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March 10, 2023

The Sibling Happy Hour With Bruce Anthony and J. Aundrea: Humanities, Healthcare, and 90s Movies

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Unsolicited Perspectives

In this episode of "Unsolicited Perspectives," Bruce Anthony and J. Aundrea cover a wide range of topics, from their shared history as siblings to the decline of humanities in colleges and universities. Along the way, they discuss medical tourism in Mexico, capitalism and healthcare costs, and the importance of creative thinking and decision making skills. They also take a break from more serious topics to chat about some classic movies from the 90s. It's a fun and engaging conversation that touches on some of the most pressing issues of our time, as well as some nostalgic favorites from the past.  Beat Provided By https://freebeats.io  Produced By White Hot

Thank you for tuning in to 'Unsolicited Perspectives.' We hope you enjoyed this episode featuring unique and authentic views on current events, social-political topics, race, class, and gender. Stay engaged with us as we continue to provide insightful commentary and captivating interviews. Join us on this journey of exploration and thought-provoking conversations, and remember, your perspective matters!

Transcript

00:03.34
Bruce Anthony
On today's episode is the sibling happy hour I'm here with my sister j and dreer we're going to be talking about english and history fallen by of wayside kidnappings in Mexico and a continuation of brother and sister day. But first thanks first.

00:26.31
Bruce Anthony
What up says what is it? what's going on how you living.

00:28.42
J. Aundrea
Yeah, what a brother I You know what I'm doing real well and I'mma tell you why I got at I hour you an apology.

00:40.40
Bruce Anthony
Oh ah, look ladies and gentlemen my sister about to apologize. Let's stop the presses but go ahead. Do you think.

00:44.69
J. Aundrea
Okay, first of all relax I do apologize I don't know what this thing is that people like Johnna doesn't apologize I apologize.

00:52.80
Bruce Anthony
You put your full government out there again you you but it don't matter if they look on our instagrams they're gonna find us but this is back to back weeks.

00:59.20
J. Aundrea
It's not full of government. You know what? it's not my full I never say my last name so it's fine. Yeah, but I'd never say our last name so it's 5 and any way. Honestly, you could find you can a cursory Google you can find me, it's nothing.

01:07.33
Bruce Anthony
You put yours and our brothers government names out there. That's true and okay, all right? So what you apologize for.

01:20.58
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah, is you've got us.

01:25.27
J. Aundrea
Ah, we had a slight debate I don't remember if this was on the show or on the after show. Um, but our brother said he heard it on the podcast. So it must have been on the show because I don't think I said that the best trail mix chips.

01:34.86
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

01:44.84
J. Aundrea
Thing was the checks mix cheddar and you and you said absolutely not. It's munchies and so I bought a bag of munchies and damn it the Dorito Sunship Cheeto pretzel combination.

01:47.60
Bruce Anthony
That's what you said.

02:02.82
Bruce Anthony
I Told you.

02:04.15
J. Aundrea
it's it's heavenly it is I gotta be honest with you. It's heavenly and I was at the grocery store today and I saw the checks mix and I was like no why because I had a bag of munchies and they're all right? so.

02:16.90
Bruce Anthony
Look look. Let me say some during the pandemic Costco would sell what size bag is that that you have it's like how many ounce is like okay so that's a.

02:21.62
J. Aundrea
Appreciate that I appreciate you putting me on.

02:29.70
J. Aundrea
I have an eight ounce bag

02:34.78
Bruce Anthony
That's a bigger one. That's the bigger 1 right? It costs like $5 or something like that. No, that's the small size. The medium size is something like twelve ounces right is a twelve ounce bag at Costco they got like a twenty five ounce bag

02:36.29
J. Aundrea
No, this one cost like $3 It's like the medium size. Okay. Oh Hell I like her.

02:53.12
Bruce Anthony
And during the at the during a pandemic I would go I would go to the one in Northeast the Costco in Northeast because they said a liquor the liquor I would stocker I would stock up on a liquor and I would get 2 bags in the muchies and I was thinking to myself. Well I know the liquor's gonna last me at least a month

03:00.12
J. Aundrea
A the law.

03:10.95
J. Aundrea
M.

03:12.60
Bruce Anthony
Typically non pandemicdeming time. It would last me two months but pandemic well I wasn't depressed ah I was free but I was bored. So so when I'm bored I'm going I'm going tend to reach for the bottle.

03:16.82
J. Aundrea
You home you home and you are slightly depressed. Yeah.

03:27.12
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, no.

03:32.11
Bruce Anthony
Didn't none of them last me for two months right the bag of munchies lasted two weeks and the liquor lasted a month I would I'm surprised the last two days that normally is a sitting for me like on a Saturday night if I'm not doing nothing.

03:36.40
J. Aundrea
Yeah, this bag lasted two days

03:50.00
Bruce Anthony
Hey I'm gonna pick a I'm gonna pick a funny Tv show or a funny movie and I'm gonna put the look now let me tell you some his it here's a little. What did they call it um cheatco. It's not a cheat code but it's some else is this good a life hack. Damn it.

04:03.61
J. Aundrea
Okay, right? Yeah, um.

04:06.98
Bruce Anthony
You would think I would figure that out life hack here's a life hack. You get the munchies and then you get you some smart pop Popcor Smart Pop Smart pop the original and then you get you some trail mix and you put that in a big trough.

04:20.12
J. Aundrea
Okay.

04:25.60
J. Aundrea
You mentioned this you mentioned this okay that it well that's that's 1 thing is it's not smart. Pop is smart food that white cheddter popcorn and the black bag now that I'll sit there and eat that whole bag.

04:27.63
Bruce Anthony
And that's a good evening. That's that's the.

04:42.20
Bruce Anthony
Ah, you like me like smart food I like smart pop.

04:45.30
J. Aundrea
I like it you get the you get the white cheddar. It's a bit becomes a paste on your finger well actually from um oh shoot What was that show lady Holk She Holk That's it I started eating it.

04:48.54
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, it does.

04:57.12
Bruce Anthony
She hawk Yeah not lady hawk.

05:04.77
J. Aundrea
With chopsticks I started eating it with chop she was eating cheetos with chopsticks I Also do that. Um I mean it's just smart. You don't get this stuff all of your hands smart. No your hands are disgusting. Don't They's touching your.

05:13.10
Bruce Anthony
But part of part of the joy is licking the stuff off your hands. No, you wash your hands before the first of all I wash my hands before I eat anything anyway.

05:23.27
J. Aundrea
Um, well yeah, but you touching your phone you touching the remote you touch you touch us thought your hands are gross I mean I always feel like I can't wash my hands enough. My hands are gross.

05:29.74
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, you write about there I think the grossest thing out of the 3 things that you said when you said your your phone you're remote and you said something else, but let's just stick with those 2 things right? The grossest thing is the phone.

05:43.96
J. Aundrea
I Yeah yes, yeah well I wipe mine down I do take an antibacterial white and occasionally wipe my phone down you know why you you mess I get pink eye.

05:49.20
Bruce Anthony
Because the phone comes to the bathroom with me.

05:59.50
Bruce Anthony
Ah, let me knock on some wood now. Don't don't to don't give me no bad Juji ah wipe me down like me day.

