Marilyn Notmonroe: Her Journey in Adult Entertainment, PCOS Struggles, and Love for Animals

Transcript

00:02.30
Bruce Anthony
On today's episode I'll be interviewing Miss Marilyn not Monroe and she is known on social media. We're gonna be talking about her life. Her hobbies sex work and porn. But first things first.

00:21.30
Bruce Anthony
Twenty years ago I had an idea I had an idea to start an internet radio show and how that came about was as as some of you guys now I used to own a piece of a professional wrestling company here in the Dc area and my partners. 1 of my partners had an internet radio show and asked me to come on and talk about promote the the upcoming show that we were going to be doing and I had a great time and they even got me to express a little bit about my private life and I had the idea of doing an internet radio show with my brother and my sister. Um, because as you know as you've met my sister There's a lot of personality and my brother has probably even more personality than both of us so twenty years I've been thinking about doing a show and through the past twenty years he's evolved as text technology has evolved and what. Became an internet radio show later on became an idea of a podcast and I've been pushing around the idea of a podcast since the pandemic started so over the last three years and then finally ah, last year I did start a podcast and did the podcast going all the way back to then in a radio show ah was about creating a platform where I could share my perspectives because as y'all know I'm very opinionated. Ah and they're unsolicited. Well actually I guess they're solicited. No, that's unsolicited.

01:50.13
Bruce Anthony
Um, even though you're tunening in in this show. It's unsolicited. Ah, my perspectives you know, um and then I went to gauge in and passionate conversations about a variety of things in life. Yeah I was hanging out with my friend last night and hanging out with 2 of my friends last night. And they were like Bruce you always get into these philosophical crowd conversations and then my older age these are things that I've done and I I find real joy in engaging in conversations where I can consistently learn and and find out about new stuff and that's where it. The idea the podcast came of interviewing people and and kind of connected with different people from all ah, all different walks of life from all over the world. But like I said it wasn't until last year that I finally decided to pull the trigger on the show and it all came about because of. This woman Marilyn Nott Monroe that I was following on social media. She had such a fascinating life and she had so much energy. Um, and and I'm drawn to people that have energy because.

02:56.73
Bruce Anthony
They have fun in life and I want to have fun in life and I was what following her on her Instagram and seeing her personality and we became semi d buddies and I said hey you know the more I talked to her the more I found out fascinating parts about her life and I was like hey. You know if I had a podcast would you come off her energy. She was like yeah of course I would that was all I needed I went out and got the equipment that day and 75 episodes later along with multiple episodes on our Patreon page with talk straight ish and after hours uncensored so I would say it's probably well over. Ah, hundred and thirty total episodes between unsolicited perspective podcasts and our episodes on patreon we finally got her in for the interview. Ah, it's been a year in a making not to put pressure on actual interview I think the interview is is really good because she's just a. Ah, really entertaining person. You can find her on instagram and not moroe ah 2.0 if you have any trouble finding her just go on our unsolicited perspective page and we follow her and she follows us so you can follow her and on there is her. Linktree where you could find all of her information. Ah, you'll also be able to find our information on our website and our bio and in the description section and both the audio and video podcast to just follow I encourage you to follow her as you'll tell from this interview she has a very gregorious.

04:33.31
Bruce Anthony
Personality. Ah, she's sweet. She's kind. Ah, she's lived a very interesting life and like I said this she is the person to really get me going as far as that final push that I need to start the podcast. And you never know this is a lesson in life. You never know how your actions affect people by her simply saying yes, that's how this finally got started right? Who knows if I would have started it by this point if she hadn't said yes so when you're nice to people. When you compliment people on their outfit or you say that's a really insightful thing that you said you never know what that will do for their life something as simple as hey you look great Today. You don't know that that person might have been working out hard and they might have been getting ready to quit because. Getting fit is a constant struggle and maybe they didn't think that they were changing their body but by you saying something that pushes them further forward to keep on working hard. It could be anything in life and this is a prime example of what Marilyn did for me ah to to finally get this this podcast going. So I will say for all those people that are listening and and when I said we're doing 75 episodes and I have to thank Marilyn Ford not only are we have people listening and watching us from all across the country.

06:07.97
Bruce Anthony
All over North America we haven't got South America yet but in Europe and Asian Africa and Australia we have listeners so I want to thank all of you listeners out there. All of you people that's watching I want to thank all the people that's helped me in the podcast some benefactors that have that have helped. Ah, to get the equipment that we needed to continue on producing good content I want to say thank you to my sister ah for for doing the sibling happy hour and helping create um a different version of the show that I didn't even imagine was possible and also thank you to Maryland um, for. You know, putting that battery in my back. But like I said to all my listeners and watchersers out there. We will be talking about mature subjects. There'll be a lot more cussed on this episode than there ever is on on any of my other episodes. So if you listen or and you're watching around children might not be the most appropriate show for them. So I just want to give that disclaimer before you guys listen and watch but without further ado here's my interview with miss Marilyn Not Monroe

00:03.58
Bruce Anthony
Ladies and gentlemen I am really excited today I told the story on the fiftieth episode of why I decided to finally finally start this podcast and I said it was because of this person that is here right in front of me.

00:14.19
Marilyn Notmonroe
I.

00:22.60
Bruce Anthony
She gave me the battery behind my back and she didn't even realize that she was doing it because I felt like she had such a fascinating story I said hey if I did a podcast with you come on she said yes, finally finally I have her this is Marilyn not Monroe. She is a person that is all on social media. She's in the adult entertainment industry. She does a lot of things in her personal life with her hobbies with dogs and animals and we're gonna learn all about that. But first and foremost Marilyn I just want to say? Thank you. Thank you? Thank you. For coming on the show I'm really excited about this.

00:58.89
Marilyn Notmonroe
Your Well thank you for having me sorry it took me so long I ah I am just everywhere. But yes.

01:08.23
Bruce Anthony
That's okay, Alip is better late than never right? and so I'm I'm excited to to get going So I'm going to jump right into it. Can you tell me a little bit about your background. You know where where were you Born. You know what's your family like. And all that good stuff.

