57:47.58
J. Aundrea
And.

57:51.73
Bruce Anthony
Man deals with it dies with a heart attack or a stroke at the age of 50 of sixty because he holding everything in but that's a strong man I my bestie hit me up the other day and was like how do you feel about women driving men and I was like ah.

57:55.33
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

58:06.33
Bruce Anthony
I Feel just fine about it because I don't have a car and most of the time women are driving me or I'm getting an uber or I'll drive their car occasionally but now and i' never like that's not no big deal to me you drive I drive. It's okay I don't like it and I was like I understand why you don't like it because you're used to your dad always driving your mom your mom never drives.

58:08.85
J. Aundrea
So.

58:16.55
J. Aundrea
You're right? great.

58:21.89
J. Aundrea
A.

58:25.80
Bruce Anthony
Used to that so that's what you equate as a strong mayor sometimes your dad might not want to drive. Maybe he might be tired. Maybe he went through it and y'all almost die in the car instead because he's sitting there trying to stay up because he's been driving for 10 hours and everybody else is sleeping and and.

58:27.18
J. Aundrea
Right.

58:41.14
Bruce Anthony
So women want women say that they want a man to share. But once a man shares they look at him completely different.

58:47.98
J. Aundrea
So I will say this 99.9 percent of people are unhealed. There is very few people that are healed everybody is carrying around some sort of emotional trauma and we're also carrying around our own biases and things like that.

58:53.78
Bruce Anthony
A.

59:07.15
J. Aundrea
Typically the woman that asks the man to open up is not the same woman that sees that vulnerability as a negative. It's when the man says well women want you to open up and then you open up and they they don't want to hear it because you open up to the wrong woman.

59:14.50
Bruce Anthony
A.

59:26.59
J. Aundrea
And I feel like you knew that like I feel like she has never given you safe space vibes. So.

59:27.73
Bruce Anthony
But if they ask okay but they asked they that's true, but they asked. Okay, why don't you ever talk All you want know what's going on his was going on that was too much were you asked you asked what was going on.

59:42.64
J. Aundrea
Right? right? And so now you know where you both stand and so now you got to make a decision and if and and if you choose to stay with somebody who is not as clearly not a safe space for you clearly doesn't care about your inner life.

59:47.47
Bruce Anthony
And and that decision is okay.

01:00:01.34
Bruce Anthony
Right? But most most men most men when they open up I've long since gotten past this long since gotten past this I am who I am luckily I grew up in a family with tough dudes who were men who also cried.

01:00:01.68
J. Aundrea
Then that's on you.

01:00:09.64
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

01:00:16.21
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yes.

01:00:20.80
Bruce Anthony
Over Happy moments I can't think of a man in my family that didn't cryp over a happy moment and these are tough dudes so you can't say that they were some weak asked men. They weren't that so I never had a problem. There was never a question of my masculinity just by being vulnerable.

01:00:24.84
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yes now.

01:00:37.35
J. Aundrea
Right.

01:00:39.28
Bruce Anthony
And my boys. She's always joke on us joke on me like why are you always asking me how I'm doing because man like how are you doing you? Good man. Don't worry about that I'm good I was like all right will' be the 1 time I don't ask and then something happens and because I've had that in my life too. So I'm always gonna ask but also.

01:00:44.96
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

01:00:47.99
J. Aundrea
Bread. Yeah yeah, yeah. Um, yeah.

01:00:58.65
Bruce Anthony
Um, be sharing too much so women that I date that is a common thingme except for one one cause I did open up to her but the common theme is you don't talk and I'd be like cause if I talk you ain't gonna want to hear it I know who you are I know what you could take and what you can't take you think you think you want this I know.

01:01:06.71
J. Aundrea
Um.

01:01:12.95
J. Aundrea
Right. You right.

01:01:18.64
Bruce Anthony
You can't handle that you want this, you want to stay in this lane and that's cool I can stay in that lane I don't need to talk to you.

01:01:23.69
J. Aundrea
And that's also a conversation like when and this is for anybody because this it goes both ways right? Typically men don't ask women to open up women just open up and then and they don't want to hear it.

01:01:37.60
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, when just open up.

01:01:41.82
J. Aundrea
But if you do have a partner that asks you to open up, ask them What does that look like to you What does me opening up look like to you because yeah because if me opening up.

01:01:46.78
Bruce Anthony
Oh that's good I Never even thought of that.

01:01:56.73
J. Aundrea
Is me literally bearing all of my wounds. But for you, it's me just telling you about my day and including you in my day to day life then we need to get on the same page about that.