06:04.69
J. Aundrea
Wipe your phone down after we filmed this go wipe your phone metric hold the gentleman wipe your phone down you nasty, you've been putting it on every time you go out somewhere you sit it down on a table. You just sit your phone anywhere and then you touch your face and you wonder why side of your face breaking out. Phone is nasty, watch your phone that that's true. Nobody no right bill I do but literally to call people over the age of 50 like that's our parents. It's just our parents like that's this to only to hope.

06:21.69
Bruce Anthony
1 hold on ain't nobody using it ain't anybody touching with their face cause dont nobody talk on the phone. No more what you talking about like a um.

06:39.63
J. Aundrea
This texting with people over 50 is just this too much. So.

06:42.33
Bruce Anthony
Ah, our mom and dad is pretty good at it though at texting I.

06:48.21
J. Aundrea
Dady don't ever apply fast enough I'm trying the hairbook it little sometimes I send down something and two days later I get an l lo. Well, it's just like is it's like a neglect my boyfriend. It's just really bad I'm like what are you been doing. You didn't see what I said it was.

06:54.77
Bruce Anthony
But what you've been what you've been doing at home.

07:06.70
J. Aundrea
Funny back then it's not funny now you bland l o well i's put you that six weeks ago now now I just call forget it.

07:10.33
Bruce Anthony
Um.

07:17.42
Bruce Anthony
Ah, ah yeah, well if my phone ring I look at it and then I look at the name and I'm like do I feel like doing this right now I And and only the thing that freaked me out.

07:26.73
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

07:33.12
Bruce Anthony
Is when Mom and dad will call in the middle of afternoon on a workday I'm like who died who died I just wanted it just wanted I just did mom cause his mom is Mom Mom does it I don't call mom in the middle of the day I like don't call me in the middle of the day.

07:37.54
J. Aundrea
If right mom is notorious. She's notorious for calling you in the middle of the day but this but I also call her in the middle of the day so I can't even get I do.

07:52.79
Bruce Anthony
Just to say hi wait until normal hours cause my heart's gonna stop as soon as I see your one time mom called me like nine o'clock in the morning and I was like I know somebody is dead right now. Just just want to say hi just want to hear your voice I'm like but don't do that somebody died.

07:53.69
J. Aundrea
If.

08:02.10
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, will do that lead. That's yeah, that's no, that's true.

08:11.74
Bruce Anthony
Somebody died. Oh.

08:17.79
J. Aundrea
No I will call I will and I'll sit here and we'll both be on our computers working on Facetime and I just like to listen to her gossip about you know co-workers and stuff like that. Yeah yes I love I love when they talk about work.

08:28.28
Bruce Anthony
You know Mom can do that mom and dad both they.

08:37.45
J. Aundrea
Dad always got some story that he just got some story and the best storyteller I've ever heard in my life is our father. He could tell a story and I mean you got the exposition rising action. The climax denouement. Like that. Everything is perfect. He is a perfect bell curve and the story arc that he tells and your ear on the edge of your seat the whole time. There's jokes sprinkled throughout. You get a house laugh every 2 minutes like it's top.

09:09.65
Bruce Anthony
Um, if the tretor.

09:16.63
J. Aundrea
Tier top tier that thing about one hit So The the printers the printers somebody in his office ordered printers and they were for everybody in the office and they were real cheap when they were real cheap because they were huge and tests that's the day. How big is that printer. The same as our printer at Home. He's yeah if you put one next to it and 2 more on Top. Ah and he sent me a picture of a ruler standing up next to that printer on his desk I almost die have the best.

09:36.38
Bruce Anthony
I.

09:55.31
J. Aundrea
Time'm talking to our parents on the following The best time Mom is from Gossip Dad you gonna get a hilarious story about his day and yes I love talking to our parents I you know I feel I I always feel bad for people who don't have.

09:56.64
Bruce Anthony
Ah, ah how who.

10:04.80
Bruce Anthony
Ah I made my face hurt.

10:14.69
J. Aundrea
Good relationships with their parents. You know I mean it's not like we don't have ups and downs with our parents but we can give them a call and you know they're still here. They're still relatively healthy. Um, so we're really blessed in that in that regard.

10:29.31
Bruce Anthony
Near we are at the day they are.

10:33.61
J. Aundrea
Parents are hilarious if you wonder where we come from like how why do these 2 random siblings think that they can have a podcast and it actually works because it's because of them because of them.

10:46.40
Bruce Anthony
It's because of them because of them. Oh God So much childhood trauma so much so much.

10:52.16
J. Aundrea
And childhood trauma. Yeah, but it makes the funniest people.

11:02.66
Bruce Anthony
Oh goodness how how the hell did they have 3 kids when they was both 27 years old how and broke broke broke.

11:09.88
J. Aundrea
Right? and and broke yeah um, um how BROO o o o o o e okay

11:20.50
Bruce Anthony
That now what was that word did you use then the guton. What was that word you used? Yeah okay well speaking a dellu Ma you sent me an article.

11:26.45
J. Aundrea
Oh they knew more.

11:38.52
J. Aundrea
So what I love that segue but go ahead. Um, ah.

11:40.40
Bruce Anthony
Way.

11:47.60
Bruce Anthony
That's what we do here. We do We do ah good transitional Segways That's that's how we do this over here at unsolicit.

11:49.61
J. Aundrea
Yeah, we typically know we typically have very abrupt seggues.

11:56.92
Bruce Anthony
No, that's not true I'm always planning for the segue just sometimes you get longwinded and I forget because it's it's the sibling Happy hour. So I get a little happy the longer the show goes cause I'm sipping on the scissor not technically scissor I'm not sipping on no scissor. Ah.

12:01.99
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, like yes, that would be me I am but yeah and.

12:14.64
Bruce Anthony
But you know you not Anyway, so you send me an article about basically English and history majors which we both are and we never used it. But.

12:27.41
J. Aundrea
Yes, we're using it now this podcast I feel like we're using it in a way. Yeah, they get.

12:32.82
Bruce Anthony
What are we? Oh? Okay, all right I Guess so um, but those those majors are going by the wayside Now you send me the article. Ah, so go ahead break it down for the people out there. What's really going on out there in the world when it comes to angles and history majors.

12:46.34
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

12:53.12
J. Aundrea
So it's an article. Ah well is actually 2 different was it 2 different articles. Well there's one in the new yorker the end of the english major and basically and I think I sent you one from the New York Times also talking about.

13:07.80
Bruce Anthony
No, you send me the one from the New Yorker because I had to join I had to join to be able to read the whole thing look they gonna stop behind these paywalls look give me a little some some you know we? oh.

13:09.61
J. Aundrea
I Think that was an opinion. Okay, well there was on um that nobody is actually getting the physical copy of the newspaper or the news magazine Nobody's getting that anymore.

13:26.46
Bruce Anthony
Not unless they moving. That's the only time I get some newspaper is when I'm moving to stuff it is for the boxes there and them kids and them kids is using newspaper to wrap a books do they still do that. Okay.

13:29.19
J. Aundrea
Right? right? I mean this nobody's doing it. You know so it's fine. No nobody does that I don't know what year you think this is but no, no one does that? um.

13:43.38
Bruce Anthony
All right, go ahead.

13:48.48
J. Aundrea
But yeah, it parted from actually an opinion piece that was in the New York Times and I kind of spilled over and I was reading and ended up on the new yorker and is basically the death of the humanities in in colleges even liberal arts colleges I mean.

14:00.42
Bruce Anthony
Are.