01:26.13
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um I am french ah and I moved to the states when I was a kid. Um I have just like my immediate family here. My mom and my grandma pretty much um and like. Yeah that's really my maternal family I have brothers um, I'm very close knit to my family. Ah, we do like ah I'm with them a lot that's pretty much it. But so we moved here and when I was 8 7 8

01:44.97
Bruce Anthony
E. Okay.

01:58.69
Marilyn Notmonroe
And honestly depends on who you ask I don't really know my mom my grandmother they have different stories. Um, and yeah I grew up here So I'm like I'm French I feel like I'd be a lot hotter if I was like this French I got this like French woman that had the accent but I don't unfortunately I don't have the French accent and.

02:01.75
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

02:17.65
Marilyn Notmonroe
Just I grew up here So I'm Americanized but I was like raised a lot different than most people because my family's european.

02:20.85
Bruce Anthony
Um, then.

02:25.66
Bruce Anthony
So obviously french are from France. Um, so your family must speak french obviously because they're from there and they have the accents. You said you're americanized but how much of. Your mother and you said your grandmother how much have they become americanized since moving here because you've been here, you probably don't even remember France. Okay.

02:48.93
Marilyn Notmonroe
I remember France I mean I went back every summer so like but I was like a teenager and then you know I had to stay in the United States and be cool with my american friends. Um, because at 1415 you don't think about the luxuries of being able to go over to Europe like every summer

02:55.65
Bruce Anthony
You.

03:02.15
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah.

03:04.89
Marilyn Notmonroe
Or how lucky I was but yeah so I remember a lot of France and I do have like a lot I mean I speak it 24 7 um it's literally like how I speak english I actually people that know me know me I get tongue tied and I'll be like did I just say that in french or english like I have no fucking idea.

03:20.69
Bruce Anthony
It.

03:25.18
Marilyn Notmonroe
Because I'm back and forth through the tu. Yeah so I am but I'm very americanized and they are but they're not like um my mom still can't say like 1 to tree she's like 1 to true and my grandma like.

03:38.34
Bruce Anthony
Um.

03:41.52
Marilyn Notmonroe
I can't even I don't like to speak to her english because it gets on my nerves I'm like you're taking too like it's too long Jesus. So yeah, they're not as americanized at all pretty much.

03:46.60
Bruce Anthony
50

03:52.81
Bruce Anthony
I Try not to be salacious, but um I don't want to get too deep into your family because you don't want to give too much of your background and your private information. Um, so we're not gonna dig too deep into that we just want to give a little context or your background that I didn't even know.

03:58.69
Marilyn Notmonroe
Again.

04:10.89
Bruce Anthony
You were French Ah so that's something that I learned I'm probably going to learn a lot more even though I try to do some research but I'm probably going to learn a lot more. So let's let's talk about ah growing up going back and forth between Europe and the summers.

04:18.74
Marilyn Notmonroe
It.

04:28.40
Bruce Anthony
Being here. What was it like growing up and being in high school and going to Europe during the summers experiencing net life and then coming back to the states. Not really appreciating going to Europe. But just seeing the different cultures. What did you learn and pick up was did you see that America was a little bit more conservative and France was a little bit more progressive or did you not recognize that at all or was that not the case I know I just do a lot at you. So.

05:03.48
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, I mean honestly I had so much like social anxiety as a like kit here even though like I guess I hung out with like the cool kids like in France it was like I was so cool because I I looked in America I was like a little celebrity like there's.

05:03.49
Bruce Anthony
Pick a choose which you want to answer.

05:18.76
Marilyn Notmonroe
Marilyn if she do she lives in America during the year she comes here every summer so it was like awesome and then here I was like the shy girl fucking eating her nails all the time. So.

05:23.89
Bruce Anthony
Um.

05:29.12
Bruce Anthony
Why do you think that was the case. Do you think it was because you were treated differently every time you went back each summer

05:40.13
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, I mean well I I was a kid there and I think here the United States it's like it's supposed to be It's so cool back then it was so cool to be from here to live here but like I mean it's very people are very judgmental and it's like if you're different. They don't like that and as kids like they look at you. Weird like you know and it's like I have an accent like I don't speak like y'all even though, like you know I mean we're all kids or whatever I can still talk english but I'm saying stuff differently or I'm slower on my words or I'm saying like I mean like I said my mom like 1 to treat and it's like everybody laughs at you.

06:02.16
Bruce Anthony
Um.

06:10.53
Bruce Anthony
Right? did.

06:14.90
Marilyn Notmonroe
So it's growing up like that I guess so it's like people just they don't understand what they don't know and I was like I was nervous I guess or not even nervous I was embarrassed I was embarrassed to not be like every other white kid at my school.

06:22.70
Bruce Anthony
Um, did did that change as you got older as you get out of elementary and you get in the middle school and high school did that change at all or where you always because I'm looking at you now you're this. Outgoing personality and for everybody if you follow her on Tiktok on Instagram you see this personality that just comes through the screen. So I'm trying to figure out at what point that personality came out. And you weren't shy anymore.

07:01.56
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, I mean I guess and I I don't know like I feel like I was shy but I wasn't in high school. My mom says I was a mean girl I don't think that I really was I think I was like a normal you know I was I just.

07:11.53
Bruce Anthony
Ah, hold on what I work.

07:16.00
Marilyn Notmonroe
I Try to be this American I try to be something that I wasn't That's just the reality of it. So like sometimes I think I wasn't I would have been more I probably was outspoken like you wouldn't have been able to tell that like inside I was like having a panic attack all the time and I feel like a lot of people can relate to that We're all in our heads. We just don't want to be honest about it like.

07:18.19
Bruce Anthony
He.

07:30.22
Bruce Anthony
M.

07:33.86
Marilyn Notmonroe
And I mean even all the time anything I do trust me as outgoing as I might look like I'm always in my damn head.

07:39.90
Bruce Anthony
Well I think I think yeah I think that's everybody I remember interviewing ah Rick Clems matter of fact it's a good thing and that I remembered um he I'm gonna be on his podcast this week Rick Clemens is a is a coach is a life coach and he talked about he came out later in life and he talked about becoming your authentic. Self where you're not in your head and and I was like yeah that's I'm not even that yet I try to be but that's a constant evolution and growth process. So yeah, you might not be shy anymore as a kid but to still have those things when you're in your head. That's an evolution I mean but. But at the same time. You're not a shy little kid anymore.