01:02:06.57
Bruce Anthony
You know what? not I think about that I think most of the time when women was like you don't talk. They just wanted to hear about my day to day life and the superficial stuff like what did you do today and I want to just say the same thing I did yesterday my days don't change.

01:02:14.60
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, but it's about it's more about you proactively and colluding them and not.

01:02:23.13
Bruce Anthony
There was nothing that happened.

01:02:30.29
J. Aundrea
A reaction to them asking. You. How was your day include me in your life but that you think about daily contacting them on your own and saying here's what I did today here's what I'm thinking about doing tomorrow. Would you like to go here this weekend and including people in your day-to-day life.

01:02:48.67
Bruce Anthony
Those are those are 3 completely different things that you lumped in into 1 thing you're so you're talking about talking about how my day was one how my what my day looks like tomorrow to do you want to have plans 3

01:03:06.30
J. Aundrea
Yeah, it's called a conversation. It usually involves several different topics.

01:03:08.34
Bruce Anthony
Mostly no, you're no, but there are different layers to that one is talking about how my day went one is talking about what I have planned tomorrow what my next day looks like and another one is hey do you want to get together 1 and two don't.

01:03:15.78
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

01:03:24.13
J. Aundrea
Yeah, it's called and no, it's but these are all parts of your life and and it's also including that person in or your life most of the time when people are like open up and talk is open up.

01:03:27.49
Bruce Anthony
1 and 2 don't include 3

01:03:43.73
J. Aundrea
Comma and talk like their talk like I just want to be clear that I'm not saying open up by talking but open up and also talk so they're they're talking about including them actively in your life.

01:03:46.89
Bruce Anthony
If.

01:04:02.95
J. Aundrea
They're not talking about share with me your mother wound like nobody's talking about that. Let's do shadow work together. Nobody they probably not talking about that.

01:04:05.78
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, most people most people don't even know what their shadow is most people don't know what their wounds from their childhood are because most people ain't out here going to therapy like this shit.

01:04:17.80
J. Aundrea
Right? because 99.9 percent of people are unhealed so when they're asking you to open up. They're not talking about that what they're talking about is the tie to getting the WYD text and that's really all that the good morning good night w I d and that's really all that they get from you.

01:04:27.97
Bruce Anthony
Um, if a.

01:04:35.57
Bruce Anthony
That that's the text that text.

01:04:37.67
J. Aundrea
They're talking about include me include me in your life include me in your daily life by telling me what's going on and including me in decisions you make and like let's be a couple in that way because otherwise we're just 2 people who know each other.

01:04:44.80
Bruce Anthony
Ah.

01:04:55.70
J. Aundrea
And and mess around sometimes like other than we're not in a relationship in a relationship we have to relate to each other. Yeah yeah, you know it consistently.

01:04:59.38
Bruce Anthony
Right? Yeah, that's true. You J you drop some Jewels on here What you go to Therapy or some and maybe we should? yeah but we should do it there.

01:05:15.80
J. Aundrea
Consistently. Yeah and I know that I'm not prepared to do any of the things that I've said which is why I'm not in a relationship currently because um I already know I already know what you're looking for I know I am not in a position to give it to you because I don't want to and therefore.

01:05:19.94
Bruce Anthony
And.

01:05:34.67
J. Aundrea
But not be dating you period Yeah I'm toxic but I'm toxic on my own you know I'm saying like I already know I'm toxic. No I'm toxic So I'm toxic on my own. Yeah I don't spread it around.

01:05:34.69
Bruce Anthony
Um, childhood trauma childhood trauma I assist.

01:05:43.00
Bruce Anthony
No I don't know what you're saying Okay, okay, okay you be gaslight you be gaslight and stuff like that. Yeah know I remember you as kids growing up and I know who you are Yeah, that's that's who you are.

01:05:53.22
J. Aundrea
I Try not to spread it around. Yeah I try not spread that around know.

01:06:02.00
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, all right Jay what do you want to tell the people out there.

01:06:08.29
J. Aundrea
If I didn't use your name. Just shut up like just sit back and mind your business because I didn't use your name. You didn't have to out yourself if I am not using your name. You can just ignore me.

01:06:15.68
Bruce Anthony
Ah.

01:06:33.61
J. Aundrea
Like you've been ignoring our child who whatever your neighbor is sir.

01:06:33.97
Bruce Anthony
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01:06:53.52
J. Aundrea
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Bruce Anthony
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