14:07.68
J. Aundrea
They're um, they're finding that enrollment and not even tied to anything like not even tied to the economy or anything like that enrollment is just down for the humanities everywhere and of course. When you think of the humanities I think a lot of people immediately think of the english major and think of a bunch of people reading books and sweaters with patches on the elbows and you're not wrong. Yeah, you're not wrong. You think ah, a liberal arts college you think of like Sarah Lawrence or

14:32.81
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah I think dead Poet society.

14:43.16
J. Aundrea
Some Bassar so polite to have yes.

14:44.50
Bruce Anthony
Ah, is Sarah Lawrence is that a real college. Okay because Sarah Lawrence was a character on arrow. She was a black canary. But anyway.

14:50.84
J. Aundrea
Yeah, that's not who the cop just faced at at all. Not who not who the college is based on dog but um, but you you have a lot of kids that they were interviewing I call them kids. But.

14:55.48
Bruce Anthony
Okay, you know as only Sarah Lawrence I know but but go ahead, go go ahead

15:10.60
J. Aundrea
You know college you kids y'all are kids in my in my mind. Um, if I'm old enough to be your mama you a kid. So so they you know they were saying you know I like I I like to write I like to read but you know stem.

15:10.70
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah.

15:27.90
Bruce Anthony
Near.

15:29.81
J. Aundrea
Business economic These are the majors that we're going for these are the ones we think will make us the make us the money right? Um, which is actually is is not true like the data doesn't show that English Majors make less money.

15:37.52
Bruce Anthony
I Mean they ain't wrong.

15:48.83
J. Aundrea
We have more in loans and it takes us longer to pay them off with you. That's right I did so we got less loans longer to pay them off. That's right? Yes, Um, but what people are forgetting.

15:49.15
Bruce Anthony
No, it said you had less loans but it takes you longer to pay him off see you ain't even reading.

15:59.80
Bruce Anthony
Right.

16:08.39
J. Aundrea
Ah so important about the humanities and why even with this story and a lot of colleges mulling over the idea of cutting the humanities. Um, because of my moment. Yeah, it just boggles my mind. You know when you.

16:16.80
Bruce Anthony
Which is incredible.

16:26.94
J. Aundrea
When you study something like business or accounting because you know I love to get on accountants I don't know why I don't know what I don't know what about this podcast happened in I don't know what I don't know what has got me in accountant's asses. But it's I truly.

16:33.70
Bruce Anthony
Now Don't put it on this podcast. This is you This is you situation.

16:44.46
Bruce Anthony
Our dad is basically an accountant right? Our brother is basically an accountant now what you did what they doing account for some money accountant. That's what it is.

16:44.65
J. Aundrea
Have no problem with accountants I don't know why I do this? Yeah, Ah yeah, he's a finance Man. He's a that. Never when I was a kid. Ah yeah, yes, yes, he did Yes, That's true. Yeah. They did looking at numbers at the Mo maybe's contracted maybe Divided. We don't know. Yeah, you're doing a lot of work on excel sheets. Maybe a calculator is involved. Maybe you're beyond that but you study things like business and accounting.

17:04.28
Bruce Anthony
Look at that number now they ain't doing that that they just punch the numbers in the spreadsheet.

17:14.92
Bruce Anthony
But.

17:22.86
J. Aundrea
You know for example and you're not necessarily reinventing the wheel right? You're just learning how the wheel works and and all of its different iterations. But when you have something like like you like an Historian right. You're not just learning how the wheel works. But when did it start and why right somebody like our younger brother who's a political scientist is looking at what the wheel is working for and for whom you have English majors that are also looking at the why like. What you learn in the humanities is how to think creatively That's one of the one of the things critically and creatively. It's it's critical thought and creative thought.

18:06.52
Bruce Anthony
Or critically.

18:15.58
J. Aundrea
And one of the things that has really helped me in my career and one of the things I've really been known for is innovative process creation like but thinking about Okay, how can we make this better in the most efficient way or in a way that we haven't thought about before and I got that these unique.

18:29.61
Bruce Anthony
A.

18:35.71
J. Aundrea
Approaches the problem solvers I got that because the fact that the fact that at my graduation from College Dan said I thought she was just doing book reports because no.

18:52.14
Bruce Anthony
Um, book report for the catholics Dead Sir Excuse me.

18:55.27
J. Aundrea
No, because the Dean got up and explained what the english major was that is a research and analysis concentration.

19:03.22
Bruce Anthony
Excuse me.

19:09.94
Bruce Anthony
A.

19:12.77
J. Aundrea
Right? And that's what it. That's what we're doing is research and analysis at dashset. That's what you've been doing. Don't you do a book course why But what would that it not only teaches research skills analytical skills.

19:20.95
Bruce Anthony
Um.

19:24.47
Bruce Anthony
Ah, wow.

19:31.14
J. Aundrea
Critical thought creative thought but comprehension a lot of people can read a lot of people can't comprehend what they read, you know? So I think I think the humanities have done a bad job of marketing itself. You know stem.

19:36.71
Bruce Anthony
A.

19:49.94
J. Aundrea
Guess out there and markets to so hey learn Yeah tech.

19:50.10
Bruce Anthony
Also well stem is connected to technology and like think about it what we majored in are two the courses most of the time in high school kids hate right? like.

20:04.80
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

20:08.16
Bruce Anthony
And nobody liked English and history classes. What one I personally didn't like any classes. It's okay, personally didn't like any classes but when we got into English and I talked about it on my talking straight ish.

20:10.10
J. Aundrea
I Loved it.

20:15.92
J. Aundrea
But same earth.

20:25.52
Bruce Anthony
With Bruce Anthony that you can find on our Patreon page ah Plug Plug Plug Plug plug and I talked about ah when we got to the Shakespeare english class I was through I was like yeah you can go is if we if we reading and doing book reports. Alright I mean this is born but at least I can like fake my way through this.

20:28.17
J. Aundrea
Plug Play Play plug plug play

20:45.44
Bruce Anthony
But with Shakespeare like I could barely speak regular english you don't throw shakespearean english in there with me like I I but.

20:50.41
J. Aundrea
But what you. But once you understand it. It's really funny like there's a reason why Shakespeare is performed throughout the world is translated in all these languages and it's been enduring one because he was black but 2

21:07.33
Bruce Anthony
Wait a minute was who where you get that that opinion from well they that's what they say by Abraham Lincoln he was the first black president.

21:11.73
J. Aundrea
Um, that's my personal opinion. Small personal opinion is that this kind of bit of rumors always's been out there.

21:22.22
J. Aundrea
And listen I seen pitches old a he looked like the Kimba matumbo to me just put it out there up there.

21:25.63
Bruce Anthony
Hey no, he did look like no damn kid va toughle. So so they're so there's basically saying that you know kids just not choosing those as their majors anymore.

21:44.18
J. Aundrea
Now they're they're choosing Ah, but I think it's not a reflection of the major itself I think it's a reflection of the lack of marketing like you gotta get out there and let them know what exactly you're gonna be doing.

21:53.74
Bruce Anthony
I have.

22:01.00
J. Aundrea
If you major in English If you major in history If you major in philosophy where can go where you can do research and analytics there is in in research and analytics.

22:02.14
Bruce Anthony
Okay, what let's talk about that now. What can you do with those majors where's the money in that. Where's it.