08:18.25
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yeah, no now I became bolder I mean I think at a certain age you stop giving a fuck That's just the reality of it about a lot of stuff and you're just like whatever.

08:28.15
Bruce Anthony
Okay, so after high school What did you do.

08:31.49
Marilyn Notmonroe
I became a stripper.

08:34.94
Bruce Anthony
Okay, okay, do do we call it a stripper. Do we call it exotic dancer. What do we call it.

08:40.15
Marilyn Notmonroe
Well hold on first I had a regular job like let's be like let's start I did that did do regular work but then I met strippers and they're like you're cute. You should try I was like now I'll never do that shit ever like no and then you know I like. Move down on my own and I was like shit I need some money like more money and I was 18 the first time that I danced. Yeah.

09:03.93
Bruce Anthony
Ah so how old were you? okay and what was the job that you were doing before that where they saw you as like because I'm thinking of the movie the players club where she was like in a shoe store.

09:19.27
Marilyn Notmonroe
So is honestly it's pretty fucking watch like that's.

09:20.46
Bruce Anthony
And the girls is like okay so they just discovered you was like you should get this get this money had.

09:29.41
Marilyn Notmonroe
I was actually still so I was actually still in high school like not any like yeah so the still in high school I was 17 Um and it was like probably April like before I like yeah before I turned 18 and um, they ah.

09:39.83
Bruce Anthony
And.

09:44.26
Marilyn Notmonroe
But was it breakfast restaurant middle of the night I was working the late night ship the grave nu on the Friday night. So like four a m five a m and they came yes and I was still like a little girl I was like this can't be real like I'm ever rushing back to the cook and being like yo.

09:49.95
Bruce Anthony
Wow And and they came in said you be perfect.

09:59.46
Bruce Anthony
So so what goes through your head because at first you said there's no way that I'm not going to do this and then you say well I'm trying to get some money so what was that switch that was on in your head to be like to go from. No I'm not going to do this. To yeah, okay, let me give this a shot.

10:18.77
Marilyn Notmonroe
Oh I started I started partying when I turned 18 I like started going to clubs and all that kind of stuff I was like hold on I come out and I drink and I fucking dance on top of ours and do what I did a what t-shirt contest I was like I just did this shit and won like couple hundred dollars I'm like

10:38.24
Bruce Anthony
Okay, so all right? So were you adventurous before you turned 18 or was it I'm partying now this is fun.

10:38.66
Marilyn Notmonroe
Why not.

10:52.52
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um I I worked a lot So like I had two jobs and I was in school. Ah so yes, and then yeah, yeah, um I work.

10:54.76
Bruce Anthony
You had time hold on excuse me you had you had 2 jobs in high school.

11:07.92
Marilyn Notmonroe
I Had a little Mexican like a keto I but Kedobas um a few shifts a week and I also waitress at like this breakfast restaurant. Ah every weekend and yeah, so.

11:18.10
Bruce Anthony
Why work so much at such a young age. Can we get can we get into what you had going on to you.

11:25.10
Marilyn Notmonroe
Because I had shit going on. Um, no, my mom was a single mom and she worked a lot and she had like with her like it's just you know there was things that like so I helped where I could and then also to have money myself like my mom couldn't like really afford to.

11:37.27
Bruce Anthony
Are.

11:43.00
Marilyn Notmonroe
Pay for all the extra stuff. So I worked like have that extra stuff I mean and I feel like it's kind of normal a lot of people don't see that but it's a normal thing.

11:43.28
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, yeah.

11:51.67
Bruce Anthony
Um, are you do you have siblings. Are you the oldest that okay that that um, that's all making sense you you took on So I'm not gonna try and put words in your mouth. Do you think that you took on a.

11:54.50
Marilyn Notmonroe
I am the oldest. But yeah.

12:07.71
Bruce Anthony
Parent role I know in my family and my dad has actually reached out to me recently and apologized for this but I was like you know you did what you had to do there was no no reason to apologize I essentially became the third parent because I'm the oldest and I was the babysitter you know because my parents had to work. Yeah, you do everything? um.

12:22.31
Marilyn Notmonroe
You do everything.

12:27.13
Bruce Anthony
I didn't have to go and work. Um, but if I if they needed me to do that. That's something that I would have done so hearing that explains a lot about your hustle now. We'll get into your hustle later but that explains a lot like you've been a go getter.

12:37.83
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yeah, and.

12:45.74
Bruce Anthony
Since you were since you were allowed to legally work.

12:46.95
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yes, definitely I mean I always work and I like to make money and everything like that it shows that then when I you know found out that you could party and make money at the same time. It was like and that's I became eighteen I went out on my own and I fucking like you know like I was like freedom.

13:01.96
Bruce Anthony
Right.

13:05.76
Marilyn Notmonroe
Holy shit because I like I mean my I hope my mom as much as I could my mom was like I mean she busted her ass like she busted her ass and granted most of the time like you know it wasn't like that. But the last year my mom became a single mom and so I was like it was it was us.

13:11.80
Bruce Anthony
E.

13:22.91
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, okay, um, so you enter in the world of exotic dancing. What is that like as an 18 year old going into that world because I'm I'm sure there's a difference between going and partying and doing wet t-shirt contests.

13:38.22
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, yes, um, it's something that you know I drink and I didn't even realize that like you know I was using that to like.

13:40.37
Bruce Anthony
Then going into the strip club. So what was that experience like for you.

13:49.20
Bruce Anthony
And.

13:54.88
Marilyn Notmonroe
First it was all fun and then it's like this becomes your life. So there's not a handbook for how to be a good stripper or like or what to expect because you never know it's like I mean trust me, it was fun like I remember 1 time I found like $800 just ratenly under my bed and I had no fucking clue that it was there I'm like I'm like holy shit.

13:58.80
Bruce Anthony
Um.