22:18.97
J. Aundrea
You got business Analyst Data analysts Data Science all types of stuff.

22:20.50
Bruce Anthony
But you do that and if you go to business if you go through the business round and you go through a business major you you get to that point.

22:27.12
J. Aundrea
Right? But what are you losing that you're getting the critical thinking and decision making skills but are you gaining but are you gaining creative thought to be innovative this.

22:32.11
Bruce Anthony
When are they not getting the critical thinking.

22:38.58
Bruce Anthony
Well, you know, not everybody has creative thought right? There's a reason why people are artists and statisticians right? like.

22:43.93
J. Aundrea
But I mean yeah I mean what's major is for the people who would be interested in the English major yeah.

22:51.28
Bruce Anthony
Well it also that had the the mental makeup of somebody that could process that type of stuff like just because I want to paint don't mean I can be a painter.

22:58.85
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah, right I let me tell you I can't I did a painting sip once now just disregard The fact that alcohol was involved but it didn't turn out great. It was.

23:09.59
Bruce Anthony
It was no look I did a pain by numbers look I did a pain by numbers and the shit still didn't turn out great. Yeah well now. Okay, the pain by numbers did it was gonna turn out great.

23:15.77
J. Aundrea
Bad but it wasn't great I'm not up to be the that mosquiat really not even that number.

23:28.86
Bruce Anthony
But I didn't realize how many numbers it was going to be and how many different numbers it was going to be right when I got it man it was like 23 different numbers. No, but no, but the 23 different numbers weren't in it was like 23 different numbers corresponded with a specific color.

23:34.20
J. Aundrea
Was it. That's not a lot I thought you were going to say like 200

23:48.53
Bruce Anthony
But they weren't like 23 numbers in 1 spot. So I could just focus in on that one spot it was like oh I need to. It's 23 right here and and 15 I got to dip it into glass I was like oh this is real time consuming I don't I want to do this no more.

23:51.73
J. Aundrea
Yes.

23:59.65
J. Aundrea
Yeah, everything is not quick. Yeah.

24:02.98
Bruce Anthony
I didn't I didn't need it to be I wasn't paying the wall I didn't need it to be quick right? but I needed to not be so cumbersome. But anyway um I think really I think Okay, if you're gonna if these colleges want to market the humanities they need to market how much money and in what jobs that you can actually.

24:09.22
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah.

24:19.35
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

24:22.44
Bruce Anthony
Be successful like people entering in for one to me major in economics like what the hell you gonna do with that and I got a friend who majored in economics he but like yo you throw throwing me under the busess like like right.

24:29.70
J. Aundrea
Running. I mean I conduct such a broad thing then I think people think english major okay so you just study in Shakespeare all the time. No my concentration was actually a race class gender and sexuality studies. So every yes so of course.

24:48.85
Bruce Anthony
Um, that sounds about right.

24:54.53
J. Aundrea
Thing that I read in the courses that I took were geared in some way towards that. So no yeah I believe to think I took a Shakespeare class I think I completely avoided it. Ah.

25:03.47
Bruce Anthony
Well no that and you don't do Shakespeare in college that's high school. Oh.

25:08.98
J. Aundrea
No, there was a there was a full course on Shakespeare and it is much more in depth than what you're doing in high school because again, we're not doing. We're not doing book reports. Yeah oh you, you take maybe 3 or 4 of his plays.

25:14.60
Bruce Anthony
You know what class I wouldn't have been taken. Okay, right dad we're not doing book reports.

25:28.80
J. Aundrea
And then you talk about something that occurred in society and you're pulling from the plays to substantiate your argument right? So I'm talking about um I don't know just making some shit stuff up. Um, you know.

25:41.51
Bruce Anthony
I Already said that's where so it don't matter I said it earlier see that that lets me know the junior pay just to what the hell I'm saying.

25:46.67
J. Aundrea
Yeah, you wouldn't you say it I mean no it lets you know that I cuss so much that I do not realize when cursing is happening around me. Um, but if I'm talking about you know. Ah, seventeenth Century english arist aristocracy and then I use 3 of his plays to talk about the aristocracy of that time but that's what I'm doing I'm I'm taking the works and appliant you're not doing that in high school. You're writing a book report. But the professor doesn't want you to recite the book that they spent their whole life studying back to them. They already know what the book is about they want to know what do you think about it and how does it apply to some larger ideal and society or culture or I've always wanted to say this word. In conversation and now I get to the zeitgeist. So. It's like this. No I think zucchini.

26:47.33
Bruce Anthony
Up and the in that a food ah menu or some now is ze ghost is that in America food. Ah.

26:57.62
J. Aundrea
It's not a like ghost but which sounds like a german ghost. Yeah, yeah, we don't talk about because he was into some things in the early nineteenth century. Yeah.

27:00.27
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah, yeah, it was casper's cousin on his ah on the other side.

27:11.51
Bruce Anthony
Who um, okay I mean I mean I would do a comment about history and being a history major but that was over twenty years ago and I honestly don't remember a whole lot. But um.

27:13.64
J. Aundrea
Yeah, so. And Ma. .

27:26.29
Bruce Anthony
I Know there were some classes that I really liked and some classes that didn't and if I was going to change my focus because for some strange I know what it was. It was my ego. My focus in history was Eastern European History Why because that was the most challenging actually Russian history would have been the most challenging.

27:34.86
J. Aundrea
And. Again.

27:45.76
Bruce Anthony
Just playing straight up but Eastern European history is in that's included right? So ah if I could do it all over again. My favorite course was American history from reconstruction through the civil rights movement.

27:48.17
J. Aundrea
Yes.

28:03.48
J. Aundrea
Sarah.

28:04.70
Bruce Anthony
And I was like you know this is dope I even liked the class before that um where it did the colonies to reconstruction. Ah, but that was like that was like okay this is my this is my niche. You know this is this is what I really.

28:13.36
J. Aundrea
And you.

28:21.41
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, it is funny because I liked stuff around that time. Ah a lot of I took a great class about women's writing in the Antebellum South and ended up.

28:22.21
Bruce Anthony
Really failing.

28:36.80
J. Aundrea
Find it. It ended up reading a memoir of a white woman who owned slaves ah danteac who is actually we have a cousin Eleanor danteac rest piece. Ah, who is also from Georgia. And likely was owned by that family and so I ended up doing an interview with eleanor and playing it for my professor who you know loved me of course because it's like oh my god we we? Ah. We we actually have like a real tangible tie in to this book that you're reading? Yeah um, but I don't know it's just like I said I think you can't have everybody as everybody can't be a scientist. Everybody can't be a business owner. Everybody can't be a a god damn accountant you need some people.

29:11.99
Bruce Anthony
Right.

29:30.86
J. Aundrea
Some creative people somewhere and you need to nurture that in people and to lose out on the humanities just because of poor marketing I think is just terrible and I'm so I'm sorry but I've made a great career from my degree and I've never had. Any employer say English Oh no, we can do with that? No I've never had that happen to me So ah, go school like go school I don't know.

30:03.75
J. Aundrea
Do better colleges. Do better. Do better reaching out to these kids and letting them know what these majors are really about and what they can really do to contribute.

30:13.20
Bruce Anthony
The the greatest thing that ever happened to me to my major and it was actually a ah ah major insult and I realized I could see the person for who they were and I was applying for a job and they gave them my resume and they were like.

30:25.70
J. Aundrea
In school.

30:30.82
Bruce Anthony
Oh Bruce I didn't know you had a history degree I didn't know you were smart wait. What.

30:34.96
J. Aundrea
Yeah, absolutely just no, you didn't know you did not what does that Even mean.

30:43.23
Bruce Anthony
Exactly.

30:55.98
Bruce Anthony
Ah says so you said the other article that you sent me that you wanted to talk about is that kidnapping in Mexico I have a slightly different take on all of that. But you sent me the the article had a different spin on it.

30:56.91
J. Aundrea
Um, and.

31:00.61
J. Aundrea
In uhu.

31:11.17
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

31:13.61
Bruce Anthony
And I was like oh this is an interesting take and I never thought about it in this way I Still there's still so my side of it that I'll get to later but go ahead and break down for the folks. What was basically the the standpoint that you were coming from as represented in this article.

31:21.32
J. Aundrea
You.

31:32.47
J. Aundrea
Yeah, so um, as I'm sure most of America knows right now. Um for americans were traveling into Mexico one was going there for a tummy tuck. Um, and shortly. After they were when they were driving through a border town maamuros Mexico and in a minivan when a gunman began open fire on them. 1 person was killed. Um, um, a bystander a mexican bystander was also killed. Another person was shot in the leg.

32:07.86
Bruce Anthony
Ah, out of the 4 people that were taken 2 were killed one was shot in the leg a bystander. It was a bystander was here. No by. Ah yeah, bystander was a bystander. Yes, a bystander was hit and then one person was untouched.

32:13.82
J. Aundrea
So we were ill. Yes, oh.

32:23.70
Bruce Anthony
But 2 of those 2 of those 4 people that traveled together were killed and 1 got one got a flesh wound.

32:29.23
J. Aundrea
Yeah I believe it was 3 men and a woman and the woman was going down there. Ah for a Tommy talk. The leading theory is that they were mistaken for haitian smugglers. Um.

32:39.94
Bruce Anthony
Well never.

32:44.98
J. Aundrea
But what this article in the in The New York Times kidnapping in Mexico draws attention to medical tourism industry and it was really interesting because um I know a lot of people who you know this is Atlanta Atlanta is. Sort of like a black l a in terms of the amount of plastic surgery. You have here. You know there's a lot of ash shots lot of breast augmentation and people are going.

33:05.29
Bruce Anthony
Of yeah. Okay.

33:20.30
J. Aundrea
To other countries to have these things done in stuff is these are elective procedures. They're not covered by insurance. So B know and heavy tugs Some of y'all not going to reputable people and some of yall looked like all your body went.

33:22.97
Bruce Anthony
Then Bbls and and so yeah.

33:38.12
Bruce Anthony
Um.

33:39.38
J. Aundrea
Below your waist and it don't there's a funny song on tiktokck these Bb ls killing'all and the thighs don't match and that is accurate. Some of y'all some yall need to look up the reviews on the people y'all going through. But they estimated about one point two million americans travel every year to Mexico Mexico being the um, the most commonplace destination people go to for all kinds of procedures bringing in about 5000000000 into Mexico pre pandemicdemic people are going down there for.

34:10.94
Bruce Anthony
Are.

34:16.50
J. Aundrea
Cheaper prescription you know medicine people going out for cancer treatments dental people getting their grills redone. You know.

34:20.42
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, that was what was surprising to me like I knew people were going down there for plastic surgery I know a couple of people that went down there for plastic surgery. But I heard about the meds like the meds are cheaper but like I didn't realize it was that prevalent.

34:35.91
J. Aundrea
Um, measuring her. Yes, then a word. No, it's real like.

34:39.53
Bruce Anthony
Um, the cancer treatments and the dental work like come on now y'all like people can't afford. no no no I mean like people can't afford dental work in America like how are.

34:50.48
J. Aundrea
You can, but it's cheaper. They have lower overhead costs down. There is cheaper sometimes you're doing it to get around some red tape or restrictions or something like that. It's just easier to pick up fly down drive down to Mexico. Have what you want to have done. The problem is it is largely unregulated. It is unregulated. They said it was the triple u untracked untraced unregulated. It is incredibly dangerous to do this because a lot of times there you're not having.

35:13.36
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

35:28.53
J. Aundrea
Any follow up with the you going down there. You having a procedure you shouldn't be flying because it opens you up to a risk of blood clots and these Bb ls is killing y'all y'all need to yall that don't match.

35:41.45
Bruce Anthony
Um, look I saw a girl in the gym the other day and it was clear that she had a bbl because it was just you know I'm a fitness professional so I can look at the body and be like I know what's real and what's not except for breast.

35:48.88
J. Aundrea
The.

35:55.63
J. Aundrea
Right.

35:56.76
Bruce Anthony
Most of the time I these breast implants then they've been perfecting it over the last fifty years and they have literally perfected it but these Bb ls are new and sometimes the bbls look fantastic I'm seen a couple of but like when your booty cheeks stick out so far but you.

36:06.99
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

36:15.23
Bruce Anthony
But your quad and hamstring is so small.

36:18.62
J. Aundrea
Yes, your thighs leave to matchch the ads that you are getting. You can't be standing on 2 bean stalks with a big all ass.

36:27.40
Bruce Anthony
And the the thing that I saw on the gym other day it was her ass was lapsed a lopsided like 1 was hide in the other and I was like oh baby it stopped me dead in my tracks in my while working out of the gym and if anybody was looking at me they may have thought I was looking at her ass and I was.

36:33.92
J. Aundrea
And yeah.

36:44.91
J. Aundrea
Yeah, got it that was looking as a medical professional now and and it's like you got to stick by it at that point because.

36:45.92
Bruce Anthony
But not in not in the manner of which they thought I was doing I was like I was like all sweetheart. That's that's what I said in my head all sweetheart like you pay for that now. Don't pay then get your money back. Youin' got a choice.

37:04.17
J. Aundrea
The revision surgery or whatever you need to fix. It is is gonna be another bill. So now you got but no, this is exactly how wanted it to look I wanted it to look like two hams. Two hams on a stick. This is how I envision this this is my this is the body I always wanted for myself. Okay, you can't and that's why these Bb ls are killing ah, ah.

37:21.77
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, and there are 2 hands on the stick oh stick I don't even know how you can hold the ham up on the stick.

37:38.87
Bruce Anthony
Um, like yeah so that article opened up and I know ah look medical cross in this country and our and our are our.

37:39.22
J. Aundrea
Ah, Theiums cannot be supported on two chopsticks.

37:49.95
J. Aundrea
Ridiculous. They're ridiculous.

37:55.20
Bruce Anthony
Our healthcare care system is just good god we are one of the well I would say we're one of the wealthiest countries but that's not really true because we are and so much debt. It's we so much debt. But we're supposed to be 1 of the richest countries in the world and ah 2 things.

38:06.20
J. Aundrea
Um, what.

38:09.75
J. Aundrea
Right.

38:14.20
Bruce Anthony
3 things should never be the case in this country. You should never have to worry about getting sick and not being able to take care of yourself should never have to worry about going hungry and you should never have to worry about not having a roof over your head. We have abundance of all 3 of those things.

38:21.25
J. Aundrea
In right.

38:34.13
Bruce Anthony
Um, don't get me started. No um I'm not gonna do it I was about to go on a tangent about some yeah I was about to go on it air. No I'm not gonna do it. Oh.