14:14.64
Marilyn Notmonroe
Was making the bed of like this is fucking dope and it's just like and stuff like that happened a lot because like you're not paying attention and you're just making such fast cash and being so young and it's like a lot of the time. It's fun. A lot of the time it's parting. But there's also moments where it's like shit you know I could have fucked myself up here.

14:17.80
Bruce Anthony
Ah, yeah.

14:22.80
Bruce Anthony
And he.

14:31.20
Bruce Anthony
How so.

14:34.14
Marilyn Notmonroe
Just being drunk and like um, doing like bachelor parties like just going and putting yourself in situations like you know with other strippers older ones because like I was the baby like literally I was young like the girls I were hanging out with were 22 23

14:38.31
Bruce Anthony
A.

14:47.95
Bruce Anthony
6

14:50.69
Marilyn Notmonroe
And so like I kind of followed their league and I was pretty much now looking at it was kind of like a little pawn like but you don't see that as a long times like i'mma bring my homeg girl like to come dance and it's like I'm you a young little girl but just like even in a like club or whatever. It's like you you see in the movies is a younger girl that today.

15:06.38
Bruce Anthony
Right.

15:09.42
Marilyn Notmonroe
How they introduce to everybody that like talks to everybody the cute sweet one. So it's just it taught me to like pay attention and it taught me a lot about people.

15:16.40
Bruce Anthony
When you say pawn. Do you mean like they like what do you mean like they were trying to take advantage of you like.

15:19.74
Marilyn Notmonroe
So like you know like the friend like the one that it's like you go with the group of guys and it's like they're trying to like they're the troopers. Everybody knows them. But now you have a new like little friend to introduce like the dope boys in the club like the one that you're gonna introduce and it's like I just want to have fun. So I'm like yeah throw money on me.

15:34.46
Bruce Anthony
Right? right? look ain't nothing wrong getting money thrown on me I wish I could I wish I could get some money thrown on me.

15:39.27
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yeah, but it's just like being like the fun one and like you don't even like you're just it's just funny to look at it now's it's like you're just you're having fun but like in reality at that I should have been doing that and I sure hell should have been hanging out with like you know older. Women or anything like that older girls that had been in the game for a lot longer because they don't tell you about like you know to be careful with somebody or like men try to you. They take like they try to take advantage like men are fucking assholes in that kind of line of work. It.

16:05.65
Bruce Anthony
In here. Hold on to speak for the to speak for the gender but okay, well.

16:15.37
Marilyn Notmonroe
But a lot of them are a lot of fun. That's the thing it's like 90% it's fun and it's a lot of fun but it's easy to get like lost into it. That's pretty much I'm trying to get you get lost into it when you get lost into it. You can easily get taken advantage of and that's what you have to be careful and it's not even like I'm talking about anything bad I'm just saying in general like men will just.

16:27.13
Bruce Anthony
Okay I hear what you're saying.

16:34.68
Marilyn Notmonroe
Try you because they see you as like being a dumb Idiot So like trying to get you to go home with them and stuff like that. Even though it's just party.

16:37.90
Bruce Anthony
Um.

16:44.30
Bruce Anthony
Right? Um, okay hot. Okay, so you're in the club you're dancing 18 how long were you in the club like at 2 from 18 to when.

16:58.70
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, so I stopped dancing at 27 yes off and on. Ah.

17:04.55
Bruce Anthony
Okay, so you did it 9 years in that time off and on. Okay, so what would you do? my my question was going to be. You say you were making this fast cash were you saving it because I was a barten there at a young age and I blew through.

17:16.93
Marilyn Notmonroe
No, no, no no God no.

17:23.78
Bruce Anthony
Hundreds of thousands of dollars just because you're living the fast life so was it a situation where you said off and on where you would say okay I made my money I'm about to get out and you would try to live the same lifestyle that you were living.

17:25.36
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yes.

17:37.71
Bruce Anthony
When you were making all that money and then be like Nah I got to go back because I'm not making enough money.

17:42.58
Marilyn Notmonroe
No um, more like I mean like I said I my first like few years of stripping I party a lot. Um I party a lot like and it was just like it was a whole new world. So you're partying. You're having fun and that's the thing too I'm like the cute girl. All the dope boys like. I'm gettingating different older dough boys. Whatever like my world is whatever, whatever, whatever. But I realize like I'm not living how I should be like living I'm drinking all the time. Whatever all that kind of stuff so I stopped I actually went back to my first job started waitressing again. Um.

18:14.95
Bruce Anthony
Um.

18:16.64
Marilyn Notmonroe
And then I think one day I got fucked up with my friend like and we were like drinking and I was like I was like I'm not coming back to work like why because she was still strippping. It was my room and she was still strippping and it's like I'm watching her come back in with all this money and I'm like why the fuck am I going slaving away.

18:21.80
Bruce Anthony
If.

18:31.82
Bruce Anthony
Right.

18:34.41
Marilyn Notmonroe
And you're going to the club and like coming back with all this fucking buddy and I'm not so.

18:38.98
Bruce Anthony
So you go back when you go back and forth because you said you did it a couple times right? like you were.

18:42.74
Marilyn Notmonroe
Well, yeah, it's all this.. It's always the same.. It's like I'll get and I'm like I'm done with this blah blah blah and then you know I start working my ass off again and I'm like just like not I Want to go back and do that and plus it was just a lot of like I said drinking having fun like. And I was like screw that I want to go have fun I get.

19:04.65
Bruce Anthony
Right? Okay, so how do you transition from being in the club and dancing to going to some of the harder core ah adult activities on camera. I'm trying not to say the pee where cause I don't want to get edited off of ah Youtube because it's ah the pea where it is corn. Yeah, you know what? this is an explicit episode I already told him in the beginning segment. You can't listen to this with kids around my audience knows.

19:25.79
Marilyn Notmonroe
Are we on Youtube.

19:38.90
Bruce Anthony
I give disclaimers on the really explicit episodes so already gave the disclaimers you can cuss. Maybe don't say MFAh but you can cus to say and say ah, it's my favorite word too.

19:45.55
Marilyn Notmonroe
Okay, that's like my favorite word too like I love I mean it's literally the best. It's like screw the effort you got to say the.