38:36.92
J. Aundrea
Know I saw I see the gears earning you you had sat up a little bit because you been kind of lounging in your seat and then all sudden you're readjusting you sitting up a little straighter.

38:49.98
Bruce Anthony
Where you know why I'm lounging right because I got rid of the chair I had too many is you notice I'm not talking so much of my hands anymore because my hands are by my sides So I got rid of the chair and I'm on this uncomfortable ass seat and my right butt cheek is falling asleep. So I'm slunched down.

38:55.17
J. Aundrea
Um, okay, okay, right.

39:04.80
J. Aundrea
Amazing.

39:07.48
Bruce Anthony
And putting a lot of pressure on my lower back, but that's neither here nor there if y'all want to know the tangent that I was about to go on I'm go on it on the after hours episode you can catch that on patreon.com backslash unsolicited perspectives. Um, yeah, no. So.

39:13.17
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah, boo Yeah Plug Unug plug.

39:24.17
Bruce Anthony
The health care system in this country is so horrible. The dental care system in this in this country is so horrible like okay so if you're poor in this country. You can't get on medicaid right? Older people can get medicare you if you're poor in this country and you're on Medicaid you can get a dental plan for your children.

39:32.97
J. Aundrea
MA.

39:42.25
J. Aundrea
Oh.

39:43.70
Bruce Anthony
There is a dental plan included in the medicaid for your children but not for you. So that's the reason why you got so many Jack jaw people out here in this world because they't go see a dentist regularly and.

39:48.67
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

39:57.29
J. Aundrea
The problem occurs when you're working class you had ah you make too much for medicaid but your job doesn't offer insurance so you have to purchase insurance out of pocket.

40:03.00
Bruce Anthony
E a.

40:14.81
J. Aundrea
And it's terrible insurance and it's expensive as hail.

40:15.48
Bruce Anthony
Yeah I mean we're not attacking obamacare right now are we? Okay, we got to be careful. Yeah yeah.

40:21.73
J. Aundrea
He did what he could do but let me tell you something these insurance companies and their lobbyists are mess now I did read some good news. United Health Care has decided to make insulin and something else.

40:38.94
Bruce Anthony
Okay, right right? I don't I don't even know how you can fight against making insulin cheaper because it costs so little to actually make.

40:40.76
J. Aundrea
Free but it should that it dust would he it and hell.

40:58.31
Bruce Anthony
Ah, even if you just make it cheaper. You're still gonna make a profit but that's capitalism. How.

40:59.94
J. Aundrea
Yeah I was that I was at the Pharmacy today I went to pick up I picked up 5 prescriptions. The lady in front of me was picking up insulin. And they were like do you? You know your copay is I think it was like two hundred and seventy dollars or something like that. No for that prescription for that insulin that she was picking up and that's generous I picked up 5 prescriptions I paid forty four cent and that's just because.

41:18.10
Bruce Anthony
What's that for a year a

41:27.94
Bruce Anthony
If.

41:32.48
J. Aundrea
My company offers a great insurance plan and this woman was trying to figure out how she was gonna get her insulin I mean it's trash. It's trash. It's company. That's country's I said this company and you know what I'm not wrong.

41:41.26
Bruce Anthony
But yeah, no.

41:51.35
J. Aundrea
I misspoke but guess what I was actually right this company who unite the United States of America I and yes is is is trash when it comes to taking care of his citizens. Don't.

41:55.44
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah, this country is a company incorporating. Yeah yeah, yeah.

42:05.61
Bruce Anthony
But that's what capitalism is that's the reason why I was That's reason why I leaned up. But.

42:10.10
J. Aundrea
Yeah, you got you got straight your shoulders went back I was like I thought you was flexing on me I was like wait a wait I'm Ah, yeah, yeah, yeah, wait a minute wait a damn minute.

42:17.87
Bruce Anthony
Now with we had a difference I mean we had a distance flexing I'm not gonna flex on my sister I love my sister. It's speaking of love for my siblings last week. We talked about and yeah I'm Goingnna segue because what I was gonna talk about.

42:28.85
J. Aundrea
4

42:36.21
Bruce Anthony
And that kidnapping I'm not gonna talk about it I'm not gonna give him I had let's move on less less less less's move on. Let's let's just move on but as well maybe I'll bring it up in the after hours. It needs to be unsensed.

42:47.22
J. Aundrea
Ah, all right I feel like I'm the mayor. Okay, okay, okay that there.

42:54.62
Bruce Anthony
Let's put it this way. It needs to be onen. Yeah that needs to be once? Um, but last week we talked about brother and sister day and this week from from that point to the sort the last week I've been fell down a little bit of a rabbit hole.

43:01.72
J. Aundrea
Yes.

43:13.69
Bruce Anthony
Thinking about the movies that we used to watch and I know I've been blowing up you and our brother on the group chat talking about 1 particular movie called class act now class act starts kitten play and kitten play did as far as I know 4 movies.

43:17.55
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yes, yes.

43:31.87
Bruce Anthony
House party 3 and 3 and class act and in my eyes house party 1 had always been the best kid in play movie in my eyes because it had Robin Harris right so it always it had always been the best kid in play movie. But as I'm watching just scenes.

43:38.31
J. Aundrea
Oh yeah, that.

43:48.85
J. Aundrea
Was my favorite comedian by the way. Yes, no, it was actually it was actually this joke he did on a standout. Oh ah, this Ah, this.

43:50.65
Bruce Anthony
Robin Harris okay well good baby kids.

44:05.12
J. Aundrea
Sick woman walked in late and she was wearing like a silver lamade dress. Okay, it's very shiny silver dress and he said what you doing coming to here late looking like a baked potato and I almost passed out I laughed. Oh Ah, and there was this joke about how he only wanted to date an ugly woman because you could tell anything said he said Bye Baver I'm going to the moon She was like you be careful.

44:24.99
Bruce Anthony
It.

44:44.20
Bruce Anthony
He might have a point he might have a point I might maybe I might find me a ugly woman you might have had a point. Um, but class act.

44:49.66
J. Aundrea
Um, let's drama if me be but at a point.

44:56.95
Bruce Anthony
I've been watching scenes from Youtube and this weekend I'm going to actually watch the full movie because I was like yo classic is freaking hilarious. It was. It was hilarious and 1994 and it's still it still hilarious now.

45:04.32
J. Aundrea
Is hilarious in it truly truly hilarious.

45:12.71
Bruce Anthony
And and it just got me thinking about all those movies that we used to watch I thought it was the same movies over and over again and in essence it was but it wasn't the same 3 movies that I thought we only watched over and over and over again. What like what other stuff.

45:23.87
J. Aundrea
No, we brought other stuff in there classic How was it? yeah.

45:31.17
Bruce Anthony
That was hold on it was above the rim see before fear to black hat class act baby base kids Um, what else.

45:40.63
J. Aundrea
Yeah bay base kids we did watch a lot. Yes, shout out to face on love and a great ah interpretation of of Robin Harris

45:53.89
Bruce Anthony
Interpretation or impression. Okay, we you the English major you would know you, you're the int linguist. The linguists see you would okay.

45:55.49
J. Aundrea
Impression interpretation I as a interpretation because here. Yeah I don't think he was trying to be Robin I think he was interpreting Robin through his performance. Yeah man that was it.