19:54.54
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, well my favorite cus word is the be word but I was talking to my sister and I was like I don't think I could say the B word anymore she was like well and I think it's druggatory towards women. Even if I'm not saying it to a woman.

20:01.73
Marilyn Notmonroe
Why.

20:07.70
Marilyn Notmonroe
I Don't know I think it's in the context that you say it I feel like it's telling you because I call other women. The bword all the time like hey bitsh what's up.

20:11.83
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, you can I cannot you can I cant are we getting off top it all right? So how did you transition from the strip club to going but in front of the camera.

20:19.47
Marilyn Notmonroe
I.

20:29.32
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um I messed around with it a little bit in my like early twenty s so I ah I did a little bit of porn then while I was dancing but dancing was funner because again I was a dancer fast money like no, you don't have to be up early in the morning you don't have to do any that stuff.

20:32.82
Bruce Anthony
M.

20:47.20
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, like it made more sense to be a stripper than a dew porn and oh for like professional shoots up. Yeah.

20:50.12
Bruce Anthony
So to shoot scenes. You had to get up early in the morning. I I been on ah on a set and I was flabbergasted on what actually was I was like oh this is like legitimately like shooting a movie y'all got to take breaks and all that stuff I thought it was just a one it cameron you just go and it's no, That's not what it is.

21:14.90
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, well yeah, go do makeup get to location all that kind of stuff and um, yeah, so it's a lot of work and I was a dancer so I had like it's just like it was hard for me to get to get booked as well too because.

21:14.98
Bruce Anthony
But now you tell them you gotta get up early too. Nice.

21:26.36
Bruce Anthony
In.

21:30.27
Marilyn Notmonroe
Dancing my schedule all that kind of stuff get a few scenes. Um and I never pursued it further than that just because like after I tried it out I Just like I said stripping was better and it was just like harder for me to get scenes I was also like I'm really pretty now back then I was overlooked and I was like.

21:31.16
Bruce Anthony
Right.

21:50.90
Marilyn Notmonroe
I'm thick for like I was fat like I was a fat white girl I know I wasn't fat. No ah like I listen black men Love me white men just I was like the fat one like even.

21:52.30
Bruce Anthony
Okay I It's so okay, when you describe yourself as fat. What do you mean.

22:06.32
Marilyn Notmonroe
The stripper like I thrived in black strip clubs but I did not do good in white strip clubs like.

22:11.62
Bruce Anthony
Huh? Okay, okay, um, okay so you do a couple of scenes you said you do a couple of scenes but it wasn't really fitting your vibe. How was the money was if if you if there wasn't getting up early and all the other stuff was the money comparable.

22:25.49
Marilyn Notmonroe
Oh if it was that I mean a first sure thousand dollars to like to get fucked like yeah or're good like legally like that seems so much better like you know, but it's like it just wasn't fitting my vibe and but I mean it made sense I mean it's literally like you go for a day's work. You get up a 7 you're home by 5 you make. $1100 and yeah, you don't think after that just keep the fish and like that's it. That's your day.

22:48.79
Bruce Anthony
So like how did you? How did you get in.

22:54.70
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um I had a friend who did porn she passed away I met her agent. Um, when I like so I met her agent and ah I did my first shoot through him. Um, and then when I was dancing I met a guy in the strip club who is or was a big porn star back in the day and he was contracted with Bang Bros. so yeah so he he got me into like my.

23:17.98
Bruce Anthony
I Know Bang bros.

23:26.40
Marilyn Notmonroe
First like by 2 shoes where like I was like starring myself.

23:29.97
Bruce Anthony
Okay, that's cool. Ah, we're not go get into specifics late and gentlemen why I know bang bros let's just say that there was a time where they I don't know they may still do it. Um, where they used to ride around in the van and it was like the first reality. I put that in quotations for everybody in the audio platform. The first reality porn where it was like they're picking up girls and I remember I had to be like I don't know this twenty years ago and I remember showing it to my boy and I was like I think this is real and they were like no this is not real I don't know it could be real.

23:58.47
Marilyn Notmonroe
Then.

24:02.25
Bruce Anthony
So you were doing bang Bros and you said you were introduced by a guy that found you at the club so there was no connection to your friend and once again, no I Want to apologize for the loss of your friend I Know that's a tough that's a tough thing and you were young and we don't have to get in.

24:13.27
Marilyn Notmonroe
Thank you.

24:20.65
Bruce Anthony
Detail about that if you don't want to talk about that. But I just want to give you Macadolas because I know that pain stays with you stays with you. Yeah, that's beautiful. That's beautiful. Um.

24:26.19
Marilyn Notmonroe
Thank you Oh all the way I still have her dog. Well my grandma has her dog So like you know.

24:38.38
Bruce Anthony
So this person is not through the agent this is somebody that just saw you in a club and was like yo I'm about to put you on and so you do a couple of scenes with Bang Bros and the money was good is just the hours don't really work for you.

24:39.80
Marilyn Notmonroe
No.

24:47.24
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yep, Pretty much.

24:54.96
Marilyn Notmonroe
The hours don't work and also I mean it's at the time It's really not consistent if you don't have an agent or somebody pushing for you and I mean I had like again I did have an agent per se but I I was like he really hooked me up because of my my best friend? Um, who.

24:59.33
Bruce Anthony
And.

25:08.80
Bruce Anthony
You.

25:11.63
Marilyn Notmonroe
She was like a skinnier white girl and then I was more thick so there's only somebody like you know shoots that I could get myself like people like especially like these kinds of like who his connections were with like it's more of like you I out in the early 2000 so you know it's like is or I guess late like.

25:22.71
Bruce Anthony
A.

25:29.44
Marilyn Notmonroe
10 like the tens or whatever it is. But I mean they still. It's before it's like right around the time the kardashians came out so like thicker white girls were not it yet and we were still in the whole like you know, skinny white girls no asses.

25:37.53
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

25:43.23
Bruce Anthony
Oh well, they was in if you go on all the way back to a song song and hip hop. Yeah.

25:51.61
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yes, well maybe it's more like a demographic you know like I said I thrive better in a nervous trip I'm a more predominantly black strip club than I did in a white strip club that was just so with the like porn agencies and stuff like that like that's what I fit more towards.

26:00.34
Bruce Anthony
M.

26:06.35
Bruce Anthony
The same time.

26:09.61
Marilyn Notmonroe
So he got me in the bavers. But I mean the shoots that I did they fit towards that demographic. So.

26:13.37
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, and so you did a couple of scenes and and you stopped and we're gonna get into in the second part that you got back into the scene but you're doing things a little bit differently but before we get into that stuff. Want to get into a little bit about what was going on in your life during that pause.

26:37.18
Marilyn Notmonroe
Alrighty.

26:44.84
Bruce Anthony
Ah, Marilyn I want to take a pause on the porn. Ah and and talk about I know I did you know what? it's okay, it's all right? It look.

26:48.88
Marilyn Notmonroe
I Said the word he said the Pw word ah here. That's a bleeping out.

26:57.58
Bruce Anthony
You know what I do have enough time to do postproduction but I probably won't do it I probably just't leave it in and if Youtube kicks it off then I'll go and re-edit it. It's not that big of a deal people on there say way worse stuff. So it's not that big of a deal. Um, but I don't want to talk about solar your porn I want to talk about your life because when I discovered you. I had no idea about your past of doing adult scenes and you currently are doing adult scenes but you were bartending taking care of a lot of dogs and and and taking taking care of a lot of plants and doing gardening and fixing up stuff around the house.

27:27.35
Marilyn Notmonroe
Hit.

27:35.65
Bruce Anthony
So tell me a little bit about your life in between the the 2 adult seeing phases.

27:44.57
Marilyn Notmonroe
All right? Well you know I relationships ah failed relationships Obviously um, but pretty much met a guy he was piece of Shit. Ah. Broke up with him that was like around the time that I quit like the ah all of that and then I again I was working a regular job of serving and I was doing like a office too. Um, and I started bartending ah and like. Really enjoyed bar tending so I was like yeah this is this is what I want to do is be a bartender and I Ah always I I went to went to culinary school too. So went to culinary school.

28:28.50
Bruce Anthony
See these are the stuff that I want to talk about see when I said what happened and you left high school. That's the culinary school too like I don't just want to know about all the sex stuff that's cool I know.

28:38.45
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yeah, well I mean but culinary school was around I was that was like my last like 2 years of dancing you know like I just like I did stuff so like I said I would leave and I would come back. It was just but so then I ah all the way like I wanted I was I wanted probably to like I was.

28:44.88
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

28:57.65
Marilyn Notmonroe
Thinking of having kids you know everybody you're getting at that age like I want to get married I Want to settle down I Want to have kids blah blah blah all that shit. Um, so I get into a relationship I'm bartending at this bar and then I get a job at this restaurant and I go there and I'm like.

29:03.37
Bruce Anthony
Um.

29:16.30
Marilyn Notmonroe
Cocktail waitressing and I'm making such good money like for for a single woman who's almost in her thirty s but I mean just cocktail waitressing I was averaging like eighty K years I was like fucking was great and I mean I'm working five days a week like it was.

29:26.77
Bruce Anthony
Okay, yeah, that's that's good.

29:33.15
Marilyn Notmonroe
And I loved it like I had the time of my life just working like all I did was work but I loved it because it was good money and it was simple. Um, and then I um I had issues with Pcs so I was like in my relationship and I.

29:34.19
Bruce Anthony
Who.

29:50.82
Marilyn Notmonroe
Started having a lot of hormonal issues.

29:51.78
Bruce Anthony
So I see that I see you post that a lot on your Instagram and and then your Instagram stories can you explain to people what that is because you get a lot of informative information about that.

29:56.78
Marilyn Notmonroe
I didn't go.

30:06.10
Marilyn Notmonroe
So on policies like Ovarian syndrome I'm honestly learning new shit every day and it's like a ah it's it never stops like it's always something with it. Um, but for me, it's ah it's pretty much like your.

30:17.49
Bruce Anthony
Um, living.

30:22.52
Marilyn Notmonroe
For me, my issue is insulin resistance which causes like hormonal issues. Um, and ah my testosterone to like Rise so when I was probably after I got my boobs on I gained a lot of weight and that's when my body started going like out of wax. So I had like hair growing in places that it shouldn't have.

30:35.74
Bruce Anthony
He ended.

30:40.21
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um I was breaking out really bad. Ah, my feet were tingling all the time like I I didn't know what the hell was wrong. You go on Google and like feet tingling all the time and it was like signs of diabetes I'm like I'm not even that big like what the hell I'm like 150 crowns like what the how can I have diabetes and just a bunch of issues like.

30:52.80
Bruce Anthony
Is.

30:59.94
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, high blood pressure. All kinds of stuff. Ah so I don't really know how to describe it because it's just like it's if you have it, you have it. But it's about overs Cis and your ovaries. Um, just a lot of shit. Yeah.

31:15.68
Bruce Anthony
Yeah, it sounds like it and once again, ladies and gentlemen all of Maryland's social media accounts will be on ah the the description of the page will be on a website. Um I gave it to you in the first part. Ah, the first segment follow her because she gives a lot of good information about this and as well as just funny and does funny skits as well. Um, so I want to go back. Because there is a question because you said failed relationships and I have that's all I have is failed relationships. Everybody has failed relationships. How did did your work working in the strip club and doing scenes have any impact on relationships.

31:52.27
Marilyn Notmonroe
Oh yeah, obviously but.

32:08.11
Bruce Anthony
At all.

32:08.72
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, yes, it had an impact on my self worth and not um, the men that I dated love to throw that shit in my face and make me feel like I like you know like who's gonna want you because you were a stripper. You did this.

32:14.99
Bruce Anthony
Who.

32:24.53
Marilyn Notmonroe
And it's like or you know you were in adult movies like you're nothing and I had I had low self-worth for myself. Like even though I knew that I was I pretty much blossomed like that's what I was getting is like even though I had Pcs and everything and all this kind of stuff I was blossoming once I figured out that I had a hormonal issue I got healthy I stopped.