46:08.36
Bruce Anthony
What other movies did we watch though.

46:13.82
Bruce Anthony
But no.

46:16.77
J. Aundrea
Ah know what you digging for. We want playing movies over and over again. That was it. Oh we might have watched the golden child a couple times. Yes.

46:22.78
Bruce Anthony
So I thought we watched more than that. We definitely watched the golden child more than a couple of times and and Beverly Hills cop 3 we watched that numerous times.

46:34.20
J. Aundrea
Because I could literally quote that movie from start to finish yes, which I love all the Beverly Hills cops obviously for Beverly Hills cop 3 has a special place in my heart.

46:42.14
Bruce Anthony
Um, ah yes I you know people always could complain the beverly hills cop 3 is the worst of the 3 and I'm like no, you're not really watching the Eddie is hilarious.

46:52.59
J. Aundrea
no no Edie it's and and know stuff that clearly wasn't scripted like the little kids back and the fuck.

47:00.90
Bruce Anthony
The little kid the little kids saying if y'all don't know what I'm talking about I'm sure it's on Youtube type in Beverly Hills cop 3 and look kids seeing that little kids see is hilarious because you know.

47:09.54
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, yeah.

47:18.63
Bruce Anthony
That wasn't in script but and they just kept rolling.

47:18.88
J. Aundrea
Absolutely not and then they can't roll it and the death say sorry sorry that's ever I'm sorry Eddie Murphy a wonderw world top tier top. Yes, if you didn't.

47:31.11
Bruce Anthony
He ran up those stairs.

47:38.60
J. Aundrea
Think that that was top tier. You were not watching it once again.

47:39.20
Bruce Anthony
Well also me you me and my brother you me and our brother excuse me, you me and our brother like to find the small things that really make something funny where it was slip past most people most people would be like.

47:54.56
J. Aundrea
Yes.

47:58.81
Bruce Anthony
I Don't get it like well. How do you not get it How funny that is.

48:00.57
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah Axel I'm the new DD o j s I c

48:04.99
Bruce Anthony
The Chiji Jewelter see what's that like I'm sorry fuck.

48:12.42
J. Aundrea
Um, you I mean first of all what y'all also have to understand is half of the things that we say are quotes from movies and television.

48:20.96
Bruce Anthony
Ah, we have some people out there that absolutely get it because they reach out to me and I like I remember that that was funny and I'm like see that's that's the reason why you're a fan of the show because you get my humor. Yeah yeah, yes, um.

48:25.80
J. Aundrea
Yes, you get it. You get it. You get us when you were ready I television And. We just loved movies and television and it all just became a part of our the lexicon between the 3 of us we speak in movie quotes and we have since we were drink.

48:46.58
Bruce Anthony
Here and and it all stems back from me creating brother and sister day.

48:53.20
J. Aundrea
Brother and sister day. We also got some good feedback about my interpretation of brother and sister day.

48:59.00
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, no, that was a good interpretation I'm actually speaking I'm actually interviewing somebody in that episode will probably be up Tuesday a clinical psychiatt says that deals with trauma and depression and.

49:08.71
J. Aundrea
2

49:16.89
J. Aundrea
Good word.

49:18.49
Bruce Anthony
Things like that. Um, which I think is fitting considering the fact that you broke it down to me is like yeah you know your ass was depressed and just needed to yeah and I was like I was.

49:27.60
J. Aundrea
Do something comfortable and calm. And yeah, yeah, meet meet. Ah your panic attack in high school that was the first time I heard of that. Yeah I didn't know.

49:32.43
Bruce Anthony
I Guess I didn't know it. But I I didn't know a lot of things back then I didn't know how much my anxiety and depression was.

49:41.58
Bruce Anthony
Um, really dupp tip where I was in the hospital like Mom I remember but we didn't know was a panic attack then right it at that time it was just like.

49:45.65
J. Aundrea
Adam said he remember I did not remember that.

49:53.85
J. Aundrea
Ah, ah.

49:56.83
Bruce Anthony
I had extreme chest pain I couldn't stand up straight I was woozy and and dizzying and that felt like I was gonna faint and and then school nurse was like we need to call you in ambvalance I was like um by am I having a heart attack at 16 I didn't know what it was? Yeah yeah, ah.

50:01.00
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

50:13.58
J. Aundrea
Um, but that's exactly how it feels though. That's gonna feel That's how it feel.

50:15.48
Bruce Anthony
That's exactly how it feels and I was like I I don't know what this is and I don't I can't remember that day I don't know what triggered it and it probably wasn't any 1 instance it was probably a buildup of of a multitude of things I probably could have been chilling that day and something just triggered it. But yeah, they called the ambulance and they and they rushed me out and I was.

50:24.25
J. Aundrea
Yeah, yeah.

50:34.95
Bruce Anthony
So self-conscious about being rushed out in the ambulance because they they put me on the stretch and they had the little oxygen mask because I'm having trouble breathing and they they willing me out. Do the main we went to the same high school through the main entrance and it's like people getting out of class and like is that Bruce what happened to Bruce and all I could think was as I'm trying to breathe damage.

50:42.14
J. Aundrea
Um, yes, yes, fear bright.

50:54.59
Bruce Anthony
They go be talk about my ass and I had to come up with a story for this and then I go to the hospital and they run all these tests and they're like well there's nothing physically wrong with them. But at that time nobody was like nobody said it then oh this is a panic attack.

51:04.21
J. Aundrea
Who. Yeah, near there.

51:11.18
Bruce Anthony
I know now in retrospect because that's not the only time that's happened right? Like ah as I got older I started wreck you know when it was Sopranos but I do I do the Tony Soprano where ah I haven't come he passed out I don't pass out.

51:19.11
J. Aundrea
Now.

51:26.64
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

51:29.38
Bruce Anthony
And it's rare when it happens I think I've had I don't know the number but it's rare when it happens but it does drop me to my knees and I have to lay out and will there are times where I get dizzy and lightheaded and I'm like oh I need to sit down and then you kind of got to tuck your head almost between your legs to try and catch your breath.

51:37.49
J. Aundrea
Yeah.

51:48.84
J. Aundrea
Um, one who.

51:49.19
Bruce Anthony
Ah, and they're just straight up panic attacks and I have I literally have no control over it.

51:55.49
J. Aundrea
I Tell you who told me I was having one our brother I would we was when we were working together at the same company and it was a normal day I got to work I sat down at my desk I started you know turning my computer on and everything and I was like um I just felt winded.

51:58.90
Bruce Anthony
Um, if.

52:10.40
Bruce Anthony
Here.

52:13.39
J. Aundrea
Ah, said let me go give me some you know so good. Get some water some make cup coffee so I went got some water got back to my desk still trying to go throughout my day and as it it just kept getting worse and worse I was like I feel like I can't breathe I don't know what is going on my hands are tingling My face is tingling I'm like what is.

52:25.15
Bruce Anthony
Here.

52:33.28
J. Aundrea
What is going on so I get up and I go and I walk to our brother's desk and by the time I get to his desk full hyperventilating and so he takes me into the stairwell.

52:43.75
Bruce Anthony
Um, faith.

52:48.15
J. Aundrea
And I'm like I don't know's going on. He's like you're having a panic attack just sit down put your hand between your legs and breathe and I was like what I was just chilling today but it there was lead up to it. There was lead up I started getting headaches.