32:40.43
Bruce Anthony
11

32:43.38
Marilyn Notmonroe
Eating crap I quit smoking cigarettes like I mean I got my boobs done I Glow I glowed up and I ah I stopped like allowing like I broke up with the guy that I was with. But.

32:46.17
Bruce Anthony
Okay, all right.

32:55.18
Marilyn Notmonroe
We were still like we were stuck in a lease and um, you know like just the shit that he would say and everything I'm like bro I know that I'm better than this like I This is just this is not like this is not my life like this is not what the hell I'm going to settle for I think this is not it and so I had like these plans. Um.

33:04.85
Bruce Anthony
M.

33:11.77
Marilyn Notmonroe
I was about to go back to school because I was dealing with a lot of stuff with my body so I wanted to go back to school but do on medical aesthetics because I like cleared up my skin told her I had hair growing out of play. There's just shit was crazy and I figured out like just by looking at woman I could be like yo you have hormonal issues.

33:20.90
Bruce Anthony
Um, well okay.

33:29.56
Marilyn Notmonroe
Because I was seeing the signs I did so much research on my own shit like that I could just see signs of like somebody having something similar to me and a lot of people. They don't know they have formalal issues but it'll be somebody else like my when I was getting waxed. It was my um. Like the esthetician honestly that pointed out to me that I might have pc os and Sheila explained to me so that I did research and it's like the people that you go to cover up stuff and stuff like that are going to be the ones that can see it before people that see you all the time and people that know about it like if you just think something's okay because you go to your doctor and I'm like dude I have like a couple hairsburg on my turn and they're like that's normal.

33:54.46
Bruce Anthony
Are.

34:04.94
Marilyn Notmonroe
Then you're like okay if your doctors the doctors don't listen to us half of the time unless you're like actually dying so you just kind of brush shit off and if it wasn't for her I probably like I mean I would have figured out of I don't know because I was never over overweight so they never wanted to test me.

34:07.23
Bruce Anthony
Um, yeah, are.

34:19.23
Bruce Anthony
Hide.

34:20.85
Marilyn Notmonroe
Until like I went there like freaking out and I was like bro y'all are gonna test me because this is not normal like my body should not be doing the things that it's doing Oh yeah, oh it's horrible, but it's okay so I pretty much just you know blossomed.

34:23.79
Bruce Anthony
Right? Yeah, there is a problem with our Healthcare care system I'm not gonna go my soapbox and stop to start talking about that. But yes, you are yeah.

34:40.56
Marilyn Notmonroe
Um, and started loving myself for who I was and got out of that relationship but then Covid happened and all my plans changed with going. Um.

34:46.91
Bruce Anthony
Yes, near covered happened.

34:55.42
Marilyn Notmonroe
Well going to where I was going to go to go to this medical aesthetic school because it wasn't where I live so I would have to move away because it was like I didn't want to just like go to a tray school for a time and then have to do like you know more courses and stuff I was like no this is what I want to do like I don't want to put makeup on people I want to do skin. Um, so.

35:09.60
Bruce Anthony
I.

35:13.76
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yeah, so I didn't do that but I did start working at a bar because my job is yes well where I was working at cocktail serving so I went from making all this money.

35:17.41
Bruce Anthony
Okay, at and the bar stayed open during covid.

35:28.77
Bruce Anthony
In.

35:30.66
Marilyn Notmonroe
But I was in this shitty relationship and I was paying pretty much like all the bills and all this kind of stuff and like everything was predominantly like I mean I just my money even though I made it it went away quickly and the stuff that I have.

35:42.60
Bruce Anthony
So you you were in 100% of a toxic relationship. Not only was he talking down to you at every chance he get. He wasn't even providing no funds.

35:54.72
Marilyn Notmonroe
I mean he like no like we did split like the bills for the most part but when we broke up we lived together for like five months while we were broken up and then it was like I covered um like the rent he paid like the household bills and all that kind of stuff because I made more money. But.

35:57.37
Bruce Anthony
E.

36:09.90
Bruce Anthony
Yeah.

36:12.48
Marilyn Notmonroe
I couldn't stay there ah anymore with him because they got like really talks like even though we had our own separate rooms and stuff like that. So I right before Covid. Luckily we didn't know Covid was and happened or a shutdown but I moved out and went to my mom's and I thought that our least was going to break or at least supposed to be over in may. But it wasn't so we got stuck in all these but I was paying everything and then we were like on it was just it was just bad I got stuck like handling because he was like fuck that he wasn't gonna Pay. He's like it's in your name so it doesn't matter so like I got stuck handling everything even though I wasn't there and then the lease extended. Because they had to move us units or some shit like because of a leak that was their fault but they started the leas over so like it got extended for like months and I'm like dude I'm like I'm not even there so and I wasn't making money like that like that was the worst part like I I wasn't at the bar at the time I was where I was cocktail serving. That's where I stayed at and I decided to stay on and not.

36:53.88
Bruce Anthony
Right.

37:06.86
Marilyn Notmonroe
Like they gave us options like like if you don't if you want to go home put unemployment and not get sick like we understand and I'm like no I'm gonna work because that's just the way that I was raised like you know I'm gonna work and I'm a teamen player and you guys like I mean I made a lot of money Those people became my family like even though really, they're not. You don't see that.

37:13.73
Bruce Anthony
Oh.

37:20.74
Bruce Anthony
Right? But I mean hey sometimes blood ain't always your family and family ain't always your blood.

37:30.80
Marilyn Notmonroe
Exactly. But I mean no, this is just like a job like I dive myself into stuff like and so I dive myself into working like for other people making other people money. Um and I was the best that I was like I made that place the most money like I.

37:38.40
Bruce Anthony
Well.

37:45.23
Marilyn Notmonroe
I think I sold like three hundred and fifty thousand dollars worth of food and alcohol that last year like 2022 like I was their middleman like I was literally pushing the shit I was number one though I was the best of the best like I loved it.

37:51.27
Bruce Anthony
Oh yeah, you was he yeah he was hustling out. There would tell me tell me about your hobbies because you did when we when we took a break.

38:02.60
Marilyn Notmonroe
My heart is.

38:07.60
Bruce Anthony
In between you were telling me you got 4 animals right now.

38:10.87
Marilyn Notmonroe
Well that goes with covid so that's where I was getting to that all happened with covid so I so I I was working at that place but I quit and went to a bar so I wasn't making money during covid um, but also during covid I had my 1 dog before it started my one little black plummeranian and.

38:13.72
Bruce Anthony
All of it. Okay.

38:28.63
Marilyn Notmonroe
I Decided he needed a friend so I got him a cat because I was working a lot so I was like you know he needs a friend so he's not alone. He had separation anxiety Well then my mom got herself a random dog.

38:31.45
Bruce Anthony
Um, okay, right.

38:43.80
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

38:46.86
Marilyn Notmonroe
And then she realized she didn't need that like she was like this is this is more than I bargained for but no like this dog had separation anxiety. So my mom knows that I love dogs so she was like hey called me and then I ended up with 2 dogs and a cat but then the cat was sad. Because his best friend now had a new best friend so I was like I have to get another cat and they're so happy to be a trash kitty so I was like perfect look at that and yes, Mcdonald's oh I didn't rescue it but I got it from a rescue. Ah.

39:09.92
Bruce Anthony
Um.

39:12.20
Bruce Anthony
Wait a minute a trash Kitty a kitty that was just in the trash and you rescued the kitten.

39:23.58
Marilyn Notmonroe
Because I started working before Covid I was like helping out with ah this ah organization to trap neuter and release cats.

39:31.55
Bruce Anthony
I'm getting I do you know what? you got fifty Eleven jobs that I'm trying to keep up with okay so and you were let's get. Let's let's let's list these before covid you were the cocktail waitress and you was helping out.

39:42.32
Marilyn Notmonroe
Yes, so well I live this apartment complex and there was feral cats and well there was a bunch of stray cats and I was like Okay, yeah, no, this isn't gonna work So then I started working with this trap neuter and release thing to trap the cats.

39:47.83
Bruce Anthony
Ah, with rescue animals.

40:00.50
Bruce Anthony
Okay.

40:02.12
Marilyn Notmonroe
Neuter than release them? Um, but what turned into like this 1 stray cat that would come to my apartment turned into the neighbors like seriously hated me because I fed cats like outside everywhere I was doing all this stuff like dude. Stray animals on Facebook like I would literally like see something and I would reach out because at the time I was making like I was comfortable. I was making good money like I had a care credit card like you know, hey yeah but I was like I just wanted to help animals like I it hurt my heart to like scroll down Facebook and see this shit I'm like dude I'm like we don't.

40:25.42
Bruce Anthony
You live in it.

40:38.90
Marilyn Notmonroe
Deserve animals like people are so evil and no so yeah I just became like my life literally became about animals. Um I think maybe because like I don't have kids or whatever. So like I dove into that. Yeah, and even when I left the apartment.

40:41.95
Bruce Anthony
You.

40:51.40
Bruce Anthony
M.

40:56.33
Marilyn Notmonroe
And my ex was still there I still will go back and feed the cat. What's and for a good year after that like after I moved out I still went out there and I would feed the cats like I'm telling you the neighbors hated me I had a nest camera So like.

41:01.88
Bruce Anthony
There's nothing wrong with that I.

41:12.63
Marilyn Notmonroe
I caught the shit that they would say.

07:21.47
Bruce Anthony
So there you go ladies and gentlemen. Once again I forgot to mention this at the top of the hour this is part one this is a two part series. Um for this interview with miss Marilyn Monroe why would I not give her 2 parts when she's the catalyst of of all of this and and. And just as we were talking. We just kept talking and talking and talking and it was really an enjoyable conversation for me. So this is part one look out for part 2 that'll be next week and and and once again I want to thank you for Marilyn for opening up and talking about her incredible journey as she shared with us. You know her french roots and her experiences growing up here in America and traveling back and forth between ah France and America when she was growing up her ah entrance into the entertainment industry starting out as a stripping and getting into porn and going back and forth between ah getting out of. Ah, sex work and then back in sex work her various activities working for being a cocktail waitress her various jobs. She's a hustler y'all she is a hustler did she is somebody that has a very inspiring story. Ah because like she is a part of that pull up. And grind ah personality that everybody can learn from and and and get information from and get inspiration from I want to thank her for talking about pc os I think a lot of women out there. Don't know about pco. Os.

08:49.24
Bruce Anthony
Um, this gives them a little insight into pc os if you're having issues that she was describing. Maybe that's something that you should bring up to your doctor because she is absolutely right. Doctors don't listen to us Megan mccur and even brought that up in one of my previous episodes. That doctors don't listen, you need to express to them. What is going on with you so that they pay attention and do all the tests necessary to find out what could be wrong with her and as you know as you could tell from her story her finding out what actually was affecting her physically. Help improve her life and she's she looks great. She's in great shape. Um, and and she cras that all to finally understanding what it was physically that was going on inside of her body and addressing that issue talking about just the darker side of the sex industry. We're going to get into more of Ah, what she's doing now and ah how how she feels about the sex industry currently but you know just to give a little teaser. You know she has more control over what's going on. She's older. She's wiser. Um, she's more knowledgeable. Um. So she'll give a little advice about people interested and entering the sex work industry entertainment. Whether you're stripper. Um I don't like say a strip I say exotic dancer where the exotic dancer or if you get into sex work starting only fans or if you go all the way into porn. Um I think that that she gave some really really good.

10:15.46
Bruce Anthony
Advice and um, everybody thank you for listening. Thank you for watching remember to like subscribe comment share. Ah whether you listen to us through our audio podcast. If you're watching us on our Youtube channel if you follow us on Instagram and on Tiktok and even a little bit of stuff that we do on Twitter Once again you can find her at notmanroe 2.0 on Instagram you can search it on Twitter or x now Tiktok. If you can't find her go to our Instagram Page she's a follower and we follow her and in her in her profile is a link tree to all of her links. Once again, you can find that information and our description on both the audio and video podcast but until next time as always. Thank you and our holla.