52:53.80
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

53:00.26
Bruce Anthony
A.

53:05.84
J. Aundrea
And I was just feeling I was feeling it was lead up to it and then Boom then it happened it was just because of stress. But I was I mean that day I was just chilling and so that's how I found out I had him he told me because he had been having them.

53:15.26
Bruce Anthony
Near look and and also shout out to our brother because he is the calmest when somebody else is going through something now he ain't calm. No other time.

53:30.36
J. Aundrea
Um, yes.

53:32.60
Bruce Anthony
That that was it was a shout out and a shot. It was a shout out and the shot at the same time and I know you're listening bro. Oh he is solid. Oh yeah, but.

53:35.64
J. Aundrea
In a crisis in a crisis. Yeah, so much better than the 2 of us we are not good in a crisis. No, you're the worst in a crisis. Oh no, you.

53:47.39
Bruce Anthony
I have wait a minute hold on how did how how am I the worse what way tell out when what evidence do you have of this now where I'd feel like you just.

53:52.52
J. Aundrea
You make terrible decisions you completely break down.

54:00.26
J. Aundrea
Where the dogs are to have seizs or you call the police ah birds terrible. That's Adam was there what as I a everybody just relaxed calm down.

54:10.31
Bruce Anthony
Hold on timeout time out. No hold On'all was both our latest gentlemen we gonna tell the I we go end the show on this ladies and gentlemen. We gonna tell the story at the time that our dog was having the seizure right? okay.

54:17.41
J. Aundrea
I am not good in a crisis I will readily admit that.

54:25.20
J. Aundrea
Okay I don't either.

54:27.58
Bruce Anthony
I was at the house I don't know why I was at the house I don't know why I was I'm always at the house for some reason for some reason y'all say I'm not there all the time. But for some reason I'm always there anyway. I'm not the house and y'all come running up from downstairs Bruce you freaking all the way out Bruce.

54:37.94
J. Aundrea
Through.

54:44.55
J. Aundrea
Yes, because I'm the one I'm the one that discovered her so I'm just like oh I don't want to see this I didn't want to see her come but I'm like no no, no someone else deal with this I am terrible I think I heard a noise in my house once and I went to grab my phone and I dropped it and I said.

54:46.88
Bruce Anthony
Darcy's having a seizure.

54:55.11
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah, there was it was like.

55:03.80
Bruce Anthony
Um, Jesus so you run upstairs like Bruce Darcy is having a seizure so I run downstairs sure enough. She's having a seizure and I don't know what to do I don't know what don't none of us know what to do.

55:04.60
J. Aundrea
You're great in a crisis John I am terrible in a crisis I will readily admit that.

55:20.30
J. Aundrea
Um, no.

55:20.42
Bruce Anthony
I think I'm 25 you're 21 our brother is 20 or 19 right? So yeah, like none of us know what to do so I called 9 1 1

55:24.96
J. Aundrea
Yet.

55:36.56
Bruce Anthony
That's that's ah look is look 9 One one is an emergency. It's an emergency and they and they told me what to do. They gave me the information that I needed so it was actually a good idea.

55:37.21
J. Aundrea
As even I in that moment was like why? what are they going to tell you to do they said and.

55:50.84
J. Aundrea
Um, yeah, oh yeah.

55:53.47
Bruce Anthony
Because I didn't know what to do and I called 9 1 one and they calmly told me this is the number that you need to call for this. So obviously I'm not the only one that had ever done that.

55:58.84
J. Aundrea
Like but why did neither of us call my dad.

56:06.21
Bruce Anthony
Ah I mean what is mom and dad going to do I don't know where they were no it I wasn't in college What the hell was I doing there then.

56:09.70
J. Aundrea
Tell us the they were work. This was the middle of the day we were in combat we were home Adam and I were in college I don't know what you were doing there.

56:23.10
Bruce Anthony
Then it wasn't that it wasn't a workday there there it had to be but they they could have just not been home I don't think it was a workday. Yeah, and and he's determined to never come on this show.

56:26.96
J. Aundrea
It was if they weren't home I truly don't remember and there's only 1 person who would yeah our younger brother never never for all of you who are asking stop asking.

56:41.39
Bruce Anthony
Hater.

56:46.78
J. Aundrea
Because I get that question all the time is it going to be all all the all the siblings gonna be no, he is way too important to be associated with 2 aholes like us. So no.

56:49.48
Bruce Anthony
No no, you don't want to be on the show in his mind.

57:04.52
J. Aundrea
Yeah, he actually you know at Stake Dilus at a Ri He actually has like a business reputation where I neither one person. Yeah, who neither one of us. Do.

57:04.86
Bruce Anthony
Um.

57:08.78
Bruce Anthony
Like I mean we all got things to lose come on Now we all got things to lose Well whatever one.

57:22.76
J. Aundrea
So he you know he's not gonna be on the show. Yll would it be amazing. Yeah, but you're never gonna hear it.

57:25.20
Bruce Anthony
Well it it might be amazing the time and for all 3 of us could be bad but it would be amazing if we if we were all in the same room and had phenomenal video and audio equipment.

57:41.67
J. Aundrea
I Don't think we don't need it just you just gotta be able to hear us just hear but but but the truth is like there is a trifecta with the three of us and that is a.

57:45.82
Bruce Anthony
All they go here is that's all they go here. Yes, there is that there there is a missing element to this show but he won't come on and that is what it is but on that note says.

58:01.20
J. Aundrea
Missing part of that. So yes. You know anyway, class act is the best your I believe you are correct that is the four films that they did together class act is the best 1 please watch it this weekend if you get a chance ah watch it is it a gloomy is it.

58:19.60
Bruce Anthony
Watch class act and you go you gonna enjoy it huh I don't think it is on two b I don't know but you could find class act. It's probably on Netflix you could find class act. It's on somewhere.

58:27.93
J. Aundrea
What is it on we you know what to eat. We need to look it up. But anyway everybody you know what do your own labor. What is.

58:36.93
Bruce Anthony
But let everybody let everybody else look it up on. Yeah, do your own labor day. We're telling you what it is look it up. You got all types of streaming services. It's on 1 of them streaming services. Trust me, it's probably on to be because ah everything is on to be.

58:48.81
J. Aundrea
Yes, think because of course you can get it on Apple Tv for two Ninety Nine voodoo costs Two Ninety Nine Youtube you can get on to Youtube to 99 it's two ninety nine everywhere

58:55.98
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

59:06.95
Bruce Anthony
Ah.

59:07.47
J. Aundrea
Amazon prime um pay the to name that you won't waste it. It's not you could steal it. That's also a possibility but ah, you know what? let the let the 2 christophers get day residuals. You know.

59:09.86
Bruce Anthony
Or you could be like me and still it.

59:22.20
Bruce Anthony
That's right on that note J I forgot what your sign up was now that it's women's month.

59:28.40
J. Aundrea
Is just happy women's women's month. The women's history month women's month. No, it was international women's day yesterday. Yeah, but the month is.

59:33.49
Bruce Anthony
It's when I thought it was women's international month.

59:39.46
Bruce Anthony
Yes, it was yesterday all right.

59:47.51
J. Aundrea
I Think there is changed to women's month I think it was initially women's history month. But now it's just women's month. It's just a month for women. Yeah damn.

59:54.44
Bruce Anthony
Just respect your women out there and on that note I'm a holler.